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My mum wont let me stay over at my boyfriends house. Should iI keep trying to convince her?
Q. I'm 19 years old, and have been with my boyfriend for one year and 3 months. We are very much in love, and can see our futures together. He gets on really really well with all my family, my parents completely adore him!! Only problem is my mum ...
A. 11 September 2007: It sounds as if you will do it without your mum's permission. If so, are you just looking for somone to tell you it's O.K. Just tell mum and don't brag about it.... (read in full...)
My children don't approve of me dating younger women!
Q. I am a sedate older guy and I like to date young girls (not under 18 young). My children (also over 18) always harrass me and my girlfriend saving I am perverted. My girlfriend and I get along well. We go out and on road trips every few months. I ...
A. 7 September 2007: I used the age 18 in my question just to say I'm not looking for underage babies. My only girlfriend since my wife died is 32 which is the age of my oldest daughter. I suppose my age shows in my calling the woman I'm dating a girl. If she's ... (read in full...)
My children don't approve of me dating younger women!
Q. I am a sedate older guy and I like to date young girls (not under 18 young). My children (also over 18) always harrass me and my girlfriend saving I am perverted. My girlfriend and I get along well. We go out and on road trips every few months. I ...
A. 6 September 2007: The clothes and jewelry I buy for my girfriend is not expensive. An amusement park t shirt and a museum t shirt with a meercat on it. Also a Colts pleated skirt and a CZ necklace with a horseshoe shape. For Christmas I gave her a leather winter ... (read in full...)
Is her use of sex toys affecting her performance with me?
Q. Me and my girlfriend hav had a steady relationship for seven months. I am a virgin and she has only ever used sex toys. we decided to take things further so when we did she told me she had no feeling in her nipples however i put this down to having ...
A. 5 September 2007: Truth is that most women don't orgasm by regular sex. Modern men and women need to experiment to find out how to get her to orgasm consistently. In the past they just faked it.... (read in full...)
I'm scared that I wouldn't be able to give him a BJ!
Q. this one guy that i like, he wants a bj but everyone tells me how big he is. i've even seen it on webcam i'm scared i won't be able to give him a bj or anything cause it would be to big and i will end up embarassed. please give me advice....
A. 5 September 2007: Wait until you are 18 and then you can start seriously thinking about doing it. It's only scary because you know you shouldn't be doing it now.... (read in full...)
I never really enjoy oral sex...how do I approach my partner??
Q. I've just started dating a really nice guy and our relationship is progressing to a more intimate stage. My problem is oral sex. I've suffered with various ailments around that part of my body since I had my son 14 years ago and I've never really ...
A. 5 September 2007: If it doesn't hurt, fake that you are enjoying it.... (read in full...)
Where is the g-spot????
Q. where is the g spot?...
A. 5 September 2007: It is the clitoris. Look it up in an anatomy book or on the net. It reacts to stimulus in a woman similar to the way a penis reacts in a man.... (read in full...)
My mum wont let me stay over at my boyfriends house. Should iI keep trying to convince her?
Q. I'm 19 years old, and have been with my boyfriend for one year and 3 months. We are very much in love, and can see our futures together. He gets on really really well with all my family, my parents completely adore him!! Only problem is my mum ...
A. 5 September 2007: If you are still accepting your Mum's support you should follow her wishes. Her values were formed in a different era. You're pushing her to change will hurt her in her soul. Don't do it.... (read in full...)
My children don't approve of me dating younger women!
Q. I am a sedate older guy and I like to date young girls (not under 18 young). My children (also over 18) always harrass me and my girlfriend saving I am perverted. My girlfriend and I get along well. We go out and on road trips every few months. I ...
A. 5 September 2007: It's not like I'm dating a bunch of young girls. Just one and we seem to click just because we are so different. We do much different things than either of us would do if we were with someone our own age. I take her fishing on a party boat, to ... (read in full...)
His ex is back from travelling next week and i'm worried she will try getting him back!
Q. Ive been seeing this boy for 7 weeks now and I really, really like him - Im sure he feels the same too. We have really good times when were together. The problem is his ex. he really loved her when they were together but she cheated on him a...
A. 5 September 2007: From a guys point of view, there is nothing you should do. If he can be lured away you don't want him. Be yourself and see if it's you he wants.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend lost his rag with me and now wont speak to me or contact me. What should I do?
Q. Ok, I am 50 and my b/f is 55. We have been dating for 5 months. We have a great relationship. He tells me he loves me and shows it to me in many ways. He will do anything for me. He has a son (24) with some medical concerns who lives out of state. ...
A. 5 September 2007: You disrespected him by doing what he expressly asked you not to do. He may eventually swallow his pride and contact you. I recomend that you leave him be and move on when you feel he is really gone.... (read in full...)
Is my uncle lying about the guy I like saying he likes me?
Q. hi i like this boy called jayden but he doesnt like me what should i do? my uncle josh said he likes me but i asked him out and he said no, then my uncle josh said that jayden says nice things about me behind my back but he doesnt want me to know. ...
A. 5 September 2007: How old is Jayden? Maybe he and you need to grow a little older before you try to hook up.... (read in full...)
I want to try getting with a girl I've liked for a long time. She is in a relationship but do you think she will be bored with him by now?
Q. Hi I sent some emails to a girl at school almost a year ago now saying that I liked her, but she rejected me because at the time she was in a strong relationship. Now I am thinking about trying to win her affections once again but I am not sure ...
A. 5 September 2007: It never hurts to ask. But many relationships do not end in boredom, they grow stronger.... (read in full...)
It's been 10 months and I'm still not pregnant! Any advice?
Q. i have been trying for a baby for 10 months and nothin.ive been on the internet and worked out wen i am ovulating and done it on the dates and still nothin. my mates have told me not to think about it and that im mayb trying to hard but how can i ...
A. 5 September 2007: Try for at least 18 months and then see a fertility doctor.... (read in full...)
Should I go out with him or not?
Q. What shall i do? Hi i like this boy but i dont like him he keeps asking me out and i say no i dont know if i should say yes or not so then he knows how i feel can you help me?...
A. 5 September 2007: Don't go out with him or you'll break his heart. Obviously you don't have strong feelings like he does.... (read in full...)
Does my married boyfriend still love me?
Q. My married boyfriend is scared to death of his wife. I bought him a cell phone and now I havent heard from him in three weeks but he is listening to all my messages is there any hope he loves me still?? His wife and him have not been happy for six ...
A. 5 September 2007: He should be scared of his wife. The legal system treats divorcing men with children very harshly. He has already assumed heavy obligations by marrying and having children. Imagine your expectations if you were in the place of his wife.... (read in full...)
My guy said he wanted to get married now he says we argue too much!
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together now for 10 months and ever since the begining he always went on about getting engaged to me before my birthday well my birthday has gone now and i sort of mintioned it to him saying were u all talk he said can u ...
A. 5 September 2007: Is he right about the arguing? There are getting to be lots of unmarried women raising families without men. I think it is due to growing differences in the expectations of men and women. You need to understand his expectations as well as your ... (read in full...)
How can I make sex between me and my boyfriend better?
Q. I dont know whats wrong with my sex life...I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years i was a virgin and just lost it to him...it hurt when i lost it but not as much as i expected and know that i have sex i dont feel that much pleasure...it sucks ...
A. 5 September 2007: First stop worrying about your anatomy. Trying different positions can vary the tightness of your vigina. He needs to do some studying if he can't make you orgasm regularly. Do you get regular Os by his mouth and hand? Do you self stimulate to O? ... (read in full...)
Everyone around me seems to be getting engaged but my guy doesn't seem to want to! Any guys advice would be a bonus!
Q. I'm 30. My partner and I have been together for nearly 4 years and while I love him dearly, I'm getting really frustrated that everyone around me seems to be getting engaged, married and/or having kids whereas I'm still 'single' (we don't even ...
A. 5 September 2007: I think there are only so many days in your life. No situation is perfect. At this point you are entitled to ask him his intentions. He's no superprize keeping you up in the air over this. Ask questions and decide what you want to do.... (read in full...)
I get swollen and bleed when I have sex
Q. I am 15 and I have had sex 3 times. My first time wasn't painful as the penis wasn't big. My second time was so painful (he was very big) he had to stop and my vagina and clitorus swelled up and i bled a bit. My third time was a tiny bit less ...
A. 5 September 2007: I agree that you are too young to be doing this now. But, remember most viginas can expand to the sixe of a child. When the time come you will be able to get used to sex with your husband with no pain at all.... (read in full...)
My wife is masturbating more these days. Why?
Q. I noticed that my wife is masturbating a lot as of late. She does it in the shower and puts the shower head on high and holds it near herself. I walked in on her once and we talked about what I saw. At that time we were not having sex much. 2 ...
A. 5 September 2007: She has reasons for what she is doing. Start thinking, you probably already know what they are. If not spend more time talking to her and if that fails get counseling. Otherwise you will lose her in the long run.... (read in full...)
I'm not interested in him and he keeps harassing me! What can I do?
Q. He won't take no for an answer. I met a new man about 3 weeks ago. He seemed quite keen and interested in me so I gave him my number as I thought we could talk and get to know each other better. I told him I wanted to take things slowly and ...
A. 5 September 2007: Tell him to stop contacting you or you'll call the cops. Then do it if necessary. He may have a mental illness if he can't stop himslf.... (read in full...)
Anal sex is painful for my wife but I like it. Advice please!
Q. Anal sex is painful for my wife but I like it. Is there any way to have anal sex without hurting my wife?...
A. 5 September 2007: Buy her a device and plenty of lube. Let her practice at he own pace with her in control. After awhile she may change her mind. Go slow.... (read in full...)
My ex said I didnt give him enough sex. How do I deal with this in future relationships?
Q. My ex-boyfriend and I were together for over three years and had an amazing sex life. We had sex atleast once a day if not more, but when he would get drunk and wanted to have sex he would be so ruff and demanding which was a complete turn off. ...
A. 5 September 2007: Why give the a**** any further thought. Since no 2 guys are alike, save your energy for your new guy.... (read in full...)
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