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Why do I find my uncle so sexy?
Q. Why do I find my uncle so sexy? Im into older men always have been and I dont get to see my uncle very much as he and my aunt do their own things but they also do things together. So last week we spent a good few days in each other company, others ...
A. 19 October 2007: Your a horney young girl with flirting skills and you feel good using them.... (read in full...)
Why the sudden change of heart?
Q. I am 19 and I've been with my girlfriend for about 5 months (she is 18). I have strong feelings for her, and she is well aware of how I feel and she says she feels the same. All of a sudden, she said she wants to "take a break". Her excuse? She says ...
A. 12 October 2007: Did the take your blood? You shold ask for a copy of the results and go from there.... (read in full...)
I try to brainwash myself that I don't like him, but when I see him I blush.
Q. i like this guy from the first time i saw him i decided i wanted to be with him or even be friends this didnt work out because he doesnt talk to girls because too much girl like him so he just stop talking to them i dont know if he likes me ...
A. 12 October 2007: Approch him as a fellow student instead of a girl on the make. This may spark his interest in you.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is making me mad.
Q. My boyfriend is driving me mad. He is constantly telling me I'm miserable, even when I'm not, and he gets annoyed at me for it. Constantly! I love him, but this is becoming unbearable. I feel like nothing is good enough for him. He moans that I ...
A. 12 October 2007: Start kissing him more often.... (read in full...)
Why do I find my uncle so sexy?
Q. Why do I find my uncle so sexy? Im into older men always have been and I dont get to see my uncle very much as he and my aunt do their own things but they also do things together. So last week we spent a good few days in each other company, others ...
A. 12 October 2007: He finds you cute, attractive and playful. What do you expect from him, a married man?... (read in full...)
Is three months long enough after a break up
Q. I never had problems like this,so here goes. I moved to florida like 6 months ago, and i keep seeing this girl. Every time i see her i get goose bumps.I will call her *M* I finally get the courage to strike up a conversation,she is just very uni...
A. 12 October 2007: You need to try again to ask her ouy to dinner. Have a couple of dates in mind. Her response will help you understand what she is thinking.... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't care to show me affection.
Q. i have been married for only 8mo and my husband shows very little affection, though i have told him he doesn't seem to care ...
A. 12 October 2007: He probablly has a low sex drive. You should have noticed this before you married. You need to get used to it or leave.... (read in full...)
I don't want to put my boyfriend's pants on me.
Q. How to bring my bf to knowleadge that no matter how assertive,independent and strong i look like,i dont want to put his trousers on me? I mean, do I have to deal with a one more example of weakened masculinity or its just my problem?My bf and I do ...
A. 12 October 2007: Stop being so difficult and do what he tells you. It's a test to prove his manhood and your chopping him down. He wants the world to see that you do as you're told. You could be bull headed and drive him away, they you'd be free to do whatever you ... (read in full...)
Do you think it's wrong to look at porn and masturbate at age 13?
Q. I am 13 and I look at porn and masturbate. I have this urge to have sex, but know I shouldn't in case I regret it later. Do you think it's wrong to look at porn and masturbate?...
A. 11 October 2007: It's OK so long as you don't become addicted to it. Moderation is the way to go.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a threesome. I want to do this for him, but how do you organize something like this?
Q. Hi My bf and I have been together 18months and are happy he is older then me (he is 31 and im 24) and for this reason and others he seems to be the more outspoken one and I am the one who is lead I kinda prefere to just blend in whereas he likes...
A. 11 October 2007: Tell him no and tell him you will dump him if he ever brings it up again. This should quickly solve your problem.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a 16 year old girl.
Q. hey. This may seem odd to a lot of people out there, but I think I'm in love with a 16 year-old girl. I'm friends with her mother who delivers baked goods to my shop. Sometimes "Diana", the mother, will send "Jocelyn", her daughter, to my shop to ...
A. 11 October 2007: Stay friends with her until she is at least 18 before asking her for a date. Don't rush things. You don't want to take an unfair advantage of her.... (read in full...)
Losing my virginity (next Saturday) what should I expect?
Q. Im losing my virginity next saturday with my long term partner. We have everything ready. My mates hosue will be free so we're using hers. She said she'd leave the master bedroom done up perfect for us like silk sheets, dimmer lights, oils, slow son...
A. 11 October 2007: Don't expect anything just go with it and relax and enjoy it. Tell him the things that feel best to you. Try out his suggestions. It takes several lovemaking sessions for newbees to really get the most out of it.... (read in full...)
I have never given my boyfriend a hand job before.
Q. I have never given my boyfriend a hand job before. What should I do? Should I be naked or I have no idea what to do. ...
A. 11 October 2007: You don't need to be naked. Tell him you've never done it before and have him tell you what to do. That will turn him on and make it easier for you.... (read in full...)
After dating me for 4 months he says he is married! What should I do with him?
Q. My boyfriend just told me he is married after dating me for 4 months he said he didn't tell me because he did not want to lose me. He feels that if I knew I would leave him. What should I do with him. Keep him or throw him to the curb??...
A. 11 October 2007: Dump the liar.... (read in full...)
I always wanted to get married but since thsi engagement I've had an unusual urge to cheat. Why?
Q. I recently got engaged and since then I've had the unusual urge to cheat. I've always wanted to get married and nothing could be more exciting to me. But a growing desire for trying some let's just say wild things before I have a ring affixed to ...
A. 11 October 2007: Everyone thinks about cheating. Mature people don't act on improper urges. I wouldn't take as a sign you are unsure about your relationship.... (read in full...)
Is he playing games with me?
Q. i got one of my male friends to call my bf without him knowing he was my friend to ask for my number from him telling him he admires and aslo like me to be his.i was thinking he was going to tell him i was his and that he should stay clear but to my ...
A. 11 October 2007: I think he wants to keep you for himself. It's the game of life and he's playing OK.... (read in full...)
Should I take any notice of my father?
Q. I have been dating this guy for about 6 months now. We are both divorced. I am 23 and he is 39. I like the way our relationship is going and we are very happy. My mother adores him, but my dad only sees the age difference and refuses to even meet ...
A. 11 October 2007: I think you like to show your father you are in charge of your life. You should consider your father's opinion and then make up your own mind. Be honest with yourself.... (read in full...)
Is there something there?
Q. So theres this guy i like, we were great friends for a long time, he was always shouting me sitting with me, i honestly thought he liked me. Then one day his friend told him that i liked him, and ever since he's been ignoring me, and he totally ...
A. 11 October 2007: I hope you smile when he looks you in the eye. Winking occassionally also would be good.... (read in full...)
Am I being silly?
Q. Hi My names rebecca and my boyfriend works long hours. I need some help and advice as I feel very down. I am a very jealous person and always have been. I am worried as my boyfriend is going on a team building evening bowling and dinner with all...
A. 11 October 2007: Yes you are being silly, but that is normal for someone in your position. Trust grows when you tough it out and see that nothing bad happens. Love means you have to do this.... (read in full...)
What do I talk about when I meet her?
Q. My girlfriend lives in New Mexico and we converse everyday and have done for the last 18months and we have met each other twice and she is about to move over here to the U.K. soon and we are going to get married. I am struggling to have a conversa...
A. 11 October 2007: Talk about what you did today and about what you both might want to do after you are married. Things you want to show her in your country.... (read in full...)
I don't know whether to have sex with him - should I?
Q. i met a guy who gets me crazy. we spent all days together. but he is living with another woman, he has a son with her. he told me that when we met. everyday we want to see each other. i don´t know what to do. i´ve thought to have sex with him but i ...
A. 11 October 2007: Don't have sex with him. Stay away from him. He is a user.... (read in full...)
Why do I back out?
Q. ok i really want to make out with my girlfriend I've done it before so I'm kinda nervous :S She hasn't done it before ever and she told me she wants to do it. She's not that confident probably less confident than me :S Every time i go to do it, i...
A. 11 October 2007: Don't try to rush it. Kissing is supposed to be fun not stressful. Try a little more hugging when kissing.... (read in full...)
He said he liked my nest mate and we broke up. While we were together he joked about me giving him a bj. Now I feel he's using me as a back up plan?
Q. My bf broke up with me about a week back. He said it was bcos of instincts but i wasnt that sure. Later on the SAME night he slips out that he fancies my bestmate. I dont trust her enough to think she didnt do anything for him to dump me for her. ...
A. 11 October 2007: You are wise not to let him use you. I think you need to expand your group of friends and see what others are doing.... (read in full...)
Why did it hurt when it should feel good?
Q. My bf tried to enter me last night, but it didn't go in. It was so painful, i was quite wet so i dont know what the problem was [sorry if that was 2 graphic]. Why did it hurt, and why was it soo 'tight' ??? He even tried going slow, but it just hur...
A. 11 October 2007: If he was able to enter you with his fingers he should be able to ener you with his penis. Just go slow, relax and keep trying.... (read in full...)
He proposed to me - but did he really mean it?
Q. Hi all...new here so not sure how this all works but really liked your posted discussions so thought that I would throw my current situation/question out there.. The man that I have been involved with(great relationship) for sometime asked me a cou...
A. 11 October 2007: Obviously he didn't understand your answer. Where's the ring.... (read in full...)
My friends wife and I were out of control, blowing my principle right out the window.
Q. I have a fair amount of experience with women but not so much in terms of committed relationships. I have governed my dating life by a few basic principles, one being you don't cross the line when it comes to your friend's girlfriend/fiancee/wife. ...
A. 11 October 2007: Worse has been done. The only good is that you can learn from mistakes.... (read in full...)
Did I have a stupid reason to break up or looking for a way out?
Q. Did I overreact or did my fiance? My fiance have been breaking up a lot lately and arguing. Now it's over for good because a few days ago I asked if he could not use my shampoo, etc. for the shower. He yelled at me saying that I should be paying the ...
A. 11 October 2007: You both were being stupid. You both need to learn better ways to express and solve conflicts. It was not even about the shampoo. Yes he was wrong. He needs to learn how to fight more gently with his gf.... (read in full...)
How to tell my boyfriend I'm in love with his best friend.
Q. SO THERE ARE THESE TWO GUYS. WHOM ARE BEST FRIENDS. AND IM DATING ONE OF THEM BUT I REALLY WANT THE OTHER. THEY ARE BOTH SOOO SWEET BUT I THINK IM IN LOVE WITH THE ONE IM NOT DATING. I HAVE NO CLUE WAT TO DO OR HOW TO TELL MY BF IM IN LOVE WITH HIS ...
A. 11 October 2007: Stop dating your bf. After a couple of month ask the one you like if your ex would object.... (read in full...)
Does he love me too?
Q. Dear Cupid, Here is the guy i really love but I really don't know if he Really loves me in return. I don't unbderstand his character towards me and the way he treated me. Hey! we don't have nay realationship but I just really do'nt know if we ha...
A. 11 October 2007: You don't have enough info to answer your question. You need to talk to him and go out with him before trying to make an answer.... (read in full...)
Body confidence issues
Q. im 16 and yesterday i went to buy a nice bra and i was so self conscious, i thought people were giving me looks as i have no . how do i get my to grow?...
A. 11 October 2007: Time will grow them. There is no reason to be self conscious. There will be no record kept. No report card.... (read in full...)
My heart and soul can't imagine living without her.
Q. WAS VERY GOOD I THINK. I HAVE A QUESTION FOR YOU IF I MAY.I AM GOING THROUGH A BRAKE UP AFTER 8.5 YEARS. SHE TOLD ME SHE NEEDS SOME TIME. WE HAVE ONLY LIVED TOGETHER FOR 3 YEARS. MY PROBLUM IS I LOVE HER SO MUCH THAT I CAN NOT SEE MYSELF LIVING WITH ...
A. 11 October 2007: Why didn't you ever marry her? She may have tired of waiting. You can't have a strategy that has a good chance of success unless you really know what she's been thinking about. If you don'y know that is a big part of your problem.... (read in full...)
How do I stop thinking about him?
Q. I need advice! A while ago I met a guy when we were on a school trip abroad. I liked him the first time I set eyes on him. Recently he said something quite mean to me and he has a girlfriend. But I can't seem to stop thinking about him. I keep lis...
A. 11 October 2007: The best way to stop thinking about one thing is to start thinking about something more interesting. I suggest you watch a comedy movie or read a book.... (read in full...)
How do I tell my ex that I want him back?
Q. Ok basically, me and this guy liked each other for a long time, the first time we dated it didn't work out. But even after 3 months, i still want to try it again, and he still likes me. We're not allowed to see each other anymore nor have i got the ...
A. 11 October 2007: Just because you want something doesn't mean you can get it. Sometimes getting what you think you want is not the best thing for you. I think this is one of those situations.... (read in full...)
How to deal with an awkward unrequited love?
Q. I have a friend, not that close mind you, who I have fancied since I first laid eyes on her (3 years ago.) Recently my feelings toward her have intensified and I've fallen in love with her. However, I have a strong suspicion that she knows half, but ...
A. 11 October 2007: You need to ask her out on a date. Then you'll probably know what she's thinking about you (one way or the other).... (read in full...)
I've gotten myself into a situation, he has a girlfriend.
Q. Help! I have got myself into a complicated situation and need some advice! I have just recently started university where I have made lots of good friends and lets just say I have got to know one of them a lot better than the others! The only problem ...
A. 11 October 2007: Tell him if he ever drops her as his gf you want to be first in line to apply for the job.... (read in full...)
I like this girl and want to date her, I don't know what to do.
Q. i like this girl and would like to date her but i don't but i don't know what to do. I got to know her about 2years ago when she fancied my best mate. And she couldn't get over him so she used to talk to me alot about him etc. I kind of helped h...
A. 11 October 2007: By all means ask her for a certain date just before half term starts. At the end of the first date move your lips in front of hers. If she closes her eyes just go ahead and kiss her. If she moves away it means she doesn't want to be kissed. If she ... (read in full...)
My sister and I are close, and I'm jealous of her.
Q. I have a problem and I need help. I'm 14 and my sister is 15, and we are very close. But I am so jelous of her. Okay, most of the guys I like end up liking her. Every girl and guy in my grade tries to be friends with her, they act like I don't even ...
A. 11 October 2007: Pretty people always get the advantages. Everything comes easier to them. In the end they turn out to be the saddest people because all the attention they get is superficial. Boys just want them for their body. Employers think they will do a ... (read in full...)
How to get rid of love handles?
Q. I haven't been eating breakfast while I have school for awhile now. I do however eat it on the weekends, over summer, and anytime else other than when I have school. My problem is that I feel absolutely sick in the morning if I have to eat ...
A. 11 October 2007: For love handles see:
http://exercise.about.com/cs/abs/l/bloblique.htm... (read in full...)
She's dreaming of her ex so what does that mean about us?
Q. i apologize in advance if this is confusing but im really confused right now and need some help. ok so about a week ago i had a dream... well more of a nightmare in which my fiance broke up with me over the phone because she said her ex wanted her ...
A. 11 October 2007: Most dreams are either wishes or fears in your subconscious mind. Your wish was one of fear and hers was a wish. This does not mean either of you will act on the dream. A dream is not filtered by your morals and therfore you can do things in dreams ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my best friend's brother how I feel?
Q. I've been extremially close with my best friend since Kindergarden. Starting over the summer i started to like her older brother, she knows this, and constantally said that he likes me back. Then i moved away, halfway across the country to be exact. ...
A. 11 October 2007: You should tell him you think he is special. Long distance romances at your age almost never work out. This is only my opinion, it's not a huge deal either way, even if it seems to be to you.... (read in full...)
How can I get over wanting to have a child until my husband is ready in several years? I've even thought of "accidentally" getting pregnant!
Q. Hello. I'm 26 and have been married to my husband for a couple of years now; we've been together for over four years total. Last year at this time, I had a miscarriage (the pregnancy was unplanned, but we were both really happy - until it ended)....
A. 11 October 2007: After reading your reply I think you should have the baby now. I think your husband has cold feet because of the awsome responsibility. I felt the same when I was in his place. Now with hindsight I think he should want to move ahead because of all ... (read in full...)
I met a guy, who gave me his number, I called and think his phone dies, now I can't reach him.
Q. Can someone tell me what happened? I met a guy who works in the fitness center at my college. I was getting my id renewed and he took my picture and we chatted a little and he seemed like a nice person and very friendly, funny, and cool. He gave me ...
A. 11 October 2007: Sorry girl, I was not trying to be obnoxious. I was trying to be cute and say use your head and not your passion.... (read in full...)
How can I get over wanting to have a child until my husband is ready in several years? I've even thought of "accidentally" getting pregnant!
Q. Hello. I'm 26 and have been married to my husband for a couple of years now; we've been together for over four years total. Last year at this time, I had a miscarriage (the pregnancy was unplanned, but we were both really happy - until it ended)....
A. 10 October 2007: Do you intend to stop working?
How long would you be off work?
Can you agree how much saving you would need to make him feel comfortable?
The longer you weight the more expensive the costs of raising a child becomes.
Taking the pill puts you he... (read in full...)
I met a guy, who gave me his number, I called and think his phone dies, now I can't reach him.
Q. Can someone tell me what happened? I met a guy who works in the fitness center at my college. I was getting my id renewed and he took my picture and we chatted a little and he seemed like a nice person and very friendly, funny, and cool. He gave me ...
A. 9 October 2007: Doesn't sound like a guy you should waste your time on. Use your brain.... (read in full...)
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