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6 May 2009: Ok, we’ve all been there. A relationship we invested so much time in has come to an end one way or another and now you’ve got far too much time on your hands. No doubt, if you’ve been investing all your time into your relationship somewhere along ...
I want my EX back... Do I get back with my EX?
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18 January 2008: I've been through it myself. That stage following the breakup where I can't help but want my EX back. Whether you dumped them, or they dumped you I think everyone goes through these feelings. Here are some reasons to (or not) get back together that ...
How to get over your EX.
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9 January 2008: BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
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He's very good to me yet doesn't do the little things that I ask. I'm worried he's cheating
Q. hi to love or not to love is my question!! i'm very happy with him, when i'm with him. when i don't see his face, when i don't hear his voice, when i don't have any picture of him in-front of me, i just think that i am in a big trouble . -he is...
A. 14 January 2013: The guy is with you and shows you through his actions he loves you and wants to be with you. The fact he told his exes is a good sign.
It won't affect your relationship at all unless you let your jealousy go out of control. Stop giving him hass... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is chatting with a co-worker and has pet name for him. Am I right to be concerned?
Q. Recently discovered my long time girlfriend has been heavily chatting with a distant (2 hrs away) coworker. She's been very secretive about the whole connection but somehow her texts got onto my iPad. In one exchange this guy (who is married) asked ...
A. 13 January 2013: You've done the right thing in leaving her. She can't be trusted and you cannot marry someone (or even be in a relationship with someone) if you cannot trust them.
Good on you for having the guts to leave first.
Now go find a good woman with ... (read in full...)
How long did it take you to know you were in love (the first time)? And how long after that did you tell your significant other?
Q. Here's just a general question for all of you out there: How long did it take you to know you were in love (the first time)? And for good measure, how long after that did you tell your significant other? I'm only curious because my boyfriend of ...
A. 13 January 2013: Ok, I see what you're saying. Two weeks is too early to tell. If you're feeling haven't risen in 2 months of dating then it's not going to happen with this one.
I know you go slow. All women fall in love slower than men. Men can fall in love in ... (read in full...)
I fell for her, and only talked to her to try and get her number. Then I find out she has a boyfriend, so should I try and be friends with her?
Q. We don't know each other well or at all. We have had small talks but that's just it. I fell for her looks. I have asked if I could contact her but she said she has a boyfriend. We won't be seeing each other anymore and I don't know if I should try ...
A. 13 January 2013: I want you to remember though; well done for asking for her number. That is what you should do. It doesn't matter if she gives it to you or not. The point is you asking for her number.
Some will give it to you and some won't. Regardless of the r... (read in full...)
I'm almost 21 never had a boyfriend and feel like such a loser
Q. Hello I would like to ask for help to determine why I'm so lonely. Okay to start I'm about to be 21 and I've never had a boyfriend I feel like such a loser! I don't know if it's because I'm depressed or what? I have a low self esteem and I also only ...
A. 13 January 2013: DorothyDix: "Believe me, whatever weight we are, matters ZERO... True beauty comes from within"
Weight does matter. By saying this you are not helping. Yes, true beauty lies within. However, both men and women must pass the physical attracti... (read in full...)
Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?
Q. As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...
A. 13 January 2013: "I am pretty sure that all women want a strong self esteem man."
I'll go further than that. I am ABSOLUTELY sure that all women want a man with self-esteem and confidence. We know we're not perfect and all have our faults.
However, you ... (read in full...)
He's very good to me yet doesn't do the little things that I ask. I'm worried he's cheating
Q. hi to love or not to love is my question!! i'm very happy with him, when i'm with him. when i don't see his face, when i don't hear his voice, when i don't have any picture of him in-front of me, i just think that i am in a big trouble . -he is...
A. 13 January 2013: Well I didn't know about him keeping friendships with his exes. That is not a good sign and that is a BIG thing. Just ask him to stop seeing them out of respect for you. You didn't mention this in your original post.
Other than that this guy does... (read in full...)
I am sick of my B/f sneaking around behind my back to jerk off! Is it normal for men to be like that?
Q. Okay so anybody's advice would be excellent, especially a womans. I'm 18 and have been with my 22 year old boyfriend for 1 and a half years, our sex life is average, and I'm always keen even if I don't finish. He's jerked off to internet porn during ...
A. 9 January 2013: “A few months later I decided to check his emails and he signed up to a websiteto find single sluts to have sex with in our area!” Goodbye. This guys is not trustworthy. Time to move on. Simple.... (read in full...)
I fell for her, and only talked to her to try and get her number. Then I find out she has a boyfriend, so should I try and be friends with her?
Q. We don't know each other well or at all. We have had small talks but that's just it. I fell for her looks. I have asked if I could contact her but she said she has a boyfriend. We won't be seeing each other anymore and I don't know if I should try ...
A. 9 January 2013: Sorry, I thought you wanted a girlfriend not a friend.
Yes, cut it short. Just be polite then say you got to go, you've got something to do, someone to meet.
Don't always be there.
She might be giving her boyfriend the old heave ho so you ... (read in full...)
Would it be alright to send her a card to her work address wishing her well on her move?
Q. Since October, I have been emailing back and forth with a girl from uni who caught my attention at the beginning of the year. She's recently been through a tough break up, and basically I just want to try to be her friend for now. We practically ...
A. 9 January 2013: Yes, it would be freaky. Why don't you just ask her to meet for a coffee or something? E-mails are lame... 150!!!?... (read in full...)
Do you think he likes me?
Q. *I see him where he works often and he'll walk around and talk to me for an hour sometimes 2. *He'll tease me about things. *He walks me to my car, in which we talk for another 10 minutes outside. *Texts me at least every other day seeing...
A. 9 January 2013: Erm.. Let me think for a minute. WAKE UP! Of course he likes you. His actions speak louder than words. ALWAYs look at his actions.
He really likes you if he teases you. He spends time with you out of his way. He walks you to your car. He hugs you... (read in full...)
He's very good to me yet doesn't do the little things that I ask. I'm worried he's cheating
Q. hi to love or not to love is my question!! i'm very happy with him, when i'm with him. when i don't see his face, when i don't hear his voice, when i don't have any picture of him in-front of me, i just think that i am in a big trouble . -he is...
A. 9 January 2013: So he doesn't do the little things but he does the BIG important things? What more do you want? You want him to do everything? Tell me, what do you do for him?
If I was this guy, I'd walk away. Plenty of women out there would like a guy like thi... (read in full...)
He cheated, said it was over so why is her number still in his phone? And other women's too?
Q. My guy and I had been together off and on for 4 years over the phone and finally got together last year and he moved in with me. One day he asked me to marry him and of course I said yes and things were going great then about 5 months ago he cheated ...
A. 9 January 2013: It isn't over then. He doesn't love you. He's using you as backup. How can you marry a guy you cannot trust?... (read in full...)
After finding out he lied and cheated I slept with my boyfriend's bandmate. Do I tell him before his band mate does?
Q. I met this guy back in July, he was amazing, and for me, it was instant love...not so much for him. He had been divorced for about a year..his exwife had cheated on him. Things were great for a little while, but he was obviously not ready to be in a ...
A. 9 January 2013: This "relationship" if you can call it that is OVER.
You are to possessive, jealous and controlling. I'm not surprised he ended it after all the aggro you gave him. You had a row about a tattoo? It's up to him if he wants to get a new one. Not... (read in full...)
As I passed by two girls, one of them said Bow chicka wow wow. Was that directed towards me?
Q. I'm preparing to leave a classroom. No biggie, right? But, as I'm about to pack up, I see two nice girls. And, I hear one say "Bow chicka wow-wow" as she passes by me. Ever since I heard the comment, I now can't stop analysing what she means. Is it ...
A. 9 January 2013: Don't know. Why didn't you turn around and smile and strike up a conversation?
She might have just been talking to her friend. On the other hand she might have been directing to her friend about you.
The only way to find out would have been ... (read in full...)
When we have a fight no matter whose fault it is, b/f switches off his cell phone till I beg for forgiveness on facebook. I can't take this!
Q. Dear Cupid My bf of 2 years always switches off his mobile when we fight and make me suffer until I send him sorry msg to his Facebook account even when he started the fight and even when he's wrong He did it now too. I can't go thru this suffer...
A. 9 January 2013: If you are in the wrong then he's right to walk away. What sort of things are you fighting about?
If they're small things then he's right to do what he's doing. A REAL man doesn't argue with his woman. However, if a REAL man does somethin... (read in full...)
Guys: Do you judge girls by their shape and appearance?
Q. I'm so horny lately... I'm 19 and never had boyfriend before which i believe its my weight, i've always been over weight as child and i started doing gym recently and lost 6kg but need to loose 50 more !! but i can't wait untill i get the perfect ...
A. 9 January 2013: Doesn't everyone judge people on their looks? EVERYBODY DOES.
The vast majority of Women won't admit it. Most men admit it. Yes, you must be attracted to each other on sight. First impressions count for A LOT.
That's not to say everyone has to ... (read in full...)
I went 'no contact' and he found somebody else!
Q. ok cutting a long story short as possible!!..the guy who i was chasing and then i decided to go no contact with..i recently heard from his 'friends' that he had met somebody else and that he was serious about her!!..(bearing in mind that he told me ...
A. 9 January 2013: When he said he wasn't ready for a relationship what he was saying is he wasn't interested in having a relationship with you.
He's using the language women use all the time. He's letting you down gently.
Fact is you NEVER had a chance here.
... (read in full...)
If he is getting help for his problems, would it be so bad if I took him back in a year or so?
Q. I posted a question a few days ago, but here is an update. I knew my boyfriend of 3 years was lying to me about certain things so I got access to his email account on Friday night, then did the same thing to his facebook account. I found dozens a...
A. 9 January 2013: It'll never happen. Wait a year? Think of all the good men you might be missing. You might find yourself a good looking, decent, confident, romantic, affectionate guy... A REAL man. But you're willing to wait a year for this idiot?
I wonder w... (read in full...)
She suggested we take things slowly after the first date. What do I do now?
Q. Hi all... I just took a girl on a date recently. We had exchanged numbers and we had previously gotten to know more about each other before via text message, so we had common ground and things to talk about. I don’t claim to be the best looking...
A. 9 January 2013: "They apparently only broke up about 6 weeks ago so I could understand her not wanting to rush into another relationship."
BIG RED FLAG! 6 weeks? The Ex is still there in the background. This is a no win for you and you're setting yourself... (read in full...)
Girlfriend cheated on me but I want her back! How can I persuade her I won't hold this against her?
Q. I have been in a relationship for last four years with my girl. We did everything except sexual intercourse. Recently, when she was drunk, some random guy took her from bar and it seems he had sexual intercourse with her. Now she feels that she is ...
A. 9 January 2013: You DO deserve better. Stop being a wimp and move on.... (read in full...)
I'm back with my ex but I'm not sure its a good thing
Q. Has too much happened to try again? I've been in realationship with now ex bf for 5 months. He really swept me off my feet, we have fun and are into the same things. The relationship has been full on virtually from the beginning. I'm a lone paren...
A. 9 January 2013: One very important thing to consider is this; is this guy a good role model for your child?
No.
Move on and good luck with everything.... (read in full...)
She totally destroyed my confidence. How to get her out of my head? How to move on from the hurt?
Q. Hi my girlfriend I had for two years was paranoid about me thinking I was looking at other girls eying them up and kept on saying that someone else comes along I would be off ,I kept on reassuring her and telling her I loved her ,she turned her ...
A. 9 January 2013: I had a nightmare of a time and wrote an article on what I did and it really did work. Take a look: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-get-over-your-ex.html... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and his best female friend are too close for my comfort. What can I do?
Q. My Boyfriend and his best friend are really close, too close for my own comfort zone, she texts him saying she loves him and he does the same, at all hours of the night at that. They are both really touchy with one another and it drives me crazy an...
A. 9 January 2013: "I'm sure he's not sleeping with her so he thinks he's not doing anything wrong."
The guy sounds like he's in love with his girl friend. You can bet he wants to sleep with her. I'd put money on he thinks about it.... (read in full...)
My parents will not allow me to see my LDR without a chaperon. Are they outdated in their thinking?
Q. This is going to be a bit long, so bear with me... My boyfriend (age 22) and I (23) have been dating a little over a year now. I moved out when I was seventeen to go to a university some distance from my house, but I am now living with my p...
A. 9 January 2013: It's a no brainer really. ACTIONS ALWAYS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS.
You've proven you're trustworthy. If they do let you go then don't blow it by doing the dirty.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
I slept with my friends boyfriend 2 days before their baby is due. Do I tell her?
Q. So I've had this friend for 3 years. Me and her met because I hooked up with her boyfriend unknowingly. He split with her before I found out, but still cheated on her with me. Then cheated on me with her. So me and her became friends, long story sh...
A. 9 January 2013: These things ALWAYS come out in the end. And you can be happy in the knowledge you've screwed up that little child's life when it does. Well done.... (read in full...)
How long did it take you to know you were in love (the first time)? And how long after that did you tell your significant other?
Q. Here's just a general question for all of you out there: How long did it take you to know you were in love (the first time)? And for good measure, how long after that did you tell your significant other? I'm only curious because my boyfriend of ...
A. 9 January 2013: "I do see myself falling in love with him one day."
I don't. Bold statement I know. My view on it is he thinks if he tells you he loves you'll like hime (or maybe even love him) more.
That's not the case. If men keep saying these things the... (read in full...)
Is my friend a jerk for making this disrespectful comment about his African American lover?
Q. This older guy who I am friends with, told me that if he ever got married in the future, he would never tell his wife that he had a sexual relationship with an African American woman because, she would look down on him and so would the entire ...
A. 8 January 2013: He is right in thinking that people would look down on him in the Ukraine.
The Ukraine (and Russia) is inherently rascist as a nation. It's not his fault. If anything he is NOT one of them since he has been with someone of African American... (read in full...)
Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?
Q. As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...
A. 8 January 2013: It's time you got over this. She is happy. Why can't you just let it go?
Does it really matter in the grand scheme of things? Are you happy with her and is she a good woman?
I'm not going to bother reading anymore of your followups.
Th... (read in full...)
He is being manipulated by another woman. How should I get him back?
Q. This is my story: I met a really great guy two years ago. We eloped too fast and talked about marriage too fast. The first problem started when I found out he had unfinished business with his ex girlfriend and was still communicating wi...
A. 8 January 2013: The fact he took her back means the relationship is ultimately doomed anyhow.
They will still have those issues that broke them up the last time hidden, for the time being, under the surface. Trust me, they will raise their ugly heads again.
... (read in full...)
How should I handle our post break-up issues due to us now living in the same place?
Q. I have a 'break-up' problem. 3 weeks ago I broke up with my girlfriend of 6 months (plus the year we dated). It was mutual, since I didn't feel she was quite herself around me anymore. It all started with a sort of alternative education we both...
A. 8 January 2013: A mutual breakup? Breakups are never mutual. One person is the dumper and the other one is dumped.
You got dumped my friend. I'm sorry to say it.
"Boy was I wrong. For an entire month she stressed over the fact that I'd be there (she was l... (read in full...)
Am I over thinking this? Or is this something that everyone else would be worried about too?
Q. Hey everyone! I've been with my girlfriend for almost a year now, we are both 18 and I have some worries. My girlfriend likes to go out and have fun, go clubbing, go to party's and what not and I really do get worried when she is out clubbing...
A. 8 January 2013: She's a liar, a cheat, cannot be trusted and has no integrity.
WALK AWAY with no contact. If she tries to contact you tell her "I'm busy". It'll kill you inside but you have to WALK.
It's already over. Just a matter of time. This will eat yo... (read in full...)
Why does my ex keep on trying to light the kindling in the fire that just keeps going out??
Q. Well me and my, long distance relationship keep on trying to rekindl the fire but nothing works its like she has a bf and says that she still wants to keep in tounch. So we keep on talking every couple of times a month not as much as we use to. I ...
A. 8 January 2013: She's keeping you on the hook. She likes the attention. If she's feeling down, got no dates, she always has you waiting there to make her feel better about herself. Some girls can't be alone. They need as much male attention as they can get.
Just ... (read in full...)
My parents will not allow me to see my LDR without a chaperon. Are they outdated in their thinking?
Q. This is going to be a bit long, so bear with me... My boyfriend (age 22) and I (23) have been dating a little over a year now. I moved out when I was seventeen to go to a university some distance from my house, but I am now living with my p...
A. 8 January 2013: Perhaps your Mum and Dad struggled after they had you and don't want the same for you. Perhaps they want better for you.
You have high integrity and are trustworthy based on your actions alone. So why not have a talk with your parents? If you real... (read in full...)
How do we deal with communication problem in our marriage?
Q. Ive been married for 5 years and it just now hit me that for the past 2 years we have had communication issues. For example every time i try to talk to my husband he doesnt reply to me all he says is "ok" and i tell him well give me your opinion ...
A. 8 January 2013: Perhaps the problem is he is feckless and lazy and couldn't give two hoots. What a catch!
What kind of Dad doesn't play with his son? I feel sorry for the poor boy.
You need to tell him to start bucking up his ideas and saying "ok" all the tim... (read in full...)
Worried I cant get pregnant when I'm older, help?
Q. Had unprotected sex on 4 different occasions since I lost my virginity, I was really worried I'd get pregnant but I've just got my period like normal... Now I'm really worried that one day when I want kids I won't be able to have them?? Is there so...
A. 8 January 2013: Stop having unprotected sex. You don't know what you might catch. As for pregnancy, the fact you haven't been is a blessing for both you and the child, and there is no way you can know whether you can or cannot based on your experiences.
Havin... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is chatting with a co-worker and has pet name for him. Am I right to be concerned?
Q. Recently discovered my long time girlfriend has been heavily chatting with a distant (2 hrs away) coworker. She's been very secretive about the whole connection but somehow her texts got onto my iPad. In one exchange this guy (who is married) asked ...
A. 8 January 2013: BIG RED FLAG HERE!
TIme to walk away my friend and leave her. Don't even bring it up with her. Just walk away.
So_Very_Confused: "have you asked her about it at all?"
I'd expect this from a woman. What is there to ask? It is blatantly obv... (read in full...)
Do white girls expect boys to propose first?
Q. I want to know whether my Co-worker loves me.I am a south Asian.she is a white girl.Do white girls expect boys to propose first?Or am I mistaking her friendship towards me.But I heard once she was singing my name with hers.I never had a girl ...
A. 8 January 2013: "But I know I will be happy if I get married to her.I feel kind of emptiness whenever I don't see her"
How do you know this? You don't really know here romantically at all? She might not feel the same about you.
Do not rush. You can ask her ... (read in full...)
Why does my gf act like an impossible and hysterical child during arguments?
Q. I can't seem to understand my girlfriends actions sometimes. We are from different countries, though I work and live in her country. We have been together for eight months, though she sort of left her previous boyfriend for me, who had cheated ...
A. 8 January 2013: Just one thing... I've had experience with this (a girl i was with for a year) and wonder if what you are experiencing could be a mild form of borderline personality disorder.
I'm not saying this is it and I'm not one to throw around psychiat... (read in full...)
I'm almost 21 never had a boyfriend and feel like such a loser
Q. Hello I would like to ask for help to determine why I'm so lonely. Okay to start I'm about to be 21 and I've never had a boyfriend I feel like such a loser! I don't know if it's because I'm depressed or what? I have a low self esteem and I also only ...
A. 8 January 2013: hellokittfan12, I'm not surprised you feel low after some guy pretended to go to the toilet and never came back. I've had awful experiences when I was a lot younger (and skinny).
Men have to pass the physical attraction test with women. Women ha... (read in full...)
Update on I was expecting to hear from him but haven't heard a word for 2 days
Q. So for all who were following my story of the guy who I was expecting to come to my house but never showed up... (original story below for anyone else) Well it appears he's just fine. I didn't contact his parents or anyone, but I noticed he cha...
A. 8 January 2013: Who knows? He might just be busy? Or he might have other dates? Does seem weird but there could be a million reasons. Just get out there on more dates.
If he shows up he shows up.... (read in full...)
What do I do with an ex who is just plain nasty?
Q. What do I do with an x that is just plain nasty. We are divorced and just recently - within the year have started talking because of the children. The kids are now 26 24 and 19. Most times he is civil but tonight he just flipped out agai...
A. 8 January 2013: Don't say sorry if you haven't done anything wrong.
He sounds like a nag! I've not come across a man nag before. I would say just walk away when he starts nagging and take the kids away from it too.
However, I don't know about a 7 hour car jou... (read in full...)
What am I doing wrong? How do I go about finding a new bf this year?
Q. So lonely, Why can't I seem to find anyone to be with? It has been 3 years since my BF and I broke up. ( he cheated on me). I have tried to get over it but am still in counseling. I am outgoing with a great personality so my friends both mal...
A. 8 January 2013: Get rid of all the FWBs (get some self-respect) and get out there on dating sites, clubs, seminars, dancing, shows, craft fairs, wine tasting, etc.
Any events are good for meeting people. Then you can talk to them about the show, seminar or whate... (read in full...)
Why does my gf act like an impossible and hysterical child during arguments?
Q. I can't seem to understand my girlfriends actions sometimes. We are from different countries, though I work and live in her country. We have been together for eight months, though she sort of left her previous boyfriend for me, who had cheated ...
A. 8 January 2013: Because she's nuts.
She got cheated on by her boyfriend. She left him with you already lined up. Not a great foundation for a relationship. Now, you bear the brunt for her previous boyfriend cheating on her.
Just walk away.
I don't underst... (read in full...)
How long did it take you to know you were in love (the first time)? And how long after that did you tell your significant other?
Q. Here's just a general question for all of you out there: How long did it take you to know you were in love (the first time)? And for good measure, how long after that did you tell your significant other? I'm only curious because my boyfriend of ...
A. 8 January 2013: "I'm only curious because my boyfriend of exactly two weeks (officially) just dropped the love bomb on me last night."
Wow! After 2 weeks? That's a bit strong. Mind you, you're both young. Have you told him you love him too?
"And while I ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but I've been obsessing over this co-worker in my head. Is it because I miss "the chase"?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for the last six years. We pretty much became adults together; we started dating after high school, went through college at the same time, and started our careers at the same time. We've shared everything together, ...
A. 8 January 2013: I think it's more likely you are losing interest in your boyfriend.
What do you mean when you say "on the other hand, my coworker doesn't know I have a boyfriend"?
"The thing is...I feel like I've been obsessing over this coworker in my h... (read in full...)
I had an abusive ex but my current boyfriend is lovely. Why then, do I feel so overwhelmed when he says something nice or has an emotional moment with me?
Q. I was single for a year, my last relationship my ex was emotionally abusive to me, i was a scared of him, i was not allowed to have friends or go out.we worked at the same place and he would pick my shifts so they were with his. He would put me down ...
A. 8 January 2013: I don't really know. I'm not a woman.
You have gone from one extreme to another.
You've gone from some macho-idiot who abused you and told you what to do and controlled you to someone who wants to do everything they can to make you happy, put y... (read in full...)
Dream trip with my boyfriend ended badly. He wants to move back to his hometown and I can never see myself living there!
Q. Dear all, Hoping for some advice. I've been with my partner for two years. We met in London, my home town, and live there together. I'm 35 and he's 33. This Christmas, we planned what was supposed to be a 'holiday of a lifetime' to Mexico City...
A. 8 January 2013: Well from the way you describe it I don't think I'd want to live there but hey that's just me.
If you really don't want to live there then don't. You do have a choice. However, if he won't budge then you will have no choice but to leave him.
... (read in full...)
He is being manipulated by another woman. How should I get him back?
Q. This is my story: I met a really great guy two years ago. We eloped too fast and talked about marriage too fast. The first problem started when I found out he had unfinished business with his ex girlfriend and was still communicating wi...
A. 8 January 2013: Just leave him.
If he was into you, there'd be no EX on the scene and he'd be with you. The EX hasn't manipulated or forced him away. He has chosen to go that way.
Find someone who wants to be with you and you want to be with.... (read in full...)
I slept with my friends boyfriend 2 days before their baby is due. Do I tell her?
Q. So I've had this friend for 3 years. Me and her met because I hooked up with her boyfriend unknowingly. He split with her before I found out, but still cheated on her with me. Then cheated on me with her. So me and her became friends, long story sh...
A. 8 January 2013: Nice! WHat a great friend you are. Your best friend is about to drop and you have sex with her boyfriend.
What a nice boyfriend she has too.
I feel sorry for her and the poor little kid.
Shame on you both!... (read in full...)
She suggested we take things slowly after the first date. What do I do now?
Q. Hi all... I just took a girl on a date recently. We had exchanged numbers and we had previously gotten to know more about each other before via text message, so we had common ground and things to talk about. I don’t claim to be the best looking...
A. 8 January 2013: "I politely declined and suggested we go back to hers…she thought about it but decided against as she still lives with her ex."
Is he her EX? Or is she looking for a way out? Have you ever called her at home? If he's her EX then how come they are... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and his best female friend are too close for my comfort. What can I do?
Q. My Boyfriend and his best friend are really close, too close for my own comfort zone, she texts him saying she loves him and he does the same, at all hours of the night at that. They are both really touchy with one another and it drives me crazy an...
A. 8 January 2013: Have to agree with others here; he has NO respect for you. No man, if he loved his girlfriend, would do this.
Tell him his behaviour is unacceptable.
If he continues, don't say anything. Don't argue. Just WALK AWAY and don't contact him. Don... (read in full...)
Girlfriend cheated on me but I want her back! How can I persuade her I won't hold this against her?
Q. I have been in a relationship for last four years with my girl. We did everything except sexual intercourse. Recently, when she was drunk, some random guy took her from bar and it seems he had sexual intercourse with her. Now she feels that she is ...
A. 8 January 2013: I'm not being funny here but she had sex with another guy because she wanted to. She didn't think about you or your feelings at all.
"Now she feels that she is not worth for my love."
Is that what she told you? WHen she said that what she me... (read in full...)
I'm back with my ex but I'm not sure its a good thing
Q. Has too much happened to try again? I've been in realationship with now ex bf for 5 months. He really swept me off my feet, we have fun and are into the same things. The relationship has been full on virtually from the beginning. I'm a lone paren...
A. 8 January 2013: Forget it. Once it is over it is over. Why would you want to be someone who was emotionally abusive? He put it down to work stress? So every time things aren't going his way he's going to take it out on you?
Sounds great.
You really want that... (read in full...)
Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?
Q. As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...
A. 3 January 2013: She is being nice when she says that. Chill out and relax. She likes you. You've got a good woman there who doesn't want you to feel inadequate. She's satisfied so why can't you be?
Get over it,
This isn't a problem.... (read in full...)
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