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When I was left alone with my daugyhter's best friend, we touched each other intimately; my daughter knows I'm a lesbian. Help?
Q. i am a woman and im alesbian my daughter knows about this and doesnt mind but recently whenever her best friend comes over my vagina starts throbbing in a good way and i think i luv her, when i was left in a room with her i touched her breasts and ...
A. 16 October 2007: Did you think it was appropriate that you got made pregnant at 13? You shouldn't be messing around with girls under 18.... (read in full...)
What is going on here? I want sex but he doesn't seem that interested.
Q. I love him. He says he loves me too. I want him. He says he wants me too. But we have sex only once or twice a week. He rarely initiates it and rarely has an orgasm. He says if we have sex more often it will degrade it. He says that my talking about ...
A. 16 October 2007: Men with ED can still be interested in porn. They just imagine they are one of the actors. I think a sex therapist could find the reason for his fixation on pee films. I think he is out of control and needs professional help. Stand by him and see ... (read in full...)
My emotional abusive fiance stopped getting touch, now I feel bad, help?
Q. I need help. I broke up with my emotionally abusive fiance a week ago. He kept trying to contact me but I just ignored him. Now, he has stopped and I feel depressed. When he was contacting me I guess in a weird way it felt good that he was so ...
A. 15 October 2007: Think about and do other things. Find a new bf.... (read in full...)
I still want my son to know his father despite all this awful hassle!!!
Q. i have a son that is 5 when he was 2 me and his father split up he took me to court on seeing him he was granted every other weekend for 4 hrs it started off great than it dropped to him bringing him back in an hr time when my son would get back he ...
A. 15 October 2007: Don't keep the biological father from seeing his son. Talk to your lawyer if you think your son may be unsafe.... (read in full...)
Is this flirting or just plain silliness??
Q. today me and my freind were taliking bye the gate at high school (there is a football ground bye our school)somtimes the players drive past today they did and they rodomley waved and smield at me and my freind were they flirting or am i just being ...
A. 15 October 2007: Some of them must have liked what they saw. Enjoy the compliment. There's no more to it.... (read in full...)
How do I convince my wife to have sex with another man??
Q. Please offer suggestions as to how to convince my late-50s wife to have sex with another man for our mutual pleasure. Although she has not always been faithful to me (she had an affair many years ago early in our marriage), she simply refuses to do ...
A. 15 October 2007: Bring the guy over to meet her. Don't bring the idea up until a couple of days later.... (read in full...)
Why does my ex like her more than me?
Q. My bf dumped me about 2 weeks ago. At first it was hard but we got over it and are now very close. So we were out this weekend and my mate was with us. Shes stunning and a gorgeous figure. I noticed the connection straight away. I was fine with it ...
A. 15 October 2007: She is newer to him. He'll be no big loss to you.... (read in full...)
How can I make a climax last longer?
Q. Help! Everytime I have sex with my boyfriend I climax within the first five minutes. I'm usually only climaxing on the 'outside' because I can never last long enough to attempt to climax on the inside. I feel like this is really bizzare? After I go ...
A. 15 October 2007: Use KY Jelly feminine Jelly. Women can have multiple orgasms, so try for two.... (read in full...)
I need some tips to help my wife when her dad dies.
Q. Hey everyone i hope you can help me with my problem. Bottom line is my wife is gong to loose her dad but i really need help with it all. At the moment hes very ill in general and is in hospital but he is on some sort of drugs that they have given ...
A. 15 October 2007: Stay by her side and do things for her, like get lunch, paying bills, or whatever may relieve some of her stress. Keep a note pad to keep track of times and places she needs to be.... (read in full...)
I have to make a decision between these two countries, both achievable financially. It will affect my future, so how do I decide?
Q. Hi - not sure if anyone can help with a decision of the heart or head as I need to make a decision on whether to move to Seattle, WA (USA) or Melbourne, Australia. There are plus and minus aspects to both but I just cannot decide and have spent ...
A. 15 October 2007: Make a list of everything that is important to you. Then give each wish a weight of importance to you. Then make a caculation. Then think on it for a week. Then make a decision.... (read in full...)
When I was left alone with my daugyhter's best friend, we touched each other intimately; my daughter knows I'm a lesbian. Help?
Q. i am a woman and im alesbian my daughter knows about this and doesnt mind but recently whenever her best friend comes over my vagina starts throbbing in a good way and i think i luv her, when i was left in a room with her i touched her breasts and ...
A. 15 October 2007: By your calculations this girl is 8. You are acting illegally and need professional help.... (read in full...)
My husband needs to read or watch lesbian porn to get aroused. Is this a behaviour problem, or just a sexual preference?
Q. I feel like I'm alone. I haven't found another woman who shares my heartache. Here's the problem in a nutshell... my husband can only get aroused reading, watching or talking about lesbian sex. Before we make love, he prefers to read lesbian porn ...
A. 15 October 2007: He needs serious medical counciling. How long has he had this problem? Was he like this when you married him?... (read in full...)
Is he still interested or just trying to tell me he's not? He hasn't gotten back to me to set the details yet.
Q. I asked out a guy in my office under the offer of dinner for his bday. He responded to he email instantly that he'd love to but that he wouldn't let me do the taking, that his upbringing and sense of chivlary required that he do the taking. This ...
A. 15 October 2007: If you don't hear from him within a week, consider that he politely declined your offer. He may still be trying to decide what to do.... (read in full...)
Is she cheating? My friends saw her at the bar in another boy's company...
Q. My gf and I have been together for 3 and a half years.....we have lived together before and we even have a dog together. Right now we are both trying to finish up school...and are really busy with it. But something happened with me and her and I ...
A. 15 October 2007: She's just trying to figure out how to best dump you. Emotionally she has already left you.... (read in full...)
How can I find out if I cheated or not?
Q. hi. i am nearly 16, been with my boyfriend just over a year and love him dearly. i recently went to a party of a friends for her 16th birthday and we got very drunk and i cant remember anything that happened. the next thing i knew was i was sat in ...
A. 15 October 2007: You should have learned not to drink too much. Don't tell your bf. If he finds out just say you got drunk and may have been taken advantage of. Personally I don't believe you have no memory, but it's the only defense you have.... (read in full...)
What is going on here? I want sex but he doesn't seem that interested.
Q. I love him. He says he loves me too. I want him. He says he wants me too. But we have sex only once or twice a week. He rarely initiates it and rarely has an orgasm. He says if we have sex more often it will degrade it. He says that my talking about ...
A. 15 October 2007: I get the idea he has always been this way? Some men have a low sex drive, but it does not mean they don't love in their own way. Medications, even some over the counter can lower sex drive. Ask him to see a doctor.... (read in full...)
My wife is lovely, but she's more like a sister
Q. Hi, I'm a 'young' 60 y/o and married. My wife and I visit friends on a weekly basis sometimes twice weekly. For the past six months I cannot get this other lady out of my mind - it's something I've never experienced before. I'm not going throug...
A. 15 October 2007: She is a friend. It is OK to have racy thoughts about her, but I hope you are too much of a gentleman to act on a happy thought. You have given your word to your wife.... (read in full...)
She said we should be friends but neither of us is making the effort.
Q. Me and my girlfriend broke up 2 months ago. We were together for 3 years, bought a home together, talked about marrage and children. Then one day says she fell out of love. I did the no contact and it worked she was calling all the time. Now she ...
A. 15 October 2007: Consider yourself gently dumped. Move on and stop living in the past. She ain't playin your game.... (read in full...)
I'm not sure what is going on, my bloke went and left his phone behind!!!
Q. I'm 19 and I have been with my fiance 3 years. He lived in Lincoln and moved here about 3 and half years ago. When i first met him he was into drugs and drinking every night. I dispise drugs, but i gave it ago. We became close and he stopped doing ...
A. 15 October 2007: You are in love with a loser. You can love a good guy just as much. Dump the bf and get on with your life.... (read in full...)
I began pretending to be him and reply in his stead. I think he intended for more but had second thoughts. Leave him?
Q. I recently found a number in my boyfriends phone which turned out to be a womans number. Instead of confronting him i began pretending to be him and she was replying to the messages with kisses and agreeing to meet up, she even said she knew about ...
A. 15 October 2007: You caught him, you do not need to meet her. The next choice is yours.... (read in full...)
How can I see if my friend sees me as more than a friend without making things awkward?
Q. Okay well me and this guy (going on 16) im 15, have been best friends for so long, he is the closest person to me and i love him to bits. the problem is i feel he keeps hugging me, kissing me (on the cheek), putting his arm round me etc. more tha...
A. 15 October 2007: Hugging and kissing means he thinks you are special to him. It's OK to tell him you let him do this only because he is special to you. Just don't let him go too far.... (read in full...)
I know it is right that I left, but my heart is saying something else!
Q. I broke up with my fiance a week ago and have tried very hard to not answer his calls. But just a few minutes ago he called and my caller id said "unknown" so stupidly I answered and it was him. He said that that was the only way he thought i would ...
A. 15 October 2007: You did the right thing. Of course he wants you back, he had a good punching bag.... (read in full...)
I've met a great guy, but after many bad experiences, I worry about getting hurt again. Any advice?
Q. there's this guy i met not so long ago and i feel so strongly about him, he's made it quite clear he likes me alot too but i spent thursday till sunday night with him n loved being with him sooo much. the thing is where i have been let down so ...
A. 15 October 2007: Finding true love means trusting and risking your heart. Just go slow and keep your eyes open and remember no one is perfect.... (read in full...)
I've fallen out of love with him. What do I do now?
Q. hi i really wont help i was spose to be moving out to live with my boyfreind but knowi have fell out with him and i dont know what to do ...
A. 15 October 2007: Tell him the truth and don't move in with him. Go slower the next time.... (read in full...)
I just want what is mine - how do I get it back?
Q. i don't believe this.i split up with my ex about 7 weeks ago.she has things that are mine, one in particular is of sentimental value.my grandad got me this, he passed away 3 yrs ago.it means alot to me. anyway. i have asked for it, text for it, e ...
A. 15 October 2007: You put your stuff in this position. Let the legal process run it's course and if you're lucky you'll get your stuff back. Worry wouldn't help at all.... (read in full...)
I read his emails and now feel more insecure than ever!
Q. please help me ppl!!i know its really wrong of me but my boyfriend left his emails open wen he went to uni today. I have recently failed my first year here, and am now looking for a full time job. We have been through a bit of a rough patch latley ...
A. 15 October 2007: From what you say it sounds to me you have one of the good guys.... (read in full...)
My insecurity is ruining my relationship
Q. I have been with my boyfriend nearly 6 months. we are in love though we have had our ups and downs mainly caused by my insecurity. I have recently moved about an hour away from him, so only see him a couple of times a week, i always drive to see h...
A. 15 October 2007: He does need some free time for himself. He might be the kind of guy who doesn't like women to be too clingy. So long as he gives you a reasonable amount of his time and doesn't hang out with other girls, you need to decide if that is enough for ... (read in full...)
I found out about her cheating and she says it will never happen again, but can I believe her?
Q. I met my girlfriend over a year ago and found out that cheated on me 11 months in I only found out because I saw her chat log on her computer there was only one and it basically said she preformed a sex act on him. I looked further back and ...
A. 15 October 2007: You need to leave the past where it is and go forward. If she's treating you right now, drop the thinking about old computer records. You should keep a sharp eye open and go slow on the marriage thing.... (read in full...)
Did she cheat on me?
Q. hello I have met a girl which I liked so much from a "serious online website for men and women looking for merraige". the first meeting between us was fantastic ! she appreciated me coming to her town so much and liked me so much ! Howeve...
A. 15 October 2007: Yes, I would consider her a manipulative cheater with too little love for marriage to you.... (read in full...)
Not sure what is happening with my wife and her co-workers, Advice please.
Q. Been married a little over a year. We've been trying to have a baby for almost a full year with no success, which has been hard on both of us. Recently, my wife has taken to spending a lot of times with her co-workers, and has told me that it ...
A. 15 October 2007: She is acting like she is single. You are being treated like dirt. Take her to get counseling or your marriage may be ending. See a specialty fertility doctor if you have not done so yet.... (read in full...)
I still think about my ex every day
Q. Hello! I broke up with my ex (we went out for about a year and a half) about a year and a half ago now. She was pretty much my first love, and we broke up in the end because things were getting too obsessive from both angles and she ended it. Howe...
A. 15 October 2007: You need to move on and give some other girls a chance. Stop looking for a girl like the old one. Each person is unique.... (read in full...)
I told him from the start I wanted marriage, but now he says he isnt sure
Q. Well, the thing is I have started dating this guy four months ago, he was a real sweetheart and I made it clear to him from the beginning that I am not looking for fun, I was looking for marriage instead. Also I placed a very unfair deadline ...
A. 15 October 2007: Don't waste the rest of your year on him.... (read in full...)
He cant keep it up long enough to have sex. I think its nerves as I am his first!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months now, and are at the "serious" stage of our relationship. We're both 18 and we've tried to have sex twice now. The thing is, he can't seem to keep an erection long enough for us to actually have ...
A. 15 October 2007: Keep trying but put no pressure on him to go all the way. Eventually he will relax and things will work out.... (read in full...)
I havent seen or heard from him in a month. Is he cheating on me? Did he break up with me?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years on and off. He was really my rebound back in the fall of 2004. The is an 2 1/2 age diff between us. Okay he was sent away for 2 years for cutting school and causing trouble, so we had a long ...
A. 15 October 2007: You two are a piece of work. Lying to each other and treating each other like crap. Sit back and think about what kind of life you lead. Maybe you should turn over a new leaf and move on to different associates.... (read in full...)
Are my feelings OK with him impression of me.
Q. Hi all- Ok, I must admit first off to being a bit of a snoop. My boyfriend checked his myspace account on my computer earlier, and when I went to sign in later his home page was still up. I listened to the little devil on my shoulder and looked i...
A. 15 October 2007: Don't bring it up to him. He did the right think by you. Give him a big kiss.... (read in full...)
Cheated on my girlfriend, she forgave me, I just found out she's pregnant, Now what?
Q. Months ago, I had a one night stand with a girl who I met previously before that night at a night club. What makes this situation very difficult for me is that I did this while having a girlfriend. I told her about it and she was devastated, but she ...
A. 15 October 2007: Get a pregnancy then then a dna test if necessay. If the child is yous step up to your obligations and make sure the baby has a wonderful life.... (read in full...)
What can I do to make this work again?
Q. my boyfriend and i broke up. He doesnt really know how he is feeling except he misses me a lot. Also he is soo stressed with school and just where he is in his life. So thing is, is that I want to get him back sometime in the future-more so near ...
A. 15 October 2007: Call him up and tell him it was a mistake and you miss him bunches. Tell him to come ove because you want to kiss him for an hour.... (read in full...)
I can't tell if this relation will be good for me.
Q. I posted here a few months back about my last relationship. Just to clarify for those who read that post,this question is about a new guy. So I started dating this guy after a painful relationship with my ex about a month and a half ago (I'm over ...
A. 15 October 2007: Don't touch you? I say dump you. Your love requirements are too complex for the simple mind of man.... (read in full...)
I lover her, how do I get her to trust me again. I'm a pathological lier.
Q. i (a pathological liar) have been with a girl for nearly 4 and a half months which is a while for me, i have realized that i have fallen quite in love with her, well she recently found out i lied about a few things (my age, hobbies, and lack of a ...
A. 15 October 2007: Get a job and take up the hobby. Tell her that xx is your physical age.... (read in full...)
I'm worried he may find someone better.
Q. Ok a rephrase of my other question. My Fiancee and I dont get any alone time and im afraid they will find someone better like my last 2 boyfriends did and im worried that without as much time alone together we might grow apart and i dont know what ...
A. 15 October 2007: Keep on top of what interests your boyfriend, then learn more about it than he does. Just din't use your knowledge to show him up.... (read in full...)
I want a girlfriend, but their not my age.
Q. I am 15 years old boy, who really wishes to have a girlfriend. I am 2 years behind in school though (Not because I am dumb, but because we moved allot), and am home schooled. Even if I would go to school, I wouldn't be able to have a girlfriend ...
A. 15 October 2007: Don't guys shoot rats and break beer bottle arount there? How about sliding down hills or throwing rocks at tree. Walk about and see what is going on.
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Is there any possibility hes interested in a relationship or is he just using me for sex?
Q. i have been seeing this guy for 4 months but he only texts or phones me on a saturday night to meet and come back mine when hes out with his mates, is thier any possibility hes interested in a relationship or is he just using me for sex, i really do ...
A. 15 October 2007: Dump him unless you want to keep using him for sex. He's not a good candidate for a loving relationship.... (read in full...)
I'm a teen and have cellulite on my legs.
Q. help im a teen and have cellulite on my legs what should i do? im not fat i just have it on my legs. does anyone have any ideas on what to do?...
A. 15 October 2007: Oils and exercise.... (read in full...)
I want a girlfriend, but their not my age.
Q. I am 15 years old boy, who really wishes to have a girlfriend. I am 2 years behind in school though (Not because I am dumb, but because we moved allot), and am home schooled. Even if I would go to school, I wouldn't be able to have a girlfriend ...
A. 14 October 2007: Go to places where girls your age hang out and meet them there. Make friends with guys your age. They will be able to introduce you.... (read in full...)
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