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How can I get over my ex-girlfriend?

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6 May 2009: Ok, we’ve all been there. A relationship we invested so much time in has come to an end one way or another and now you’ve got far too much time on your hands. No doubt, if you’ve been investing all your time into your relationship somewhere along ...

I want my EX back... Do I get back with my EX?

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18 January 2008: I've been through it myself. That stage following the breakup where I can't help but want my EX back. Whether you dumped them, or they dumped you I think everyone goes through these feelings. Here are some reasons to (or not) get back together that ...

How to get over your EX.

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9 January 2008: BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...

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He cheated and I continuously gave him grief. How do I let him know that I am sorry?

Q.   Hi guys Little advice please. 7 months ago i found out my parnter had been cheating on me at the beginning of the year. i knew he was up to no good and my suspicions were confirmed when she contacted me months down the line telling me she h...

A.   14 January 2013: You don't. What you do is leave him. He is untrustworthy and has no integrity. There's no future in this so-called "relationship". The longer you two are together the worse and more painful it'll get for you. Just leave and find someone who want... (read in full...)

Am I in the wrong for wanting to end things and move on?

Q.   Ive been in a monogamous relationship with a woman and we have recently decided to become more serious. As I get to know this person more I find out things that bother me. I'm sure there are things that bother her about me but what relationship ...

A.   14 January 2013: Just end it and find someone else. You can't change her. Far better to leave and find someone more suitable who doesn't show so many red flags. You don't want to waste your time. Just think, you could be out there and meeting Miss Right but inst... (read in full...)

My ex loves me more than his girlfriend. I don't know what to say the feelings are not returned

Q.   So basically I went out with this guy two years ago - we'd been friends for a year or so before that. I have to admit that I wasn't CRAZY about him and I'd just got out of a really long relationship so it was half for rebound but needless to say we ...

A.   14 January 2013: Just tell him you're not interested and it's over between you two. Easy. Then cut all contact. If he phones you and you answer (because you didn't know it was him) just tell him you're busy and hang up.... (read in full...)

I'm looking for miss right but keep running into miss wrong!

Q.   Dear Cupids, I know people have standards but I feel like I rule out woman by my dating pickyness. I am looking for someone who is around my stature(5'11). Someone a little shorter than me and skinny to big boned. I have graduated college(...

A.   14 January 2013: Just keep looking. It's a numbers game. If you come across a Miss Wrong then don't waste your time and end it until you meet the right one. You only need one good one buddy.... (read in full...)

She knows that I love her but says that "she doesn't see me that way" How can I change her feelings?

Q.   I have known this girl for almost 5 years,we became classmates but got to know her well from past 3 years. Back then i had a crush on one of my thai friend, so my classmates use to make fun of me. And this Indian girl i use to consider her as a ...

A.   14 January 2013: You can't change her feelings. You're OUT. FInd someone else who does think of you that way.... (read in full...)

I'd like to be exclusive, not FWB. Should I just stop sleeping with him?

Q.   This guy and I have many mutual friends. For months we kept running into each other at parties and finally about 7 months later I kissed him out of nowhere. He explained to me how he had been trying to find out more about me for months and try to ...

A.   14 January 2013: COngratulations... (read in full...)

He's very good to me yet doesn't do the little things that I ask. I'm worried he's cheating

Q.   hi to love or not to love is my question!! i'm very happy with him, when i'm with him. when i don't see his face, when i don't hear his voice, when i don't have any picture of him in-front of me, i just think that i am in a big trouble . -he is...

A.   14 January 2013: The guy is with you and shows you through his actions he loves you and wants to be with you. The fact he told his exes is a good sign. It won't affect your relationship at all unless you let your jealousy go out of control. Stop giving him hass... (read in full...)

Anyone been in a relationship with a Bf in Turkey? I'd like to help him get a Visa to visit me here. How could I help?

Q.   So me and my turkish boyfriend have been going out for just over 5 months now. I met him back in august when i was there on holiday and spent a month with him, I then went back in December to see him again for just over a week and I met his pare...

A.   13 January 2013: You must need your head examined. This Turkish guy is using you to get out of Turkey and into the UK. He cannot be sincere (as someone here even remotely suggests) after 1 month. Are your parents aware of this problem? Why didn't/don't you ask ... (read in full...)

Met a great guy but he's 20 years older and a "happy single". What should I do?

Q.   Hi. I met this man online. I knew he was older than me (51yrs old, I'm 31) but and we became friends, we met up yesterday the first time and we went for a meal and I had a great time, and something else happened I realised I liked him more than ...

A.   13 January 2013: You don't KNOW he's a happy single do you? Or has he actually TOLD you that? I say that all the time but if the right girl turned up I'd be there like a shot. Personally, I think he likes you. His actions show this. You went out to dinner and 2 ho... (read in full...)

How should I greet her? First date with a girl I met online.

Q.   I have been speaking to this girl on a dating site now for a week and we are going on a date tomorrow. Any tips? When I greet her is it just a casual hello,? Any advise or tips will be muchly appreciated !...

A.   13 January 2013: If she looks nice tell her "you look very nice, my name is .... by the way". If she doesn't look nice just tell her "nice to meet you, my name is .... by the way". Don't forget the names! I blew my first date because I never asked her name. I ... (read in full...)

Why do I get so angry with my boyfriend and say things I don't mean?

Q.   Why do I get so mad at my boyfriend for no reason and say such hurtful things to him that I dont mean? I love him with all my heart I dont want to push him away from me. I can't seem to control my mouth when I get mad. He's really getting f...

A.   13 January 2013: Learn to control yourself. Go to counselling or he'll leave you.... (read in full...)

One of my husband's employees kissed me at a party at a party. Could I be sending the wrong signals to this man?

Q.   My husband and I run a small tour company...we have 10 employees. One of our employees lives pretty far away so when he has to work weekends he sometimes stays at our house. Last night we had a party and he agreed to help out with the cleanin...

A.   13 January 2013: Tell your husband first and tell him you told the man you're not interested at all and you love him. Then, tell the man who kissed you that it was a bit of a shock, you're not interested and you love your husband. ... (read in full...)

I'd like to be exclusive, not FWB. Should I just stop sleeping with him?

Q.   This guy and I have many mutual friends. For months we kept running into each other at parties and finally about 7 months later I kissed him out of nowhere. He explained to me how he had been trying to find out more about me for months and try to ...

A.   13 January 2013: Duh! Obviously he likes you. He took on dates. Maybe you should say to him next time he calls for his booty call, "oh I can't I'm busy tonight but you can take me out on .......". Be flirty and cheeky.... (read in full...)

Do I still have a chance at getting this girl?

Q.   There is this girl I've had my eye on at school lately. I don't know her on a personal level at all because we've never spoken to each other. However I have another female friend that does know her. I had my friend ask the girl what she thought ...

A.   13 January 2013: janniepeg: "Just like a salesperson you have to be more proactive and assume the sale first. If she doesn't like you then you can focus on the next one." EXACTLY RIGHT! Thinking about it, you might have a chance. Some people look better in r... (read in full...)

I know she thinks I'm boring. Should I keep trying or just move on?

Q.   A while back (about a month or so now) I met a girl who seemed pretty interseted in me. We would text back and forth basically every day. Only issues was that it would get more and more boring each day. I asked her if she wanted to do something the ...

A.   13 January 2013: Ouch! 19th one! Well the good thing is you're not put off by it. The bad thing is you've made the same mistakes 19 times! Best to start relationships by face-to-face dating than by text/email/long phone calls. That's for wimps and girls DO NOT w... (read in full...)

Should I give serious thought to reconciling with my ex, or is it finally time to move on?

Q.   My ex-boyfriend and I started talking again. For some reason, it seems to be a reoccurring thing where we’ll go for awhile without talking and then, he’ll re-enter my life. Under the circumstances, however, we’ve agreed to be friends. And that’s all ...

A.   13 January 2013: Hmmm... I have to disagree with the others here. What's done is done. It's history. Move on and find someone else. Yes, I know, this sounds like one of those romantic Hollywood films. The problem is, Hollywood films are pure fantasy and have NOT... (read in full...)

Since I am a virgin, is this normal that I cannot face ever having sex for the first time with a woman unless she is a virgin too?

Q.   I feel like it's not right to date a woman who already has dated and had sex with another person. I can't imagine having sex with her if someone has already had intercourse with her. I'm thinking and hate imagining that i'll be somehow touching...

A.   13 January 2013: Hey not at all. I wasn't bothered personally. My first girlfriend wasn't a virgin but I was. Didn't bother me. If it did then I wouldn't be with her. If it bothers you that much then just wait until you find a girl you like that is a virgin a... (read in full...)

Was this 'picking someone up at a bar', or not?

Q.   So I just want to know if this is considered picking up a guy from a bar? There is a guy I have met but don't know too well. He is a friend of a friend. I have met him before, sat on the same table and had dinner. On my friend's birthday I hook...

A.   13 January 2013: Nope. Not if you have history. Even small history like being a friend of a friend, siting at the same table for dinner once. The difference is he is not a complete stranger. You might not know each other well but the fact he is a friend of a fri... (read in full...)

Do I say something about my friend's thieving girlfriend? Or say nothing? Or tell one of his family?

Q.   I have a bit of a moral dilemma. I found out that a friend of mine is dating a girl who was arrested and fired from her job for retail theft in the store she worked in back in September. I have never trusted this girl because something just wasn...

A.   13 January 2013: I'd say nothing as you may risk your friendship. These things come out in the end anyhow. Just be a friend.... (read in full...)

Do I still have a chance at getting this girl?

Q.   There is this girl I've had my eye on at school lately. I don't know her on a personal level at all because we've never spoken to each other. However I have another female friend that does know her. I had my friend ask the girl what she thought ...

A.   13 January 2013: Nope. Every man and woman has to pass the physical attraction test first and foremost. What I want to know is why did you send your girl friend in for you? That's a bit wimpy. You should've walked up to her and struck up a conversation wit... (read in full...)

Why did he suddenly end the relationship when we were so happy? What should I do?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 5 months. We live 20 minutes apart and every night when I get off work I spend the night with him. We practically live together. We hardly fight, we have a great sexual relationship and he is very ...

A.   13 January 2013: I think it all happened too fast. You spent every night together? You practically lived together? I have a feeling it's become too predictable and boring but I cannot say for sure? Back off a bit and if he's interested he'll get in touch. It's a w... (read in full...)

Husband ignores me for days whenever we row. It's making me an emotional wreck. What can I do?

Q.   Every time my husband and I row, he ignores me for days. It drives me crazy, I even say I'm sorry to mend things but he treats me as if I do not exist. He will come into a room and look at me to wait for me to respond then once I look at him back...

A.   13 January 2013: What do you row about?... (read in full...)

I had an instant attraction to her. Is it too pessimistic or too soon to start thinking that I have no chance with her?

Q.   I met this girl a few months ago at a retreat. I was instantly attracted to her. We didnt talk too much because of the activities, but we did talk a few times and notice each other. I always noticed her looking at me and vice versa. After the...

A.   13 January 2013: "Just friends" is the woman's (nice) way of saying "you've got no chance with me buddy!" If it were Brad PItt I bet she wouldn't be saying she "didn't feel comfortable going on dates, or being alone with a guy". "She said she doesn't expect i... (read in full...)

Why does he only phone me from work? Why doesn't he answer when I call him? Could he be playing me?

Q.   Okay PLEASE HELP. So I am 19. Keep in mind I have always had a very old soul and countless people have told me this. I am not your average teenager I should probably be older I act like it... Anyways. I have always liked older guys. Recently, ...

A.   13 January 2013: He's attached. Whether he's married, in a relationship or got kids I have no idea and couldn't really say. However, you already know something's up here which is why you're asking us. This is a BIG RED FLAG. Cut all contact and find someone ... (read in full...)

What should I be telling my Gf? I want her to agree to sex with me

Q.   Hi guys! My girl friend and i have been together for almost two years now but i never slept with her although she shows certain signs of wanting that but she just can't tell me in words, and i too feel the same. Help guys, what should i tell her ...

A.   13 January 2013: Hahaha! YOu are kidding right? There is NOTHING you can say to a woman to get her to agree to sleep with you. NOTHING. She will let you know when she's ready. The best thing you can do is hold back and let her initiate touching, kissing, sex. ... (read in full...)

He abused me for years. Then he found a new Gf. Now he is ill he wants me back. What do I say? I said "no" but he's not listening.

Q.   I was in love with this guy in my early teens and he was 16 at the time. We were together for many years had two kids and then he winds up being over protective very mentally, verbally,physically abusive toward me. The abuse started after I had ...

A.   13 January 2013: How about this... Next time he calls just say "Sorry I'm busy, I'm not interested, I don't want to see you again... Ever". That should be clear enough. Then, here's what you do. You ignore him completely. That means when he calls you do not... (read in full...)

My husband is harsh and emotionally abusive to me. What can I do about the fact he makes me feel worthless?

Q.   Dear friends. I am disintegrating and breaking into pieces emotionally. My husband is constantly making me feel small, even in front of other people. I can’t do anything without him criticizing it harshly. He will say it so harshly I feel like cr...

A.   13 January 2013: In short, you can LEAVE him. He's an up tight, jealous, possessive, control freak. How long can you really put up with this?... (read in full...)

If he cares then how is it he can cheat on me and on her as well?

Q.   Hello people I love this forum and I have this story with a someone and I can't understand anything at all I’m a girl and once I found a man we had sex and enjoyed each-other it was amazing. He was cool and awesome I had his phone we texted a lot...

A.   13 January 2013: If someone has a track record of cheating then what makes you think they won't cheat on the next person? You can't trust someone who cheats so how can you expect to have a relationship with someone who cannot be trusted? Without trust... (read in full...)

Troubled relationship: What's the best way to handle my guy and this immature guy?

Q.   PLEASE HELP!!!! It will be four years this year that I'm with my current bf...in distance relationship. We've been madly in love since we met last fall I was supposed to move to his country and continue university there but since we didn’t mana...

A.   13 January 2013: Question; If you can't trust him then what are you doing wasting your time? A relationship cannot exist without trust. Walk away and find someone else.... (read in full...)

He's denied he's doing it, but I smelt it. I love him. But I hate him using weed. Should I talk to him?

Q.   I have been dating my boyfriend for six months, and I am very happy with him, but the fact that he smokes weed is always lingering in the back of my mind. When we first started dating, he quit in order to impress me, according to his friends,...

A.   13 January 2013: Well if it's a BIG deal to you then the solution is get rid. Simple. If I were seeing a girl and then found out she drank excessively regularly I'd ask myself "could I marry this woman and live with her for the next 20/30/40 years?" The answer w... (read in full...)

They stop caring after a short time. I think that I DESERVE romance! Is it too much to ask?

Q.   I'll start by saying this: I've never been overly obsessed with romance, like I've never chased it, if it happens then it happens. I'm 19 and I've never had anything romantic, I've never even been on a proper date, the guys I go for get comforta...

A.   13 January 2013: If you are unhappy and I have to say it does sound like it then the question is... Why are you with him? You're not going to get anywhere with this one I'm afraid. How can I tell? you "want a guy to show he cares, be affectionate and... (read in full...)

Are my expectations too high? What do I need to bring a great connection or real passion into our relationship?

Q.   Recently I have been thinking that there might be a better guy out there for me than my current boyfriend but I don't know if my expectations are too high? We get on well most of the time and I do feel that I love him, but I don't feel like the...

A.   13 January 2013: Hollywood films are not the right thing to draw comparisons against when it comes to relationships. They're full of rubbish. No wonder most guys don't know anything about women. At the end of the day there is only way to sort this out; are you ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend is chatting with a co-worker and has pet name for him. Am I right to be concerned?

Q.   Recently discovered my long time girlfriend has been heavily chatting with a distant (2 hrs away) coworker. She's been very secretive about the whole connection but somehow her texts got onto my iPad. In one exchange this guy (who is married) asked ...

A.   13 January 2013: You've done the right thing in leaving her. She can't be trusted and you cannot marry someone (or even be in a relationship with someone) if you cannot trust them. Good on you for having the guts to leave first. Now go find a good woman with ... (read in full...)

How long did it take you to know you were in love (the first time)? And how long after that did you tell your significant other?

Q.   Here's just a general question for all of you out there: How long did it take you to know you were in love (the first time)? And for good measure, how long after that did you tell your significant other? I'm only curious because my boyfriend of ...

A.   13 January 2013: Ok, I see what you're saying. Two weeks is too early to tell. If you're feeling haven't risen in 2 months of dating then it's not going to happen with this one. I know you go slow. All women fall in love slower than men. Men can fall in love in ... (read in full...)

I fell for her, and only talked to her to try and get her number. Then I find out she has a boyfriend, so should I try and be friends with her?

Q.   We don't know each other well or at all. We have had small talks but that's just it. I fell for her looks. I have asked if I could contact her but she said she has a boyfriend. We won't be seeing each other anymore and I don't know if I should try ...

A.   13 January 2013: I want you to remember though; well done for asking for her number. That is what you should do. It doesn't matter if she gives it to you or not. The point is you asking for her number. Some will give it to you and some won't. Regardless of the r... (read in full...)

I didn't give her the attention she wanted but now I'm not sure I can forget her

Q.   I am a south Asian man.Our family values are bit different.for example our family or few family members might be financially depended on us.Usually Indian men does not like his wife or GF get closer to other men.I like a white girl.But it was too ...

A.   13 January 2013: "You've seen it in the films and heard it in songs - tell her" You mean the films and songs that would have you on one knee begging for her to see you? I'm afraid this is Hollywood garbage and it's no wonder with stuff like this out there in the m... (read in full...)

I can't get these images of his getting lap dances (before we were married) out of my mind!

Q.   I am upset abt the fact that my husband (then boyfriend) got fully nude lap dances at gentlemans clubs/strip bars at least 6-8 times before we were married. Although we were living in different places at the time n it was an on off thing, but we ...

A.   13 January 2013: Hope everything works out for you.... (read in full...)

I'm almost 21 never had a boyfriend and feel like such a loser

Q.   Hello I would like to ask for help to determine why I'm so lonely. Okay to start I'm about to be 21 and I've never had a boyfriend I feel like such a loser! I don't know if it's because I'm depressed or what? I have a low self esteem and I also only ...

A.   13 January 2013: DorothyDix: "Believe me, whatever weight we are, matters ZERO... True beauty comes from within" Weight does matter. By saying this you are not helping. Yes, true beauty lies within. However, both men and women must pass the physical attracti... (read in full...)

Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?

Q.   As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...

A.   13 January 2013: "I am pretty sure that all women want a strong self esteem man." I'll go further than that. I am ABSOLUTELY sure that all women want a man with self-esteem and confidence. We know we're not perfect and all have our faults. However, you ... (read in full...)

He's very good to me yet doesn't do the little things that I ask. I'm worried he's cheating

Q.   hi to love or not to love is my question!! i'm very happy with him, when i'm with him. when i don't see his face, when i don't hear his voice, when i don't have any picture of him in-front of me, i just think that i am in a big trouble . -he is...

A.   13 January 2013: Well I didn't know about him keeping friendships with his exes. That is not a good sign and that is a BIG thing. Just ask him to stop seeing them out of respect for you. You didn't mention this in your original post. Other than that this guy does... (read in full...)

I am sick of my B/f sneaking around behind my back to jerk off! Is it normal for men to be like that?

Q.   Okay so anybody's advice would be excellent, especially a womans. I'm 18 and have been with my 22 year old boyfriend for 1 and a half years, our sex life is average, and I'm always keen even if I don't finish. He's jerked off to internet porn during ...

A.   9 January 2013: “A few months later I decided to check his emails and he signed up to a websiteto find single sluts to have sex with in our area!” Goodbye. This guys is not trustworthy. Time to move on. Simple.... (read in full...)

I fell for her, and only talked to her to try and get her number. Then I find out she has a boyfriend, so should I try and be friends with her?

Q.   We don't know each other well or at all. We have had small talks but that's just it. I fell for her looks. I have asked if I could contact her but she said she has a boyfriend. We won't be seeing each other anymore and I don't know if I should try ...

A.   9 January 2013: Sorry, I thought you wanted a girlfriend not a friend. Yes, cut it short. Just be polite then say you got to go, you've got something to do, someone to meet. Don't always be there. She might be giving her boyfriend the old heave ho so you ... (read in full...)

He's very good to me yet doesn't do the little things that I ask. I'm worried he's cheating

Q.   hi to love or not to love is my question!! i'm very happy with him, when i'm with him. when i don't see his face, when i don't hear his voice, when i don't have any picture of him in-front of me, i just think that i am in a big trouble . -he is...

A.   9 January 2013: So he doesn't do the little things but he does the BIG important things? What more do you want? You want him to do everything? Tell me, what do you do for him? If I was this guy, I'd walk away. Plenty of women out there would like a guy like thi... (read in full...)

How long did it take you to know you were in love (the first time)? And how long after that did you tell your significant other?

Q.   Here's just a general question for all of you out there: How long did it take you to know you were in love (the first time)? And for good measure, how long after that did you tell your significant other? I'm only curious because my boyfriend of ...

A.   9 January 2013: "I do see myself falling in love with him one day." I don't. Bold statement I know. My view on it is he thinks if he tells you he loves you'll like hime (or maybe even love him) more. That's not the case. If men keep saying these things the... (read in full...)

Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?

Q.   As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...

A.   8 January 2013: It's time you got over this. She is happy. Why can't you just let it go? Does it really matter in the grand scheme of things? Are you happy with her and is she a good woman? I'm not going to bother reading anymore of your followups. Th... (read in full...)

Girlfriend is chatting with a co-worker and has pet name for him. Am I right to be concerned?

Q.   Recently discovered my long time girlfriend has been heavily chatting with a distant (2 hrs away) coworker. She's been very secretive about the whole connection but somehow her texts got onto my iPad. In one exchange this guy (who is married) asked ...

A.   8 January 2013: BIG RED FLAG HERE! TIme to walk away my friend and leave her. Don't even bring it up with her. Just walk away. So_Very_Confused: "have you asked her about it at all?" I'd expect this from a woman. What is there to ask? It is blatantly obv... (read in full...)

I'm almost 21 never had a boyfriend and feel like such a loser

Q.   Hello I would like to ask for help to determine why I'm so lonely. Okay to start I'm about to be 21 and I've never had a boyfriend I feel like such a loser! I don't know if it's because I'm depressed or what? I have a low self esteem and I also only ...

A.   8 January 2013: hellokittfan12, I'm not surprised you feel low after some guy pretended to go to the toilet and never came back. I've had awful experiences when I was a lot younger (and skinny). Men have to pass the physical attraction test with women. Women ha... (read in full...)

How long did it take you to know you were in love (the first time)? And how long after that did you tell your significant other?

Q.   Here's just a general question for all of you out there: How long did it take you to know you were in love (the first time)? And for good measure, how long after that did you tell your significant other? I'm only curious because my boyfriend of ...

A.   8 January 2013: "I'm only curious because my boyfriend of exactly two weeks (officially) just dropped the love bomb on me last night." Wow! After 2 weeks? That's a bit strong. Mind you, you're both young. Have you told him you love him too? "And while I ... (read in full...)

I didn't give her the attention she wanted but now I'm not sure I can forget her

Q.   I am a south Asian man.Our family values are bit different.for example our family or few family members might be financially depended on us.Usually Indian men does not like his wife or GF get closer to other men.I like a white girl.But it was too ...

A.   8 January 2013: You blew it. You are out of there I'm afraid. There is nothing you can do now. She will always remember you're rejection and will never go back. It might not even be the fact you rejected her but the fact you could not make a decision. That's a... (read in full...)

I can't get these images of his getting lap dances (before we were married) out of my mind!

Q.   I am upset abt the fact that my husband (then boyfriend) got fully nude lap dances at gentlemans clubs/strip bars at least 6-8 times before we were married. Although we were living in different places at the time n it was an on off thing, but we ...

A.   3 January 2013: "People may argue that it's a lapdance, its meaningless and abit of fun, just because he paid for it doesn't take away the fact that he rubbed up another womans breasts and let her grind his crotch, it wouldn't be acceptable to do this to a woman ... (read in full...)

Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?

Q.   As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...

A.   3 January 2013: She is being nice when she says that. Chill out and relax. She likes you. You've got a good woman there who doesn't want you to feel inadequate. She's satisfied so why can't you be? Get over it, This isn't a problem.... (read in full...)

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