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... Send *ummyMummy a private message | | | *ummyMummy's profile:I'm 22 years of age and have just become a Mum for the first time! Bethany Molly was born on the 9/11/07 at 12.51pm weighing 8 pound 3. Apparently I'm a lucky so and so as my waters broke at 9am and only was in labour just under 3 hours. It still hurt though. But she is worth every bit of it though!
I'm not qualified to give out advice, but feel due to experiences I've had that I can give out a bit of friendly advice that might be helpful. I am currently thinking of doing a counselling course at home while my baby is young. Then once baby goes to nursery am hoping to do the uni course I was supposed to start this Sept just gone. I want to be a teacher :)
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Am I Pregnant Even Though I Wasn't At My Most Fertile?
Q. hello, i was wondering if anyone could help me with this question? i had unprotected sex on 7/20/07 and i get my period on the 29th day of each month. and my hubby came inside me is there a chance im gonna be pregnant? because i am trying to be ...
A. 1 August 2007: Your welcome hunni :D
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How can i surprise my girlfriend?
Q. Hey, I'm almost back from Portugal and I want to suprise my gf. We have been away from each other for a year when i get back, and I want to thank her for holding on. Anyone have any good ideas on how to suprise her when I get back? Or any good da...
A. 23 July 2007: you're welcome hunni.
good luck!
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Say's she like's me, but she's confused.
Q. I love this girl, shes my best friend. She says she likes me too, but is confused. What can she be confused about? How do i ask her out? Please help me out!...
A. 23 July 2007: you're welcome hunni
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Am I Pregnant Even Though I Wasn't At My Most Fertile?
Q. hello, i was wondering if anyone could help me with this question? i had unprotected sex on 7/20/07 and i get my period on the 29th day of each month. and my hubby came inside me is there a chance im gonna be pregnant? because i am trying to be ...
A. 22 July 2007: You could be pregnant but the only way to know for sure is to get yourself tested.
I fell pregnant at my most infertile time of the month. That is if the dates are right for my due date.
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My boyfriend's father is my mother's half brother.
Q. Hi, I'm 27 and my boyfiend is 23 but we have a problem. His father is my mother's half brother and we been together for a while and some people know but my mom doesn't and I don't think its a good idea but anyway, I was just wondering what I can do ...
A. 22 July 2007: So you are not blood related? I don't see an issue of you both being together a problem. I wouldn't keep it from your mum for too long if other people know as she is bound to find out. It will be better coming from you then someone else.
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Tired Of Girlfriend Treating Me More Like A Mate Then A Boyfriend
Q. Me and my girlfrend of 8 months are going through a difficult time. I love her and I know she loves me. Its been difficult seeing each other recently, due to the fact that we are students on summer break and live 2 half hours from each other. Prior ...
A. 22 July 2007: Not all girls get like that after a while. I would talk to her about this and get her feelings on why she is acting the way she is.
Sex IS a big part of a relationship so I can see why your are upset about not getting any for a while.
Sit wit... (read in full...)
I'd love to open my own hair salon before my time runs out; am I too old? Is this a crazy idea?
Q. hi there everyone I no this is a relationship advice site but i have a small question... I am currently a receptionist and to be honest i am tired of my job and i am contempating starting my own business. I am 24 and i thinking of going in to the ...
A. 22 July 2007: I agree with DrPete- I think you are the perfect age to do it! And yes you should definately go for it before you time passes.
First thing I would do is get yourself enroled in a college on a hairdressing course. My sister has just finished... (read in full...)
Why don't I feel anything when I masturbate?
Q. how come i cant feel nothin wen i maturbate even when i play abit ...
A. 22 July 2007: Play about, and variate what you do. It may take you a little while to find what you enjoy. I would try and find what you like by playing with your fingers first then try using a sex toy :)
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I left my girlfriend because I had a drug problem; now I want to be back in her (and our new baby's) life
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for over 2 years. she is 34 weeks pregnant. i recently left her because i have a problem with drugs. i'm getting treatment and still want to be part of her life as well as our babies. she dosen't want anything ...
A. 22 July 2007: We all get scared hunni, especially when we are going through a tough time. Get yourself clean and then try chatting to her again :)
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If I go to the doctor, will she keep this confidential?
Q. I'm 16 and I happened to get a cap stuck "up there" (vagina) and I want to go to the gynecologist to get it out, but i don't want my mom to know. If I go in alone, and ask her not to tell my mom. Is there a law that she has to follow to make it ...
A. 22 July 2007: By the she can't tell your mum anything unless you ask her to. So if you don't want your mum to know just say so when you go see her.
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Mum won't let me out.
Q. Hey, i am 14 and my mum keeps me in all the time. She won't let me go out to any of my freinds house or sleep over, she wont even let me stay at my best mates house when she know's we both won't do anything bad. Then when people come round she alwa...
A. 22 July 2007: I would sit down and talk with her. Explain she cant complain you never go out when you want to and ask her to go out.
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'I think my son is too young for engagement'.
Q. My 17-year-old son has told me he got engaged to his girlfriend, who's also 17. He said she proposed to him, and he accepted. I'm worried about this. I feel he's too young to do this but he really wants to do it. He said after he leaves college,...
A. 22 July 2007: That is a little young to me too but if he's made up his mind to get engaged there isn't much you can do right. I think with teens these days being engaged is the "cool, grown up" thing to do.
My sister got engaged to her boyfriend after only bei... (read in full...)
'He can't sleep', is there anything i can do to help?
Q. Ok this is more for my boyfriend. Wev'e been sleeping together for about 4 months now and he has a problem. When were not together at night he can't sleep, he tosses and turns all night and is now looking tired and stressed, i love him so much but...
A. 22 July 2007: I agree with flowergirl- he should go and see his doctor and get something to help him sleep when you aren't there.
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19 and 14 is that ok?
Q. Is it ok for me to date a guy that is 19 and I am 14?. I really like him and don't want to let him go....
A. 22 July 2007: Yes and no. I see no harm in you dating a 19 year old guy but bear in mind-
-he's an adult, you are a child. Why would a 19 year old want to date someone who is only 14?
-is is ILLEGAL for anything sexual to happen. He could go to prison.
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Is it safe for my boyfriend to ejaculate inside me while I am pregnant?
Q. Is it safe for my boyfriend to ejaculate inside me while I am pregnant?...
A. 22 July 2007: Congratulations hunni :)
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I'm hot for my sister
Q. hi, im 15 and i am kinda atracted to my sister. Like I was once curious what her bra size was and i went threw her clothes and found some of her panties. Is this wierd that i like this about my sister?...
A. 22 July 2007: I wouldn't call it wierd but it isn't a healthy thing to be feeling. You need to try and cut these emotions off. Try hanging around with girls at school or where ever you hang. And don't go through your sisters underwear again.
Puberty is a very c... (read in full...)
Is it safe for my boyfriend to ejaculate inside me while I am pregnant?
Q. Is it safe for my boyfriend to ejaculate inside me while I am pregnant?...
A. 22 July 2007: Yes it is safe to have your guy cum inside you whilst pregnant. There is a protective seal holding the baby and water inside so the cum cant get through to the baby.
You are more at risk of catching things like thrush and pee infections whilst p... (read in full...)
I can't tell where I stand with him... can you?
Q. Hi, I would appreciate some help here. I've been going out with a friend of mine Kelvin for dinners/movies for the past month. Sometimes he'll come pick me up and sometimes he'll pick the tab as well. It all seems like a normal date but he didn...
A. 22 July 2007: Try asking him again because you just want to know where you stand.
It sounds to me like he's taking you out, but he does seem to be holding back. Try asking him one more time as you don't want to seem too pushy. If he still doesn't answer m... (read in full...)
A drunken one-night stand is weighing heavily on my conscience
Q. hey. I need help. Big time. No matter what you think of me because of what I've done, please help. Thanks. My girlfriend and I have been going strong for quite some time now.. nearly 2 years.. The last time I got totally drunk was at a friend's ...
A. 22 July 2007: It sounds like the relationship is going down the drain already so I think telling her what happened may be a good idea seen as she is asking. I wouldn't go in to all the gorey details though.
Yes you may loose her, but unfortunetly we all make... (read in full...)
How do you get a girl to fall for you?
Q. how do i get a girl to fall in love with me ?...
A. 22 July 2007: You can't make a girl fall in love with you. She either will or she wont.
If you really like a girl ask her out and see what she says.
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I left my girlfriend because I had a drug problem; now I want to be back in her (and our new baby's) life
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for over 2 years. she is 34 weeks pregnant. i recently left her because i have a problem with drugs. i'm getting treatment and still want to be part of her life as well as our babies. she dosen't want anything ...
A. 22 July 2007: I would give her time hunni. Yes you are getting through a drug problem but you left her while pregnant. I would be worried for my babies wellbeing if my partner up and left me to deal with a drug problem.
It sounds like you are sorting the prob... (read in full...)
How can i surprise my girlfriend?
Q. Hey, I'm almost back from Portugal and I want to suprise my gf. We have been away from each other for a year when i get back, and I want to thank her for holding on. Anyone have any good ideas on how to suprise her when I get back? Or any good da...
A. 21 July 2007: How about a really romantic candle lit meal and a rented movie after? With flowers and chocolates for her? If you cant cook you could get in a take away.
Or take her for a romantic meal and to the movies or something.
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They don't ask me to join them anymore, what have i done?
Q. Hoping someone can help. I have a set of friends that I had been meeting up with on a regular basis. I know that there was another (nice) girl that they stopped asking to meet up with us, and I think I have now suffered the same fate. They do no...
A. 21 July 2007: Hunni, it doesn't make any sense for you to just live with this if this has hurt you. I would ask them. Don't be nasty just ask them why they don't want to hang out with you anymore, is it something you have done.
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Suffer with nerves when it comes to girls.
Q. Hi, I'm a 17 year old boy and have never had much confidence when it comes to girls. I seem to suffer with nerves. How can i get confidence and get rid of the nerves? Also how will i know if a girl likes me?...
A. 21 July 2007: I used to get really nervous rould boys when I was at school. I still do now round people who I don't know too well.
The only thing I can really say is bite the bullet and chat to a girl you like. Just start off saying hey and asking her how she ... (read in full...)
Say's she like's me, but she's confused.
Q. I love this girl, shes my best friend. She says she likes me too, but is confused. What can she be confused about? How do i ask her out? Please help me out!...
A. 21 July 2007: She could be confused about her feelings for you. As she is your best friend she may be unsure how exactly she cares for you, or how the feelings have developed in to something more friendship. She may also beworried about spoiling the friendship ... (read in full...)
How is it neither of them have an STI?
Q. Hi, I've just found out i've got a sti, i don't sleep around it was my ex that gave it to me. I found out he had been sleeping with is ex and thats how i got it, i was unaware i had this untill me and my new partner split up. I found out i'd given hi...
A. 21 July 2007: I very much doubt it. Could your ex be lying? You didn't just catch what ever it is you have. So one of them must of had it.
Maybe there is the very oddest case where someone has an sti and doesn't pass it to someone else but I should think it... (read in full...)
My wife stay's out sometimes not coming home at all.
Q. I'm married and I need advice. Recently my wife has been coming home late or not coming at all what so ever, so I confronted her and she said she's going to do whatever she wants. I thought we'd resolved this matter but she did it to me again. WHAT ...
A. 21 July 2007: Talk to her again and tell her that what she's doing isn't fair. The fact she just ups and leaves leaving you wondering if she is ok or not.
It leaves me asking if she wanted to lead a free person's life of coming and going and doing what she... (read in full...)
I need THE most safe birth control
Q. Hey I've been going out with my present boyfriend for nearly a half year and hes mad for me and I'm mad for him. Well 2 things really he wants me to squirt and I think im broken...because I cant. Also I need to find THE most safest things to...
A. 21 July 2007: The coil is a tiny device they put in you to prevent pregnacy. Try looking it up on google as I don't know enough to to put here :)
Also with squirting- some ladies can do it some can't. Some can teach themselves to do it, some can't.
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My boyfriend hangs out with his ex who still loves him; he says I shouldn't worry but I can't help it
Q. Should I worry? My "BF" and his ex spend alot of time together and she is still in love with him. He says i shouldnt worry b/c he loves me and not her but i still do b/c she has tried stuff in the past and that worries me that i will lose him to her ...
A. 21 July 2007: Tell him how you feel. He may see him hanging out with her as being ok, but to you it isn't. Especially if she's tried to split you up before. It's a tough situation as you can't really tell him who he can and can't be mates with, but then again he ... (read in full...)
Should the top of one's penis always hurt when you ejaculate?
Q. is it meant to kind of hurt on top of your penis everytime u ejaculate???...
A. 21 July 2007: No. Ok I'm female so I wouldn't know personally, but I would go and get it checked out as having a pain in that part of your body doesn't sound normal :)
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I'm 16 and pregnant! My bf wants to keep the baby, but I don't know if I'm ready.
Q. Me and my boyfriend have only been together for 4 months and im 16 and pregnet! I dont no if im ready to have a baby but he rele wants one he is 18 and has lived his teen life and mine has just started but i no that i want to be with him but im ...
A. 21 July 2007: Forget your guy for a minute and think about you. Do you want this baby? Could you go through with an abortion, or even put the baby up for adoption?
Being pregnant is scary, like another person on here I am 6 months pregnant and am 21 and I ha... (read in full...)
Can you have sex while on your period?
Q. Hi,I'm wat u would call a curious teenager,and i woz just wandering whether it is possible 2 have sex whilst ur on ur period.i no that it probably isn't possible,but i woz just wandering,so n e answers would b much appreciated Thanksx...
A. 21 July 2007: It is possible to have sex while on your period. Its a little more sensitive aswell.
I would recommend investing in a towel especially for the purpose of having sex while on as it can get quite messy depending how heavy you are. I wont have sex... (read in full...)
Are you single? Please reply here!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here.. Just doing a poll to see how many visitors to the site are SINGLE and would be interested in a (free, of course) DearCupid dating service. Just reply to this post. Thanks! A....
A. 21 July 2007: I'm not single but a dating service sounds like a good idea. Although I do agree with DrPete in that people come here when they are at a low point and are vulnerable. Wouldn't it leave them open to more hurt if they joined a dating site too?
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How do you know when it is right to kiss a guy?
Q. hey guys, i am in love with his guy, and i want to know when the time is right to kiss him, but also how can you tell if he is hinting not just to kiss but hold hands etc. ? pls help x...
A. 21 July 2007: Brush your hand against his and see if he takes hold of it.
Lean against his shoulder and let him drape his arm round you.
Then when you feel comfortable lean in and kiss him, or he might kiss you :D
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My sister can't concieve and I am pregnant again. How do I break the news to her?
Q. How do I tell my sister who has been trying to conceive for 4 years that I am pregnant again? I am 26, with a 3 month old baby. My older sister who is 30 has a 4 year old daughter, but has been trying to conceive again since her daughter was born ...
A. 21 July 2007: They probably meant she can't conceive right now.
I had worked out the fact that she had already got a child she was infertile. I just thought if she and her bloke went to get tested they might find out some info on conceving quicker :)
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If he knocked me up, do I tell him now over the phone or wait until I see him?
Q. im late for my period and extremly worried im pregnant gonna take a test in a few days as i dont have time until monday. if i am pregnant how do i tell my long distance bf (it would definatly be his as i have not been with anyone else) we both ...
A. 21 July 2007: I would test yourself and see what the outcome is. If you are pregnant I would tell your guy sooner rather then later as it'll just get harder.
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SITE NEWS: Moderators needed!
Q. Hi, with the site getting busier all the time I'm looking for new volunteer moderators... PLEASE READ THIS CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING -- many moderators drop out after just a couple of weeks so if you're not committed please don't apply! ...
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SITE NEWS: Moderators needed!
Q. Hi, with the site getting busier all the time I'm looking for new volunteer moderators... PLEASE READ THIS CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING -- many moderators drop out after just a couple of weeks so if you're not committed please don't apply! ...
A. 21 July 2007: I apllied last time :D
And would love to become a moderator this time.
I don't work right now so have a lot of free time I usually spend on this site :)
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He wants to dump me but I don't want him to
Q. i have an issue.i think my boyfriend is going to break up with me or is losing feelings for me.i looked in his new phone because he let me and i saw a picture of him ex girlfriend and he let me look at her for a few seconds.i talk about how bad my ...
A. 21 July 2007: There isn't much you can do to stop your boyfriend ending things if that is what he wants to do.
I would talk to him about how you feel and try and get him to open up about what's going on
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We've been on-again-off-again since I cheated; how can I fix things?
Q. I cheated on my boyfriend of 2 years and i regret it so much. we've been on and off again since it happened. what do I do to fix our relationship so we can stay together and be happy?...
A. 21 July 2007: You can't blame your guy for being a little lost but the dropping and picking up of the relationship has to stop or it will never heal. You two either need to be united to sort this out or split up.
Good luck hunni!
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Is abortion right or wrong?
Q. abortion? wot does everyone think? right or wrong? i would love to know your opinions x x x...
A. 21 July 2007: I am a believer in life begins at conception so I don't believe in abortions unless the female was raped or has an illness like cancer. Also if the child will have no quality of life at all then I would see an abortion in that case as ok.
But t... (read in full...)
He wants me to get bigger boobs and blonde hair and tells me if I get fat, he will leave! What should I do?
Q. Hi my boyfriend of 5 yrs wants me to get plastic surgery for my breasts and wants me to bleach my hair. I was always happy with my breast but he says they should be bigger and higher...he also wants me to become a blonde.....which I dont think would ...
A. 21 July 2007: Tell him that is he doesn't like you for the way you are now then to f**k off. Sorry for the language there but wow. He wants you to change entirely what you look like to fit in with an image he has. Why doesn't he go and find that person.
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Is my relationship age gap ok? How can I make it work..
Q. My brother is 19..... He has a friend who is 19 also. I am 13. My brothers friend really likes me. He said he would go out with me now but he is afraid that my brother would kill him (Not really kill him) is he found out. My brother just like all ...
A. 21 July 2007: I agree with bonym. The anon person should put themselves in the position of being the parent of a 13 year old whos come home to tell them she's dating someone who's 19. I think my parents would of killed him. Once you are of a certain age then no ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and my first time trying didn't go so well - is there something wrong with me?
Q. I am a virgin and yesterday I tried to have sex with my boyfriend but I just got really scared and started to panick and cried so we stopped. Is there something with me ?...
A. 21 July 2007: There is NOTHING wrong with you. Maybe you aren't quite ready for sex yet. Wait a while and try again.
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My sister can't concieve and I am pregnant again. How do I break the news to her?
Q. How do I tell my sister who has been trying to conceive for 4 years that I am pregnant again? I am 26, with a 3 month old baby. My older sister who is 30 has a 4 year old daughter, but has been trying to conceive again since her daughter was born ...
A. 20 July 2007: Awwwwww hunni.
This isn't something that you aren't going to be able to hide for hugely long.
I think you should sit her down one-on-one and tell her. You shouldn't feel bad for having something she wants. Her time will come again. Maybe you... (read in full...)
We've been on-again-off-again since I cheated; how can I fix things?
Q. I cheated on my boyfriend of 2 years and i regret it so much. we've been on and off again since it happened. what do I do to fix our relationship so we can stay together and be happy?...
A. 19 July 2007: All you can do is give the relationship time to heal.
Your guy needs to learn to trust you again and that can take a while. If you both put in the work though, in time you should be ok again.
Why do things keep ending? Who dumps who?
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