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I'm 22 years of age and have just become a Mum for the first time! Bethany Molly was born on the 9/11/07 at 12.51pm weighing 8 pound 3. Apparently I'm a lucky so and so as my waters broke at 9am and only was in labour just under 3 hours. It still hurt though. But she is worth every bit of it though!

I'm not qualified to give out advice, but feel due to experiences I've had that I can give out a bit of friendly advice that might be helpful. I am currently thinking of doing a counselling course at home while my baby is young. Then once baby goes to nursery am hoping to do the uni course I was supposed to start this Sept just gone. I want to be a teacher :)

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What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s?

Q.   What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s? Yes, he is married with kids. Miserably so, but so. I do realize he has other priorities, and do not expect anything from him. Although I do feel that way, the flirting and teasing ...

A.   22 August 2007: You want to talk about "love" when it is a married man you are considering telling. You may feel you "love" this man but surely wrecking his life whether you love him or not isn't an option. He is TAKEN so just be his friend. xxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

I kind of feel like my ex-husband just used me for sex

Q.   Help! I slept with my ex-husband. My ex-husband and I divorced two years ago when he left me for a girl 10 yrs younger who worked for him. After what sounds like a very volitile relationship for the last two years, they broke up and he forced her to ...

A.   30 July 2007: I'm sure there is nothing wrong with you at all hun. He was looking for something else in his partner and he found it in this other girl. If they are both violent then they do both deserve each other. Being alone is hard. Try having the tv on fo... (read in full...)

I kind of feel like my ex-husband just used me for sex

Q.   Help! I slept with my ex-husband. My ex-husband and I divorced two years ago when he left me for a girl 10 yrs younger who worked for him. After what sounds like a very volitile relationship for the last two years, they broke up and he forced her to ...

A.   28 July 2007: Good for you for telling him exactly how he has made you feel hunni. I'm glad you sound a little more positive about moving forward. It is probably for the best that you don't tell her about you two sleeping together. As you said it might ma... (read in full...)

What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s?

Q.   What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s? Yes, he is married with kids. Miserably so, but so. I do realize he has other priorities, and do not expect anything from him. Although I do feel that way, the flirting and teasing ...

A.   25 July 2007: I haven't skipped over what you are saying. I think you having a friendship with this guy is dangerous. But that is only what I think and like eyeswideopen I think you have already made your mind up. xxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s?

Q.   What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s? Yes, he is married with kids. Miserably so, but so. I do realize he has other priorities, and do not expect anything from him. Although I do feel that way, the flirting and teasing ...

A.   20 July 2007: I would go to uni and enjoy your life there and try to move your feelings away from this guy. No the odd coffee or odd email isn't a bad thing but remember he is a) a lot older then you and b) he's married. How would you feel in his wife's shoes. ... (read in full...)

How can I find out if my online guy loves me? I love him despite the distance and difference of religion!

Q.   i never had a special boyfriend although i have been approached by a few guys. But, recently i met a guy on line, we first got to know each other from a epal club, after one month than we started chatting. Little did i expect that our relationship ...

A.   20 July 2007: Why not ask him why he sets himself limitations in your relationship. If he's still getting over being hurt in the past and is holding himself back then he should either not be in a relationship or should be trying to get over the past. A ... (read in full...)

Is he losing interest? What warning signs should I look for?

Q.   I am Gay 35 years old and have met a 27 year old guy online. We have had a number of conversations over a 2 week period on MSN. We have also been texting on our cell phones. The first week the guy was regularly sending me texts that were really nice ...

A.   20 July 2007: Good luck hunni! xxxxxxx... (read in full...)

What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s?

Q.   What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s? Yes, he is married with kids. Miserably so, but so. I do realize he has other priorities, and do not expect anything from him. Although I do feel that way, the flirting and teasing ...

A.   18 July 2007: No I shouldn't think so as long as like you said you don't interfere. If they really are unhappy the marriage will end at some point. :) xxxxxxx... (read in full...)

I am in love with my teacher. How can I get through summer holidays without him?

Q.   Right i'm in the most awful, emotionally-depressive situation. Now as you're reading this you'll think that by my first sentence i'm over-exaggerating! But trust me, if you are or have been in a similar experience to this then you'll hopefull...

A.   17 July 2007: Maybe rather then reposting the same thing you should reread the past posts :D It does feel like the end of the world hunni and a lot of advice can feel hard to take in. The saying "the truth hurts" is so true. Keep rereading the advice people g... (read in full...)

Two exes want me back. How do I choose?

Q.   I'm confused. I have an ex who is trying to work things out even though we had a lot of drama in our realtionship of 2 years, but I still love him. The other problem is that I have two kids from my ex prior to this relationship and he wants to make ...

A.   17 July 2007: You're welcome hunni :D Hope it works out for you! Make sure you are definetly sure before telling them who you want to be with :D xxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

Should a guy stay with his girlfriend if she has faked a pregancy?

Q.   Should a guy stay with his girlfriend if she has faked a pregancy? ...

A.   17 July 2007: I agree with flowergirl and kenny. If she's lied about this so easily what else can she lie about? Why did she do it? xxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

He wakes me up for unsatisfying sex - how do I approach him without him getting offended?

Q.   My boyfriend wakes me up in the middle of the night to have sex. He pokes me so I can wake up. He does not perform foreplay ever, and I have to get him aroused. Then I must get on top and do all the work, always. I'm really tired of this. He doesn't ...

A.   17 July 2007: If I'm tired and not in the mood I wouldn't do it. Sorry that sounds harsh but why should you if you were happily asleep be woken up to do all the work when it was him who was in the mood in the first place?! Just tealk to him and explain how you ... (read in full...)

Two exes want me back. How do I choose?

Q.   I'm confused. I have an ex who is trying to work things out even though we had a lot of drama in our realtionship of 2 years, but I still love him. The other problem is that I have two kids from my ex prior to this relationship and he wants to make ...

A.   17 July 2007: 1)Do you really want a relationship full of drama again? 2) do you want things to work with the babies daddy for you aswell as the kids? I would take a piece of paper and write down what you love and hate about both men. Be totally honest a... (read in full...)

He signed up on a swingers website and talks to my friend who sleeps w/ married men. Am I making too much out of this?

Q.   My boyfriend and i have been together for over a year and have been living together for 10 months. He's in the military and travels alot. I do trust him and i know he hasn't cheated on me but right before he left to go on course he joined a swingers ...

A.   17 July 2007: Do you trust your man? I would sit with your guy and explain how you feel. You are uneasy about him chatting to someone late at night who happily sleeps with taken men. Don't make it sound like you are accusing him though. If you have both bee... (read in full...)

I suspect my partner may be cheating - again!

Q.   my partner had an affair a year and a half ago.He acts like it was nothing..i have had serious trouble 'getting-over it'. Thing is i am convinced he is at it again...no particlar reason other than 2 main signs that were there the last time and i ...

A.   17 July 2007: Confront him and ask or you will only drive yourself mad. Our instincts are normally pretty right and you must believe strongly he's up to no good again. If he's acting how he did the last time then I would definetly try and find out the truth. ... (read in full...)

They call or text a few times and then just stop. What am I doing wrong?

Q.   Ive had enough of meeting men who I really fall for and then they dont contact me. Theres been a couple of guys over the past 2 months who Ive met whilst out with friends. At the time they seem to be really interested in me, we swap numbers and text ...

A.   17 July 2007: I agree with flower_girl. Play hard to get a little more. Let guys come running to you. They love having to fight for what they want. Don't seem to be to needy to quickly. I found guys don't like you texting them too much when you first meet. ... (read in full...)

She broke up with me because she isnt ready for a relationship. How can I get her back?

Q.   hi my problem is that after going out with this girl for 4 weeks she has said to me that she is not ready to have a serious relationship and that it could be because of family or other reasons. she said that I would be the one if she was ready and ...

A.   17 July 2007: If she isn't ready for a relationship I don't think you should crowd her trying to get her back. She obviously needs some space and time, and you may find she does come back to you on her own. Be there for her as a friend, if you think you can ... (read in full...)

I am in love with my teacher. How can I get through summer holidays without him?

Q.   Right i'm in the most awful, emotionally-depressive situation. Now as you're reading this you'll think that by my first sentence i'm over-exaggerating! But trust me, if you are or have been in a similar experience to this then you'll hopefull...

A.   17 July 2007: I have been there hunni. I pined over a teacher for about 2 years and it sucks. I knew that nothing could happen as he was my teacher and it's against the law. Plus he had a very nice, friendly girlfriend who had his baby aswell. There isn't mu... (read in full...)

How do I have phone sex?

Q.   How do I 'make love' to my girlfriend on the telphone? We have kissed each other this way. Has any other boyfriend done this with their long distance girlfriend?...

A.   17 July 2007: Heya, I'm not a big fan of phone sex as I tend to get very shy and self confident. The few occassions me and my guy have had phone sex he describes what he would do if he was with me and I make noise down the phone as me moaning gets him... (read in full...)

My 11 year old son disrespects me - now my partner said he will not sleep over when my son spends the night because of it!

Q.   Im wondering what to do, ive been in a relationship for 16 months with a man i love very much, ive got a son who's 11 from a previous relationship, my partner has his own house but stays at mine most of the time, he's recently told me that he was ...

A.   17 July 2007: Your mum doesn't really have a right to say that. What matters is your son's happiness and as horrible as this sounds if he'll be happier with his dad isn't that for the best?! As you said you can't make him stay with you, and the father is willi... (read in full...)

Is there a way to deep throat without gagging?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months and we love each other more than anything. He has these fantasies that he tells me which I end up doing for him and I have no problem with it, I mean I love to make him happy and feel goo...

A.   17 July 2007: Practise I think. I have only done this once and I HATED it because I gagged but my friend who says she's quite good at it, recons it takes a little practise for you muscles not to react to what's going on. xxxxxxx... (read in full...)

How do I get my bf to have sex with me more frequently?

Q.   Why does my boyfriend not want to fuck after two times and why does he hurt sometimes? He gets mad and he dont want it when I want it how do I change that he just gets mad if I try to get him to want it....

A.   17 July 2007: You can't make him have sex with you more. All you can do is talk to him and put across that you would like to have sex more. If he doesn't want to then you will both have to compromise. Do you like rough sex? maybe that's why he hurts. If it ha... (read in full...)

Is it normal that one thigh is bigger than the other?

Q.   My right thigh is bigger than my left thigh. Is this normal?...

A.   17 July 2007: I think everybody has one side of their body bigger/smaller then the other. I have an arm longer than the other. A common one in females is a brest bigger than the other. The only time I think you should worry is if their is a sudden loss of ... (read in full...)

How do I get rid of the acne?

Q.   How could I get rid of my acne, scars, red marks on my face, and blackheads. Plus Keep it off. Are there any products in stores that could take all of these away? That won't break my budget. I've been to the dermatologist already, he gave me these ...

A.   17 July 2007: Some products work better for some people then others. I got majorly depressed in my teens because of my acne and went to see my doctor who gave me some medication to take that helped the acne go. Being pregnant is a nightmare as my hormones... (read in full...)

Why are my ears ringing?

Q.   I hear something in my ear, its like a ringing noise. It goes on and off. What should I do? Could it be a bug?...

A.   17 July 2007: It could be. I hear a ringing if I'm really tired or stressed. But it does go away. I would go and get it checked out if you are really concerned. xxxxxxx... (read in full...)

What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s?

Q.   What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s? Yes, he is married with kids. Miserably so, but so. I do realize he has other priorities, and do not expect anything from him. Although I do feel that way, the flirting and teasing ...

A.   17 July 2007: I would say a friendship could work but how would you act in this friendship. Don't friends hang out and things like that. Wouldn't his wife find her husband hanging around with someone 17 a little odd???? xxxxxx... (read in full...)

I kind of feel like my ex-husband just used me for sex

Q.   Help! I slept with my ex-husband. My ex-husband and I divorced two years ago when he left me for a girl 10 yrs younger who worked for him. After what sounds like a very volitile relationship for the last two years, they broke up and he forced her to ...

A.   17 July 2007: The anger will fade babe. We all have moments of weakness. Don't be too hard on yourself though. Just remember what you are going through right now incase he tries it again. I would of been offended by that question aswell. All you need to do is... (read in full...)

Is there any situation where a guy should hit or smack a girl?

Q.   I need a lot of people's opinions on this subject so if you could give me your perspective it would be great. Ok...Is there any situation where a guy should hit or smack a girl? I mean if the girl is hitting him on his head because she is so mad at ...

A.   16 July 2007: If the girl is hitting him first then no that is not abuse. Violent abuse is where one side hits the other for what ever reason or no reason at all. It's not very fair to say girls can hit guys but when a guy hits a girl its abuse. No sex shou... (read in full...)

I discreetly got DNA and the result shows I am not her biological father. I am stunned and do not know what to do.

Q.   Just found out my 12 year old daughter is not mine, I was divorced recently and an old friend of my ex wife told me when she had a few drinks . I confronted my ex she said it was rubbish but it has been playing on my mind for months. I discreetly ...

A.   16 July 2007: Wow. I'm really feel for you here hunni. Your daughter is still your daughter. You have raised her for 12 years and she sees you as her daddy yes?! I agree with eyeswideopen- any male can be a father but it takes someone very special to be a dad... (read in full...)

What should I do? Should I sleep with his friend or not before the wedding?

Q.   My wedding is in September 2007 and I have been engaged for 4 years. Two years ago when my son was born I started being attracted to my fiancee's best friend. Keep in mind he will be the best man at our wedding. As the days go by and we hang out ...

A.   16 July 2007: I would say not. How would you feel if your partner slept with your best mate? Not good at all I would say. I would stay away from the mate unless you aren't going to get married and end things with your partner so you can have a night of passion. ... (read in full...)

This is my first ever second base and now I am not sure how far she is wanting to go

Q.   Hey, My girlfriend and I are both 17 and we have been going out for about one month. Last night when we were making out on my bed she guided my hand to her breast. This is my first ever second base and now I am not sure how far she is wanti...

A.   16 July 2007: I agree with Lynst- try placing a hand on her stomach. If you really are unsure how far things are going why not chat to her and ask her where she wants things to go. How far she's willing to go etc. And tell her what you want. xxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

Is he losing interest? What warning signs should I look for?

Q.   I am Gay 35 years old and have met a 27 year old guy online. We have had a number of conversations over a 2 week period on MSN. We have also been texting on our cell phones. The first week the guy was regularly sending me texts that were really nice ...

A.   16 July 2007: Ask him outright if he's still interested. If he is he wont mind you asking him, and if he's not it gives him a chance to tell you. xxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

When we broke up she said she'd find someone new but time was ticking by for me!

Q.   I have recently split with my girlfriend after a 3 and a half year relationship, she is 21 and I am 25. The last thing she said to me is that she will have no problem finding another partner, but the clock is ticking for me. Is it too late to find...

A.   16 July 2007: It is never ever too late to find your ideal partner. My dad, who's almost 50 started dating again last year for the first time since he and my mum split up in 1995 and he's very happy. My grandad dies in 1996 and my nan who is in her mid 80s is now ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is putting my trust in him to the test

Q.   my bf has just gone off on a lads holiday to newquay they are all mostly single, just turned 18 and out for one thing. I am terrfied my bf is going to sleep with someone to make matters worse i have no way of contacting him as i have no phone an...

A.   16 July 2007: Hunni, you need to gain some trust in this guy. Just because his mates are there for one thing doesn't mean he is. Can you find things to do between now and thursday so you can try and keep your mind off this. Hang out with friends/family. You a... (read in full...)

I've been burned before... should I try again?

Q.   im not sure if im being daft but i just want to know peoples opinion. i was with a girl from the age of 16 to 20(still my age). she was 15 when we met and broke up with me when she was 19. i was absolutley gutted, my head really was in a mess. i...

A.   16 July 2007: I think you shaould give it a go! We all change all the way through our lives. I've changed since I was 20 and I'm sure I'll change again in the next few years. Why should you not have a chance to be happy incase the relationship doesn't work out. ... (read in full...)

I have sticky eyelashes, why?

Q.   Why do I have sticky eyelashes? Is it bad to have it?...

A.   16 July 2007: I would get this checked out as you may have an infection in your eye. You may have something my family call "sticky eye". We all used to get it a lot as babies apparently but you can get it as an adult. xxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

He isn't happy with just kissing me and wants to try out other things.

Q.   I've got a boyfriend but he we have kissed and snogged and stuff already but my boyfriend is a year older then me and he says he wants to try out more stuff then kissing... but im not sure .... What should I do to pleasure by the way im only 12 .. ...

A.   16 July 2007: If you aren't sure then don't do anything more. Just because you boyfriend wants to doesn't mean you have to! xxxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

My friend told me I could get herpes or sexually transmitted diseases on my lips at a food restraunt. Is this true?

Q.   My friend told me I could get herpes or sexually transmitted diseases on my lips at a food restraunt. Is this true? Only if the person is infected with herpes....

A.   16 July 2007: Yes you can. Herpes on your lips is called a coldsore. I wouldn't worry yourself silly about it though as there are plenty of creams to get rid of one if you do get it. You can get it from kissing aswell. If it happens from something you used in ... (read in full...)

My friend got naked at a party to show my husband what a great body she has

Q.   I used to think my husband and i were quite strong and that he loved me but now i am not so sure we had a party and my friend came, she has lost a lot of weight and looks real good now i on the other hand am over weight i am trying to lose it ...

A.   16 July 2007: She isn't a friend hunni. A friend wouldn't treat you like that no matter how hot they thought you husband was or whatever. And your husband is bang outta order for backing her up instead of taking your side. I don't blame you being hurt and betr... (read in full...)

We're using the "pull out method" and I have some worries...

Q.   ok me and my bf have sex alot and we havent been using condoms lately. he pulls out instead. well when i go to wipe his semen off of me i noticed i acidently used the toilet paper i wiped it off with and wiped my "area" soon after. can you get ...

A.   16 July 2007: Hunni you could get pregnant with pre-come! And yes you could fall pregnant for wiping come "down there". The little sperms are stong swimmers and it only takes one. I would suggest you start using condoms again or think about going to the doctors ... (read in full...)

We want to give up condoms and try to guess when it is safe--how do we do that?

Q.   Hey all. I have a question. Let me just tel. you a bit about my question. K me and my bf have been having sex 3 time and we now want to do it without a condom and we both got some information. That if you do it within a average of 14 days after your ...

A.   16 July 2007: If you have sex without a condom whatever time of the month it is you could fall pregnant. Why not book to see your doctor aboout going on the pill before thinking of having unprotected sex. Or there are other options other than condoms but go s... (read in full...)

My gf is two months late so she took a pregnancy test. It came up negative! Are blood tests not that accurate?

Q.   hi to all... im an 18 yr old male who's gf is 2 months late already. We took a blood test to see if she's pregnant, but it came out negative. Is there something wrong or could it be that blood tests are not that accurate? Thanks...

A.   16 July 2007: Take her to the doctors as their tests are a bit more dependable then the home test kits :) xxxxxxx... (read in full...)

He is so paranoid about getting pregnant!

Q.   I'll be 15 very soon and my bf will be 18 in a few months. We want to have sex before it's illegal but he's WAY too paranoid about getting pregnant, he wants to wear TWO condoms AND get on the pill! I know it's a good thing to be careful, but I just ...

A.   16 July 2007: Tell him to just wear the one condom and book an appointment with your doctor about going on the pill. Two forms of conception are better than one as none are 100% safe. The only 100% safe way not to get pregnant is to not have sex...obviously. ... (read in full...)

I don't know how I should get back with him. Should I even bother?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have gone out for just two months, everything seemed fine until the last week where we saw less of each other. When I tried to call and talk to him he seemed uninterested to talk. We broke up with each other yesterday. But I still ...

A.   16 July 2007: All you can do is be polite to him and get on with hanging with your friends or playing your sport. It will be hard but it will get easier I promise :) xxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

His medical problem makes sex extremely painful! I adore him, but I'm sexually frustrated!

Q.   Ive been with my boyfriend for about 10 months and care deeply about him and feel like i know him inside out, as he does with me. as a boyfriend, he is faultless - never cheats, he takes me out, buys me things, phones me daily and constantly tells ...

A.   16 July 2007: Can he go and see a doctor and see if they can suggest anything? If sex is painful why not try other things aside intercourse. Like oral and massages and things like that. It may not be full blown sex but may be less painful for him. Also the... (read in full...)

My 11 year old son disrespects me - now my partner said he will not sleep over when my son spends the night because of it!

Q.   Im wondering what to do, ive been in a relationship for 16 months with a man i love very much, ive got a son who's 11 from a previous relationship, my partner has his own house but stays at mine most of the time, he's recently told me that he was ...

A.   16 July 2007: Ouch. I can see this from both sides. You are torn between your son and the guy you love. And your partner can't stand to watch your son treat you like dirt. Your son needs to know he can't treat you like this. Maybe try putting your foo... (read in full...)

How can I find out if my online guy loves me? I love him despite the distance and difference of religion!

Q.   i never had a special boyfriend although i have been approached by a few guys. But, recently i met a guy on line, we first got to know each other from a epal club, after one month than we started chatting. Little did i expect that our relationship ...

A.   16 July 2007: He will tell you he loves you in his own time. There isn't a set amount of time that someone has to "love" someone else by. The fact he shares how he cares, and how much you mean to him means that he does like you alot. I am in a long distance... (read in full...)

Can I make my own thread/forum on DearCupid?

Q.   how do you make your own forum or thread on this...

A.   16 July 2007: To ask a question click on the big red Ask For Help! If you want to go to the forums then look along the blue title bar and click forum :) xxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

He doesn't show me his love the way I need him to show me! What should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together 4 about 2 1/2 years. Im very in love with him but he doesnt take me or the relationship seriously.He doesnt pay enough attention to my needs and I have emotional needs.I know he loves me but he doesnt show me ...

A.   16 July 2007: Tell him, and keep telling him until he does understand your feelings. xxxxxxx... (read in full...)

When we aren't together he acts like he isn't interested in our relationship!

Q.   My boyfriend of 1 year has recently started to neglect our relationship. When we are together he is like his usual self though and everything is so good. But I hate it when we arent together because it's like he isnt interested. What will I do?...

A.   16 July 2007: Talk to him about how you feel. How do you mean you feel neglected? He doesn't ring or text? You don't have to be in constant contact with each other. You can lead your own life. xxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

What's the youngest age to fall in love?

Q.   What's the youngest age to fall in love? I'm 9 years old and i think that i've fallen in love with my friend's cousin who's 10. I've heard people say things like it's not possible to fall in love until you are an adult so now i'm confused whether ...

A.   16 July 2007: I think you fancy the cousin. That doesn't make it any less important just because it isn't love. I believe you can love someone at any age. At your age I think you are a little young and naieve to really understand what love is as there has to b... (read in full...)

I don't know how I should get back with him. Should I even bother?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have gone out for just two months, everything seemed fine until the last week where we saw less of each other. When I tried to call and talk to him he seemed uninterested to talk. We broke up with each other yesterday. But I still ...

A.   16 July 2007: I agree with danielpew- you have shown you want him back, and if he loves you and wants to be with you you should let him come to you now. Not chase him around. If he's interested in someone else then you don't want to be with him anyway as it op... (read in full...)

What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s?

Q.   What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s? Yes, he is married with kids. Miserably so, but so. I do realize he has other priorities, and do not expect anything from him. Although I do feel that way, the flirting and teasing ...

A.   16 July 2007: Honestly- I can't see what a 40 year old guy sees in a 17 year old girl. I don't mean that disrespectfully as I am sure you are a very nice girl but come on hunni! This guy is well old enough to be your dad. I can see you have a sensible outlook on ... (read in full...)

I kind of feel like my ex-husband just used me for sex

Q.   Help! I slept with my ex-husband. My ex-husband and I divorced two years ago when he left me for a girl 10 yrs younger who worked for him. After what sounds like a very volitile relationship for the last two years, they broke up and he forced her to ...

A.   16 July 2007: I kinda agree with flower_girl. This guy doesn't sound like he used you purely for sex. After the break up with the girlfriend and your bitter divorce he probably wanted to feel a closeness with someone again. He then woke up and realised that it ... (read in full...)

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