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6 May 2009: Ok, we’ve all been there. A relationship we invested so much time in has come to an end one way or another and now you’ve got far too much time on your hands. No doubt, if you’ve been investing all your time into your relationship somewhere along ...
I want my EX back... Do I get back with my EX?
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18 January 2008: I've been through it myself. That stage following the breakup where I can't help but want my EX back. Whether you dumped them, or they dumped you I think everyone goes through these feelings. Here are some reasons to (or not) get back together that ...
How to get over your EX.
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9 January 2008: BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
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How to get over your EX.
Q. BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
A. 28 January 2010: Hi lost-girl and Parimickey,
I'm so glad you found my article useful. It is very difficult at this time of year (Christmas and New Year) and people (myself included) always seem to think the end of a relationship is the end of the World as they ... (read in full...)
How to get over your EX.
Q. BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
A. 3 November 2008: Thanks for your comments Greg. Again I'm glad almost a year on this article is still being read and helps people. I only wish I started my own website and put it on there :)
In your situation it must be hard just being friends and the fact you... (read in full...)
How to get over your EX.
Q. BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
A. 6 October 2008: I'm glad people still find my article useful... You know it's amazing how much your life can change. A year on from all that and I'm so much happier and thinking about the future... I've set up a business which is going well, I'm hoping to move into ... (read in full...)
How to get over your EX.
Q. BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
A. 12 June 2008: Hi anonymous, messy-bess and carrie-anne,
I'm glad you like dmy article. TO be honest I haven't been on here much recently since I've had far too much going on in my life.
Started a new job and working hard. When I look back at my previous post... (read in full...)
How to get over your EX.
Q. BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
A. 12 June 2008: Hi anonymous, messy-bess and carrie-anne,
I'm glad you like dmy article. TO be honest I haven't been on here much recently since I've had far too much going on in my life.
Started a new job and working hard. When I look back at my previous post... (read in full...)
Should I let my ex know that I am still waiting for him?
Q. My ex-bf and me have been together for 5 years and during these 5 years, he has been a very loving bf. He loves me alot and we really wanted to be together forever. However, during the 5th year of our relationship, he found out that I was cheating ...
A. 13 March 2008: "What baffles me is if u luv him this much then why cheat on him"
This is true.
However, we are all human and all make mistakes. Sometimes it takes making a mistake to realise things.
I'm not condoning cheating having never cheated mys... (read in full...)
I have just recently moved in with my partner who has started hitting me.
Q. I'm 21 years old and have a three month old son. I have just recently moved in with my partner who has started hitting me. He says it's my fault for pushing him too far which I do do that but I just can't take it anymore. The other night I had my ...
A. 12 March 2008: It's is ceratinly NOT YOUR FAULT. It's HIS fault. Get out and go stay with family/friends.
You're setting yourself for a WHOLE LIFETIME of ABUSE if you stay. Think of YOURSELF and YOUR CHILD.
ANY child growing up in that environment will... (read in full...)
How do you tell if the condom has split?
Q. Hi all, I've read a lot of horror stories about condoms splitting and stuff. Its the only contraception me and my gf use (she has a history of cancer in her family and doesn't wanna risk increasing her chances with the pill, patch etc) Anyway, j...
A. 10 March 2008: Would just like to add a disclaimer to my reply; I was only joking... Please don't try those ideas out :)... (read in full...)
How do you tell if the condom has split?
Q. Hi all, I've read a lot of horror stories about condoms splitting and stuff. Its the only contraception me and my gf use (she has a history of cancer in her family and doesn't wanna risk increasing her chances with the pill, patch etc) Anyway, j...
A. 10 March 2008: To be honest I've never experienced a condom splitting ever. Make sure you use good quality ones and not Tesco value ones :)
Ways to check:
1) I suppose you could blow it up like a balloon and see if it deflates. Bit messy though!
2) Yo... (read in full...)
We got on well but now he's calling me psyco! What's that about?
Q. i met some afew weeks ago and met up with them on friday i really like him before but i was with someone at the time we spoke on MSN and he said that he would c how it went if i wernt with my bf in the end in dumped my boyfriend and that was wen i ...
A. 5 March 2008: Sounds like you rushed it a bit ditching the bf, meeting up with this other guy you've been messaging, and then going for the kiss. Perhaps there are trust issues there already? Personally, I would be cautious in his shoes to be honest as you did ... (read in full...)
Am I making a mistake leaveing my abusive girlfriend??
Q. I’ve been dating my girlfriend for almost a year now, 6 months of that we have been living together. I met her when I arrived in Australia and quickly became good friends. After two months of dating I was offered a good job in a different state wh...
A. 3 March 2008: "She made a habit of calling people all the time and talking loud so I could here, she talked about what she had been up to, laughing and joking as if nothing had happened. I hated every second of it. Everything she said, did was all to hurt me and ... (read in full...)
Should I leave my boyfriend?
Q. I'd like some advice please. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, moved in together in September. Everything has been alright but these past few months, he has treated me like shit and to be honest, I don't deserve it but I'm too s...
A. 2 March 2008: I agreee with the majority here... Leave and find someone who'll appreciate you :)
You've already listed 7 very good reasons. Be strong and I say get out of this relationship!
Best of luck!... (read in full...)
More on the 'two sides to every story' story
Q. in response to replies posted about my previous posts entitled two sides to every story thankyou for your comments.Yes i have admitted i have a a problem emotionally and im glad i am seeking help for it as for my ex partner i think she needs to do ...
A. 28 February 2008: "Once again thankyou for responding to my first post it has made me open my eyes a bit"
Well I'm glad and good luck with everything!
"... believe me there really is two sides to every story"
We know this already :)
... (read in full...)
Have you ever...
Q. Have you ever loved someone so much, that you could never be with them, but couldn't be without them? It's one of the most heart-breaking feelings in the entire world... Right now, I'm feeling just like that. I'm in a 'kind of' relationship with an ...
A. 28 February 2008: Thing is it's never a case of one side fighting for the good and one side fighting for the bad. Both sides are fighting for what they believe is the good for their cause.
During the days of the Roman empire the Romans were thought of as the "bad... (read in full...)
What are some good ways to meet single women in my new town?
Q. Hi all, I am a somewhat new resident to New Iberia, Louisiana and I grew up in New Orleans. I am saying that to ask where can I find a good way to meet single women in the area? I'm not a big fan of dating sights because they dont show off my ...
A. 28 February 2008: Well, I don't know what things are like there in the US but here in the UK one of the best ways to meet single women is Salsa dancing... An informal evening where you go along, have a laugh, learn a bit of Salsa and dance with various partners and ... (read in full...)
Is this considered rape?
Q. I just had sex with my boyfriend and I know I love him a lot but I just wasn't ready. I told him no but he kept bugging me about it until I agreed. I wanted him to stop after we started but I didn't tell him that. Since I did tell him no to begin ...
A. 28 February 2008: I disagree. I think the fact that you said no to begin with but he persuaded you/pestered you until you gave in means you did eventually agree. Of course I'm assuming he didn't force you to agree.
During the act itself, you didn't tell him to s... (read in full...)
Should I tell my cousin that I saw his girlfriend cheating?
Q. oh my god i walked in on my best friend having sex with her boyfriends best friend! i dont know what to do. her boyfriend is my cousin and even though we're not that close hes still blood!should i snitch on my best friend and help my cousin or ...
A. 28 February 2008: "Will your cousin believe you? It will only be your words against hers... If they were to break up, you were the reason"
Well whether you deicde to tell or not is up to you. However, if they were to break up YOU WON'T BE THE REASON.
The rea... (read in full...)
There are two sides to every story...
Q. it appears i have been written about on this site by my previous partner.first of all the facts she has written are to an extent untrue.Yes i lived with her for 2 years without a job and no i did'nt sit my fat ass on the sofa all day long or on the ...
A. 28 February 2008: Of course there are ALWAYS 2 sides to every story. And advice given to people on here is only based on what we know through our own experiences and what the "poster" has told us.
At the end of the day the "poster" knows whats going on far better t... (read in full...)
Why does he need time to think before marriage? Has something changed recently, for him to hesitate?
Q. I am engaged currently and we had a date picked out already but now he is saying he needs time to think about getting married now. I can't be mad because he is being honest, but at the same time what do i do? I know that i love him and want to spend ...
A. 27 February 2008: Couldn't put it better myself. Basschick - your reply is legendary :)
Made me laugh a lot too!... (read in full...)
How to get over your EX.
Q. BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
A. 27 February 2008: Hi Angi,
It's hard I know but look at it this way... If he couldn't open up to you and prefers to run from his problems rather than work through them perhaps you're better off without him?
I had a smiliar situation where I was open to talk abo... (read in full...)
Every time I watch our favourite TV shows memories of her keep buzzing through my head. How can I overcome this??
Q. I could use some advice from anyone who has been in a fairly long-term relationship before. I came out of a long-term relationship just over 6 months ago and I've found it very hard to get over (I didn't want it to end). Since then I can't enjoy th...
A. 26 February 2008: I'm afraid it's just going to take time. I agree with eyeswideopen when she says "stop watching the shows for awhile. Try not to engage in any of the activities you did as a couple".
You need to take time out to heal after the break up. I remember... (read in full...)
I saw a flirty txt on his phone and now he won't let me see his phone bill...are guys just like that??
Q. hi, my fiance changed careers at the start of the year and has to train for 5 months. He doesnt come home at night until after 9 every night apart from Fri and Sat. When I approached the subject of setting a date for the wedding for a year and a ha...
A. 26 February 2008: "I need your advice. Why isn't he helping me out and letting me see his phone bill? or are guys just like that? He is making the situation worse"
Judging by what you say I'd probably think the worst given your situation.
At the end of the day i... (read in full...)
Should I call my ex boyfriend's current girlfriend and let her know that he has been playing both of us?
Q. Wondering if i should call my cheating ex boyfriend's current girl and let her know that he has been playing both of us. I am the only one that knows about it. She is only 22 and he is turning 34 this year. So she is young and I would be lying if I ...
A. 26 February 2008: In my honest opinion I think it's far better to maintain a dignified silence.
If he truly is narcissistic and as selfish as you say he is she will come to realise this for herself.
Far better to just forget about it and move on.
Besides, ... (read in full...)
How do you regain confidence after a few bad relationships?
Q. i think am paranoid for no reason. please help. the thing is no relationship has ever worked so well for me. i broke the heart of my first girl friend. not that i cheated on her but i got angry when i heard she had read a letter i wrote to her, ...
A. 25 February 2008: Take a look at my article. There are some great ideas there that might help:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-get-over-your-ex.html
Worked for my confidence and after a host of bad relationships I'm back :)
Good luck!... (read in full...)
My co-worker invites me out, could he like me?
Q. Dear Cupid, I met someone at work who i really like. He invites me sometimes for coffee and lunch. He also asked me out for dinner with a few friends. Not sure if i am reading too much into it or not.Do you think he likes me and should i tell hi...
A. 25 February 2008: "I met someone at work who i really like. He invites me sometimes for coffee and lunch. He also asked me out for dinner with a few friends. Not sure if i am reading too much into it or not.Do you think he likes me and should i tell him how i ... (read in full...)
How to get over your EX.
Q. BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
A. 25 February 2008: Hi diesel78,
Thanks for your comments :) In relation to your situation it sounds very tricky. I think there's a lot for you to really think about and more questions you need to ask yourself before you can really make up your mind as to what to ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend I went back to another guy's house after a night out?
Q. This is kind of the situation i am in. I have been with my boyfriend for 15 months and do love him loads. Never have broken up or had a break before. But recently i found myself going out and flirting more and kind of wishing i was single. Me and my ...
A. 25 February 2008: "I could never feel for anyone what i feel for him. We have a holiday booked in 2 weeks so i am hoping we can see this as a fresh start and i will put away what i did as a stupid mistake and will not ever do such a thing again!!"
Good for you! Lik... (read in full...)
Pornography and relationships
Q. As some people reading this will already know, I moderate and write regularly on this site. Porn is one those issues that is often cited as a problem and also causes a fair amount or moral controversy. On the one hand are the people whose ...
A. 25 February 2008: Interesting article but I agree with DoubleM in that it's far too complicated.
Watching porn is NOT cheating. It is pure fantasy. Of course I'm talking about normal porn and not weird stuff (although I'm not getting into a debate about what's n... (read in full...)
We were flirting and he was touching my leg...now we are going out...is this a date??
Q. I went on a business meeting and met a guy as part of business and just had a casual meeting over a few drinks. Through out the meeting, he was flirting, touching my leg, laughing etc, and then 4 days after the meeting he left a message on my ...
A. 25 February 2008: Have to say I disagree with Collaroy when she says "yes it is a date, but he should have suggested dinner for a real date - maybe you should suggest that".
Speaking as a bloke I would have to say dinner for a first date is a bit too much. You don'... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend I went back to another guy's house after a night out?
Q. This is kind of the situation i am in. I have been with my boyfriend for 15 months and do love him loads. Never have broken up or had a break before. But recently i found myself going out and flirting more and kind of wishing i was single. Me and my ...
A. 25 February 2008: I agree with Laura1318 when she says "throw away those thoughts about that crazy incident into the deepest ocean and never see it again".
If you really do want to get back with your boyfriend then I suggest you forget about this "inciden... (read in full...)
I feel like I have to compete for my bf with his friend...how should I handle this??
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for a few months now and what bothers me is that he has a long time friend (female) that lives with him because of her family issues. Whenever i go over to his house i feel like i'm the 3rd wheel and me and him can'...
A. 20 February 2008: Ok I can appreciate he has a close female friend but running and telling her everything you say is not a good thing at all.
I agree with LJOO1; you should be his number 1 priority over this female friend.
Having said that you don't want to ma... (read in full...)
Both of us have trust issues...what can we do??
Q. Ok, i have this boyfriend whom I dated for about 7 months. And we have this big problem with trust. He's always skeptical about everything a but so am i. I always feels like he's cheating evrywhere he goes, even when he goes to work and I'm at s...
A. 20 February 2008: So this happened pretty early on then. It seems to me there are issues here which are going to be quite tough to overcome.
I remember my first girlfriend told me about 2 weeks after we started seeing each other that she kissed another guy. She... (read in full...)
I haven't been much fun recently and last night my bf said I am not entertaining.
Q. I have been going through a hard time lately, so I know that I have not been the most fun person to be around. But, last night my boyfriend basically told me that I am not entertaining. I cried as it really hurt my feelings. I am not a boring ...
A. 20 February 2008: Hmmmm... I don't see why it should be up to you to "entertain" him especially seeing as you say "I have been going through a hard time lately, so I know that I have not been the most fun person to be around".
Everyone has rought times and it's tim... (read in full...)
Should I risk my marriage for the girl at work??
Q. I'm a married man but there I'm tempted to cheat on my wife with a gorgeous brunette in my office. Shes cute, funny and has a gorgeous bum. The only problem she has a serious boyfriend and I'm married. She flirts with me and I flirt back, we h...
A. 20 February 2008: Personally I think you should stay away.
She's got a "serious boyfriend" and you're MARRIED!
If you really love your wife then you wouldn't even consider it! Would you really put your marriage at risk for the sake of a fling? If so then shoul... (read in full...)
It's all wearing me out emotionally...
Q. My husband has a very fiery temper and when he gets angry he can be very rude and swear and shout and insult me, calling me 'thick' and a 'bitch' etc .. I have told him so many times that this hurts me and upsets me but the next time we argue it ...
A. 19 February 2008: Would just like to say WOW... Irish49 said it all right there... Nothing more to add.
You hang in there and if I were you I'd read and read and re-read Irish49's reply.
Best of luck and let us know how you get on. You take care!
:)... (read in full...)
Attempting anal for the first time... Should I use gloves?
Q. Heya how you doing. I think the site is wonderful and i'm sure you can help me with my problem, ok here it goes, I'm 22 year old dmale and i want to try out my fantasy of anal sex with my gf, didn't think she would agree to it but she did and we are ...
A. 18 February 2008: Haha... I shouldn't laugh but I can't help it reading TELLULAH's reply; "Is this serious?. It sounds like you are going to examine her up the bum" and AskEve's reply;
"Sorry for laughing, this is not a surgical procedure, it's another form of maki... (read in full...)
A question to all: Have you ever loved someone so much that you just couldn't let go of them despite many relationship problems between you both?
Q. Has anyone else had such a deep connection with someone and felt so much in love on a soulmate level that even though you feel so much is wrong with the relationship and you feel they treat you so badly - not talking any abuse but so many things ...
A. 18 February 2008: Yeah I've been there. In the end though you have to decide can you really carry on with it? I had to walk away from a relationship where I was madly in love. However, it took a while of things building up I got so sick of it I had to leave for my ... (read in full...)
Why do men stray into the arms of another??
Q. This question isn't actually about my relationship, but I do have a general curiosity about infidelity. It seems as though I am surrounded by hundreds of women, whose husbands/boyfriends have cheated. I'm not baiting anyone, I really have a geniune ...
A. 18 February 2008: "Why do men stray into the arms of another??"
In short, for the same reasons women do.
It could be they're marriage isn't working and they seek solace elsewhere?
Sometimes lust and the excitment of having an affair?
It could be j... (read in full...)
He got upset by all the guys on my friends list..how can I convince him I did nothing wrong??
Q. I've had facebook and Myspace for about 2 years now. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year. Just last night he looked at my facebook and got really upset because I had guys on my friends list. I don't even talk to 90% of the people I'm ...
A. 18 February 2008: Have to say I agree with Laura1318 on this one... Ok so they mean nothing to you so why add random guys to your friends if you don't even talk to 90% of them in the first place?
You haven't done anything wrong but then exactly how many guys are... (read in full...)
Is saying you still have feelings for the ex another way of saying that you just don't want to go out??
Q. dear cupid, this question is for the ladies When a girl goes out with you but then after a week dumps you saying that she "still has feeling for her ex" is that their way of saying that they just dont wanna go out with you or do they really stil...
A. 18 February 2008: "When a girl goes out with you but then after a week dumps you saying that she "still has feeling for her ex" is that their way of saying that they just dont wanna go out with you or do they really still like her ex?"
It might be true or it might... (read in full...)
I am dating several guys at once. I am being honest with them all and not having sexual relations with any. My friend says I am a slut. I'm not, am I?
Q. Hi I came out of a long term relationship around October last year and have recently been going for drinks with a lot of different guys. There's 3 of them. I don't want a relationship right now because I feel I was tied down for a year and I just ...
A. 14 February 2008: I agree with what everyone else says here and I don't agree with your friends when they say you're being a bit of a "slut" as they so nicely put it :)
Speaking as a single bloke who also got out of what I'd describe as a suffocating and intense ... (read in full...)
He said he wanted to try again, but I've just found out he's been seeing other girls. What must I do?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been on a break for a month i have just come back to find out that he has been seeing two girls while i was way but the hole time i was on holiday he was telling me that he wanted to make another go of things. I had to find ...
A. 13 February 2008: "How will i be able to move on? and how will i stop myself from falling back into this same mess i'm a very week person when it come to things like this i guess thats how i got myself into this mess!" If you really do want out you need to tell him... (read in full...)
My ex doesn't want to be friends, but I do.
Q. Well, me and my ex split about 3 months ago now and he in another relationship(with a girl who lives half way around the world.) I've just started seeing someone also. Though we are taking it very slow, I can't help but compare it to my previous ...
A. 13 February 2008: It takes two to be friends and if one of you doesn't want to and wants to move on then you have to respect that and leave it.
With regards to comparing your current bf to your ex, this combined with the fact you seem upset by this would suggest ... (read in full...)
Does he miss ME or having girl company?
Q. hey aunts Just wondering, how do you know if you're over your ex boyfriend? I mean, we were dating for 2 years and after 2 days of crying I stopped.. it was only when I really really thought about him which made me sad.. Then even though he ...
A. 13 February 2008: A tricky situation to be in. I have to say I do agree with scythe however I think you're both giving off mixed siganls...
"He kept asking me saying 'ADMIT THAT YOU'VE MOVED ON and you don't love me anymore' but I just said no.. to both"
When yo... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong to wish my ex "Happy Birthday"?
Q. I was wondering what you would do in this situation: I went out with a guy during January this year. He was my first boyfriend (I'm 18). We were strangers, but we worked at the same place, and he was the one who asked me out. A couple of weeks ...
A. 13 February 2008: If you want to then why not? I don't see anything wrong with this. I would however, be careful what you write. A simple HAPPY BIRTHDAY! with perhaps a smiley face?
People tend to analyse text messages and conjure up all sorts of hidden meanings... (read in full...)
My ex is having Sex with somebody knew. It's upsetting me and is making me feel VERY jealous. Any advice?
Q. I'm feeling jealous towards my ex. We've managed to be friends since we broke up nearly a year ago. Even though we are friends, I've never felt like I've truly gotten over her, even though we have both agreed that getting back together wouldn't be a ...
A. 13 February 2008: In my opinion the ONLY way to start the healing process and get over the relationship is to take time out. You need to cut contact with her until you've healed. It was inevitable that following the break-up and remaining friends all the way thro... (read in full...)
He said he wanted to try again, but I've just found out he's been seeing other girls. What must I do?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been on a break for a month i have just come back to find out that he has been seeing two girls while i was way but the hole time i was on holiday he was telling me that he wanted to make another go of things. I had to find ...
A. 13 February 2008: This sounds like an extremely volatile relationship, if you can call it a relationship at all, and from what you describe - a complete mess.
I think you both would be better off apart. Your relationship was built on a very rocky foundati... (read in full...)
He said he wanted to try again, but I've just found out he's been seeing other girls. What must I do?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been on a break for a month i have just come back to find out that he has been seeing two girls while i was way but the hole time i was on holiday he was telling me that he wanted to make another go of things. I had to find ...
A. 12 February 2008: Hmmm... Whilst I do agree with red1982 to a certain extent. I don't actually agree with seeing other people while on a break until I know exactly where the relationsip stands. However, some people see a break as just that... A break from each other ... (read in full...)
How to get over your EX.
Q. BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
A. 11 February 2008: Hi Scythe, I'm glad this article was of some use to you :) It certainly has helped me no end and I'm still continuing with the whole treat myself thing now.
It's the simple/small things in life that can really make a difference sometime... (read in full...)
Am I making a mistake leaveing my abusive girlfriend??
Q. I’ve been dating my girlfriend for almost a year now, 6 months of that we have been living together. I met her when I arrived in Australia and quickly became good friends. After two months of dating I was offered a good job in a different state wh...
A. 29 January 2008: Be strong... Likely it will go back to the way it was. I must've broke up with my EX about 6 times and always went back for more... Last time was the last - no games, no messing.
Your choice at the end of the day though and I wish you the best of ... (read in full...)
How to get over your EX.
Q. BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
A. 29 January 2008: Hi KayKay,
I was with my EX... lol... (read in full...)
Am I making a mistake leaveing my abusive girlfriend??
Q. I’ve been dating my girlfriend for almost a year now, 6 months of that we have been living together. I met her when I arrived in Australia and quickly became good friends. After two months of dating I was offered a good job in a different state wh...
A. 29 January 2008: Good for you Mr Confused.
I was in a similar situation and broke up with my EX who sounds very similar to what you went through.
Here are some tips as to what helped me through the tough time after I left her:
http://www.dearcupid.... (read in full...)
Am I making a mistake leaveing my abusive girlfriend??
Q. I’ve been dating my girlfriend for almost a year now, 6 months of that we have been living together. I met her when I arrived in Australia and quickly became good friends. After two months of dating I was offered a good job in a different state wh...
A. 25 January 2008: I agree you need to stand your ground sometimes and not let her manipulate you. Spending your life walking around on eggshells in order to avoid an argument is NOT the solution and yes, I agree with other replies here, it'll only get worse.
Her b... (read in full...)
How to get over your EX.
Q. BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
A. 21 January 2008: Thanks for your comments. They're much appreciated and makes me feel it was worthwhile writing it :)
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