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I really like him. Should I carry this relationship on?
Q. i really like this boy and he likes me but he says he takes certain lessons just to be with the girls should i carry this relationship on?...
A. 16 October 2007: Sure. Obviously he's looking for a gf. Maybe you can teach him how a girl your age should be treated.... (read in full...)
How can I accept that one of these days the only girl I've ever loved will find herself another sweetheart? Especially whenever I believe nobody will love her as much I do.
Q. My ex really wants us to have a friendship after we finished 3 1/2 months ago after she became tired of the long distance aspect of our relationship. We were together for 2 years. I accept that I'm probably thinking irationally when I believe that ...
A. 16 October 2007: When you ask for opinions, do not shoot the opiners. Likewise, one opinion is just that. One nasy comment shouldn't cause you to crawl under a log.... (read in full...)
Sometimes he likes me other times he's distant. What do I do?
Q. Okay I am 16. I known this guy since year 10 and we have gotten really close this past year. We both have really bad homelifes, we both planned to move away and he moved to Cardiff (which with me being in manchester is really far away) I went do...
A. 16 October 2007: Tell him you will not date him until he learns to respect you properly in public. Make you next date public with no sex.... (read in full...)
Confused. What does he mean?
Q. I knew this guy some 4 years back. He used to be my ex-'s friend. We weren't that close until 2 years ago. Both of us were single. We started dating, yet we were not committed. At some point i started to get tired and wanted to settle down, so when ...
A. 16 October 2007: I think he is bad news for you. Stay away from him, you will be better off in the long run. Look elsewhere for a bf.... (read in full...)
I know she's not trying to reject me, but is.
Q. My wife had her gall bladder removed just over 3 years ago. This has affected all parts of our relationship from holding the kids to a cuddle and full blown sex. Jennifer has also just been diagnosed with sciatica as well. My wife and I had a great ...
A. 16 October 2007: Go ahead and try the upright position if she thinks it will work for her. Get her treatment for the symptoms that are affecting her life.... (read in full...)
Is he into me, and should I act on it?
Q. right well. im not really too good wih guys. i hae many as friends, i find them easier to talk to and hang with than girls, girls dont seem to like me maybe cos im a litte bitchey lol, although im have many gu friends i have never had a boyfriend. ...
A. 16 October 2007: He definitely is interested in you. Try and make him your boyfriend. Go slow on letting him touch you.Guys his age tend to be immature and try to see how far a girl will let them go. Stop him at kissing.... (read in full...)
When I was left alone with my daugyhter's best friend, we touched each other intimately; my daughter knows I'm a lesbian. Help?
Q. i am a woman and im alesbian my daughter knows about this and doesnt mind but recently whenever her best friend comes over my vagina starts throbbing in a good way and i think i luv her, when i was left in a room with her i touched her breasts and ...
A. 16 October 2007: Did you think it was appropriate that you got made pregnant at 13? You shouldn't be messing around with girls under 18.... (read in full...)
How can I accept that one of these days the only girl I've ever loved will find herself another sweetheart? Especially whenever I believe nobody will love her as much I do.
Q. My ex really wants us to have a friendship after we finished 3 1/2 months ago after she became tired of the long distance aspect of our relationship. We were together for 2 years. I accept that I'm probably thinking irationally when I believe that ...
A. 16 October 2007: You have to move on with your life before you can look back at this situation with a smile. First girlfriends make for fond memories.... (read in full...)
Does he want his cake and to eat it too?
Q. i meet a guy and we got on great , i felt a connection between us bin sigle for a while and dont trust men but got on as if know him for yrs , we meet a few times and texted each other , we ended up sleepin together,he still textes , and we meet up ...
A. 16 October 2007: Just use him for sex. Don't fall in love with him. He's a cheater. He would cheat on you too.... (read in full...)
He's been downloading porn for years, but he doesn't want to touch me. What do I do?
Q. my husband of 2yrs watching porn on the net anytime i am not around or in bed.i have caught him only 2months ago on a dating site for sex he said he never do again.now he's on loads of porn sites everyday.i am not a prude in any way but he does not ...
A. 16 October 2007: You need to get him some professional help. You are being hurt big time.... (read in full...)
What IS that smell?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for quite a while now. Recently tho when we seem to sleep together theres a smell thats really offputting, i havent spoken to him about as im worried its me. What can i do to prevent it? It may have been there all the ...
A. 16 October 2007: Take a shower with him and see if that helps.... (read in full...)
I found sperm in my in my husband's underwear!
Q. dose sperm come out of a mans penis if he dont have sex or have a wank cause i found sperm in my husband underwear . iv been told his been seeing some els but he says he not is their any other way to find out if he is...
A. 16 October 2007: Sperm can come out for many reasons other than cheating, esp in sleep. You don't have enough evidence to prove cheating.... (read in full...)
Is he cheating? I'm blonde but I'm not stupid!
Q. My partner and I have been together for six months. We're both late forties and although we don't yet live together, consider ourselves a committed couple. Whilst using his computer I discovered he's been indulging in sexual activities on-line with ...
A. 16 October 2007: Let him slide on this. Just looking is not that serious. Get him to agree to stop it.... (read in full...)
Should I cheat to get some satisfaction?
Q. Hi there! Can you please give me some advice... I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years and love him so much, but he doesn't do it for me in the bedroom, as he justs wants a quick 5 minutes and then he is done. Apart from that, everything...
A. 16 October 2007: I think you need to teach him what you would like to have him do. If he ejaculates quickly there are ways around that. One is to wait 15 minutes and then start again.... (read in full...)
I shared an illicit kiss, now I'm bothered about it. What do I do now?
Q. How do I move on after kissing my old boss who's married? I worked closely with a man, who was my boss on a project, at my last job who’s married. Through old co-workers I’d heard he talks about me non-stop and is “in love” with me. I moved fo...
A. 16 October 2007: It was a small slip up. Never tell anyone. Don't make the mistake again.... (read in full...)
She's told her friends that I don't talk to her as if I like her. What does she mean?
Q. My girlfriend and I have just now started dating, which came out of just us having crushes on each other for about a month or two. She's told her friends that I don't really talk to her like I like her, but I really don't understand what she means. ...
A. 16 October 2007: Ask her what she wants to talk about. Try it.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a liar. What do I do?
Q. my boyfriend of six months received a text message from his ex and deleted it so i couldnt see and then said it was from his mum what do i do?...
A. 16 October 2007: Replace him.... (read in full...)
Could my husband be cheating?
Q. iv been told rumors that my husband is having a affair i dont want to believe it i love him so much his always told from the beginging that if he met some one else he would leave me he wont give me sex i havent had it for 3 months he as now told me ...
A. 16 October 2007: No sex. No kids. You're wasting your time.... (read in full...)
Should I give him another chance? I will not be abused by him.
Q. we've been very close friends for 6 years and since living 280km apart and studying we couldn't see each other as often as we wished. i knew his girlfriend of four years. then we started dating about 6 months ago(after their breakup because she ...
A. 16 October 2007: He's a player. Get away quickly.... (read in full...)
Will my friend of 11 years ever make peace with my wife?
Q. i have a friend of 11 years and he hates my wife. I've stayed with her by my side through a recent argument we are having which has ended up with me not seeing my buddy for a few weeks, maybe even a month already. he's written back to me online ...
A. 16 October 2007: Marriage often breaks up single friendships. You just have to tell him you are a couple now and he needs to make the effort to get used to it. Hating your wife is not an acceptable position for him to take.... (read in full...)
We keep fighting and breaking up. What should I do now?
Q. My boyfriend and I are going out for about 6 months but everytime we fight we break up and then 2 or 3 days later we make up again but the last time he left me for another girl and we were out for about a month and then he came back to me and asked ...
A. 16 October 2007: Ditch him and find a bf you can live happily ever after with.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps XXX photo's of his ex on the computer
Q. hi there my boyfriend of 1 year has xxx photos of his ex girlfriend he deleted them from the computer when i found then as i was very upset about it then 5 months ago but the other day he has put them back in a hidden file what do i do i am 41 and ...
A. 16 October 2007: Guys like to collect trophies. Don't be so hard on him.... (read in full...)
He keeps giving poor excuses
Q. my BF had being togather happily and had to share somany thing togather,but our problem is that he do not call me frequently. and when i ask him about that, he always give me excuses, that he just dont like making calls or dont have money in his ...
A. 16 October 2007: This seems like a minor problem. You could buy him some extra phone time.... (read in full...)
He won't tell his family about us getting back together.
Q. what do you guys think about this? my bf has still not told all of his family that we are back together. his sister and her husband are coming into town this Thursday for one night and 2 days. he will not include me in any thing they do because ...
A. 16 October 2007: Ask him to tell them while they are here on this trip. He knows his family best, let him do his thing.... (read in full...)
My mother really gets under my skin - what can I do about her?
Q. An uncle of mine very recently died quickly (it took 3 weeks from diagnosis)of cancer. Although from England, he was in his 60s, living in France and doing up a house to sell-on. As a family member I was pleased he kept in touch by email as few m...
A. 16 October 2007: You will probablly never be able to change your mom. You can reach out and be your own person by not repeating her mistakes.... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I want a relationship?
Q. I have a friend who ive known since Feb this year. Ever since me and my ex broke up 2 months ago, he has been showing me alot more attention. He has told me he likes me alot and we went out last weekend and we went for a walk along the beach and he ...
A. 16 October 2007: I think you are jumping the gun. You should go out with him for awhile and let the relationship take it's natural course. Don't try to be so controlling.... (read in full...)
I always got excited by my ex, now I'm having problems with other girls, what's wrong?
Q. Here's my problem. Im 19yrs old. And i lost my virginity to the girl i have been with since i was 17. We are finally over with due to her lying\cheating but yet still coming back because she "loves me more thatn anything". Ill admit i love this girl ...
A. 16 October 2007: You are jumping these other chicks way to fast. You need to go slow until you both are insinc. Relax and enjoy. It's not a goal to be scored as fast as possible.... (read in full...)
I care for him, but I don't know if that's enough.
Q. Hi, I am worried about my relationship and have been for a few months now. My relationship with my boyfriend has not been typical. We met working at a summer camp together, and started dating in mid-July. We were both planning on simply a summ...
A. 16 October 2007: The sooner you dump him the better off for all concerned. Your life paths are not flowing together. Staying together would be hard and hold you both locked down.... (read in full...)
She won't go back to me, what should I do?
Q. Me and my Fiancee always argue and fight and those fights lead to us breaking up because we said things taht really hurt each other? The other day i said thing in front of her mom and she was mad and she said that we can not be together. And my ...
A. 16 October 2007: Write he a letter of apology. tell her you love her deeply and want another chance. Wait at least two weeks before contacting her again.... (read in full...)
How can I convince him of my loyality and faithfulness?
Q. i am an american citizen. i met an australian man over the internet last year and things progressed with our relationship rapidly. like we were soul mates. i have been in australia with him for 4 months now and i love him more than anything. we want ...
A. 16 October 2007: He needs constant feedback accounting for your time. He'll trust you and stop asking for reports after awhile. Keep telling him that he's the only one for you. Give him all your attention.... (read in full...)
How to make sex last longer.
Q. I want my sexual experience to last longer. Unfortunately, I last for only about 5 minutes. I could handle oral sex okay for quite a long time but when I am inside my girlfrind, I cum within minutes. Please help me by advising me what to do. Can i ...
A. 16 October 2007: After you cum in your gf, wait 15 minutes and start again. By the fourth time you will be lasting much longer. Some guy mastrubate before going out on a date. Still other guys squeeze their penis hard at the base to stop the climax and then start ... (read in full...)
How do I know if he'd accept my new moves?
Q. My boyfriend and I live together and we have sex pretty much every night. It's always the same: we get into bed at night, watch TV or lay there for a while, begin kissing and slowly move to sex. I want to try something different and random and s...
A. 16 October 2007: Don't ask, just do it. Most guys would be pleased. Unless you know he has strict morals against anything but the missionary position. If he rejects it take him into the bedroom.... (read in full...)
It's hard for me to get out of this situation.
Q. please help...its really hard for me to get out in this situation...i love the man and i would think that he did love me too. ive fallen for him, he courted me in a nice way, he usually send me message, call at home and in work, he fetch me, we ho ...
A. 16 October 2007: You said "i had given him all (my heart, my body and my soul)....yes we made love..im really scared of what we did..." Why are you scared? Did you tell him no more? Maybe he decided you were too high maintence.... (read in full...)
Still living with my ex.
Q. Hi I moved in with my boyfriend about 2 and a half months ago, i was changing jobs and he is going through a divorce. We had argued a little (mainly down to me, he was soo patient), but generally things were good. i found it hard at first to shar...
A. 16 October 2007: You have a low sex drive and he has a higher sex drive. This does not bode well for a good future. Either negotiate a settlement or go your separate ways. I think he has decided that all hope is gone for him.... (read in full...)
What is going on here? I want sex but he doesn't seem that interested.
Q. I love him. He says he loves me too. I want him. He says he wants me too. But we have sex only once or twice a week. He rarely initiates it and rarely has an orgasm. He says if we have sex more often it will degrade it. He says that my talking about ...
A. 16 October 2007: Men with ED can still be interested in porn. They just imagine they are one of the actors. I think a sex therapist could find the reason for his fixation on pee films. I think he is out of control and needs professional help. Stand by him and see ... (read in full...)
Does he love me as a friend or does he mean proper love?
Q. Hi everyone, I need help some badly I'm going Insane! Right, I met this guy *Liam* on a chatroom about a yr ago, we've never met in person but we always video call (webcam and mic) and txt eachother. At first it started with him just say 'I love...
A. 16 October 2007: It could work out but the odds are against it. You need to go very slow. He may not be what he seems and you need to check out the things he tells you. Keep a record of all his personal identification so it can be checked out.... (read in full...)
BF is not interested in intimacy.
Q. I have been with my bf for three years and we've lived together half of that time. Although I love him and he is a wonderful man our time living together has been torment for me as he's avoided sex like it is something bad. I've done more than my ...
A. 16 October 2007: Sorry I missed part of the info you gave. Reflecting again I think he is angry over something and apparently he thinks you should know what it is. Or again, maybe he is trying to protect you from something.... (read in full...)
Do you consider it sexual abuse If I said no but he did it anyways. How do you overcome this? Do the flashbacks stop?
Q. how can I tell if I have over came the abuse of my past relatinship? Do you consider it sexual abuse If I said no but he did it anyways, even though he was supposed to be my partner. Why do I relate anything a guy says to me to whatever he said . ...
A. 15 October 2007: Why would a guy consider your "no" a "yes?" What do you do when they proceed anyway? Maybe you don't hit hard enough.... (read in full...)
My b/f is talking with his exes, and being secretive about it. What do I do?
Q. I have a bit of a tricky situation going on here. My boyfriend and I have a jealous relationship, and he often breaks into my email or my myspace. I've made this perfectly clear that it is not acceptable, but recently he's been distant and I found ...
A. 15 October 2007: Ain't technology great? Ask him about it. Don't give him any details that would indicate where you got the info.... (read in full...)
I left my husband because he's an alcoholic.To get him to an AA meeting should I resort to getting him there sneakily?
Q. Long story short, my husband is an alcoholic. I've actually had to leave him because it had gotten so bad. We've been separated for nearly 2 months now and he is begging and begging for me to come back. I keep telling him that he needs to get ...
A. 15 October 2007: Tell him every month he attends AA and stays sober you will give him one dinner date.... (read in full...)
My emotional abusive fiance stopped getting touch, now I feel bad, help?
Q. I need help. I broke up with my emotionally abusive fiance a week ago. He kept trying to contact me but I just ignored him. Now, he has stopped and I feel depressed. When he was contacting me I guess in a weird way it felt good that he was so ...
A. 15 October 2007: Think about and do other things. Find a new bf.... (read in full...)
When I was left alone with my daugyhter's best friend, we touched each other intimately; my daughter knows I'm a lesbian. Help?
Q. i am a woman and im alesbian my daughter knows about this and doesnt mind but recently whenever her best friend comes over my vagina starts throbbing in a good way and i think i luv her, when i was left in a room with her i touched her breasts and ...
A. 15 October 2007: By your calculations this girl is 8. You are acting illegally and need professional help.... (read in full...)
What is going on here? I want sex but he doesn't seem that interested.
Q. I love him. He says he loves me too. I want him. He says he wants me too. But we have sex only once or twice a week. He rarely initiates it and rarely has an orgasm. He says if we have sex more often it will degrade it. He says that my talking about ...
A. 15 October 2007: I get the idea he has always been this way? Some men have a low sex drive, but it does not mean they don't love in their own way. Medications, even some over the counter can lower sex drive. Ask him to see a doctor.... (read in full...)
Does he love me as a friend or does he mean proper love?
Q. Hi everyone, I need help some badly I'm going Insane! Right, I met this guy *Liam* on a chatroom about a yr ago, we've never met in person but we always video call (webcam and mic) and txt eachother. At first it started with him just say 'I love...
A. 15 October 2007: He thinks he could fall in love with you if you would give him a chance.... (read in full...)
BF is not interested in intimacy.
Q. I have been with my bf for three years and we've lived together half of that time. Although I love him and he is a wonderful man our time living together has been torment for me as he's avoided sex like it is something bad. I've done more than my ...
A. 15 October 2007: Good sex is one of many reasons to stay together. Without it most people would feel incomplete. Does he take an medications that could be causing him to have ED? Could he be gay? What does he say when press him for sex? I think he is hiding a big ... (read in full...)
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