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He showed me his erect penis on MSN and I am freaked out!
Q. A person on msn has been flirting with me...It was fun while it lasted but have been put right off by him! He actually showed me his penis on webcam...it was erected aswel - As i were kinda doing sexy moves for him [regretably] And well i was comp...
A. 17 October 2007: Wise decision little bird.... (read in full...)
I want a girlfriend, but their not my age.
Q. I am 15 years old boy, who really wishes to have a girlfriend. I am 2 years behind in school though (Not because I am dumb, but because we moved allot), and am home schooled. Even if I would go to school, I wouldn't be able to have a girlfriend ...
A. 15 October 2007: Don't guys shoot rats and break beer bottle arount there? How about sliding down hills or throwing rocks at tree. Walk about and see what is going on.
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How do I know when to ask him out.
Q. well.. i really like this lad and have done for quite a long time and me and him have become quite close as mates.. and we have been talking more at school and on msn and we have been texting quite alot and he has been proper flirting with me at ...
A. 14 October 2007: Yes you should ask him out. Or you could say to him: "When are you going to ask me out?"... (read in full...)
I want a girlfriend, but their not my age.
Q. I am 15 years old boy, who really wishes to have a girlfriend. I am 2 years behind in school though (Not because I am dumb, but because we moved allot), and am home schooled. Even if I would go to school, I wouldn't be able to have a girlfriend ...
A. 14 October 2007: Go to places where girls your age hang out and meet them there. Make friends with guys your age. They will be able to introduce you.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with 2 men.
Q. I have a problem. I'm in love with two men. I'm married to john and have two beautiful boys. We've been married almost a year, and have been together for 5. I have been really unhappy lately, and when I try to talk to him about it, he doesn't ...
A. 14 October 2007: Adam is a friend. Be faithful to your husband and make sure he knows about Adam. Don't get sexually involved with Adam.... (read in full...)
What are the rules for dating a professor.
Q. Hey all. I'm 20 years old, a 2nd year college student, and I fancy my 28 yr old professor. I have no idea what may or may not happen (I have my dreams), but what are the rules for dating in a college setting? I mean dating, not sex (not till I ...
A. 14 October 2007: Check with your school's rule. I'm sure they have them. The number of schools that allow faculty to date students is getting lower every day.... (read in full...)
Need some objectivity!
Q. Hi I am 8 weeks pregnant i have a condition called rhesus disease which means my blood is attacking my baby and i might have to have blood transfusions to the baby while it is inside me. My partner is an alcoholic he is never violent but can be s...
A. 14 October 2007: Press on and do the best you can for the baby. Don't expect your bf to be a great daddy whose happy ever after.... (read in full...)
I can have sex with him, but can't say how I feel
Q. i have been seeing this guy for 4 months but he only texts or phones me on a saturday night to meet and come back mine when hes out with his mates, is thier any possibility hes interested in a relationship or is he just using me for sex, i really do ...
A. 14 October 2007: I think has the relationship he wants. Dump him and move on.... (read in full...)
Help! His parents are bigots!
Q. I am a white british woman with 3 young children from a previous relationship. I am in a relationship with a black african man. We are very much in love and wish to marry,my family and friends accept our relationship as do my partners siblings and ...
A. 14 October 2007: Hope they get used to you over time.... (read in full...)
I feel abnormal
Q. i am only 11 and i love to um............masterbate...is that normal...i also use my moms sex toys...when i try to use my hand or something i always stop...but with the toy i just keep going...also when i masterbate i always feel a cold feeling in ...
A. 14 October 2007: Ask your mom. At 11 you should not be using a fake ID and asking strangers such questions.... (read in full...)
Ten years in a wonderful relationship and then I discover his profiles on sex sites!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over 10 years. We have a successful business together and work very closely. We are also best friends, lovers, and recently just about to discuss marriage. He always told me he was in love with me and made me ...
A. 14 October 2007: I see I'm being beat up the others on this question. Maybe I'm wrong to equate internet surfing with contact to the opposite sex different than direct physical contact. I guess I'm wrong to equate it with just looking or flirting in person. I still ... (read in full...)
He showed me his erect penis on MSN and I am freaked out!
Q. A person on msn has been flirting with me...It was fun while it lasted but have been put right off by him! He actually showed me his penis on webcam...it was erected aswel - As i were kinda doing sexy moves for him [regretably] And well i was comp...
A. 14 October 2007: A girl your age should not be hanging with 10 year older guy who are showing of their penis (or maybe someone else's).... (read in full...)
Is his porn use turning him into a pervert?
Q. i have noticed my husband of 14 years is watching porn and it`s making me feel inadaquate and that he`s not satified with me he is 50 and i`m 48. is he turning into a pervert i`m worried...
A. 14 October 2007: He may be addicted and in need of professional help.... (read in full...)
How could I love him so much one month then the next month, feel..differently
Q. theres this guy at my school.. ive just recently joined this new school after giving birth to my son i felt i should start fresh and new so, this boy no one at this new school noes i have a son (in case of bullying and stuff) and me and this ...
A. 14 October 2007: Don't expect a child to make decisions like an adult. Having a child at your age indicates your parents did not teach you the limits that should be applied to someone your age. Try and stay a child and learn the skill you will need to support ... (read in full...)
My life is going nowhere fast - how can I become who I want to be?
Q. my life is so empty and i dont know how to fill it. who i am and who i want to be are worlds apart. im 22 and i dont have any friends, still live at home with my parents, i still have acne and my life is going nowhere. i want to be this like rea...
A. 14 October 2007: Get one of those workbooks on careers. Take the test and find out what you might be best suited for. Make a plan to achieve your goals.... (read in full...)
How do I make my 12 year old gf not dump me for my best friend
Q. i have a 12 year old girlfriend and i need to know how to make her happy so i dont get dumped and, no make her feel special comments....
A. 14 October 2007: 12 year olds don't understand the deep significance of there choices. They must learn by trial and error. Find a new gf and play the game too.... (read in full...)
After giving him his 3'some..he wants the other woman back all the time! It's getting to me...help!!
Q. My boyfriend has always wanted us to have a threesome with another girl, so a few weeks ago i agreed for his birthday to invole a friend of mine who is Bi-Sexual. He said he loved it and would like to do it again with the same girl, i enjoyed it, ...
A. 14 October 2007: Tell him you'll set it up one more time if he agrees to never ask for it again.... (read in full...)
He's a father but not a daddy
Q. I had a child when i was 15, i reget having a child so young but i dont regret having my daughter. Her dad came from a well off background and because of this didnt want to help raise her, he just sent money every week. I really wanted him to help ...
A. 14 October 2007: Point out he could stop paying child support. He doesn't take time to see her anyway. It would be better for her long term happiness.... (read in full...)
No alone time will break us up?
Q. we barely have any alone time together and im afraid we are going to grow apart what should i do?...
A. 14 October 2007: At your age it is your parents job to permit time for only healthy things for you to do.... (read in full...)
Prince Charming or Mr Reliability?
Q. Confused! I have been in a loving relationship with a man aged 40 for approximately 6 months, he adores both me and my disabled son. However he just doesnt make my stomach turn over when he walks in the room. He also has a problem with cannabis us...
A. 14 October 2007: Since trapping are important to you, I say, by all means trade up to the new guy.... (read in full...)
How to get to know him?
Q. Lets see. I'm in love with this guy who prolly doesnt even know i exist. thats depressing. sooo, he's in my personal fitness class and soo soo goodlooking! but yeah, i tryed introducing myself face to face. but he hangs around with his friends...
A. 14 October 2007: Not every guy you meet will want you. Sometime their answer is no. You could try a little more or just move on. It's no big deal.... (read in full...)
Ten years in a wonderful relationship and then I discover his profiles on sex sites!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over 10 years. We have a successful business together and work very closely. We are also best friends, lovers, and recently just about to discuss marriage. He always told me he was in love with me and made me ...
A. 14 October 2007: He's probably inocent of any bad activity. His error is being too curious. Many of those sites make you join just to look around. You should know him well enough to know if he is being faithful.... (read in full...)
Could he be a pedophile?
Q. okay, so my teacher is a nice guy. He's friendly and extremely nice. He doesn't really flirt with students, but if they want him to hug them or if they touch him a lot, he has no problem with that at all. I'm really worried about my friend, like ...
A. 14 October 2007: If it's like you say, the teacher may be going too far. Tell the principal what you noticed. It's the principal's job to check out these things.... (read in full...)
Help! My conscience driving me insane!
Q. Alrigh. I was here awhile ago. long while ago. Here I am. The fictional name I will use here is Alex.(Yes, that name is not really mine). I'm a 12 year old loser, but that's not the problem. that was a post long ago. I'm paranoid and it's dri...
A. 14 October 2007: First, the'll never find out. Second, asking for other opinions is a good thing to do. Third after reading the opinions you make up your own mind as what you are going to do.... (read in full...)
What are some signs that a guy is gonna propose?
Q. What are some signs that a guy is gonna propose? i think he might be thinkin about it but i have no clue please helllp me ...
A. 14 October 2007: He takes you out to look at rings. He saks you abot wedding and what help your family can be. He asks about where to go on a honeynoon.... (read in full...)
How do I play this game?
Q. i am in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend wants us to talk about our sexual fantasies online... i don't mind at all and actually he's very good at it but the problem is that frankly i don't know how to express my thoughts and my feelings ...
A. 14 October 2007: Ask him what he would like to hear you say. Keep good notes and make up a few on your own.... (read in full...)
The school vamp is after my guy!
Q. Dear Agony Aunts/Uncles, There's a girl at my school who is a major slut. Her goal in life is probably screw every guy in the premises that she happens to be. Anyway, she happens to flirt with every guy at school practically, and its getting on m...
A. 14 October 2007: You need to trust that your guy will not act on her flirtations. Your job should be building that trust with him. Keep him so busy he will hardly notice her.... (read in full...)
Long distance 1st choice or local 2nd?
Q. I need advice. I met an amazing guy over the summer when i went abroad. We really hit it off even though i thought it was impossible to feel anything after my last messy relationship. We both knew that we couldnt be together right now because we ...
A. 14 October 2007: Go for the local guy. Things will workout better. Tell the long distance guy the whole truth and ask to remain friends.... (read in full...)
I don't want to hurt him, but ...
Q. ok me and his guy have been going out for a week and a half and i want to break up...how do i break up with him with out bing to mean? p.s. ive nver break up with anyone before....
A. 14 October 2007: You don't need to break up with him. Tell him you like him as a friend but not as a bf.... (read in full...)
I don't want to hurt her, but ...
Q. Ok this girl REALLY likes me and i like her to but not as much as i thought how do i break up "nicely?"...
A. 14 October 2007: You don't need to break up with her. Tell her you like her as a friend but not as a gf.... (read in full...)
He says I'm too young, but...
Q. So I like this guy who just turned 20. I am 16. The day before my 16th birthday, I went to his house (I am really great friends with his sister, and whole family, thats how we met). We don't usually talk a lot when I'm over there, because I am over ...
A. 14 October 2007: I agree with your father. Your mother is not acting wisely. You need more time before dating a mature man. You need to date a few guys your own age until you are at least 18.... (read in full...)
Is there any way that I can get him to realize what he's lost?
Q. I was recently dumped by a boyfriend of six months. Our relationship was very intense (got together on a school trip in romantic Paris) and had lots of ups and downs. Recently, he told me he'd suddenly realized he didn't love me anymore. He changed ...
A. 14 October 2007: You should know that you don't want disrespect. Therefore, you need to dump him and find a more respectful bf.... (read in full...)
How could I tell her how I feel without sounding like a total wuss??
Q. Me and my girl have been going out for about 1 months or so. A few weeks after our first year anniversary she confessed to me that she had cheated on me with this guy from her school. She also told me that she had only been with him for a few days ...
A. 14 October 2007: Your girl is unfaithful. Dump her and find a more loyal girl.... (read in full...)
He takes longer..
Q. Ok I don't know if this is a common problem, so I need advice. I recently started dating a very nice guy and we also started having sex. Now the problem is that he takes incredibly long to orgasm. I wanted to give him oral sex, at first he didn't ...
A. 14 October 2007: This is not normal. Try waiting longer between the time you have sex. Also try lubes and different positions.... (read in full...)
I am falling for my boss....
Q. Iam majorly falling for my boss. I think he harmlessly flirts with me but im not sure. In 21 and he is only a few years older than me and he is really good looking.He never calls me by my first name, he either calls me by my nickname or he ...
A. 14 October 2007: You could ask him to dinner to see how you two get along outside of work. Remember most businesses don't permit bosses to date employees. One of you must quit or you both must risk being fired. Make sure your mutual affection is up to this.... (read in full...)
I'm very stuck here---how do I explain this one??
Q. dear cupid i have a huuuuge situation...im still inlove with my ex and its the same for him, although i love my current boyfriend, they both know about eachother. I copied and pasted why im pissed off to my boyfriend from a conversation i was havi...
A. 14 October 2007: You need to decide where your heart is. You can explain away the letter. Say you may love him, but you cannot be with him.... (read in full...)
Is it time to end it?
Q. Okay.. I've been with my girlfriend for over a year and a half now. And Our realtionship is volatile to say the least. Not in a violent way, but we argue imensely and we can tear each other apart pretty easily then suddenly go back to being ...
A. 14 October 2007: Don't ever say anything about it. If someone brings it up, deny it.... (read in full...)
She flies off the handle - what can I do?
Q. i am involved with a divorced woman from the usa ... and we have agreed to get married, though we only converse via msn and telephone. for some reason, she tells me that we must wait 9 months before we can actually meet in person. moreover, there is ...
A. 13 October 2007: You are being lied to and manipulated. Demand to be respected or move on.... (read in full...)
Is tall and short a good mix?
Q. I was just wondering on a few issues and need clarity. First of all how long should a guy last each round before ejaculating? Does is it mean that when your lady's not moaning during sex, you are not man enouugh? Is it true that body height i...
A. 13 October 2007: How long a guy lasts before ejaculating has many variables. Some guys practice so that they can last a long time. If you do it once and wait 15 minutes and do it again, he will last longer the second time. By the 5th time he should be lasting 20 ... (read in full...)
What's up with my ex? Sheee's baaack!
Q. What does it mean when my ex girlfriend asks my friend for my phone number?...We talked and everything was cool. We talked like nothing even happened, it felt natural. She says she wants to hang out..blah blah blah. hasnt seen me in a long time. its ...
A. 13 October 2007: She has a cruel streak. She was just testing to see if she still has power over you. You put a smile on her face. Don't play with her any more. Find yourself a new gf.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend just broke up with me
Q. My Boyfriend Of 9 Months Has Just Finished With Me. He Said He Doesnt Like Anyone Else, But Is Flirting WIth A Girl Right Under My Nose. It Is Really Depressing Me. And I Dont Know What To Do. I Am Trying To Get On With My Life And Forget About...
A. 13 October 2007: Don't let one boy get you down. Consider it a learning experience. At your age dating shold be about going out and having fun. Find a new bf.... (read in full...)
I show unnecessary aggression having learned from my father it was the only way to express anger/frustrations. I want to control myself, how?
Q. I have learned from my father that shouting, beating your wife, kids is the only way to express your anger and frustration. Sometimes these fears come to surface when i make some mistakes or do something wrong and even if the authority figure would ...
A. 13 October 2007: You need to stop and think before you act. Let your thinking rule over your emotions. When you get mad say to yourself, "What would Jesus do."... (read in full...)
I am not sure if he is too old for me or not
Q. My young 65 year old husband whom I adored and he did me,died 18mths ago. He told me to find somebody younger next time. I have fallen in love with a young sometimes childish 70year old.When I am with him everything is great apart from him being too ...
A. 13 October 2007: It sounds like you have an ideal situation now. It won't last forever. Nothing does. Make a change when you have to.... (read in full...)
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