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6 May 2009: Ok, we’ve all been there. A relationship we invested so much time in has come to an end one way or another and now you’ve got far too much time on your hands. No doubt, if you’ve been investing all your time into your relationship somewhere along ...
I want my EX back... Do I get back with my EX?
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18 January 2008: I've been through it myself. That stage following the breakup where I can't help but want my EX back. Whether you dumped them, or they dumped you I think everyone goes through these feelings. Here are some reasons to (or not) get back together that ...
How to get over your EX.
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9 January 2008: BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
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Is he just trying to keep in my good books?
Q. Hey everyone, ive been talking to this guy since september last year and we have never met, we met on the site plenty of fish. Anyway ive always wanted to meet him but hes always busy saying working or hes a big football fan so going to football all ...
A. 31 May 2011: Sounds to me like he really is nervous about meeting you. I haven't met anyone online before but I imagine its strange to have an attraction to someone you haven't met.
Face-to-face is a different story.
I wouldn't feel guilty about not believ... (read in full...)
A choice between two people!
Q. Hi! I have sort of a dilemma, and was hoping I could get some advice.. I have been dating with person x for a period of 2 years now. It has been a very rocky relationship with lots of break-ups and problems the main being that he lives with his...
A. 31 May 2011: I'm afraid only you can choose here. Something to bear in mind is the fact you've only known this other guy a matter of hours and shared a kiss.
In most circumstances long distance doesn't work. People meet people closer to home (sometim... (read in full...)
Am I being slutty? How do I regain my self respect?
Q. all my friends (in a jokey way) always call me slutty and its always just been a bit of a laughy joke, but i really think i am, i seriously cant help it but its not like i have sex with loads of boys just i flirt with different boys at the same ...
A. 31 May 2011: As a bloke I agree with the previous poster here. I'll let you in on a little secret... I'm sure women have the same thing... from a blokes point of view there are 2 types of girl:
1) Girlfriend material (wife material to us older men) and
2... (read in full...)
When or if do I give up and walk away?
Q. Dear All, Here's my problem - hoping for some views: I'm gay, 30, and I met a guy (also 30) online about 18 months ago, he's from the USA and I'm English. We were just friends though we got on great and sometimes talked on im for hours...
A. 31 May 2011: I would've walked away already to be honest. He's obviously avoiding answering the question and not being honest with you.
Sounds to me like he might well be enjoying playing the field maybe? Or perhaps he really is too busy for a relation... (read in full...)
How do I get over this break up??
Q. how do i get over this break up?? my boyfriend of 7 months broke up wit me 2 weeks ago and i dont feel like its gettin any easier.. we have been friends for 4 yrs and he was chasin me for them yrs.. i didn give in because i was afraid of gettin h...
A. 31 May 2011: He won't explain anything because he can't. I'm afraid he's just been caught. You need to get rid, deal with the break-up and when you're ready move on to someone else who appreciates you.
I'm sorry but he has been busted on a dating site while yo... (read in full...)
I believe my long-term girlfriend is having an emotional affair. What is the best way to confront her without losing her?
Q. I believe my long-term girlfriend is having an emotional affair. I do not believe it is physical yet based on the evidence I found, but I do know that she is very attracted to this guy. Should I lay all my cards on the table and ask her to...
A. 31 May 2011: If you lay your cards on the table and confront her it is likely arguments will ensue, you will appear jealous and insecure which is not attractive and likely push her to compare you to this guy.
Instead why don't you try and talk about your rel... (read in full...)
Body language signs of the guy I'm interested in...am I over-reading into it?
Q. I had dinner with 3 of my guy friends (more like acquaintance though), one of whom im interested in. i accidently gazed at him a little longer and when he realized, his eyes darted and he gave a slight frown, followed by some serious fidgeting of ...
A. 31 May 2011: From what you say here I'm not sure anyone can really tell... it could be he was confused about whats going on, it could be he felt uncomfortable in a good way (likes you but sort of nervous) or in a bad way (not interested in you).
No way to t... (read in full...)
How do I get a long distance relationship back into wanting to love me?
Q. I fell into a long distance online love relationship. Unfortunately we never met, but he promised we would, till I brought up life after death, and where we'll spend eternity. He claimed to be a Christian, but I was quickly told to get away, and ...
A. 31 May 2011: If only things were that simple... At the end of the day I don't believe you can MAKE someone love you or want you back. They either do or don't.
I think you're friends are right to be honest. You have built up this picture of who this man is a... (read in full...)
How do I get a long distance relationship back into wanting to love me?
Q. I fell into a long distance online love relationship. Unfortunately we never met, but he promised we would, till I brought up life after death, and where we'll spend eternity. He claimed to be a Christian, but I was quickly told to get away, and ...
A. 31 May 2011: If only things were that simple... At the end of the day I don't believe you can MAKE someone love you or want you back. They either do or don't.
I think you're friends are right to be honest. You have built up this picture of who this man is a... (read in full...)
How do I cope with cold feet?
Q. Having second thoughts about getting married a 2nd time. Been together 5 yrs. We're both late 40's. Have lots in common, good sex life; but b/f is high-strung at times, which wears me out. I know no one is perfect, least of all me, but feeling ...
A. 1 February 2010: "Put comes socks on?"
Sorry I meant "put some socks on?" before anyone misunderstands my original post below!... (read in full...)
How do I cope with cold feet?
Q. Having second thoughts about getting married a 2nd time. Been together 5 yrs. We're both late 40's. Have lots in common, good sex life; but b/f is high-strung at times, which wears me out. I know no one is perfect, least of all me, but feeling ...
A. 1 February 2010: Put comes socks on?
Sorry, I couldn't resist that one. I'm afraid I'm not going to be of much use to you with this one... I've not been married (yet). However, I do understand everyone gets the jitters. Afterall, it's not a decision to be taken li... (read in full...)
How to get over your EX.
Q. BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
A. 28 January 2010: Hi lost-girl and Parimickey,
I'm so glad you found my article useful. It is very difficult at this time of year (Christmas and New Year) and people (myself included) always seem to think the end of a relationship is the end of the World as they ... (read in full...)
I SAW the email from her, confronted him and now he's angry with ME!
Q. hi, my boyfriend recieved an email from a woman it said Hi, Thank you for your diary. Have a nice evening. It was nice to spend time with you. again we do it bye Smiler I asked him about this. all he said was that he has ...
A. 18 May 2009: Agree with others here. I have come across this "I haven't done anything wrong" attitude a lot.
To me it's pretty obvious... why would anyone say that? Probably because they have done something wrong... " I was only flirting", "it was only har... (read in full...)
2 weeks into my relationship and I've kissed another guy. Now I don't know what to do. Help!
Q. Two weeks into the relationship and i've already kissed another guy whilst drunk... I feel awful I know how bad this sounds I really do. I went over my alcohol limit and stupidly kissed some random guy...It's tearin' me up I know it's only two we...
A. 18 May 2009: My first girlfriend did exactly the same thing... I remember like it was yesterday. We had fancied each other for 6 months before we got it together. 2 weeks of being together and seeing each other at every opportunity I think the guilt was tearing ... (read in full...)
Can someone tell me where to find a decent man!
Q. Hi, im just wondering if anyone can give me any advice on where to meet decent down to earth men. It seems to me that men can't be faithful to one woman. Perhaps that's nature, i don't know but if a woman behaves like that then she's branded ...
A. 18 May 2009: "It seems to me that men can't be faithful to one woman. Perhaps that's nature, i don't know but if a woman behaves like that then she's branded a slut"
Woooooah hang on a minute. Speaking as a bloke who's been messed about by girls it would be... (read in full...)
How can I get over my ex-girlfriend?
Q. Ok, we’ve all been there. A relationship we invested so much time in has come to an end one way or another and now you’ve got far too much time on your hands. No doubt, if you’ve been investing all your time into your relationship somewhere along ...
A. 18 May 2009: Haha Mik,
Was meant to be posted in articles NOT in questions. They obviously stuck it in the wrong place without reading it :)... (read in full...)
I feel physically and mentally put off him now as I feel pressured into having sex with him.
Q. Hi, I'm curently with a boy who I like, we have been together for a good 8 months now and he claims he loves me... and yes we have our ups and downs however we always pull through the other end. He started to suggest to me that we should have s...
A. 22 April 2009: "I feel physically and mentally put off him now as I feel pressured into having sex with him"
Good! Ditch the idiot. YOU decide when YOU'RE ready. Don't be pressured into anything you don't want to do.
You're right to feel worthless and di... (read in full...)
I'm enjoying the best of both worlds...
Q. I'm cheating on my husband with his best friend and I don't want to stop. I love him very much and our sex life is great... but I enjoy sex with his friend too. What should I do?...
A. 22 April 2009: Do your husband a favour and tell him... And to be honest I hope he leaves you and gives his so-called best friend a kicking.
You both deserve each other.
This is the ultimate in betrayal.
Harsh, but I'm sorry I find this quite disgusting.... (read in full...)
Is she trying to break us up or what?
Q. Well recently my gal cheated on me! when she told me what happened she told me she had asked her sister for advice and the sister adviced her to cheat on me! my girl and i are still together but recently i was contacted by her sister who has never ...
A. 22 April 2009: If she cheated on you why the hell are you still with her? If she says her sister told her to or persuaded her to then what kind of excuse is that?
If someone told you to go for it and cheat on your girl would you do it? Total rubbish!
Ditch t... (read in full...)
The girl with "chubby cheeks!"
Q. Hola, I was just wondering why people (mostly guys) perceive me as a "cute" person and compare me to a baby or something. Whenever I smile I get these huge cheeks suddenly appearing from nowhere and it really annoys me. I get people poking them all ...
A. 22 April 2009: I agree with Steve S.
Don't worry about it. Being cute with fun and smiley personality is a great quality to have! Ignore them.
I'm called cute most of the time... Just accept it. It's a good thing :)
p.s. Cute is sexy too you know.... (read in full...)
She's best friends with her ex and even told me she has feelings for him!
Q. My girlfriend has been hanging around her ex-boyfriend a lot more then usual. She goes to see him a lot when he is practicing sports. She tells me that they are best friends and would want nothing more then that. But, today she admitted that she has ...
A. 22 April 2009: I agree with kellyxxx.
"My girlfriend has been hanging around her ex-boyfriend a lot more then usual"
This isn't really normal. If someone is hanging out with their ex it's usually because one of them has stronger feelings. Either she still... (read in full...)
Am I already on the shelf at 30?
Q. Well, where do I start? I'm 30 now and my life is coming together nicely. I have had a lot of crap to deal with in my life over the last 7 years after my Dad passing away unexpectedly, looking after my Nan (his mum) who has been suffering from ...
A. 22 April 2009: Hi Darity,
I'm sure there are women out there that feel the same as I do. Where though? I don't want to be one of those people who just settle for someone for the sake of settling down. It'll happen when I least expect it I imagine.
Haha than... (read in full...)
Was I just a FWB or a Plan B only?
Q. It has been a while since I’ve been here at Cupid asking questions mainly because other than sorting out my life I haven’t been in any sort of relationship to have any issues. Its a bit long... But quite interesting... And there’s quite a bit of ...
A. 8 April 2009: Hi Serenity,
Thanks for your reply.
"... some girls just like to be hurt or have been hurt soo much that they become use to it...in other words when they run into a guy who is nice (as yourself) they don't recognize that this is what love is ... (read in full...)
Was I just a FWB or a Plan B only?
Q. It has been a while since I’ve been here at Cupid asking questions mainly because other than sorting out my life I haven’t been in any sort of relationship to have any issues. Its a bit long... But quite interesting... And there’s quite a bit of ...
A. 8 April 2009: Thanks Honeypie,
This is what I suspected to be honest and why I've told her where to go. I just wanted to hear it from an "outsider".
:)
Anon-e-mouse
... (read in full...)
Can men just be friends with girls?
Q. How do men honestly feel about attractive, good looking and even hot female friends? Many of my boyfriend's female friends are gorgeous. He has known them for several years and claims that he only has platonic relationships with them. Is it possible ...
A. 29 December 2008: Yes it is possible, I have quite a few female friends and they are purely platonic. If I were interested I would've made a move.
A year ago, I ended a relationship with a girl who was jealous and insecure. She couldn't comprehend that I had been... (read in full...)
Gemini Female and Libra Male, Marriage Potential?
Q. Does anyone have input on a Gemini Female and Libra Male relationship? I feel like it is a match made in heaven-it is a long distance one but wow. Would love to hear +++ or --- personal stories. Also Marriage potential between a Gemini Female an...
A. 29 December 2008: Do people believe in this star sign stuff?
Although it sounds very interesting (especially as I'm a libra) I'm not sure you can make your life-decisions based on this.
At the end of the day, we are all individuals and our personalities an... (read in full...)
Is it normal for him to have naked women on his phone?
Q. My husband thinks it's normal for him to post naked women on his phone. I disagree. Help please. ...
A. 4 November 2008: I wouldn't have any naked pics of women on my phone especially if it upset my gf. I agree it is tacky and whats the point?
"at least it shows that he's heterosexual if nothing else!" = Rubbish imo.
Shows he needs to grow up more like.... (read in full...)
What should I do about my cross-dressing husband?
Q. My husband regularly wears saree and other Indian female attires.He feels very comfortable in them.We do share saree, salwar kameez,blouse,petticoat(saya),nighties,ghagra and cholis, bras ,panties etc.In fact I always buy free size women dress, so ...
A. 3 November 2008: Buy him a nice dress... And get yourself some trousers :)... (read in full...)
Do I talk to my Ex about how quickly he's moved on?
Q. I'm just going to jump straight into this. My boyfriend of three years and I have recently split. It was a mutual thing, we weren't getting on so decided to end it. The things that's bugging me is that on the same day we decided to end our relat...
A. 3 November 2008: Hi Soda,
I agree with the other replies here. Concentrate on yourself for the time being. I wrote an article on this here at dearcupid.org. Have a look, it might be able to help you.
http://www.de... (read in full...)
Now what's done is done, but how can I forget my first love?
Q. i met a girl on msn than we fell in love, my bad luck she is my first love . she gives me her phone number, i call her everyday, she is not near me, she is very far but i know her family. I want to get marry with she! But my family don't acce...
A. 3 November 2008: I wrote an article on this many people have found useful. Take a look, it might help you too...
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-get-over-your-ex.html
Good luck :)... (read in full...)
It perplexes me. Really, since when are C cup's small?
Q. I hate when people call C cups small. They are always talking about "small boobs" referring to Bs and Cs. Where does that leave AAs and As? I'm a B cup by the way. I don't think Cs are small. What's the deal people? Learn to look! Don't you thin...
A. 3 November 2008: To put it bluntly... Who gives a ****. They're just boobs. I've been with girls with B, C, D, and probably bigger and smaller. They're just boobs.
Does it really matter?... (read in full...)
How to get over your EX.
Q. BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
A. 3 November 2008: Thanks for your comments Greg. Again I'm glad almost a year on this article is still being read and helps people. I only wish I started my own website and put it on there :)
In your situation it must be hard just being friends and the fact you... (read in full...)
Help! I don't want my girlfriend pregnant!!!
Q. Im 17 years of age and sexually active. I'm the type of person that worries over everything; and i mean obsesssively. I've looked and researched into ways of making sure i'm careful as i have a very successful life which isn't ready for a ...
A. 6 October 2008: The chances of her being pregnant as a result of what you describe here are ZERO. It's refreshing to here youngsters being careful... You don't need to wash your hands 3 times though :)
Sperm die very quickly. I have heard urban myths about a ... (read in full...)
How to get over your EX.
Q. BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
A. 6 October 2008: I'm glad people still find my article useful... You know it's amazing how much your life can change. A year on from all that and I'm so much happier and thinking about the future... I've set up a business which is going well, I'm hoping to move into ... (read in full...)
How to get over your EX.
Q. BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
A. 12 June 2008: Hi anonymous, messy-bess and carrie-anne,
I'm glad you like dmy article. TO be honest I haven't been on here much recently since I've had far too much going on in my life.
Started a new job and working hard. When I look back at my previous post... (read in full...)
How to get over your EX.
Q. BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
A. 12 June 2008: Hi anonymous, messy-bess and carrie-anne,
I'm glad you like dmy article. TO be honest I haven't been on here much recently since I've had far too much going on in my life.
Started a new job and working hard. When I look back at my previous post... (read in full...)
I've left 10 texts to my boyfriend with no response, does he still care?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been dating for two months. now, we are on spring break and he hasn't text me back. i have left at least ten plus messages. do you think that hes doesn't care about me anymore or that our relationship is over? ...
A. 19 March 2008: I would be suspicious...
I had the same situation with my EX when she went away on holiday for 11 days without any contact at all. When she got back she was angry I hadn't replied to her message within an hour while she ignored mine for the enti... (read in full...)
Does my ex really want me back after a bad breakup or are these just "booty calls"?
Q. Does my ex girlfriend want to get back together? we broke up, very badly, and did not talk for a month. I called her and invited her to a party at my house. she came. i kept things light and did not mention the relationship at all, and even kept ...
A. 13 March 2008: "she said that she loved me, and wanted me to get the day off of work so that i could spend it making love to her and then go to her parents house for dinner"
Heeeeeeeellllllooooooo... Here's the clue. She wouldn't want to see you all day and go t... (read in full...)
He broke up so he could party during his last semester of school without worrying about me, his exact words! Do I accept him back??
Q. I was with my bf for a year and a half and he wanted a break so he could go and party his last semester of law school without worrying about me (his exact words). Before he left we were having problems and we tried to fix them and three times he ...
A. 13 March 2008: I would just like to add that my EX said the same thing before she went away on holiday for 11 days. No contact for all that time and when she got back we got back together.
After a few months we seemed to argue far too much and the relation... (read in full...)
He broke up so he could party during his last semester of school without worrying about me, his exact words! Do I accept him back??
Q. I was with my bf for a year and a half and he wanted a break so he could go and party his last semester of law school without worrying about me (his exact words). Before he left we were having problems and we tried to fix them and three times he ...
A. 13 March 2008: From personal experience I'd say NO WAY.
He wants to not worry about it so he can fool around and not feel guilty about it.
End of.... (read in full...)
Should I let my ex know that I am still waiting for him?
Q. My ex-bf and me have been together for 5 years and during these 5 years, he has been a very loving bf. He loves me alot and we really wanted to be together forever. However, during the 5th year of our relationship, he found out that I was cheating ...
A. 13 March 2008: "What baffles me is if u luv him this much then why cheat on him"
This is true.
However, we are all human and all make mistakes. Sometimes it takes making a mistake to realise things.
I'm not condoning cheating having never cheated mys... (read in full...)
How to get over your EX.
Q. BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
A. 27 February 2008: Hi Angi,
It's hard I know but look at it this way... If he couldn't open up to you and prefers to run from his problems rather than work through them perhaps you're better off without him?
I had a smiliar situation where I was open to talk abo... (read in full...)
How to get over your EX.
Q. BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
A. 25 February 2008: Hi diesel78,
Thanks for your comments :) In relation to your situation it sounds very tricky. I think there's a lot for you to really think about and more questions you need to ask yourself before you can really make up your mind as to what to ... (read in full...)
How to get over your EX.
Q. BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
A. 11 February 2008: Hi Scythe, I'm glad this article was of some use to you :) It certainly has helped me no end and I'm still continuing with the whole treat myself thing now.
It's the simple/small things in life that can really make a difference sometime... (read in full...)
How to get over your EX.
Q. BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
A. 29 January 2008: Hi KayKay,
I was with my EX... lol... (read in full...)
How to get over your EX.
Q. BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
A. 21 January 2008: Thanks for your comments. They're much appreciated and makes me feel it was worthwhile writing it :)
Best of luck!... (read in full...)
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