I'm worried my size won't make her happy!
Q. okay, so me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while, and I really love her, and we both want to get married, and her being a virgin is really important to me, she says she's a virgin (I am also a virgin) and a lot of me beleives her ...
A. 8 January 2011: She won't have any other experience to compare you to. She will feel that sex with you is just how sex feels. Besides that though, you can't please a woman even with a HUGE penis unless you learn how to use your mouth and hands. Put in the time and ... (read in full...)
I am only really attracted to guys, but I know I want to get married and have children! What should I do?
Q. Hi, My problem is a bit convoluted, and I'm so conflicted over it that I just had to 'talk' to someone, but not anyone I knew. So I've known for some years now that I might like guys (I'm a guy) and the usual things that happen when one does...
A. 7 January 2011: I understand wanting the "normal" married life and wanting children, but it would be hellish to live through a marriage without attraction and physical affection. I dated (and nearly married, had the ring ad everything) a lesbian that wanted a ... (read in full...)
Bad girls!
Q. What does it mean if a guy says "Are you a bad girl?" to you ? It will be something sexual, as he has said that he wants to have sex with me, but what does being "bad" mean exactly? Or is that just something that guys say when they are turned on? ...
A. 7 January 2011: Bad = willing to be sexual without a ton of hangups and hesitation, active and happy to get a bit wild.... (read in full...)
That first kiss...
Q. Me and my boyfriend want to kiss but are both shy and he thinks he's gonna mess up..... how do I convince him otherwise? ...
A. 7 January 2011: Easy, just kiss him. Surprise him when you're sitting next to him on the couch after watching a movie, or when you're about to leave him for the night, or just totally at random when you have the urge. Just get it out of the way. If it's not "good ... (read in full...)
My girfriend's parents keep asking her for more money; should I get involved?
Q. My girlfriend is from the Philippines, and her family (father, mother brother, and 2 sisters) is constantly pressuring her (they get nasty) to send them money. She has been supporting them for almost 14 years, and she's tired of it. She doesn't make ...
A. 7 January 2011: I agree that it would be unwise for you to write them. You're not her husband, and you're not family. You're just a stranger to them and they would then blame YOU for her reluctance to give them more money. She'd find herself having to argue to ... (read in full...)
I contacted my LDR BF through a fake profile to see what he's up to
Q. I did something I probably shouldn't do...sigh! Now I need some advice! My LDR boyfriend is on a travel site which has a setting that looks exactly like match.com (one to one, not a forum), in fact I think it's a combination of dating and meeti...
A. 6 January 2011: You tried to catch him, but he acted toward this stranger exactly how he said he would. Don't try to encourage flirting, just wrap this one up as him being honest (as far as you've seen, he is being straightforward) and just let the site go. Don't ... (read in full...)
I am not religious but have certain beliefs about virginity. Is this hard to appreciate?
Q. I am currently an 33 year old atheist and virgin. I used to be a devoted christian, but lost my faith some years ago. However, my feelings towards sex has remained the same (or even grown stronger) meaning that I still feel that sex should be ...
A. 6 January 2011: Don't change. There are so many women that have issues with retrograde jealousy, or don't like their men having extensive experience, or just want to be the one and only in a man's life and in his heart! You might have a bit of looking to do to find ... (read in full...)
Does it mean anything when a man holds your face when he kisses you?
Q. Does it mean anything when a man kisses you and holds your face? He cups your face with both hands but is he sending you a message also? Not all men do this? Just looking for opinions? thanks!...
A. 6 January 2011: When I do that, I'm usually being more tender, kissing slower and softer and holding her face or her hair. It's a more loving kiss, less of a quickie. It's only when she has my full attention and yes, for me it's when I'm more emotional about the ... (read in full...)
What do men think about short women?
Q. What do men think about short women? Are they cuter than a girl that's of average height? I'm really into this girl that's 5 ft. I'm 6 ft 3 and she always jokes that I'm a giant compared to her. I don't think our height difference is a problem, but ...
A. 6 January 2011: I'm 6'2" and nearly married a girl that was 5'1" and it worked great for us. Sure, I had to bend down to kiss her, but we just laughed about it and never had a problem. ... (read in full...)
Can a one night stand turn possibly turn into a relationship?
Q. Hello Can you ever get together with someone after a one night stand or have you completely blown it?? Any opinions?? Anyone ever got with anyone after this?? ...
A. 5 January 2011: I'm sure it's theoretically possible, but the old saying, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" still holds pretty true. Either he just wanted sex, and you gave it to him without him working for it, or he wants a longterm committed ... (read in full...)
What is the 'norm' for hair down below?
Q. I don't suppose this is relationship per se but it's just something I've been pondering and can't answer it myself! Well I have been seeing this guy for a while now and we've been making out and stuff but things are starting to get a bit more h...
A. 5 January 2011: It's become very popular to shave completely, but that itches a lot and you'll battle ingrown hairs. (Get used to shaving every day as part of showering if you choose this.) Otherwise, just keep it tidy and trimmed back to limit the bush. (And ... (read in full...)
Why is he looking at porn when he has an available, willing wife in his bed??
Q. My husband and I are both in our twenties and have only been married a few months. We're expecting our first child and ever since we've been together I've always been very sexual with him. Since I've been pregnant, my sex drive has doubled and Ive ...
A. 5 January 2011: Dunno about him, but I've looked at porn even when I had a girlfriend because it's a no mess, no stress, totally selfish quickie. With a woman, one still needs to get and keep her horny, be attentive to her needs, engage in foreplay, keep going ... (read in full...)
Why do men play games... how long should I wait for a call or should I call him?
Q. Just wondering from a man's perpective... how long should a girl wait for a guy to call? I met this guy on Facebook and we have a lot of mutual friends.. actually, he went to my high school, so I'm sure we'd have tons in common. Anyway, we kept ...
A. 5 January 2011: "If a man is interested, he'll pursue you," but he DID pursue you and you found excuses both times. For many men, than means you're not interested. The ball's in your court now. It's your turn. Listen to Stayc and contact the guy.... (read in full...)
Ladies if a guy lacks in looks but is dynamite in bed, would you still date him?
Q. Girls, If you knew of a guy who was incredible in bed, TRULY amazing, like he could give you many intense amazing orgasms and could go for as long as you needed, would that make you start flirting with him and trying to get with him on that fact ...
A. 4 January 2011: Well that really depends, doesn't it? Is he moral? Intelligent? Does he ever cheat on a girlfriend? Does he smoke or do drugs? Do you have any interests in common? Is he funny? Is he patient? Does he have a bad temper? What are his plans for ... (read in full...)
What do guys want a girl's vagina to look like?
Q. Do guys like the Inner lips of a girls vagina to be long or small and is it normal for mine to be around 2 inches when i stretch them out?...
A. 4 January 2011: Ah ha ha ha... The female version of "is my penis big enough"! You're fine. Men like any and all sizes and shapes and styles. Men are just suckers for women in general. Any man shallow enough to worry about labia size needs to get his head examined.... (read in full...)
Are pimples a turn off?
Q. Do guys get turned off a girl if they have pimples on there chest and back?...
A. 4 January 2011: Some of the cutest girls I've know have had acne and I still thought they were just lovely. Just smile, laugh, be comfortable with yourself and guys will love you too. (Though if you like, acne medication doesn't hurt if it will boost your ... (read in full...)
Does it mean that the girl is not important to him because he never gives her flowers?
Q. My boyfriend and I are together for 11 months now... and next month will be our first year anniversary together. He is a very boring person and hardly surprise me with things. AND HE NEVER GIVES ME FLOWERS BEFORE.... I am pretty bothered by t...
A. 4 January 2011: Flowers are so cliché that many men are afraid to give them lest they be thought of as uncreative. (I know some women that even respond by asking what he must have done wrong to prompt the gift.) And given that his last girlfriend refused flowers ... (read in full...)
I lied about the number of people I slept with.....
Q. I told my boyfriend at the beginning of my relationship,I had been with 3 people before him,sexually wise. He believed it. Sometime later into our relationship,he became my fiancé and we are together. He asked me how many people I have been with. I ...
A. 4 January 2011: Tell him exactly what you just told us. Tell him that you were embarrassed by your lack of experience and promise to be honest in the future (though remember that you are allowed to refuse to answer a question, which is hard to do but much better ... (read in full...)
Why do men play games... how long should I wait for a call or should I call him?
Q. Just wondering from a man's perpective... how long should a girl wait for a guy to call? I met this guy on Facebook and we have a lot of mutual friends.. actually, he went to my high school, so I'm sure we'd have tons in common. Anyway, we kept ...
A. 4 January 2011: It sounds like you know exactly how he feels: the same as you do. Men live in perpetual fear of the Friend Zone and are acutely aware that being forward or eager will send a girl running. Most girls only want men they can't have or need to work for, ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that I look a lot like his ex?
Q. I just saw some photos of my boyfriend's ex on facebook and she looks a lot like me. So much so, that in 1 pic she looks EXACTLY like me - I can't even tell the difference! Does that seem really weird to you? I'm wondering if he cares so much for me ...
A. 4 January 2011: It could just be that he's physically attracted to the same things in you that he was in her, rather than trying to replace her. I dated two girls who looked very much alike because that just happens to be my type, not because I still carried a ... (read in full...)
He didnt get me a Christmas present!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months. I love him a lot and he says he feels the same way. For Christmas I got him a Wii, when I gave it to him it was before Christmas cause I was excited and didn't want to wait. He said that he didn't ...
A. 4 January 2011: That's pretty cold of him. You are asking for diamonds, but after getting him something expensive like a Wii, he has to at least get you SOMETHING. And since he got his gift before Christmas, he hasn't got much of an excuse to leave you totally ... (read in full...)
Expensive love!
Q. dear cupid, i would like to ask, is right to spend alot of money in a relationship to impress your girlfriend....
A. 4 January 2011: You CAN, and many girls will appreciate it, but it's risky. The more you spend, the more likely it becomes that she's only with you for the money... not to mention that she may become accustomed to it and then what happens when you lose your job or ... (read in full...)
Why sex is important in a Relationship
Q. You can only hold hands for so long and then its time to get down to business. A lot of women serve as the problem with sex in the marriage. The only thing they focus on is the wedding, the family , and not the husband. Its like big poppa comes last ...
A. 4 January 2011: You start by encouraging women to be more open, to try to be sexual and to stop looking for excused, but you finish by placing all the blame and emphasis on men and how men can be more caring, more complimentary, do more around the house. Sadly, ... (read in full...)
How can I trust she is not cheating on me with her soon-to-be-ex-husband?
Q. i'm in a long relation ship with a girl and we fell in love with each other. she is married and has a kid but getting divorced now that we're in love (her marrige was not working and her husband cheated on her many times). knowing that her husband ...
A. 4 January 2011: Technically, if she's still married, however unhappily and regardless of whether she's filing for divorce soon, if she's still legally married to him then she's cheating on HIM with YOU. You're the "other man" right now and have no real rights to ... (read in full...)
Any good ideas on how to keep yourself occupied so you don't think about your ex?
Q. The person I fell in love with broke up with me a couple days ago and I've never gone thru such pain of missing somebody. I would love to get back with her but I know that it'll cause only more pain and stress... so how do I keep myself occupied and ...
A. 4 January 2011: When I lost my ex, aside from all the time I could manage with friends, I signed up for a martial arts class to get some exercise and go out and do something I'd always wanted to try but never made time for. Is there anything you've been putting ... (read in full...)
Why is oral sex frowned upon?
Q. Hi(: Okay this is going to sound really awkward but I just want to know. Why do some people have such a strong opposition towards oral sex? I know this girl who told me (in her exact words by the way) "You're nothing but a slut, you sucked h...
A. 3 January 2011: Two things: Oral sex is still sex. If you have oral with some one, you're views the same as anyone that is sexually active and at your age, ANY sex can look slutty to some people. Second, many women find it disgusting to give oral to a man so it's ... (read in full...)
Is dating my non-blood related third cousin okay? And how to handle being nervous around girls?
Q. recently for new yrs i had a party at a relatives house. i was chilling w/ my friend and i told him to flirt w/ this gorgeous girl i saw. he does. he says its my turn because he was unsuccesfull. i said no cuz shes my 3rd cuz`. later me and her are ...
A. 3 January 2011: I'm pretty sure it's both legal and safe to marry a third cousin even when you ARE blood related, but in this case? No sweat at all unless your family is really judgemental. Go spend more time with her, hang out, watch movies, be close friends and ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with my husband and cheat again? or leave him?
Q. I have been married for 14 years, my husband is a very caring, loving and great bloke - we unfortunately cannot have children but have spoken about this at length and have decided that we can have a fullfilling and wonderful life just the two of us ...
A. 3 January 2011: Either you love your husband and decide to honor the vow you made at your wedding, or you love the excitement and newness of this over man and will leave your husband for him. You can't keep both. It's time to choose one or the other, but let me ... (read in full...)
Is he trying to get laid or does he just need to polish his dating technique?
Q. I've known this guy for about 3 months, we started dating about 3 weeks ago. We've been on 4 dates, we've gotten together for lunches and chats during the day about 5 times also. He didn't even hug me until the 3rd date, and on the 4th date he ...
A. 3 January 2011: It sounds like he's moving slowly, being respectful, likes you but is waiting patiently, and he just made a joke (complete with a winking smiley) to be funny. There's a big difference between mentioning that sex exists and trying to push you into ... (read in full...)
I'm married but my 1st love has come back into my life, and I don't know what to do
Q. My life has recently been turned upside down and I'm not sure what to do. I made the mistake of sending the love of my life a message on facebook that I thought was completely innocent. His profile said he was in a relationship and I was just ...
A. 3 January 2011: Listen to Aunt Honesty. I couldn't have said it better myself.... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as too big?
Q. i've only ever had sex three times and im wondering about my penis size. The first girl i had sex with actually giggled when she saw it but she told me not to worry because her ex boyfriends was huge. The second girl was shocked. She couldnt believe ...
A. 3 January 2011: The average length is between 5.5" and 6.5" long and something like 5" around. Men over 8" long are about 1% of the population.
But if some girls have seen larger, and some have seen smaller, then you're probably perfect. Ideally, you'd like to ... (read in full...)
Will I ever be good enough for him?
Q. I have been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for nearly 2 years now.. and I love him with all of my heart.. he is everything I have ever wanted in a guy. He is the first guy to ever actually seem to care about me and love me.. unlike my ...
A. 2 January 2011: He's got low esteem and as much as you're reassuring him, he's got is so easy now that he's not going to snap out of it anytime soon. Trust me, I WAS HIM. Until I got a kick in the seat of my pants, I didn't change. I sat, wallowed in my misery, and ... (read in full...)
What is his body language telling me?
Q. Hey, I really like a guy and wanted to ask your opinion on body language. When I was upset he embraced me really tight and keep hugging me really close and was playing with my hair and stroking it. So what does he body language imply is it fri...
A. 2 January 2011: Hard to say. I'll hug just about every friend I've got, and I have a reputation for giving big bear hugs (to the point that I'm asked to help crack sore backs). That's just me being friendly. And I'll play with hair or give noogies just to harass ... (read in full...)
How can I have safe sex without the use of birth control and condoms?
Q. how can I have safe sex without the use of birth control? My boyfriend doesn't like to use condoms and I trust him to pull out but sometimes I'm afraid. I would like to be on birth control but I can't be prescribed because I'm on chemotherapy pil...
A. 2 January 2011: You can't have safe sex without being safe. Pulling out is especially problematic because precum still has sperm in it so the damage is already done before he finishes. If you can't be on the pill, or injection, or diaphram, or any other birth ... (read in full...)
Is it long enough?
Q. I have a 6in penis, will i be able to reach the g-spot of my girlfriend. Because I heard that only bigger penis like 6.5in and more could reach the g-spot.I am afraid she would feel dissatisfied... Just getting prepared for our first time ... ...
A. 2 January 2011: First, the G-Spot is only 2 or 3 inches in. More importantly though, it's nearly impossible to hit it with a penis (unless you're uncommonly curved) and the best way to hit it for her is with your fingers or any of a number of toys designed for that ... (read in full...)
I just want him to kiss me ...
Q. I've written here before about this guy. We've been seeing each other for about 3 months. During that time he's been recovering from a surgery. We talk 24/7 via phone calls, text, and get together about once a week. Last night, New Year's Eve, we ...
A. 2 January 2011: Poor guy, he sounds like me. I always chicken out in a new relationship and have to be kissed first before I can start initiating kisses later. I just don't have the confidence that I can read women well enough to be sure she wants it until she ... (read in full...)
I've been love sick for 14 months should I crash the wedding?
Q. How do I get myself out of the dumps of my gloating selfpity for passing the love of my life by? This is doomsday for me but the wedding day for her? Should I crash the wedding and vow my love to her to be my wife. It's been 14 mos that I was a ...
A. 1 January 2011: Dude, no. This will not work well. She's marrying this other man that she loves, and you want to publicly embarrass her, cause a scene, and likely cause a fight at her wedding hoping that she'll fall madly in love with you because of it? That ... (read in full...)
Is there anything wrong with a young woman having a "sugar daddy"?
Q. Hi All, I am a young guy still trying to figure out life and love. I am wondering if you all can give me your opinion on a girl I met. I met this girl a few months back.She's gorgeous, a model, wants to be an actress.She's from Czech Republi...
A. 31 December 2010: She uses her body to get what she wants. She treats sex like a currency. And she thinks of relationships as business deals. It doesn't mean she CAN'T eventually fall in love, but she doesn't sound like she's looking for what you are in life. Sex ... (read in full...)
Does the anus produce any natural lubricant?
Q. Hi! So I'm a 16 year old guy, just starting to except the fact that he's gay. But I was curious, and so I'm gonna ask this: If a guys is being stimulated anally, does his anus produce any kind of lubrication or liquid like a vagina would? Idk, ...
A. 31 December 2010: The rule for anal sex is this: "When you think you've used too much lube, you've almost got enough."
You'll need to invest in some KY.... (read in full...)
Do men who cheat love the women they are cheating on?
Q. A Gf of mine and i were having a debate about this question: Do men who cheat(whether they are married or not)do they love the women that they are either married to or live with? I told her that how in the world could any man say that they love...
A. 31 December 2010: Often, they BELIEVE they do, but aren't mature enough to know what real love is. True real long term love is sacrifice, respect, and being more concerned with your partner's needs than your own. Many people never find this sort of love and are ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend going to move out because my mom asked for $100.00 a month
Q. I'm 20 years old. I live with my mother and father. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and yesterday my mom asked if he would start giving her 100 dollars every 2 weeks to help pay for food and bills. He automatically said he wouldn't and that ...
A. 31 December 2010: I pay $300 to my OWN parents! That's chump change they're asking for him to live with them. Call his bluff. If he thinks he can live cheaper elsewhere, he's either lying or a fool.... (read in full...)
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