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How can I stop myself falling for my married colleague?

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Question - (6 March 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 March 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, *overstoryuk writes:

I'm 20 years old and think I am in love with a woman who is 40 and married. I have worked with her for 3 years and we are very close. I think she is aware that I have feelings for her and find her attractive. On nights out she teases me by touching my leg and and pushing her body up aginst me.

I can't stop thinking about her. We are always texting and emailing each other at work and at home joking around.

I think that I am in love with her but don't want to be because Hhow can I stop myself from feeling like this.

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (6 March 2008):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

as tempting as it may sound, at your age you dont want to be involved with a married lady. It may sound exciting but the reality will be different. There will be lots of sneaking around and her husband may find out.

Stick to someone around your own age dude.

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (6 March 2008):

AskEve agony auntThis woman is encouraging you which isn't fair on you. She knows you like her and she's simply flirting with you. At the end of the day though she's married and out of bounds. Don't get yourself involved with a married woman, she has too much to lose and it will only end in disaster... FOR YOU so don't bring this needless hurt on yourself!

~Eve~

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (6 March 2008):

love-him agony auntHEY!!

She is married leave her alone, if she feels the same way about you she will divorce her husband.. Dont break their family up like that. You dont have to stop yourself from feeling like this, but if she flirts with you, tell her to stop, take control of your actions as well as hers.

Feel free to mail me at any time x x x

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