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I'm 22 years of age and have just become a Mum for the first time! Bethany Molly was born on the 9/11/07 at 12.51pm weighing 8 pound 3. Apparently I'm a lucky so and so as my waters broke at 9am and only was in labour just under 3 hours. It still hurt though. But she is worth every bit of it though!

I'm not qualified to give out advice, but feel due to experiences I've had that I can give out a bit of friendly advice that might be helpful. I am currently thinking of doing a counselling course at home while my baby is young. Then once baby goes to nursery am hoping to do the uni course I was supposed to start this Sept just gone. I want to be a teacher :)

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What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s?

Q.   What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s? Yes, he is married with kids. Miserably so, but so. I do realize he has other priorities, and do not expect anything from him. Although I do feel that way, the flirting and teasing ...

A.   22 August 2007: You want to talk about "love" when it is a married man you are considering telling. You may feel you "love" this man but surely wrecking his life whether you love him or not isn't an option. He is TAKEN so just be his friend. xxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

Pregnant, stressed and scared I'm pushing him away!

Q.   im pregnant and an emotional wreck, i think things that i shouldnt. i dont know whats wrong. my husband is so supportive and kind to me but i snap on him and yell at him for no reason. i cry on everything but im not depressed. i think he is yelling ...

A.   4 August 2007: I seem to have back ache what ever mood I'm in right now. If the back pain is like a stabbing pain I would ring your midwife and chat to her about it. It may be nothing, but better to be safe then sorry :) xxxxx... (read in full...)

Pregnant, stressed and scared I'm pushing him away!

Q.   im pregnant and an emotional wreck, i think things that i shouldnt. i dont know whats wrong. my husband is so supportive and kind to me but i snap on him and yell at him for no reason. i cry on everything but im not depressed. i think he is yelling ...

A.   3 August 2007: You're very welcome hunni :) If you want to chat anytime about anything then drop me a line :D xxxxxxx... (read in full...)

Am I Pregnant Even Though I Wasn't At My Most Fertile?

Q.   hello, i was wondering if anyone could help me with this question? i had unprotected sex on 7/20/07 and i get my period on the 29th day of each month. and my hubby came inside me is there a chance im gonna be pregnant? because i am trying to be ...

A.   1 August 2007: Your welcome hunni :D xxxxxxx... (read in full...)

Do you think i should still have sex wit him?

Q.   I'm only 14 and i have had sex wit ma bf and he is 15. i feel comfortable and all that but i don't think i should be doin this. Do you think i should still have sex wit him? He doesn't care if we don't but i don't want to make him unhappy....

A.   1 August 2007: Your welcome hunni :) xxxxxxx... (read in full...)

Do you think i should still have sex wit him?

Q.   I'm only 14 and i have had sex wit ma bf and he is 15. i feel comfortable and all that but i don't think i should be doin this. Do you think i should still have sex wit him? He doesn't care if we don't but i don't want to make him unhappy....

A.   30 July 2007: If you are really unsure about having sex then I say you should stop doing it. If your guy doesn't mind then great because he'll support you. You are still very young and you may find in a few months or a year or somethings time you feel ready to ... (read in full...)

I want him to sleep in my room, with me.

Q.   I need your help on how to tacticly approach a situation. I am 19 and my boyfriend is coming up (from the other end of the country, we met at uni) in a few weeks. Now my stepbrother has just moved back in with us so there is nowhere for my b...

A.   30 July 2007: You're very welcome hunni. Hope it all works out for you! xxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

I kind of feel like my ex-husband just used me for sex

Q.   Help! I slept with my ex-husband. My ex-husband and I divorced two years ago when he left me for a girl 10 yrs younger who worked for him. After what sounds like a very volitile relationship for the last two years, they broke up and he forced her to ...

A.   30 July 2007: I'm sure there is nothing wrong with you at all hun. He was looking for something else in his partner and he found it in this other girl. If they are both violent then they do both deserve each other. Being alone is hard. Try having the tv on fo... (read in full...)

Pregnant, stressed and scared I'm pushing him away!

Q.   im pregnant and an emotional wreck, i think things that i shouldnt. i dont know whats wrong. my husband is so supportive and kind to me but i snap on him and yell at him for no reason. i cry on everything but im not depressed. i think he is yelling ...

A.   30 July 2007: I'm glad things are ok hun. Good luck! xxxxxxx... (read in full...)

He's stopped texting and calling so much. What's going on?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and everythings been great. But recently iv felt like he hasnt been himself. We used to text all the time and he always used to sent me sweet texts and now all of its stopped. Its as tho he doesnt care ...

A.   29 July 2007: I've been with my partner for 3 years and at the moment we live 80 odd miles apart and we talk for about 20 minutes a day on the phone plus a few text messages, or we chat on yahoo for about an hour. We also used to be in constant contact ... (read in full...)

12 and been having sex with a married man. What should I do?

Q.   hi i am 12 years old ands I live in wisconsin. I've been having sex with this guy (i baby sit for) he does not use condums when we doit he says hes alergic to them. I dont know what to do but i think i am pregnant. for the last 3 months he has not ...

A.   29 July 2007: The word used springs to mind here. He seems to have been using you so that he and his wife can have another child. Do you realise what this is going to do? You say you wont tell on him yet you want to go through with a pregnancy that is going to... (read in full...)

I think we are ready, what do you think?

Q.   I have been talking to a girl for a while and we started talking about having sex.im 15.i think were ready but im not quite sure,what do you think?...

A.   29 July 2007: If you are ready then why are you asking a bunch of strangers what we think? I think you still have doubts and should hold on for a little while longer yet. It is illegal to have sex before 16 (some places 18). You both need to be 100% sure ... (read in full...)

Should i have a relationship?

Q.   ok i started to like this girl about a month or so ago, i know im young and should be concentrating on having fun and other stuff besides a relationship that much. but i really like this girl, and im pretty sure that she likes me back, only thing is ...

A.   29 July 2007: If you are really unsure then I wouldn't get with her until you are sure. It wouldn't be fair on her if you wanted her one minute and not the next. Try and get on with life and enjoy it, and see if your feelings change in time. You are only young ... (read in full...)

A male teacher texts flirts with me loads since he found out I fancy him! what can i do?

Q.   a male teacher texts flirts with me loads since he found out i fancy him! what can i do?...

A.   29 July 2007: You may have to hang on that month if your head teacher isn't ont he school grounds. You may find in the last few weeks of the holidays teachers do go in to the school to get ready for the new year. Try ringing up and leaving a message saying that ... (read in full...)

My fiancee wants me to move to where he is and I want him to move to where I am

Q.   i am 21 in august. i am pregnant and due in oct. my problem is, my fiance wants me to move to where he stays which is a wee bit away from all my family and friends. i dont know what to do. i know we would be better off staying with my family ...

A.   29 July 2007: Hey hun, I'm 6 months pregnant and me and my guy have been through the same thing. We ended up having arguments about it and we fell out big time, but then we realised that we had to compromise. Could you not sit down with your guy and cha... (read in full...)

What symptoms of pregnancy are there besides weight gain and missing periods?

Q.   Hey there, just a quick question what are the symptoms of pregnancy? Not like missed period or gaining weight i mean other symptoms before you know....

A.   29 July 2007: There are loads of different symptoms that vary from person to person. I am 6 months pregnant and didn't find out until i was 3 and a half to 4 months pregnant due to the fact I had 2 periods and didn't really feel sick or anything. I was j... (read in full...)

Do my symptoms sound like pregnancy?

Q.   okay hi every one! well here goes i had sex with my fiance about 6 weeks ago and well he forgot to pull out and long story about every thing else, i started really getting sick to my stomic and my breast are tender and even grew a bit but i didnt mi...

A.   29 July 2007: I would test yourself for the pure fact you have been having sex unprotected! The pull-out method is NOT a way to not fall pregnant. Period symptoms can be very much like pregnancy symptoms sometimes, but I would get yourself to the doctor a... (read in full...)

Which one do i chose?

Q.   ok i need serious help.... 3 girls like me and i am the type of guy that hates to see someone hurt or even hurt them myself. Two of the girls go to my school i get on good with both of them and their friends and one goes to a different school...

A.   29 July 2007: Which girl do you like???? You shouldn't be picking a girl because she's the one to get most hurt or most likely to kick up a stink about it. You should pick the one who you see yourself with. If the other two fall out with you over the gi... (read in full...)

I want him to sleep in my room, with me.

Q.   I need your help on how to tacticly approach a situation. I am 19 and my boyfriend is coming up (from the other end of the country, we met at uni) in a few weeks. Now my stepbrother has just moved back in with us so there is nowhere for my b...

A.   29 July 2007: I would sit down over a cup of coffee just you and her and put your opinion to her. Unfortunetly it's her house so her rules go, but you can at least discuss why she feels the way she does, and put your side across. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

Pregnant, stressed and scared I'm pushing him away!

Q.   im pregnant and an emotional wreck, i think things that i shouldnt. i dont know whats wrong. my husband is so supportive and kind to me but i snap on him and yell at him for no reason. i cry on everything but im not depressed. i think he is yelling ...

A.   29 July 2007: I'm 6 months pregnant at the moment hunni and I get days where I just break down and cry to. This is perfectly normal, though at the time you do feel it is as far from normal as it can get. Your husband DOES love you and he DOES care or he would... (read in full...)

Am i doing it right?

Q.   hey im not sure if im masterbating right because i dont get pleasure from it....

A.   29 July 2007: Try different things and try to relax. I gave this address to my cousin who wwas unsure what to do. http://www.handbag.com/relationships/sex/masturbation/ It can take a while to find what you like and what you don't like but I'm sure you ar... (read in full...)

I think i'm in love with my ict teacher.

Q.   im 16, but ever since i was 11 i have been mates with my male ICT teacher. the thing is we see eachother out of school because he is in my combat classes, so we have a good friendship. about a few months ago i have found myself fancing him and i ...

A.   29 July 2007: I would just be his friend. Not only is he married and older then you the fact he's your teacher makes it against the law for anything to happen with you. It is a hard time. I went through falling in love with a teacher when I was a few years ... (read in full...)

Should i keep begging?

Q.   hi my name is john and i am 14 years old and me and my girlfriend of 9 months recently broke up because i cheated with a female on the internet i cheated once before and she forgave me but i did it again and now she says she wants to be friends i ...

A.   29 July 2007: I think you should leave her alone and let both of you get your heads around what has gone on. You have cheated on her TWICE mate. Put yourself in her shoes. You wouldn't feel to great now would you. You need to give her time. Maybe she'll w... (read in full...)

Want to lose weight by not eating.

Q.   Ok well i'm 14 and i want to loose weight as im 9 stone which is like pretty bad for my age i'm fat really..i wanna loose weight by not eatin..but i wanna know what will happen to my boobs? will they shrink?? please answer thanks xxx...

A.   29 July 2007: 9 stone is not bad for your age. It depends on your height and your bone structure on how much you should weigh. I would visit your doctor and have a chat with them about how much you should weigh for your age/height etc and see what they say... (read in full...)

Two months after giving birth, I have no desire for sex. I'm scared he'll cheat!

Q.   my husband and I just had a baby 2 months ago, but now i have no desire for sex. it's not that i don't love him, i love him more than life itself what is happening to me? i'm afraid he is going to cheat ! help me ...

A.   29 July 2007: No sex drive is perfectly normal after having a baby. I have no sex drive at the moment and I'm 6 months pregnant. Maybe chatting things through with your midwife/home visitor/doctor might help. I always find www.babyworld.co.uk a big help whe... (read in full...)

I'm 17, he's 25 what's the problem?

Q.   im 17 going on 18 in about a month. im in love with a 25 year old. weve been dating secretly for about a year now, and my parents just found out and wont let me have anything to do with him. how can i make then understand how i feel, its not about ...

A.   29 July 2007: The problem is technically you are still a minor and he is definetly an adult. I don't think you can ever make your parents understand about an age gap. Try to see things from their point of view. You are dating a guy who has been having sex for ... (read in full...)

12 and been having sex with a married man. What should I do?

Q.   hi i am 12 years old ands I live in wisconsin. I've been having sex with this guy (i baby sit for) he does not use condums when we doit he says hes alergic to them. I dont know what to do but i think i am pregnant. for the last 3 months he has not ...

A.   29 July 2007: I would sit down with your parents and tell them what has been going on. This guy isn't safe. To have been having sex with a 12 year old and not using ANY protection. Hun, what he's been doing is illegal. I would also then tell your parents ... (read in full...)

Is it ok to be a virgin the rest of your life and not be with any body ?

Q.   Is it ok to be a virgin the rest of your life until i die and not be with any body ? i am only in my 20's and since the time i was in my teens i decided not to be with anybody . this guy i know at my job says that i am crazy and then he said what ...

A.   29 July 2007: It's up to you sweetie what you do with your life and your body. If you never want to have sex, ever then it's not crazy, it's perfectly normal for you. Just ignore him and enjoy living your life the way you want to. Your feelings may change o... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant? Please Help!

Q.   okay .... I'm really scared .. I had unprotected sex a couple weeks back ... i didn't think anything of it cause i never had an orgasm... and well i haven't got my period this month could i be pregant .... plz help...

A.   29 July 2007: Hunni, Just because YOU didn't orgasm doesn't mean you can't get pregnant. I would get yourself tested ASAP as there is a very good chance you are pregnant. Get yourself along to your doctors who can also talk to you about you going on the pill... (read in full...)

I''m dating a guy as a result of a drunken fumble but I still like my ex

Q.   ok im confused! ive been with my current boyfriend for nearly 3months now. the reason i eneded up going out with him was through a drunken fumble one night and cheated on my old boyfriend. but i think i still like my old boyfriend, i cant stop what ...

A.   28 July 2007: I wouldn't stay with the guy you are with. You know you don't want to be with him and are obviously not happy. I would tell your ex how you feel then see what he says. He may not want to be with you but at least you have told him you still li... (read in full...)

14 and confused about whether I want sex or not! Help!

Q.   i am fourteen years old and i want to lose my virginity to a guy that i really like and he likes me to and i am totally confertable with him. i'm just not to sure i'm ready for the pain of it. I have given oral sex before to two guys and i have done ...

A.   28 July 2007: Hey hunni, If you are definetly sure you want to have sex first thing I think you should do is think about protection you want to use. You can go on the pill or get the lad to wear a condom or both. If you bleed it should only be a tiny bit an... (read in full...)

He looks at other girl's naked bodies...and I'm jealous! What can I do?

Q.   my boy friend and i have been together for about 2 years, this is also his and mine first relationship i have never been the jealous type untill my first love {him} i know that some of the things i get jealous about is stupid but it also makes me ...

A.   28 July 2007: Your guy needs to know how what he is doing is making you feel. Or you are only going to get worse. I know its hard to open up especially with low self confidence but you need to hun. My partner looks at other girls when we go out and about bu... (read in full...)

I kind of feel like my ex-husband just used me for sex

Q.   Help! I slept with my ex-husband. My ex-husband and I divorced two years ago when he left me for a girl 10 yrs younger who worked for him. After what sounds like a very volitile relationship for the last two years, they broke up and he forced her to ...

A.   28 July 2007: Good for you for telling him exactly how he has made you feel hunni. I'm glad you sound a little more positive about moving forward. It is probably for the best that you don't tell her about you two sleeping together. As you said it might ma... (read in full...)

Update..

Q.   This is an update to a question I asked about 6 months ago... I was worried about pushing my boyfriend away. He was a great guy, but I had past baggage issues!! Thanks to the great advice from some great agony aunts (and uncles! :P ), I made it ...

A.   25 July 2007: I'm really happy for you hun! Good luck for the future :D xxxxxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

I had unprotected sex twice, what are the chances I might be pregnant?

Q.   Hi, I stupidly had unprotected sex twice when I was ovulatating, two weeks ago and I'm due my preiod next week. I'm 17 I just wondered what the likliness is that I could be pregnant? and how long would I have to wait to find out for sure? I wont be ...

A.   25 July 2007: Your welcome hunni. I would think in future. It's not a lecture or anything cause I've made mistakes in the past but having unprotected sex leaves you open to all sorts of STIS and stuff aswell as pregnancy that's all. The statistics for AIDS and... (read in full...)

What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s?

Q.   What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s? Yes, he is married with kids. Miserably so, but so. I do realize he has other priorities, and do not expect anything from him. Although I do feel that way, the flirting and teasing ...

A.   25 July 2007: I haven't skipped over what you are saying. I think you having a friendship with this guy is dangerous. But that is only what I think and like eyeswideopen I think you have already made your mind up. xxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

Even though he pulled out, could I be pregnant?

Q.   Hey there, im 16 and I think im pregnant because 8-9 days ago I was at the peak tym of my cycle and me and my boyfriend had sex a few times but pulled out before he came then on that Sunday night my boyfriend did ejaculate in me so we went to get ...

A.   25 July 2007: Yes it is possible to get pregnant as soon as your boyfriend puts his bit so that is touching you when he's aroused then you can become pregnant due to something called pre-cum. I would get yourself tested and get your guy to next time wear a c... (read in full...)

I'm having strange symptoms, could I be pregnant?

Q.   i am 21 and not on birth control, me and my partner have been togther for 6 years. anyway my last period was 30/05/07 and usually lasts 5 days, however i missed junes period and am now 3.5 weeks late. took a pregnancy test last week and was ...

A.   25 July 2007: Home kits are not always reliable. I went to the doctors and was tested there because it was free and I wanted a definate answer. Also if it comes back negative you can chat to the doctor about why maybe your period is playing around. It may just be ... (read in full...)

The condom split and I did get my period. But could I be pregnant still?

Q.   hi im 18, last sunday (15th july) i had sex with my boyfriend, but the condom split, i started my period yesterday (22nd july) is there any chance i could be pregnant? or does the period show a definate no? please help...

A.   25 July 2007: Your period does not show a definate no. I had two periods at the very beginning of my pregnancy. I would still get yourself tested just incase. I found out I was pregnant at like 3 and a bit months as I had no idea because I'd had periods.... (read in full...)

I had unprotected sex twice, what are the chances I might be pregnant?

Q.   Hi, I stupidly had unprotected sex twice when I was ovulatating, two weeks ago and I'm due my preiod next week. I'm 17 I just wondered what the likliness is that I could be pregnant? and how long would I have to wait to find out for sure? I wont be ...

A.   25 July 2007: How can you stupidly have unprotected sex twice? I'm not judging or being abusive I just don't see how you can do it twice. Once possibly. Anyway....... I would get yourself to the doctors asap and have a pregnancy test done and chat things t... (read in full...)

I have this very strange problem - well it's hard for me to eat in front of people most of the time.

Q.   I have this very strange problem - well it's hard for me to eat in front of people most of the time. Like I can eat in front of my mom and family members and at restaurants, but I'm kinda scared to eat in front of my boyfriend even though I've done ...

A.   24 July 2007: You're welcome :) xxxxxxx... (read in full...)

How can i surprise my girlfriend?

Q.   Hey, I'm almost back from Portugal and I want to suprise my gf. We have been away from each other for a year when i get back, and I want to thank her for holding on. Anyone have any good ideas on how to suprise her when I get back? Or any good da...

A.   23 July 2007: you're welcome hunni. good luck! xxx... (read in full...)

Say's she like's me, but she's confused.

Q.   I love this girl, shes my best friend. She says she likes me too, but is confused. What can she be confused about? How do i ask her out? Please help me out!...

A.   23 July 2007: you're welcome hunni xxxxxx... (read in full...)

We want a 3some with my best friend, But I dont want to lose either of them, what do I do ?

Q.   My fiance wants to have a threesome with me and my best friend. My best friend and I have had sex together twice, but he doesn't know about it. I quite like the idea and I am pretty sure she would be up for it, but I don't want to lose her or my ...

A.   22 July 2007: I would chat with them both seriously about it before you go ahead. You can think you are all ok with it then a big can of worms can open up. xxxxxxx... (read in full...)

Can You Still Have Your Period While Pregnant?

Q.   hi... i was wondering if you happen to get pregnant while on the pill but dont realise would you still have your period..?...

A.   22 July 2007: Yes you can get pregnant whilst on the pill. If you have been ill, or not taken it as instructed can mess the pill up. Plus it isn't 100% protective. I should know as I'm 6 months pregnant and I was on the pill. I was sick and me and my partner ... (read in full...)

Am I Pregnant Even Though I Wasn't At My Most Fertile?

Q.   hello, i was wondering if anyone could help me with this question? i had unprotected sex on 7/20/07 and i get my period on the 29th day of each month. and my hubby came inside me is there a chance im gonna be pregnant? because i am trying to be ...

A.   22 July 2007: You could be pregnant but the only way to know for sure is to get yourself tested. I fell pregnant at my most infertile time of the month. That is if the dates are right for my due date. xxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

How can i surprise my girlfriend?

Q.   Hey, I'm almost back from Portugal and I want to suprise my gf. We have been away from each other for a year when i get back, and I want to thank her for holding on. Anyone have any good ideas on how to suprise her when I get back? Or any good da...

A.   21 July 2007: How about a really romantic candle lit meal and a rented movie after? With flowers and chocolates for her? If you cant cook you could get in a take away. Or take her for a romantic meal and to the movies or something. xxxxxxx... (read in full...)

Say's she like's me, but she's confused.

Q.   I love this girl, shes my best friend. She says she likes me too, but is confused. What can she be confused about? How do i ask her out? Please help me out!...

A.   21 July 2007: She could be confused about her feelings for you. As she is your best friend she may be unsure how exactly she cares for you, or how the feelings have developed in to something more friendship. She may also beworried about spoiling the friendship ... (read in full...)

He looks at other girl's naked bodies...and I'm jealous! What can I do?

Q.   my boy friend and i have been together for about 2 years, this is also his and mine first relationship i have never been the jealous type untill my first love {him} i know that some of the things i get jealous about is stupid but it also makes me ...

A.   20 July 2007: It may be you aren't happy with your body. Have you tried talking to your guy about it? My guy is very in to Jenna Jameson yet claims to not like the stereotypical blonde with big boobs. We don't really talk about it anymore and he chucked ... (read in full...)

What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s?

Q.   What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s? Yes, he is married with kids. Miserably so, but so. I do realize he has other priorities, and do not expect anything from him. Although I do feel that way, the flirting and teasing ...

A.   20 July 2007: I would go to uni and enjoy your life there and try to move your feelings away from this guy. No the odd coffee or odd email isn't a bad thing but remember he is a) a lot older then you and b) he's married. How would you feel in his wife's shoes. ... (read in full...)

What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s?

Q.   What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s? Yes, he is married with kids. Miserably so, but so. I do realize he has other priorities, and do not expect anything from him. Although I do feel that way, the flirting and teasing ...

A.   18 July 2007: No I shouldn't think so as long as like you said you don't interfere. If they really are unhappy the marriage will end at some point. :) xxxxxxx... (read in full...)

What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s?

Q.   What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s? Yes, he is married with kids. Miserably so, but so. I do realize he has other priorities, and do not expect anything from him. Although I do feel that way, the flirting and teasing ...

A.   17 July 2007: I would say a friendship could work but how would you act in this friendship. Don't friends hang out and things like that. Wouldn't his wife find her husband hanging around with someone 17 a little odd???? xxxxxx... (read in full...)

I kind of feel like my ex-husband just used me for sex

Q.   Help! I slept with my ex-husband. My ex-husband and I divorced two years ago when he left me for a girl 10 yrs younger who worked for him. After what sounds like a very volitile relationship for the last two years, they broke up and he forced her to ...

A.   17 July 2007: The anger will fade babe. We all have moments of weakness. Don't be too hard on yourself though. Just remember what you are going through right now incase he tries it again. I would of been offended by that question aswell. All you need to do is... (read in full...)

What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s?

Q.   What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s? Yes, he is married with kids. Miserably so, but so. I do realize he has other priorities, and do not expect anything from him. Although I do feel that way, the flirting and teasing ...

A.   16 July 2007: Honestly- I can't see what a 40 year old guy sees in a 17 year old girl. I don't mean that disrespectfully as I am sure you are a very nice girl but come on hunni! This guy is well old enough to be your dad. I can see you have a sensible outlook on ... (read in full...)

I kind of feel like my ex-husband just used me for sex

Q.   Help! I slept with my ex-husband. My ex-husband and I divorced two years ago when he left me for a girl 10 yrs younger who worked for him. After what sounds like a very volitile relationship for the last two years, they broke up and he forced her to ...

A.   16 July 2007: I kinda agree with flower_girl. This guy doesn't sound like he used you purely for sex. After the break up with the girlfriend and your bitter divorce he probably wanted to feel a closeness with someone again. He then woke up and realised that it ... (read in full...)

I have this very strange problem - well it's hard for me to eat in front of people most of the time.

Q.   I have this very strange problem - well it's hard for me to eat in front of people most of the time. Like I can eat in front of my mom and family members and at restaurants, but I'm kinda scared to eat in front of my boyfriend even though I've done ...

A.   14 July 2007: What is it about eating in front of other people that scares you? Try and think about that and then see if you can beat that fear. Maybe talking to a doctor could help? xxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

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