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The love of my life has moved on and has a baby now
Q. I was to late! The man who asked me to marry him ten years ago, has now had a baby with a new women. We text as friends, but i so wished it was me and not her who was with him. Im happy for them both, but it should have been me, having his baby. ...
A. 8 September 2007: You are not moving on to the goals you say you want. Stop contacting him and start contacting more eligible guys. He was not perfect and no one else is either. You just have to look them over and take the best one.... (read in full...)
I still want to remain a virgin but I also want to satisfy my boyfriend sexually. What can I do?
Q. What can I do to make my boyfriend satisfied and make him enjoy during sex activity? I wanna remain a virgin, and I don't wanna act too sophisticated, please advise me!!! thanks a million...
A. 8 September 2007: Start by just letting him touch you. Then you can do hand jobs. Much later you can do bjs. Let me know if you need any more details.... (read in full...)
All she does is brag about how this other guy to MY friends is better when she doesn't even know his last name.
Q. Me and my ex broke up because of a fight that literally never should have happend. She is trying to punish me for the fight when she is the reason it happened. She keeps rubbing her boyfriend in my face even though she is only dating him to make me ...
A. 8 September 2007: She's a creul b***** you don't need a gf like her. Stay away.... (read in full...)
3 months on, my ex sends me an essay text message basically appologizing for her actions saying the standard "it's not your fault". How do I respond?
Q. Hi, I need a little help over here. I was with my ex girlfriend for a little over a year and a half. I was 24 she was 21. She decided to break up because - as she explained - she wasn't ready to make a long term commitment. She wanted to try other ...
A. 8 September 2007: It's possible that she has seen the light and she could not find anyone better than you. But I suggest you go slow. She may have been dumped and wants to grab on to an easy prey. This happened to a friend of mine. The girl was pregnant and was ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated on my yesterday but I'm giving him a second chance...
Q. My boyfriend just cheated on me yesterday, and he told me today..... now last year I had a lot of issues with boys and a lot of trust issues, but he still cheated! He felt this girl down, that I know, she's in my grade. I love him soo much, but ...
A. 8 September 2007: At your age you should be learning how to judge other people. I suggest you try again to find a more respectful boyfriend.... (read in full...)
I want to give him a blowjob---any suggestions or good tips?
Q. Hi, I'm in a very strong relationship with a boy and we've decided to go a step further - not sex i want to give him a blow job. Have you got any tips and should i swallow or spit out the cum?? X..Layla..X...
A. 8 September 2007: Use your hands as little as possible. Be gentle, don't use your teeth. Concentrate on the head, esp the underside. Look up at his face. Smile alot. Ask him what feels good. Follow his directions, if any. Occassionally suck his ball very, ... (read in full...)
I think he cheated... What do you think?
Q. I think my partner is cheating on me, please advise We have been together for 14 years, and have lived together for nearly 7. I have a son by a previous relatonship who has left home. We live with our two other children who are 6 and 3. For so...
A. 8 September 2007: You've trapped a rat and now you must decide what to do. Ask him to write an apology for everything he's done and you will foregive him. Take the paper to the best lawyer you can find and the execute a plan of separation. Then foregive him and move ... (read in full...)
What is the differance between a lover and a girlfriend?
Q. What is the difference between a lover and a girlfriend? ...
A. 8 September 2007: A lover is what a good girfriend becomes.... (read in full...)
I really like kissing and my boyfriend doesnt
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 8 months now and everything is going great. My only problem is I love kissing and my boyfriend really doesnt. When i ask him about it he doesnt come right out and say he doesnt like it he just says if its ...
A. 8 September 2007: I had a girlfriend like that. Try as I might she never got over it. Fould a new girl who just love kissing me, so I married her and she bore and raised me a fine family.... (read in full...)
I recently saw my ex and want to get back together. How can I show her how much she means to me?
Q. I met up with an old love interest of mine recently. I had to end the relationship a year ago, for her sake as well as my own. It wouldn't of been possible to have had a relationship back then, as much as I wanted to stay I had to go away. But ...
A. 8 September 2007: Tried the long distance romance several times. It's hard but I finally succeeded. One is all it takes.... (read in full...)
I really like this girl and she doesn't like me back
Q. well i really like tis girl and i very sweet to her!!!!!! but she doesnt like me back so wat should i do and i cant get over her !!! so wat should i do...
A. 8 September 2007: I'm having the same problem with Jessica Alba. I've reached the point where I'm going to start hitting on Brittany Spears.... (read in full...)
I cant seem to stop being jealous
Q. why am i so jealous? ive been seeing my boyfriend now for 1year and 4 months and i cant help but get really jealous when he talks to his female friends or any woman. i know i shouldnt be acting like this but i can help myself getting so worke...
A. 8 September 2007: You need to remember that he chose you as his girlfriend. You must believe you are worthy and that you picked him becauase he really loves you. You can't follow him everwhere and fight off all temptations he may encounter. You are not God but you ... (read in full...)
I am not feeling appreciated in my relationship.
Q. I've been in a relationship for a few months. At the beginning, it was very exciting. The last several weeks, it's become mundane. She told her friend that she thinks she may need someone more exciting. And that maybe it'll just take time for me to ...
A. 8 September 2007: You should look for someone who cares for you as much as you care for them. It's like the old song "Never Make a Pretty Woman your Wife."... (read in full...)
The love of my life has moved on and has a baby now
Q. I was to late! The man who asked me to marry him ten years ago, has now had a baby with a new women. We text as friends, but i so wished it was me and not her who was with him. Im happy for them both, but it should have been me, having his baby. ...
A. 8 September 2007: You can't win them all. You can't go back and do a do over. Look elsewhere and you may just find something better.... (read in full...)
I don't want to go on a trip, but I don't think I can back out...
Q. Hi guys, I booked a six month trip with a mate last year, To be honest I was pretty unsure of going, as I like my luxuries and not sure I am going to cope backpacking and staying in hostels round Europe, plus my mate is not a really close fri...
A. 8 September 2007: Go and have a good time. You may never have a chance like this again. Your word should be your bond. If you bail you'll destroy your own opinion of yourself.... (read in full...)
26 year old virgin... Please help me!
Q. hey, im 26 and i know this is going to sound so stupid but im still a virgin ive had no trouble with men its just when the time comes i chicken out and make excuses to get away and then i never ring back, i feel like a teenager still. i want to ...
A. 7 September 2007: See a doctor and have him confirm you're O.K.... (read in full...)
What don't guys have that makes them not have kids?
Q. Hi, well this is going to sound qiuet like am a dope, and a bimbo but am really wondering this, I was watching a program and they said that the guy can't have kids, and i started wondering that they say a girl can't have kids if she never has had ...
A. 7 September 2007: Enough sperm.... (read in full...)
He's 14 years older than me and in a relationship.... But we have feelings for eachother. Any advice?
Q. Hi i have fallen for someone who is 14 years older than me,at the time that i started to develop my feelings for him, i didn't know that he had a girlfriend. his girlfriend lives and works away. we have spent nights together, cuddling and kissing,...
A. 7 September 2007: Why spend your energy on the type guy that would treat a girlfriend as he does?... (read in full...)
It's only been a week, but I feel like I'm making all the effort. What do you think?
Q. hi basically ive been with this girl for only a week which might make you think why is he getting all worried but when i first met her we both just clicked and it was different from everyone else, the stuff she said to me and what i said 2 her it ...
A. 7 September 2007: Your building her interest in you way out of proportion. This big click exists only in your mind.... (read in full...)
Unsure about what I'm hearing about a potential boyfriend. What do you think?
Q. ok first off i am dating a boy lets call him "j", well he seems like such a sweet guy, hes a sophmore in high school, i am in my last year of middle school. well my cousin goes to the high school, and she admitted that she wanted a boyfriend and she ...
A. 7 September 2007: It don't matter what he may have asked them, what matters is how he treats you.... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend is becoming a little distant from me. What should I do?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. We're both 23 and we live together. He doesn't want to spend much time with me anymore. He works during the day and when he gets home he just goes to bed. When he's not at work or in bed, he goes to ...
A. 7 September 2007: He's become your roommate. You need to start looking for a boyfriend.... (read in full...)
How can I start up conversation with a shy guy I like at school?
Q. Dear Cupid there is this boy I like at school but he's really shy and sticks to himself alot, and I talked to him and we seemed to get along but then he totally blanked me! I don't know how to start up a conversation again....
A. 7 September 2007: Smile at him and ask him a question.... (read in full...)
What do guys think about petite women?
Q. I was wondering what men REALLY think about women who are petite. I wanted to ask this question because I heard someone say that short women are not sexy enough like taller women, and that guys rather be with women who are taller. I am 5 feet tal...
A. 7 September 2007: The simple fact is most women will only date guys who are taller than themselves. Most guys know this and only ask out women that are shorter than themselves. While there are always exceptions to the rule I think your shortness will not pose a ... (read in full...)
My children don't approve of me dating younger women!
Q. I am a sedate older guy and I like to date young girls (not under 18 young). My children (also over 18) always harrass me and my girlfriend saving I am perverted. My girlfriend and I get along well. We go out and on road trips every few months. I ...
A. 7 September 2007: I used the age 18 in my question just to say I'm not looking for underage babies. My only girlfriend since my wife died is 32 which is the age of my oldest daughter. I suppose my age shows in my calling the woman I'm dating a girl. If she's ... (read in full...)
I want to give my husband the best blow job ever, but i dont know how.
Q. My husband and i have been trying new things i want to give him the best blow job ever but not sure how he is the only man i have done this to. He would tell me it was good even if it wasn't Come on guys help me out....
A. 7 September 2007: Use your hands as little as possible.
Be gentle, don't use your teeth.
Concentrate on the head, esp the underside.
Look up at his face. Smile alot.
Ask him what feels good.
Follow his directions, if any.
Occassionally suck his ball very, very... (read in full...)
When I give blow jobs, my jaw locks....what can I do?
Q. everytime i try and give a blowjob my jaw locks, only after about 30 seconds and if takes me a good 2 minutes to get it to unlock does anyone know of anything i could do to prevent this or any exercises i could do?...
A. 7 September 2007: You have a psychological problem. You will need a patient boyfriend who's not pressuring you to do something you don't really want to do.... (read in full...)
Do guys like to kiss girls who give blow jobs?
Q. dear cupid i would like to know what everyone thinks of kissing girls that give bj to boys? do men all think that kissing them is like kissing the private part of the person they gave bj to or is it not? also do their mouth taste awful then...
A. 7 September 2007: Sounds like you should find a girl who has never been with a guy, then you both can make up whatever rules you want to.... (read in full...)
How do I give a good blow-job?
Q. ok guys i need help. please dont think im stupid for asking but i need to how to give what guys would call a good blowjob. any tips would be great. thankyou....
A. 7 September 2007: Use your hands as little as possible.
Be gentle, don't use your teeth.
Concentrate on the head, esp the underside.
Look up at his face. Smile alot.
Ask him what feels good.
Follow his directions, if any.
Occassionally suck his ball very, very... (read in full...)
Is this wrong that I had a meaningless fling with someone and now I've fell for his brother?
Q. I had a brief relationship a few months ago with a guy. We used to go out socialising together and sometimes his twin brother would be there. He got a job abroad and we would see (and sleep with) each other now then when he was home. It was not ...
A. 6 September 2007: Do both twins know? Insist they discuss it and agree. Maybe they are both just using you.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and my best friend (girl) will be at the same campus while I'm at a different one. I feel left out...
Q. This is kind of a weird situation and I'd like some feedback. Ok, I have an amazing boyfriend and we have a great relationship. My best friend (female) hangs out with my boyfriend and I a lot, we're basically her two closest friends. I enjoy the ...
A. 6 September 2007: You need to work on your trust issues. Why are you so untrusting? Has he given you cause? This problem may all be in your head. If he has the eye for your friend and your friend isn't loyal by now, there is nothing you should do. Do you expect ... (read in full...)
How can I start to rebuild a relationship if I don't trust my husband?
Q. How can I start to rebuild a relationship if I don't trust my husband, we do not talk, we are completely opposite including our views and I feel unloved, unappreciated, unattractive to him and just found out that 6 months ago he had an online ...
A. 6 September 2007: You already have a relationship. All you can do is be observant and find out if you can "trust" him. Try to do more to gain his love, appreciation and be as attractive as you can.... (read in full...)
Last week he confronted me on some things that I've lied about during the course of our relationship.
Q. Hi all, please help. My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years. We own a home together, have a 1 month old son, and I have a 4 year old daughter who he treats as his own. Last week he confronted me on some things that I've lied about during the ...
A. 6 September 2007: Miss Liar, you're about to be dumped.... (read in full...)
I hate rejection but I so want to tell him how I feel about him...
Q. Well I've known this boy for two years and at first he liked me but I didn't feel the same way but after two years we've been so close, he's been a great friend to me but I have started to have feelings for him. I want to tell him how I feel but I ...
A. 6 September 2007: Don't tell him or you'll make it awkward and maybe lose his friendship.... (read in full...)
Just before he's ready to "cum" he pulls out and finishes up himself. Why???
Q. I need a mans word on this. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. We have sex about 5 times a week and great sex, but just before he's ready to "cum" pardon the language, he pulls out and finishes up himself. We talked about ...
A. 6 September 2007: No birth control is foolproof. Maybe he doesn't want to chance that you or the pharmacy has made a mistake. This gives him some control.... (read in full...)
I just wish she would take it to the next level!!
Q. Hi, I have this friend of 2 years, earlier this year I started to have feelings for her, a couple of months ago I let her know these feelings, unfortunately she does not feel the same. She was very to the point in the way that she sort of had a go ...
A. 6 September 2007: The reality is that she will never change her mind. Don't keep hoping or you'll lose her as a friend. Start looking elsewhere for romance.... (read in full...)
How can I change how my erection behaves?
Q. I tend to lose my erection after I cum. It comes back if my g/f gives me head, but I wanted to know Is there anyway to change this?...
A. 6 September 2007: You are normal. The more times you can come back in one love session the better. If you can do it more than 5 times, consider yourself lucky.... (read in full...)
What should I do about the woman I love who already has a boyfriend?
Q. Hello. I am in a torrid emotional sexual affair with a woman who has a boyfriend. We kept ending starting again cos theres so much attraction. We are like best friends as well and can talk about anything. We decide its safer not to see each other ...
A. 6 September 2007: Have you considered that she is simply enjoying doing both of you?... (read in full...)
It's like pulling teeth just to get my boyfriend to put his arm around me. What is going on?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for nearly two years now. I am a year older than him, but we are both teenagers, and are seniors in high school. The first year of our relationship was wonderful, and then, for some reason, after we hit our ...
A. 6 September 2007: Don't press him for a public display of affection. His friends or parents may be giving him a hard time. The same happened to me. Whe we got alone things warmed up considerably. I think they were just jealous.... (read in full...)
My children don't approve of me dating younger women!
Q. I am a sedate older guy and I like to date young girls (not under 18 young). My children (also over 18) always harrass me and my girlfriend saving I am perverted. My girlfriend and I get along well. We go out and on road trips every few months. I ...
A. 6 September 2007: The clothes and jewelry I buy for my girfriend is not expensive. An amusement park t shirt and a museum t shirt with a meercat on it. Also a Colts pleated skirt and a CZ necklace with a horseshoe shape. For Christmas I gave her a leather winter ... (read in full...)
Had sex with my twin sister's husband. Not sure if I should tell my sister or wait to see if I'm preganant...
Q. Hi my name is Stacy. I need some advice. I have had sex with my twin sister's husband. I do not know if I should tell her or not. I know it is wrong for me to have done that. The first time it was only anal sex just because I was curious and my ...
A. 5 September 2007: See if your sister is interested in a 3 way or maybe in poligamy. I'm sure this swell guy would add a few more b's to his harmem. Keep on cumin with the great stories.... (read in full...)
Is what you see on porn films real or camera trickery????
Q. In a porn vidio i just watched, this guy put a ping pong ball in this girl's vagina. then he pushed it in so it was out of sight. Then he did something with her ass or something. i saw him put his finger's in her vagina, and fish out the ball.could ...
A. 5 September 2007: Most of the weird s*** you see in porn films is done for money not enjoyment. And, yes a lot of the stuff is not what it appears. It's like going to a circus side show. Don't hang out with guys who want you to try that stuff!!... (read in full...)
Is her use of sex toys affecting her performance with me?
Q. Me and my girlfriend hav had a steady relationship for seven months. I am a virgin and she has only ever used sex toys. we decided to take things further so when we did she told me she had no feeling in her nipples however i put this down to having ...
A. 5 September 2007: Truth is that most women don't orgasm by regular sex. Modern men and women need to experiment to find out how to get her to orgasm consistently. In the past they just faked it.... (read in full...)
My children don't approve of me dating younger women!
Q. I am a sedate older guy and I like to date young girls (not under 18 young). My children (also over 18) always harrass me and my girlfriend saving I am perverted. My girlfriend and I get along well. We go out and on road trips every few months. I ...
A. 5 September 2007: It's not like I'm dating a bunch of young girls. Just one and we seem to click just because we are so different. We do much different things than either of us would do if we were with someone our own age. I take her fishing on a party boat, to ... (read in full...)
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