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My boyfriend cheated when he was drunk. Should I believe that he cant remember it?
Q. my boyfriend cheated on me when he was drunk and he cant remember anything, but she does. he cant remember finishing the deed and he usualy cant, so should i believe that he cant remember anything and cant remember finishing?...
A. 14 September 2007: Why have a boyfriend who drinks so much he can't remember what he does? The evidence says he had sex with her. Time to pick a better boyfriend.... (read in full...)
I wouldn't want to continue meeting if there's no hope of getting back together, although I broke up with him. How long should I wait this out?
Q. Well i have been dating this boy for about 2 years now. We just recently broke up for the second time( the other time was in January). I broke up with him both times. He is really a insecure person, he has a crazy mom and does not have a lot ...
A. 12 September 2007: Sounds to me like the choice is yours. Why not investigate some other options before you make up your mind?... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend will marry another girl, I'm losing my confidence which I'm afraid will affect my career and future.
Q. Hi, My ex boyfriend is going to marry another girl. We were together for around 10 years and my family and me did everything for him. His family first proposed my parents for our marriage on his wish. But they wanted it to happen soon which my p...
A. 12 September 2007: Remember she was his second choice. You were his first. I suggest you concentrate on finding new guys to date.... (read in full...)
My ex wants to keep in touch with his exes 18 yr old daughter but she is now ignoring him because he wont pay their bills. What can he do?
Q. Hi I split from my boyrfriend 4 months ago. There was a lot of anger on my part because i always felt he was keeping something from me the year i was with him. Thats why we split in the end. Turned out he was. He was in touch with his ex, but only...
A. 12 September 2007: The bond with his daughter must have been very week or the Mom's control over the daughter must have been very strong. Either way he needs to adopt a wait and see attitude.... (read in full...)
He is scared of marriage, age 46, and not sure if he can be everything I want him to be...
Q. I have been in a committed relationship with my boyfriend for 3 year. 2 years living together. I suggested we go to couseling together. He declined and broke up with me, saying he needs to take a step back and see if this is something he wants to ...
A. 12 September 2007: Many drugs esp for depression and high blood pressure can cause ED. Talk to his doctor, Viagra may help.... (read in full...)
I'm quite well off but am I wrong to like a woman that has manners to offer to pay her way on dates?
Q. I'm on the dating scene.I'm quite well-off, but I hate women who are after a free ride. I know as the man I'm expected to pay,initially at least. But am I wrong to judge a woman because she doesn't have the manners to even offer to pay her way? It ...
A. 12 September 2007: I thought my answer was totally from a time warp until I read TELLULAH's answer. There are still some girls out there for us sucessful men. We spent so much time making money that we failed to notice all the Rosie the Riveters who want to work and ... (read in full...)
Help! I can't get him out of my mind!
Q. Okay, well I have my eye on the this guy in school, but he is COMPLETELY off limits! I'm comstantly thinking about him. When i'm not thinking about him, i'm admiring him from afar. It's getting to the point where i'm going insane. I was hoping ...
A. 12 September 2007: Talk with friends about something real. Watch lots of comic movies. Exercise and work out.... (read in full...)
We've been fighting for seven years. Can we work this out?
Q. Hi, well I am in a situation that I don't know how to get out of. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 7 years. All of 7 we fight. She is very aggressive, tempered. I am kind of scared of her but then again I'm not. Everyday we argue. ...
A. 12 September 2007: Run away from this relationship. You must be confusing the fighting for love. Is this the kind of relationship you want?... (read in full...)
We've split up before and it was agonizing. I've been thinking about doing it again. What do you think?
Q. Hi Me and my girlfriend have been together for nearly 3 years now. I'm 17 and so is she. We split up a while ago and it was agonising. It didn't get any easier and we both wanted each other back, so we got back together. It's a few months on no...
A. 12 September 2007: Both of you have a disconnect between reality and fantasy. Eventually you'll both learn that reality says walk away and don't come back.... (read in full...)
I've been rejected by this girl and can't get her out of my mind...In fact I rejected two girls because of this, help me!
Q. OK I need some advice on getting over this, cause its driving me nuts. I can't get over a girl I went on a few dates with, I usually don't get too many girls interested in me, but in the three weeks since I last saw her I've had two differen...
A. 12 September 2007: This won't be your first loss. Learn how to move on. Don't look back. There are plenty other hot girls out there. Sometines the not so hot girls are much more fun.... (read in full...)
We both want sex, but she loves me and I don't love her. Is this right?
Q. hey, im fifteen years old. I want to have sex with this girl. I think she pretty, sexy, and mad hott. we went out for a little bit and from that I got a blow job. Some issues arrose and I broke up with her. She's in love with me and I want to have ...
A. 12 September 2007: What would a gentleman do? At the vary least consider her age and her lack of maturity. You must live with yourself.... (read in full...)
I am bothered by his searches for "Incest" Porn. What should I do?
Q. Hi everybody. I love my boyfriend to death but theres something that I found out last night and I don't know what to do. My boyfriend looks at porn all the time on the computer, Which is fine because what guy doesn't look at porn? But he ...
A. 12 September 2007: Ask him why he searches out that topic. Many guys look for things they're curious about. It most likely means nothing. Of course there is a small possibility he has been involved or knows someone who has. You need to talk if you're to find out ... (read in full...)
My mum wont let me stay over at my boyfriends house. Should iI keep trying to convince her?
Q. I'm 19 years old, and have been with my boyfriend for one year and 3 months. We are very much in love, and can see our futures together. He gets on really really well with all my family, my parents completely adore him!! Only problem is my mum ...
A. 11 September 2007: It sounds as if you will do it without your mum's permission. If so, are you just looking for somone to tell you it's O.K. Just tell mum and don't brag about it.... (read in full...)
My wife and I have been married for years and have been happy for the most part, but I found out she made out with another guy 19 years ago
Q. Hi there. My wife and I have been married 14 years and have been happy for the most part. We dated throughout college, were very commited to each other and were seperated one summer for a few weeks when she went to camp as a counseler. After camp I ...
A. 11 September 2007: The statute of limitations has run out on her offence. Forget it.... (read in full...)
Am I still a virgin?
Q. Hi, on my birthday my friends bought me a vibrator. Now am i still a virgin since i use it?...
A. 11 September 2007: That depends on whether or not you broke your hyman. Girls who break their hymans riding horses are still considered vigins, so I think you would qualify as a virgin.... (read in full...)
He is scared of marriage, age 46, and not sure if he can be everything I want him to be...
Q. I have been in a committed relationship with my boyfriend for 3 year. 2 years living together. I suggested we go to couseling together. He declined and broke up with me, saying he needs to take a step back and see if this is something he wants to ...
A. 11 September 2007: Never mention his ED. Do comment on the things you like that he does. Take him shooting at a gun club.... (read in full...)
Any other way he can keep himself from cumming so fast, without taking pills?
Q. Okie, so this is the deal, me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now and we have has sex only about four times already, but every time we do have sex, he cums too fast [in like 2 minutes!]and leaves me unsatisfied. Without taking pills or ...
A. 11 September 2007: Every minute and a half have him pull out, the squeeze arround the head of the penis until he begins to soften. With his help keep this process unti you see how long he can last. Have him think of non sexual things. Make it a game. Another i... (read in full...)
Ready to experiment but what can we do to make me have a orgasm?
Q. Me and my boyfriend of 2 years lost our virginty to each other and before we started having sex i have never been so horney but when we did have sex i would feel next to nothing. I wasn't ready then but now i am. It has gotten much better and we are ...
A. 11 September 2007: You need to practice on yourself. If you cannot bring yourself to an O your boyfriend probably can't either. Can you stimulate him to an O? Think of doing 200 strokes to get a O. Some physical conditioning is required. Keep up those situps.... (read in full...)
Is it easy to get laid in college?
Q. Alright, so I'm wondering if the rumours about how easy it is to get laid in college is true. I'm in my last year of highschool so I really look forward to moving out and going to college and whatnot, and everyone goes on about how easy it is to ge...
A. 11 September 2007: You must market yourself. Prepare and rehearse your pitch for a date. If you get turned dowh ask why? Revise your pitch to eliminate the problem. Keep good notes, especially those girls who say maybe another time, I'm busy this week. Suggest that ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend might be sexually involved with his sister!
Q. im feling totally diasturbed! i have a boyfriend of 4 yrs who has a sister that is 3 yrs older than him ( she's 24 ) and i think they are sexually involved. no. 1 they sleep in the bed together and thinks its totally okay! shes totally okay with ...
A. 10 September 2007: You have a bf of 4yrs who has been sleeping all this time with his sister? Is there a big space shortage at his house? Maybe he wants to marry you to get away from her.
If you don't want to marry him why not get a new bf?... (read in full...)
My ex wants to keep in touch with his exes 18 yr old daughter but she is now ignoring him because he wont pay their bills. What can he do?
Q. Hi I split from my boyrfriend 4 months ago. There was a lot of anger on my part because i always felt he was keeping something from me the year i was with him. Thats why we split in the end. Turned out he was. He was in touch with his ex, but only...
A. 10 September 2007: They're ignoring him because he won't give them money. Hmm, hookers do the same thing. Why does he expect the daughter to have different values than her mother?... (read in full...)
I cannot get an erection while masturbating. What should I do?
Q. Hey, I am worried. I cannot have an erection when I want to, even when thinking about sexual fantasies. I've tried to masturbate in the past but I just don't get aroused by pretending. Any time I even try to put my hand on my penis, it tickles ...
A. 10 September 2007: See a doctor.... (read in full...)
I blew this guy out but I now regret it! Should I forget about it?
Q. i really really like this boy butt i blew him out and now i regret it :(! and i really want him back butt hes just bein weird with me now what should i do i tried tellin him how i feel but i said it when we were arguing i guess that was a bad idea ...
A. 10 September 2007: To me the answer is in your question. You are not his type of girl. Give it up and move on.... (read in full...)
I'm quite well off but am I wrong to like a woman that has manners to offer to pay her way on dates?
Q. I'm on the dating scene.I'm quite well-off, but I hate women who are after a free ride. I know as the man I'm expected to pay,initially at least. But am I wrong to judge a woman because she doesn't have the manners to even offer to pay her way? It ...
A. 10 September 2007: Hey Lad, the answer to your question depends on the kind of woman you want. If you want a "so called" modern woman, then keep on looking you haven't found her. Personally I prefer the type who loves, honors and obeys her man. She never expects to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated when he was drunk. Should I believe that he cant remember it?
Q. my boyfriend cheated on me when he was drunk and he cant remember anything, but she does. he cant remember finishing the deed and he usualy cant, so should i believe that he cant remember anything and cant remember finishing?...
A. 10 September 2007: Dump him because he's a drunk. What he did while he was drunk is the least of your problems.... (read in full...)
I had an abortion but we are trying for a baby. Is it possible to get pregnant so soon?
Q. I HAD RECENTLY HAD AN ABORTION LATE AUGUST. I REALLY FEEL DEVESTATED ABOUT WHAT IVE DONE BECAUSE OF MY PARENTS OPINIONS. BUT ME AND MY BOYFRIEND IS TRYING TO CONCEIVE AGAIN THIS MONTH IS IT POSSIBLE TO GET PREGNANT SO SOON? Can you not use caps nex...
A. 10 September 2007: This is a JOKE right? If not, consult a priest, your soul is broken.... (read in full...)
I think I messed up on the second date. Tell me what you think?
Q. Just wondering here... If I were to really screw up our second date so she no longer talks to me (not sure what I did exactly, but I know I did something wrong) do you think there is anything I could say to get a fresh start? Our last date was 3 ...
A. 10 September 2007: Hey man. After 2 dates you can't expect to understand her. It's O.K. to pursue her, but don't make big plans in your mind. Daydreams rarely come true. I've won the lotto serveral times in my mind. Shaping the real world is possible but much ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend might be moving away. Should I go with him? We have been together a year.
Q. Im 21 and moved to kent 2 yrs ago i have a 2 yr old son and his father has no contact with him. when i moved here i never thought i would meet anyone but i did and i love him to bits. he has three children two of which live with their mum who now ...
A. 10 September 2007: If he's asking you to go, then I think you should go. You can always move back or where ever you want. You can't know what will happen next year until you get there.... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity and now have bloating. Anyone got any advice please?
Q. Hey, I lost my virginity nearly 2 weeks ago... it was protected sex, but i am now suffering from severe bloating. I also suffer from irrital bowel syndrome so do you think this is the problem? The condom did not break or slip off so should i be w...
A. 10 September 2007: Use a pregnancy self test to be positive. Me thinks you are having anxiety attacks over doing something you wish you hadn't done. My advice: Watch lots of comedy. It will take your mind off it and cheer you up.... (read in full...)
How to say to a guy that has treated you well and cared for you that he is not the one?
Q. How to say a guy, that has treated you well, cared about you, was on your side to support you and who you know has feelings for you, that HE IS Simply Not THE Guy you're looking for?? and not to be painful for him? What's the best way? Please, any ...
A. 10 September 2007: O.K. anonymous writer, shame on him too for trying to catch an illusion of his own creation. Love can make many a man a fool.... (read in full...)
I find sex hard work. I don't want him to think I'm not interested in him. How do I change this?
Q. hi i have been with my boyfriend 2years and i live with, i love him very much. its just that most of the time when he wants to have sex i dont. its not coz i dont find him sexually attractive its just that i can never be bothered to have sex with ...
A. 10 September 2007: Why keep him in a relationship with you? You're no going to change. You will put him through hell before the enevitable breakup. Find yourself a new guy who has a low sex drive like you. Yes they are out there.... (read in full...)
Is it easy to get laid in college?
Q. Alright, so I'm wondering if the rumours about how easy it is to get laid in college is true. I'm in my last year of highschool so I really look forward to moving out and going to college and whatnot, and everyone goes on about how easy it is to ge...
A. 10 September 2007: If you are 6'5" and are the star quartback with a new porche, getting laid in college is easy. If you're 5'2" and play the tuba in the band with no money or transportation, getting laid will be harder. Just remember that girls are just as eager as ... (read in full...)
Was it a date or just a friend thing? Any advice?
Q. I need help. I've been friends with this guy for a while now. I always had kind of a crush on him. I finished a 4 year relationship 3 months ago and he used to advise me all the time. Lately we've been hanging out a lot and we usually don't hang out ...
A. 10 September 2007: Those are dates.... (read in full...)
I love her but I have trust issues from previous relations so I've been snooping around and can't put my mind to rest. What should I do?
Q. My past is not the greatest i have slept with random girls and i had some one night stands! so here is my question - Me and my girlfriend started dating 6 months ago and when i moved into her house i snooped around because that is the pers...
A. 10 September 2007: You should realize by now that knowing old details does you no good. Start new, go forward looking left and right, stop digging into the past.... (read in full...)
How to say to a guy that has treated you well and cared for you that he is not the one?
Q. How to say a guy, that has treated you well, cared about you, was on your side to support you and who you know has feelings for you, that HE IS Simply Not THE Guy you're looking for?? and not to be painful for him? What's the best way? Please, any ...
A. 10 September 2007: Why do you need to tell him anything? Have you led him to believe he's the one. If so, there is no painless way. Be direct and final and don't do anything that might send a mixed signal. Shame on you.... (read in full...)
I want us to learn how to control our anger towards eachother, but after the police intervention I'm afraid the relation will end.
Q. Please someone help me. I have been crying for over 3 days now. My boyfriend and I have been having some problems, for intance: Whenever he got me really really mad, I would try to smack the back of his head or his chest or sometimes slap the side ...
A. 10 September 2007: I predict he likes slapping you around as much as you do. He will be dumb enough to come back for more. I recommend that you both get counseling or stay away from each other. Your relationship is sick.... (read in full...)
I want to keep this relationship/friendship going but it's disappointing when the answers are postponed. He says we are soulmates, and we're both married.
Q. i've recently been in touch with someone i new in high school. we're both married and have grown children. we are very attracted to one another, and he has stated in one of his e-mails that we are soulmates, however, he is very slow to respond ...
A. 10 September 2007: What do you expect from him? Is it reasonable? Maybe you're lucky he thinks enough of you to keep responding. I suggest you enjoy his emails and your memories. Don't push it.... (read in full...)
The love of my life has moved on and has a baby now
Q. I was to late! The man who asked me to marry him ten years ago, has now had a baby with a new women. We text as friends, but i so wished it was me and not her who was with him. Im happy for them both, but it should have been me, having his baby. ...
A. 8 September 2007: You are not moving on to the goals you say you want. Stop contacting him and start contacting more eligible guys. He was not perfect and no one else is either. You just have to look them over and take the best one.... (read in full...)
He could get into trouble, because I lied about my age, and now I feel guilty.
Q. there's something i need to get off my chest, when i was 15 i slept with a 38 year old. i convinced him that i was 18, but i feel so guilty because i know that if anyone found out he could get into trouble. he recently got in touch but i'm so disgu...
A. 8 September 2007: Stay away from him. He should have known better or checked you out better. He is not a responsible guy and maybe not too bright. Do you really want a guy who can be outwitted by a 15 year old girl?... (read in full...)
Since I started college, I find it hard to make new friends and feel that people judge me over the clothes I wear, any advice?
Q. Hi I started college last week and it didnt go amazingly well.The other girls seem to have grouped off already.Being a shy person anyway I find it hard to make new friends and I don't know what to do. I really would like friends because at breaktim...
A. 8 September 2007: You are not the only one in your boat. Seek out other students that have the same interests and goals that you have. I found many friends at the Library, Lab Classes, Study Halls and the Student Union (Cafateria). Learn to ask question of mutual ... (read in full...)
My family don't trust me and I can't stand it, help.
Q. My family dont trust me and i cant stand it anymore. Its like im constantly under their parole and they really have no reason not to trust me. But its getting so bad i might just get up and leave. i cant be around negative people its taking its toll ...
A. 8 September 2007: You need to demonstrate that you are worthy of being independant. Do you have an education, job, credit, savings, and contribute to the economy of the household?... (read in full...)
I still want to remain a virgin but I also want to satisfy my boyfriend sexually. What can I do?
Q. What can I do to make my boyfriend satisfied and make him enjoy during sex activity? I wanna remain a virgin, and I don't wanna act too sophisticated, please advise me!!! thanks a million...
A. 8 September 2007: Start by just letting him touch you. Then you can do hand jobs. Much later you can do bjs. Let me know if you need any more details.... (read in full...)
The love of my life has moved on and has a baby now
Q. I was to late! The man who asked me to marry him ten years ago, has now had a baby with a new women. We text as friends, but i so wished it was me and not her who was with him. Im happy for them both, but it should have been me, having his baby. ...
A. 8 September 2007: You can't win them all. You can't go back and do a do over. Look elsewhere and you may just find something better.... (read in full...)
My mum wont let me stay over at my boyfriends house. Should iI keep trying to convince her?
Q. I'm 19 years old, and have been with my boyfriend for one year and 3 months. We are very much in love, and can see our futures together. He gets on really really well with all my family, my parents completely adore him!! Only problem is my mum ...
A. 5 September 2007: If you are still accepting your Mum's support you should follow her wishes. Her values were formed in a different era. You're pushing her to change will hurt her in her soul. Don't do it.... (read in full...)
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