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... Send *ummyMummy a private message | | | *ummyMummy's profile:I'm 22 years of age and have just become a Mum for the first time! Bethany Molly was born on the 9/11/07 at 12.51pm weighing 8 pound 3. Apparently I'm a lucky so and so as my waters broke at 9am and only was in labour just under 3 hours. It still hurt though. But she is worth every bit of it though!
I'm not qualified to give out advice, but feel due to experiences I've had that I can give out a bit of friendly advice that might be helpful. I am currently thinking of doing a counselling course at home while my baby is young. Then once baby goes to nursery am hoping to do the uni course I was supposed to start this Sept just gone. I want to be a teacher :)
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He wants to have a threesome... but i don't. Should i reconsider this in the future or have I done the right thing by saying no?
Q. He wants to have a 3some... but i don't. Me and my boyfriend have being going out only a little while now and we are pretty active but haven'y had sex yet as i am 15. We are both waiting until my birthday in april. I trust my guy with my life as ...
A. 6 August 2007: You're very welcome hunni. I wouldn't get too paranoid about your guy and your friend :)
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Would it be wrong to have a f*** buddy while my girlfriend is out of state?
Q. Is casual sex OK when you love someone else who is not around? My girlfriend took a job that forces her to travel out of state for weeks at a time 90 percent of the time. I love her but dont want to sleep alone. Is it wrong to find a casual sexual ...
A. 4 August 2007: So you weren't going to go through with it put thought you would waste all our times by posting it up anyway?
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does this mean im pregnant?
Q. I am desprete here... i need help so badly.. im 16 years old. Ive had unportected sex several times over the past two months. my boyfriend NEVER came in me though, i also read that in order for sperm to be in pre cum he must have came earlier ...
A. 4 August 2007: I wouldn't go by your period as making you not pregnant. I feel for that one. I had two periods that were pretty normal when I first fell pregnant hence the "no your lying" comment to my doctor who obviously wasn't lying and I made her test again.
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He wants to have a threesome... but i don't. Should i reconsider this in the future or have I done the right thing by saying no?
Q. He wants to have a 3some... but i don't. Me and my boyfriend have being going out only a little while now and we are pretty active but haven'y had sex yet as i am 15. We are both waiting until my birthday in april. I trust my guy with my life as ...
A. 4 August 2007: So he hasn't had sex with you yet but wants someone else in the bed with you both?
If you REALLY don't want a three some then don't do it. You are only 15 and have all the time in the world to have them kind of bedroom games. You need to learn ab... (read in full...)
What are trimesters in a pregnancy?
Q. My girlfriend is pregnant, I am so happy, however why is it called 1st 2nd and 3rd trimester....
A. 4 August 2007: There are 3 trimesters in a pregnancy. I am 6 months pregnant so did some research on this myself.
The first is 0-12 weeks when your girlfriend may be extremely tired as her body adapts to the fact its pregnant. She can also have morning sickness... (read in full...)
Have to get an abortion! So how do I deal with the emotion backlash of the abortion while being with your children on a daily basis?
Q. I am a married mother of two who is having an abortion. I just found out that I am pregnate yet again, I just had my youngest son 5 months ago. It is too early for us to have another so we have made the choice to terminate the pregnacy. Is th...
A. 4 August 2007: I am a firm believer in life begins at conception so if my answer sounds judgemental I'm sorry I don't mean it to.
Being 6 months pregnant myself with my first child I can't say I can put myself in your shoes. All I can really say is make sure you... (read in full...)
I'm still upset over our breakup. Any tips on how to keep busy and remain distracted?
Q. I am single and do not work during the summer. I am finding it difficult to keep myself busy and often spend time thinking about my ex-boyfriend and usually end up in tears. We broke up 3 months ago and I'm still not over him. I don't have a lot ...
A. 4 August 2007: How about joining the gym or a club? You could go to a class down at the gym a few times a week, have a work out or a swim aswell.
Being pregnant and unemployed I find I get bored and lonely, especially when my hormones are going spazz so I hav... (read in full...)
Psychic readings advice please.
Q. Has anyone received helpful advice from online psycic readings? if so which ones are good?...
A. 4 August 2007: I have never paid to have a reading done. There may be people out there who do geniunely have a gift but then there are also a lot of cons out there aswell. My mate paid a fortune to have a reading and the person hadn't got a clue.
My dad's gi... (read in full...)
Pregnant, stressed and scared I'm pushing him away!
Q. im pregnant and an emotional wreck, i think things that i shouldnt. i dont know whats wrong. my husband is so supportive and kind to me but i snap on him and yell at him for no reason. i cry on everything but im not depressed. i think he is yelling ...
A. 4 August 2007: I seem to have back ache what ever mood I'm in right now. If the back pain is like a stabbing pain I would ring your midwife and chat to her about it. It may be nothing, but better to be safe then sorry :)
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Why do I bleed down there?
Q. ever time i masterbate i bleed and i cant cum why is this ? and also when me and my fiance have sex he cums but i cant i never have even thow i tell him i do i cant i have been with him and one other and they both couldnt make me cum or at least ...
A. 4 August 2007: Congrats on the pregnancy. I cant see how a doctor can say that bleeding down there is nothing wrong but there we are. We have to trust them right.
I'm 6 months pregnant myself and sex has to become a little more gentle while you are pregnant... (read in full...)
What positions are good for anal sex?
Q. what positions are good for anal sex...
A. 3 August 2007: LoL flowergirl :p Thanks for the tip. hehe
I would say laying on my front with a pillow under my hips to raise my bum up a bit. I can't do that position at the moment due to being pregnant.
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Where's my girlfriends clitoris, how do I find it?
Q. how do i know where my girlfriends clitoris is or when i find it ?...
A. 3 August 2007: They can be tricky to find on some people but as flowergirl said, did you not do sex ed at school?
I would go to a library and find a book that details the female anatomy and read it. You may find some information online if you try and google w... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong to have a f*** buddy while my girlfriend is out of state?
Q. Is casual sex OK when you love someone else who is not around? My girlfriend took a job that forces her to travel out of state for weeks at a time 90 percent of the time. I love her but dont want to sleep alone. Is it wrong to find a casual sexual ...
A. 3 August 2007: How would you feel if you found out your girlfriend was having sex with someone else or was even thinking about it like you are. Yes it's wrong because it's still cheating. If you want sex while your girlfriend is away do the decent thing and ed ... (read in full...)
does this mean im pregnant?
Q. I am desprete here... i need help so badly.. im 16 years old. Ive had unportected sex several times over the past two months. my boyfriend NEVER came in me though, i also read that in order for sperm to be in pre cum he must have came earlier ...
A. 3 August 2007: I don't know what the strict laws are on the amount of sperm in precum but I wouldn't have taken the risk you have especially since your guy has gotten all his past girlfriends pregnant.
I would get yourself tested at your doctors as by the soun... (read in full...)
I lied about my age, what do I do?
Q. Hey !!!! I am confused. I met this guy on myspace. i like him, he sounds like geniuine guy. hes a virgin and everything so im not scared of him being a pedophile. I have lied to him about my age. I said I was 16 when Im 14. hes an up and coming f...
A. 3 August 2007: The guy may sound very geniuine but how easy was it to lie about your age to him? And he might be lying that he's a virgin.
Anyway....
I think you should tell him your real age because if you do want any kind of relationship with this guy yo... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have your period still, even if you are pregnant?
Q. i'm a little concerned. This might sound really weird, but I was wondering if any girls out there have had proper real periods when pregnant. I was lying in bed last night and I felt like a fluttering in my belly - a very strange sensation, from wha...
A. 3 August 2007: I had two periods at the very beginning of my pregnancy which led me to believe I wasn't pregnant but then I found out otherwise when I went to the doctors. If you think there is a chance you could be pregnant get yourself a test or go see your ... (read in full...)
My husband is a little too rough with sex, I am worried he will hurt me or our baby
Q. Hi guys. I am now 13 weeks pregnant. My husband and I are very excited about our first baby. We want to still have sex during pregnancy but he wants me to do all the work (in our sexual realtionship). Because of the baby I get tired quickly and I ...
A. 3 August 2007: You need to sit down and ask your husband not to be so rough with you. Your body is going through something very stressful and any rough handling could do your baby damage. Sex during pregnancy isn't an issue but I would advise you tell him to stop ... (read in full...)
I found out I was pregnant and I don't know how to tell anyone.
Q. I am 14 and I have been having lots of sex but with my boyfriend, we tried diffrent things and I like them all. I found out I was pregnant, I don't know how to tell anyone, I feel so sick no one knows but me. How do I tell people oh and I think I ...
A. 3 August 2007: I was petrified of what my family would say when I found out I was pregnant. I thought my guy would do a bunk and my family would disown me. It didn't happen.
Due to my partner living 80 odd miles from me I had to tell him over the phone. I just b... (read in full...)
Why do I bleed down there?
Q. ever time i masterbate i bleed and i cant cum why is this ? and also when me and my fiance have sex he cums but i cant i never have even thow i tell him i do i cant i have been with him and one other and they both couldnt make me cum or at least ...
A. 3 August 2007: I would go back to see your doctor as I dont think things are "fine" if you bleed everytime you masterbate. That doesn't sound "normal" if you get what I mean.
When I first started having sex it took me ages to get in the 'habit' of cumming.... (read in full...)
Pregnant, stressed and scared I'm pushing him away!
Q. im pregnant and an emotional wreck, i think things that i shouldnt. i dont know whats wrong. my husband is so supportive and kind to me but i snap on him and yell at him for no reason. i cry on everything but im not depressed. i think he is yelling ...
A. 3 August 2007: You're very welcome hunni :)
If you want to chat anytime about anything then drop me a line :D
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I'm pregnant but still want to have sex... Advice?
Q. What are the best and comfortable positons when having sex during pregnancy?...
A. 1 August 2007: Like Splendid I am 6 months pregnant and I find the spooning position a good one aswell. Its where you lay on your side with your guy behind you.
I also find me on top or me on all fours comfortable aswell.
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It was only pre cum.
Q. i had unprotected sex with my partner three weeks ago but he didn't come only precome, i've been feeling sick lately. Do i have a high chance of being pregnant?...
A. 1 August 2007: Yes there is a chance of you being pregnant as precum does contain sperm. Not as many as normal cum but all it takes is one sperm to be a strong swimmer.
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I started losing weight fast and now my sex drive has gone.
Q. So this is super weird right my sex drive was close to it's peak and me and my other were having this awesome amazing sex then all of a sudden i started losing alot of weight like i dropped 5 pounds in 3 days and my sex drive started lowering and i ...
A. 1 August 2007: Your sex drive has dropped as your energy levels have dropped.
I would go and see your doctor and get checked out as I have no idea as to what could be making you feel sick all the time. But if you are loosing weight that quickly then it is quite... (read in full...)
Morning sickness, sore breasts, unprotected breasts... could I be pregnant?
Q. Hi there, just a quick question really. Okay well i feel nauseous all the time and my breasts are usually quite sore (but i do have a F cup and im only very petite)i have periods and have felt like this for about two or three months. Is there any ...
A. 1 August 2007: Yes you could be pregnant, especially since you have had unprotected sex. I would get to your doctor asap and get tested or get a home kit.
Periods can sometimes give you pregnancy feelings and pains.
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Can sex in the shower harm my baby?
Q. Hi guys. I am now 10 weeks pregnant. :) I am very happy with my married life, but my partner wants to have sex with me every day. I am okay with that. BUt yesterday he asked me to have every type of sex there is in the shower. I am okay but is it ...
A. 1 August 2007: Sex in the shower cannot hurt your baby but be VERY careful you don't slip. Also be careful that water washes away your natural lubrication so ask him to take things gently.
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Need spice for a dying long-time relationship!
Q. Hey everyone. I just would like some ideas to spice up my dying long-term relationship with my boyfriend. Romantic as well as sexual ideas needed, any help will be appreciated! Thanks....
A. 1 August 2007: Romantic dinners with candles and music. Little love notes on his pillow or in his jacket he uses for work. A text message telling him exactly why you love him or what he means to you. Washing his back when he's in the bath. These are things my guy ... (read in full...)
We have a 4 month old, but i'm getting bored.
Q. I have a girlfriend and we've been dating for a year and a half. We have a 4 month old baby. Our relationship was really strong at first, but now I'm getting bored and 'falling out of love' with her. I revently started talking to my ex, and all ...
A. 1 August 2007: You need to decide whether you want to work on the relationship with your girlfriend or cut ties before anything happens with your ex. If you really see no hope with your girlfriend then you need to end things with her by telling her what has gone ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants to have phone sex?!
Q. hey ummm my g/f wants to have phone sex. i didnt want to and got realy pissed at her, cuz she said that her friend and her boyfriend probaly done it. but idk how to have phone sex. well i do. but i dont no how to explain to her that i dont want to ...
A. 1 August 2007: You saying to your girlfriend "I don't want to have phone sex" should be enough to tell her you don't want to do it. Tell her you don't like the idea or just don't want to when you explain this to her. She can't MAKE you do it just because her mate ... (read in full...)
Can i give consent to sex?
Q. ok im 16 and i want to know if i can give consent to have sex?? i live in orgeon....
A. 1 August 2007: Try looking on http://www.actwin.com/eatonohio/gay/consent.htm
It has all the consent ages for all the states :)
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should i go off to school or spend the rest of my life with him?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a month. he asked me out a week or so before he went to basic. he is amazing and i love him to death. i know it is crazy but i do. anyways the day he was on his way to basic he asked me to ...
A. 1 August 2007: What do YOU want to do?
Do you want to go to college, if so you need to tell this lad this. Don't give up what YOU want to do in life for a male. If you two are meant to be then it'll work while you go to college and you can go to him after yo... (read in full...)
I really fancy this footballer but have never spoken to him. Any advice?
Q. hi i am 14 and i really like this footballer who i recently saw at a football match. i have never spoken to him before and have only seen him twice, but i really fancy him because i think he is very good looking. but i wish i did not feel this way ...
A. 1 August 2007: Crushes at you age, or any age are normal hunni. The fact he is so much older than you I would say to admire from afar for now. We all have crushes on older men when we are in our teens. Mine was on a teacher and it tore my heart up but I knew ... (read in full...)
Is it ok for a virgin to use a sex toy?
Q. Is it ok for me a virgin to use a sex toy or doll or do i need experience with these things ? like with a vibrator i have never put anything inside me like tampons so i am not sure if i should put a vibrator in me . the only person who put something ...
A. 1 August 2007: Its perfectly fine for a virgin to use a sex toy. Just "play" about with it to find what you like. You can wait to use sex toys or you can use them now. :)
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Am I Pregnant Even Though I Wasn't At My Most Fertile?
Q. hello, i was wondering if anyone could help me with this question? i had unprotected sex on 7/20/07 and i get my period on the 29th day of each month. and my hubby came inside me is there a chance im gonna be pregnant? because i am trying to be ...
A. 1 August 2007: Your welcome hunni :D
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Do you think i should still have sex wit him?
Q. I'm only 14 and i have had sex wit ma bf and he is 15. i feel comfortable and all that but i don't think i should be doin this. Do you think i should still have sex wit him? He doesn't care if we don't but i don't want to make him unhappy....
A. 1 August 2007: Your welcome hunni :)
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I think the size of my japs eye is too big!!
Q. Im not that old, Im getting to that age where im wanting to start doing sexual stuff. The problem is my japseye, sometimes, especially when my penis erect, its really big! instead of looking like a slit, its more like a circlular hole, and it can...
A. 31 July 2007: I would suggest if you really are that worried that you do go and see your doctor.
If it is not painful or has always done what is does when you get erect then it may be nothing to worry about but I would get it seen to just incase and it will ... (read in full...)
I am 12 weeks pregnant is it safe for me and my partner to make love while we are in the bath...?
Q. I am 12 weeks pregnant is it safe for me and my partner to make love while we are in the bath, as I am nice and relaxed when I am in the bath....
A. 31 July 2007: There shouldn't be any problem at all with you having sex in the bath at 12 weeks. Just be careful you don't slip and hurt yourself.
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What are the best posistions, when pregnant.
Q. When having sex during pregnancy, what are the best and comfortable positions...
A. 31 July 2007: On all fours like flowergirl says or on your side in the spoons position.
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I am with someone that is 15 years older than me. How can I keep him interested?
Q. So I am recently dating a guy that is 15 years older then me and I'm wondering if anyone has advice on how to make sure that he stays interested in me. ...
A. 31 July 2007: Just be yourself. If the guy really likes you then he'll like you for being you. If you two are meant to be then it'll happen. I don't agree with people "changing" in to what they think their partner wants them to be.
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Do you have to take the pill at the same time every day?
Q. I just started going on the pill and was wondering how important is it to take it the same time each day? Im pretty sure my doctor said that you dont have to take it at the same time everyday, its just easier cuz it helps u to remmeber it. But then ...
A. 31 July 2007: Some pills have to be taken at the same time every day. The one I used to take had a 4 hour period that was alloted for you to take it. Read the information that came with your pill or ask your doctor :)
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I've just left school and I need some ideas on what i can do
Q. Iv just left school and i need some ideas on what i can do! Iv gt a part time job but theres not enough hours for me. My friends have gone on holiday and things with my boyfriend arent great atm. Im begining to feel really lonely and its really ...
A. 30 July 2007: Can you join your mates on holiday? Is there anyway of you finding a full time job?
If things with your guy aren't good then either try and work them out or ditch him. Last thing you need is a bad relationship dragging you down. That sounds h... (read in full...)
She thinks she's pregnant!? All she did was suck me off while I used a condom!!
Q. Argh... my girlfriend's freakin out coz she thinks shes pregnant! and now she has me worried. she cant be pregnant from suckin me off while wearin a condom can she? but thats not the only things shes worried about becoz i went down on her and ...
A. 30 July 2007: Shan14 is right you can't get pregnant from oral sex. The ONLY way of getting pregnant is if your sperm went anywhere near her vagina!
If she is that worried about it then advise her to get herself tested. To me she is freaking out over somethin... (read in full...)
Is it too young?
Q. is 15 too young for sex?...
A. 30 July 2007: By law 15 is too young for sex yes.
I slept with my boyfriend at 15 for the first time, and although he turned out to be a waste of space I don't regret doing the act.
It depends on you. Do you feel ready? If not, and the fact you are ask... (read in full...)
At 12 weeks pregnant, is it okay for my boyfriend to ejaculate inside me?
Q. we are expecting our first baby, i am 12 weeks pregnant is it safe for my boyfriend to ejaculate inside me, can it harm our baby....
A. 30 July 2007: It won't harm the baby at all. The baby is tucked away with a protective seal shading him from anything. I was advised by my midwife (I'm 6 months pregnant) that if you feel in the "mood" whilst pregnant to go for it so to speak.
There is nothi... (read in full...)
Do you think i should still have sex wit him?
Q. I'm only 14 and i have had sex wit ma bf and he is 15. i feel comfortable and all that but i don't think i should be doin this. Do you think i should still have sex wit him? He doesn't care if we don't but i don't want to make him unhappy....
A. 30 July 2007: If you are really unsure about having sex then I say you should stop doing it. If your guy doesn't mind then great because he'll support you. You are still very young and you may find in a few months or a year or somethings time you feel ready to ... (read in full...)
Pregnant, stressed and scared I'm pushing him away!
Q. im pregnant and an emotional wreck, i think things that i shouldnt. i dont know whats wrong. my husband is so supportive and kind to me but i snap on him and yell at him for no reason. i cry on everything but im not depressed. i think he is yelling ...
A. 30 July 2007: I'm glad things are ok hun.
Good luck!
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Pregnant, stressed and scared I'm pushing him away!
Q. im pregnant and an emotional wreck, i think things that i shouldnt. i dont know whats wrong. my husband is so supportive and kind to me but i snap on him and yell at him for no reason. i cry on everything but im not depressed. i think he is yelling ...
A. 29 July 2007: I'm 6 months pregnant at the moment hunni and I get days where I just break down and cry to. This is perfectly normal, though at the time you do feel it is as far from normal as it can get.
Your husband DOES love you and he DOES care or he would... (read in full...)
Am I Pregnant Even Though I Wasn't At My Most Fertile?
Q. hello, i was wondering if anyone could help me with this question? i had unprotected sex on 7/20/07 and i get my period on the 29th day of each month. and my hubby came inside me is there a chance im gonna be pregnant? because i am trying to be ...
A. 22 July 2007: You could be pregnant but the only way to know for sure is to get yourself tested.
I fell pregnant at my most infertile time of the month. That is if the dates are right for my due date.
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