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I visit prostitutes about once a week and it taking it's toll on me! Any advice?

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Question - (25 June 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 15 September 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi!

I´m a 27 years old guy who has a problem with prostitutes.

I have not girlfriend for long time and everytime i feel the need of have sex i go to see prostitutes or i even call them to visit me to my house.

I usually have sex with a prostitute ones a week or ones every two weeks and it´s costing me a lot of money and i just a normal guy who work in a normal job and earn a normal salary.

I came to England to learn some English and when i came here i was a virgin and after 6 months f living in this country i had sex for the very fist time with a prostitute and after that i can´t stop paying their services to have sex unless i have a girlfriend .

I´m really worry about my situation because it´s costing me too much money and mental helth .

I´ve been having sex with prostitutes for more than 4 years!

thank you for your help and answers!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007):

Hi Kid,

Take advice from the lady at the top of this page she seems to know what she is talking about what i can gather she has suffered first hand at the damge this addictive behaviour causes look what has happened to her husband man doing that for 6 years all i can say is this woman must be some woman to forgive that she seems like a strong headed woman sensible too i would heed her advice.

Yeah all guys want to get laid as often as they can but c'mon man paying for it!! That's desperate you are way too young to be paying for sex leave that to the dirty old men get a life kid!.

Mark.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007):

Hi Hun,

You are ADDICTED TO SEX WITH PROSTITUTES SEEK HELP NOW!!

My hubby was using whores just like you weekly costing us a fortune till i found out he is in therapy as we speak has nearly had a nervous breakdown at the thought of me divorcing him and losing me and the kids he is afraid i will spill the beans on his sordid secret and believe me that kind of life is SORDID You need to quit go find new friends to meet up with go clubbing god you are too young to be stuck in a rut what is wrong with you??

There is life out there dont waste it on whores are you really getting pleasure out the fact they could infect you with some nasty disease and you are paying for that??? Please!! get help now get tested for STD'S AIDS go to your nearest clinic and promise yourself if you are clean or if not get clean and then promise thats it finished with the only sex you want from now on is in a loving relationship there is a sea full of fish out there go swim in it and eventually you will catch the love of your life nothing comes to you in this life we have to seek and find and leave the whores at the trash can let's face it what is special in going with a slut who has been with thousands of men i never understood that with men they think with their dicks and not their heads even the so called educated elite ones!!Laughable it really is and for some who use HIGH CLASS at a rate of £200-300 per hour really need to get their heads tested as well as their dicks !! Must have more money than sense no whore is worth that none let me tell you they use you same way you use them it is a used market and who wants to be buying used goods forever?? Please get a life away from this you will fall deeper and deeper into debt and worse of all could catch a terrible nasty disease do you want a life sentence round your neck before your life has even begun?? Please heed this advice stop now and get a proper life take care and good luck with this.

Married Woman (50)

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (27 June 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntYou need to find something to do when you get the urge to call a protetute. Maybe go for a walk or go out for drink instead. You have got in to a habit and you need to break the bond holding you to calling these prostetutes.

xxxxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007):

You know I think this is a problem for you, it is not healthy and may in fact be keeping you from forming a relationship with a girl that is not based on sex, but on friendship first. You need to make a behavioral plan to stop this and stop it now....replace this activity with something else, like going to a club with friends to meet girls....not to pick on up per se, but just to get out there and brush up on your social skills....which my guess are really lacking, you can't develop these skills without practicing...you need to learn how to approach women in the real world and start a conversaton which leads to something else, like a date....spend your money on these activities and you will be much happier....you don't need to have sex with prostitutes, there is a real girlfriend out there just waiting for you to find her! If you can't figure out how to do this on your own, please seek help through a therapist, money better spent....

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (25 June 2007):

Danielepew agony auntAll I can say is, if you notice it's taking a toll on you, stop it.

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A female reader, shortybabes United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2007):

shortybabes agony auntHiya love. You shouldn't be having sex with prostitutes ok, you should be having sex with someone very special.Try spending your money on going out and meeting girls instead of spending money on prostitutes.That way you can meet someone special and when you have sex with them it will be meaningful and both of you will feel special and loved, but having sex with a prostitute is meaningless and pointless. Get out there and meet that special someone who will make sex special. Sex is something you share with someone special and someone you love with all your heart hunni. Think about my advice the next time you phone for a prostitute.

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