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Is it wrong to want to make love in boyfriends truck
Q. is it wrong of me to want to make love in my bfs truck ? he promised we would but havent yet !...
A. 12 October 2007: It's only illegal. Why not start with a bj?... (read in full...)
Should I email him to arrange a meeting?
Q. My husband and I are emotionally separated, but not financially; he works abroad and only comes home 3 times a year. I really fancy a man going through a divorce, and have met him vaguely though social functions, as our kids are at the same sch...
A. 12 October 2007: An email is as good as any way to start an affair.... (read in full...)
I think I could be pregnant
Q. for all the mommies out there, if you can remember your very first signs of pregnancy please reply and tell me if this might just be my time :) *awful belly ache around my belly button (8days past ovulation 1 week into the 2 week wait) *head ach...
A. 12 October 2007: Try a pregnancy test. You may be having anxiety.... (read in full...)
Can we be friends 'with benefits'?
Q. My ex broke up with me a cpl of weeks ago and its been up and down more than ever before. We was together almost 7 months so the initial break up was really hard for me at first. As days go by the pain seems to weaken which is a BIG relief. One of ...
A. 12 October 2007: You would just be using him and it might make it difficult for you to find a new lover.... (read in full...)
Is this a fact or not?
Q. i always thought that if you masturbate before having sex it doesn't hurt. is this true?...
A. 12 October 2007: Except for the first few times for a virgin sex should not hurt. Try lubrication and then consult a doctor if the hurting continues.... (read in full...)
Should she move out?
Q. i have been living with my girlfriend for three years. We moved in from pretty much day one. We were both students sharing acommodation. We are now renting our own place. Im 24 and she's 21, i love her to piece's. she told me recentley that she...
A. 12 October 2007: She is trying to let you down gently.... (read in full...)
He's interested in me - which way should I go?
Q. i am 21 and i am in a relationship with a guy,A, who is nice,very caring for almost 2 years.we are both aboroad studying.but i am getting bored with him and we always quarrel.recently,i have been chatting online with this another guy,B, who's is ...
A. 12 October 2007: You need to make a choice. Start by telling A what is going on. Then make a decision after you discuss it.... (read in full...)
I'm getting married soon but don't want to neglect my parents
Q. I am 25 yrs old guy and facing a difficult situation where i am to get married soon but feel that it would do injustice to my parents and others who want to depend on me for their emotional needs. I feel that it is my duty to give first priority to ...
A. 12 October 2007: It is the normal condition of humans to move from their parents and start a new family. This does not mean you need to ignore your family, it just means you will have less time for them.... (read in full...)
I'm in an awful situation - can anyone offer some sensible advice?
Q. hi, im 16 and been dating a 21year old and he slept with my friend before me and she is 13weeks pregnant. Then he got with me and I'm late. I dont no whether or not to stay with him as he has offerd me crack. I'm in a awful situation.. I told him ...
A. 12 October 2007: Drop this bad news dude immediately. Get a pregnancy test and if you are pregnant tell your parents.... (read in full...)
I thought I was in, she didn't!
Q. I've been going out with this girl for 6 months.We recently had our 1st sex.Da 1st tym i's 2 nervous and pulled out too quickly.2nd time i lost my erection while trying to penetrate.3rd i kept my erection but after asking how it was,was told to ...
A. 12 October 2007: You don't have a problem. Part of the joy of sex is in the learning and doing. After awhile you'll look back on this and smile.... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out and risk loosing my best mate?
Q. Hello, I'm a 14 year old boy and I'm having a little trouble with asking a girl out. I realy like this girl and would normaly ask her out. There's just one problem, just before school started she broke up with my best friend on the same day...
A. 12 October 2007: Ask your mate for permission. Don't do it if he objects.... (read in full...)
I'm 14, he's 17, is it wrong to date?
Q. Hey.. Im a 14 year old girl.. and in love with a 17 year old guy.. He feels the same way about me. We care for each other, and I personally could ever love anyone more then I love him.. We both want a future together, but some people deem it a...
A. 12 October 2007: With no sex it may be legal. It depends on local laws. Most place have a law called contributing to the delinquency of a minor and that can be something as simple as disobeying your parents instructions. So ask your parents for permission and be ... (read in full...)
What is the best way to deal with a broken heart?
Q. what is the best way to deal with a broken heart? like if someone u love turns out to be not so in too you. I'm also v angry bout how he treated me sometimes when he was drunk and how i let him behave that way. He made me dump him by being mean but ...
A. 12 October 2007: It's like any mistake. You need to move on and not repeat the mistake. Don't date boys who don't show you the respect you deserve. Feel a little sorry for the boy. Imagine how poor a life he will lead if he only gets to date girls with low self ... (read in full...)
Have I been blind?
Q. I've just entered my 4th year in school and some of my best friends have pretty much ditched me but I'm still alright with the bulk of my old class. I'm finding it difficult to get a new set of friends that I fit in well with from my new class and a ...
A. 12 October 2007: Tell her about being asked and find out what she thinks you should have said.... (read in full...)
Curiosity licks the dog
Q. What is the best way to mastubate? My dog licked me up once, i didn't mean for him to...it just happened. N it was the best feelin in the world! Is this normal? Dnt want to do it again because it mite giv me a disease or something. Will it give me a ...
A. 12 October 2007: Do you know where the dog has been? He may or may not have a disease. Sex with dogs is a no no. As for mastrabation I suggest you get a vibrator and some oil.... (read in full...)
Does he now feel that he made a Big Mistake and doesn't quiteknow how to make it right again?
Q. When love enters the heart and it won't let go sometimes we look for every moment to rekindle the fire. When I man who has thought it best a relationship breaks it off with you and you are devastated. You wonder when he suddenly begins calling again ...
A. 12 October 2007: You are right, he wants to get back with you. Don't rub his nose in it. Be kinder than him.... (read in full...)
I got drunk, was told of my behavior, now worried I may ruin trust.
Q. Hai aunty i have a little problem that i need you to help me with.last weekend my friends tolk me for a drink,we hard a nice time there,but as we were comiming back i just herd some rumers that my brother in-laws young cousin was with my frien...
A. 12 October 2007: Say nothing and never do it again. If something is ever said, say it was something you regret and will never do again.... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to get a guy to hug and kiss you?
Q. okay well im 15 and there is this guy i really like, he is 16. he seems pretty interested in me and talks to me quite a lot online (I havent really seen him for just over a year) anyway i am now back to seeing him once a week at band. But yea i wa...
A. 12 October 2007: Touch his hand and face. Smile and look into his eyes.... (read in full...)
How can I deal with her eventually moving on??
Q. I can't bear the thought of my ex-girlfriend moving on. It feels as though it's going to take me a long time to get a new girlfriend, since she was my first, and I have loved her for the past 4 years I've known her, and these 5 months without ...
A. 12 October 2007: Only time and a new gf will solve your problem. Going to see some comedy movies helps.... (read in full...)
I need some birthday present ideas - any suggestions?
Q. Okay So Here Is The Delio, My Boyfriend And I Are In Love. Sounds Awsome, I Know, We Have Been Going Out For Quite Sometime Now And I Love Him With All My Heart, And He Loves Me The Same. The Thing Is He's Such A Passive Guy And His Birthday Is ...
A. 12 October 2007: Get him an ipod with some of his favorite songs.... (read in full...)
Feeling lost after the woman I thought was the one kicked me out.
Q. Hi, I was in relationship for almost 17 months with a woman whom I thought was the chosen one, we had since the beginning good times never any bad no violence or arguments just love and care and planed to get married the next Valentine's Day but ...
A. 12 October 2007: Write her a letter and tell her your comment about abortion was flippent and without proper thought. Tell her you want to be a father and want to make home with her. ... (read in full...)
I kicked my bf out after I caught him looking at porn and am so down.
Q. hi there, I am feeling extremely down right now. I found out my bf has been looking at porn again even though he promised me he wouldn't so i kicked him out this time had enough of him making me feel like crap. Yeah i know what your gonna say porn...
A. 12 October 2007: You can find another bf who isn't into porn. Next time look for a guy who is more self supporting.... (read in full...)
What has changed since her trip away??
Q. I have been with my wife since university and married for the last 3yrs. She recently worked in Africa for 4mths and since coming back i eventually noticed a lack of affection towards me. I decided to test this by not kissing, hugging, snuggle up or ...
A. 12 October 2007: I think she is lying about there being no one else. You need to start all over dating and wooing her again.... (read in full...)
How can I become more comfortable around her friends?
Q. 'ello, again. 'tis I, Escalaya. Anyways; Recently things have gotten alot better with my girlfriend, instead of just getting angry, and refusing to go, she comes along now, and her jealousy is cooling down. but.. Now, she wants me to hang out with ...
A. 12 October 2007: Now you say you have great commmunication skill but you don't use them in front of her lesbian and hot for her friends. When you are with her and her friends is the best time to use those skills, otherwise you make it appear that she has a loser for ... (read in full...)
My partner doesn't allow me the same level of freedom he gives himself. He also accuses me of cheating! What can I do?
Q. Ive been with my partner for 6 years, we have 2 kids wee girl 7 months and wee boy 2 1/2 years. At the beginning we had a great life, then I started going out with my mates male and female, he would only let me out until 8pm snd if I was 1 min late ...
A. 12 October 2007: Tell him you'll call the cops if he ever beats you again. Then do it. Make some arrangements to go out with your friends. Then do it. Don't cheat.... (read in full...)
14, Is my height the reason why I can't get a Boyfriend?
Q. I am a freshman, 14 years old, tall (5'8''), brown hair, brown eyes, smart, funny and sorta pretty, people call me pretty sometimes. I have a good personality and i have never had a boyfriend. I don't have that much self-confidence and i am really ...
A. 12 October 2007: You need to meet and date some boys who are shorter than you are. They will not expect it so you have to make the first move.... (read in full...)
How can I become more comfortable around her friends?
Q. 'ello, again. 'tis I, Escalaya. Anyways; Recently things have gotten alot better with my girlfriend, instead of just getting angry, and refusing to go, she comes along now, and her jealousy is cooling down. but.. Now, she wants me to hang out with ...
A. 12 October 2007: You need to practice your communication skills and talk to them more.... (read in full...)
She suddenly broke up with me, telling me something was missing. Has anybody else had this and got back together?
Q. I was in a serious relationship for 2 1/2 years. Very suddently my girlfriend broke up with me. When she did so she was balling and could only tell me that somthing was missing. I treated her so well, and am what I consider a great guy and very ...
A. 12 October 2007: She decided that she could do better. Let her go.... (read in full...)
Is it weird for an 18 year old not to be interested in sex?
Q. Is it weird for an 18 year old not to be interested in sex? Not only am I not interested I really don't want to do it, I still feel young and that is such an adult thing to do. I would also be very worried about getting pregnant, even though I know ...
A. 12 October 2007: Your thoughts are seving you ill. Do yo like cats?... (read in full...)
He wants to just separate, but I know it can't work, how do I help him let it go.
Q. I recently broke up with my fiance. It was over a stupid argument, but really it's about all of our arguments. I was looking for a way out and found one. All we do is fight, and even though I love him, I don't think it's good or healthy for either ...
A. 12 October 2007: After you split he shouls start feeling better without the argument. Maybe you cnan then talk to him.... (read in full...)
What's wrong with me and sex.
Q. Ok so me and my girlfriend have been dating a while...and our problem is sex. When im on top my penis goes down and when she is on top it stays hard most of the time. Does anyone know what is wrong with me? When i masturbate is stays hard unless i ...
A. 12 October 2007: You probably have high blood pressure. Any exertsion will caue you to get soft. I suggest yo try Viagra.... (read in full...)
He didn't climax during the bj! Am I crap?
Q. When I gave my boyfriend a blow job, he didn't ejaculate. Am i crap?...
A. 12 October 2007: He may have ejaculated a hour or two earlier.... (read in full...)
Should I confess to my husband that I once had an affair during our marriage?
Q. Hi. Is it good to confess to my husband that I once had an affair with another man during our married life? Or should I just forget it? I stopped it, anyway....
A. 12 October 2007: Foreget it.... (read in full...)
How can I keep him happy?
Q. how can i save my relationship he seems to get distant then all swwet and cuddly and stuff you know what i mean how do i " freeze " him in the happy side or just simply keep him happy ...
A. 12 October 2007: Do the things he likes without him having to ask you.... (read in full...)
My ex is hanging with guys with not good reputations, I can't stop thinking about her.
Q. so i been doing good over my ex but she has been messing around with a lot of guys ans she got mad at me not to long ago about me going to 3 party's and not doing a thing we cant stand each other but we went out for 9 months and i will always care ...
A. 12 October 2007: Aviod going to the places she will be.... (read in full...)
I'm shy! I like this guy, I think he likes me, Do I overcome being shy, or wait for him?
Q. When I was 17 I met this guy named Todd who was 23. I had a crush on him but now........Its driving me insane. Im typically a shy girl so going up and asking him out was out of the question, plus I think only guys should ask girls out. Im now 18 but ...
A. 12 October 2007: Write him a letter and invite him over for crumpets and tea.... (read in full...)
I lead a solitary life - how can I change?
Q. I tend to be quite stubborn about my life goals and consider anyone who may be causing hurdle in the path to be my enemy. As if achieving goals was the only thing that mattered for me in life. I sometimes spend too much effort in sorting out my ...
A. 12 October 2007: You should start out by making just one friend and see how it goes.... (read in full...)
Don't trust her and not so sure about him either
Q. i wrote into this site last week concerning a sister-in-law that has been after my bf since 1969 when her husband and my bf's brother died. she said that day so i have been told that she wanted my bf since her husband died. after my bf's wife ...
A. 12 October 2007: Trust your bf and don't think up these long stories about what may go wrong.... (read in full...)
Joking or planning our future?
Q. am 16 while my bf is 25.there was a day when he was smoking and i told him to stop but he didnt so i said to him it was his ploblem.he said back to me that it was my ploblem too coz if we get married and he get cancer of the lungs it was going to ...
A. 12 October 2007: He was trying to be cute without giving up his dominant role.... (read in full...)
How do you answer I Love You?
Q. when a guy says he loves you but your not sure if you feel the same what do you say??? is there anything you can say that wont hurt too much??? HELP!...
A. 12 October 2007: Just say I like you very much.... (read in full...)
Why the sudden change of heart?
Q. I am 19 and I've been with my girlfriend for about 5 months (she is 18). I have strong feelings for her, and she is well aware of how I feel and she says she feels the same. All of a sudden, she said she wants to "take a break". Her excuse? She says ...
A. 12 October 2007: Did the take your blood? You shold ask for a copy of the results and go from there.... (read in full...)
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