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What DID I do wrong?
Q. my names daniel in the past I've had lots of relationships that never worked out the first one was when I was 15 I went to scout camp and met a girl who I realy liked we hooked up at camp and had a great time together how ever when I got home I f...
A. 18 October 2007: The you they don't like is your attitude. Try making just friends with some girls and don't make moves on them. When you can control yourself you then can respond to them. ... (read in full...)
Do you think I can help myself? If so, how?
Q. I'm almost 20 and have nothing.Only half finished high school,no job,one friend only (too busy to go out with me),7 members of family I live with but none of them can understand my mood swings and even I don't.PLEASE,I need ur replies on 3 ...
A. 18 October 2007: You very well may have depression. You need to make sure you eat a proper diet and don't have excess weight. Go out of the house and take a few steps every day. Go a little further each day. Exercise will help and see a doctor if you can.... (read in full...)
My bf takes 'speed'..can that affect me having a baby?
Q. My boyfrend takes speed. do u think that can stop me having a baby...
A. 18 October 2007: It should if you using your head.... (read in full...)
I think I'm ugly. How can I get the guys??
Q. Hey, i'm really ugly, i swear i look like a monkey, i cant get any lads, please help, i need help, i cant take being ugly anymore!!...
A. 18 October 2007: Hey, look around and see all the "ugly" girls that are married with children. Believe it or not the right attitude is more important to a lot of the guys out there.... (read in full...)
We were engaged, but now he wants to call it off! How do I accept this?
Q. I have been living with a man for a year and a half. He is 49 and I am 38. I have one child, 17, and have never been married. He was married once before and has three children, 20, 18 and 17. I moved out at an early age and have been responsible ...
A. 18 October 2007: Move out and move on if marriage you seek.... (read in full...)
How can I get her back?
Q. I recently got dumped by a girl I really liked. We was only going out for a week but we liked each other for a long time before. We had a great time together and she only dumped me because she wanted me as a friend. If she liked me once do you think ...
A. 18 October 2007: You moved too fast trying to go from friend to bf.... (read in full...)
Is it selfish of me to feel uncomfortable when giving an ex relationship advice?
Q. I was in a relationship recently with a girl, but we split up. We're still friends now, and we still care a lot for each other, so we talk about all sorts. She's moving on and has starting dating someone, and she sometimes asks my advice. In a way ...
A. 18 October 2007: She shouldn't be asking you for advice on her new lovelife. No good will come of this triangle.... (read in full...)
My bf and his mates always go to my friend's house! Does my guy have feelings for my friend?
Q. hiya xxxxxxx i'm gonna get straight to the point and skip the history!!!!!!!! haha anyway my boyfriend has bin out with his mates lately which is fine i dont have a problem with that at all. BUT the thing is him and his mates are always goin to M...
A. 18 October 2007: Talk to your girl friend and find out what's up. Talk to your boyfriend and find out what's up. Don't have an attitude that something is wrong. You're allowed to be curios.... (read in full...)
I'm in love w/ my best friend's bf and he loves me, too, but I'm also dating his best friend! I'm so confused!
Q. My bestfreinds boyfriend is sooo gorgeous and i like him but not up until last week did i find out he liked me too but the problem is, is that im going out with his bestfreind and he is going out with my bestfriend no one knows about our secret in ...
A. 18 October 2007: You don't make a move (or accept a move)from your friend's boyfriend. And, if they ever break up, ask her first.... (read in full...)
I was bullied for years and because of that am having boy troubles!
Q. I really really want a boyfriend how can i allow my guard down. i find it hard to realte to boys because i was really badly bullied for many years and really want tpo allow myself to be excepted by a boy but i simply don't know how also how do i ...
A. 18 October 2007: Just be his friend. Don't think about it too hard. It will go where it goes.... (read in full...)
My friend and I love each other, but I'm afraid to get together - what if we break up and lose the friendship?
Q. My best friend says that he is falling in love with me and i think i feel the same but i don't know what to do about it because he has always been just a friend. I'm scared that if we ever did break up we would lose our strong friendship, what ...
A. 18 October 2007: Go for it. All life is a risk. You never get to go back and do it over.... (read in full...)
How do I break down the wall that I have subconciously built around my heart?
Q. After a disasterous marriage; mental and violent abuse and post marriage finding out that he also abused my kids I thought my heart would break 14 years ago. Immeadiately after I threw myself into work, but then 5 years later developed a debilita...
A. 18 October 2007: How are you at acting? When you fall off, you have to get back on or you'll be walking alone. Love is never the same.... (read in full...)
I'm sick and tired of rejection in every aspect of my life.
Q. I'm sick and tired of rejection in every aspect of my life. I went last week to a federal government career fair in my country wich is not USA and one recruiter got very interested in hiring me. I was very happy because I've been unemployed for a ...
A. 18 October 2007: You need to step up your job search. Send more resumes and go back to your school's placement office. Also take any job you can get until something better comes along. Ask you family and friends to help. Ask everyone you know. It only takes one.... (read in full...)
They split over a year ago, but he's still close w/ his cheating ex! What can I do about my jealousy?
Q. my bf txts his ex constantly. She is a solicitor and helped him gain access to see his son at wkends. i spoke to him and how it makes me feel insecure, her txting him every day and him itching to reply, but waiting till i'm out of the room to do it. ...
A. 18 October 2007: It is not normal for a solicitor to keep such close contact. You are being done wrong.... (read in full...)
I'm grossed out by his behaviour. I need some reassurance.
Q. Is his behavior appropriate. My ex-fiance (thank God he's an ex) used to do a lot of things that made me worry. And one was he was 34 (i'm 24) and he talked to a 17 yr. old because it was his 22 yr. old friend's younger sister. anyway, I remember ...
A. 18 October 2007: Are these stories true or just his fantasies? A 13 year old on his lap at a dance club sounds like a huge problem. Since he's your ex, you need not try to figure it out. Just be smart enough not to jump back in.... (read in full...)
Is there a way to domesticate a Macho Man?
Q. I am with a macho man. Who are they macho man?? Please shed some light. I am a very sensual woman and suffer greatly this "harsh" treatment. The only time he becomes attentive to my needs is when I make him feel jealous. Then instead of complaining ...
A. 18 October 2007: If he keeps coming only to you, you have him domesticated. And yes, you keep telling him what you want, not so much that it's negging. Then occassionally he'll think it's his own idea and you'll win a victory. Surely you have some sexy clothes ... (read in full...)
Friendship is nice, but should I take ONE LAST CHANCE to try and make her mine again?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm sorry if this has come up before, but I'm faced with a bit of a crisis. Most of you on this site know me and my situation by now, but for those of you who don't; I was in a long distance relationship for two years, and this ...
A. 18 October 2007: Ask her first before you drive up there. If she says no you'll know where you stand.... (read in full...)
I cannot stop thinking about my ex
Q. Hi, I am 25 years old and have been in a relationship for almost 5 years. I do love him (but not sure if I am 'in love' with him anymore) and the thought of hurting him breaks my heart but I can not stop thinking about my ex. We split about 7 ...
A. 18 October 2007: Your ex likes you but he is not "in love" with you.... (read in full...)
Please help me. I love him and will never be able to forget him!
Q. Hi! I had posted a question but I think the readers dont get a proper idea of what Iam trying to say.So I clear it again. I love a guy who is younger to me.I told him about my feelings and he said he only wants me to b his friend.His behaviou...
A. 18 October 2007: I cannot help you get more from him. I suggest you get what he is willing to give. Also look for a new boyfriend.... (read in full...)
Is there any way to remain slim during my period?
Q. during my mensutral cycle, my weight fluctuates greatly. i'll go from feeling very slim to looking bloated and overweight. I know most of this is water retention, but is there anyway to maintain my slim figure throughout my cycle? xxx...
A. 18 October 2007: A diuretic will cause you to lose water. Eat extra bananas to replace your potassium.... (read in full...)
I miss her so much, I think my heart is going to EXPLODE! What should I do?
Q. Ok, I know you all have probaly heard this story before. But here it goes, my girlfriend asked me for some time and space almost three weeks ago after a year and 3months. It started with me pushing for some answers as it related to our intimacy ...
A. 18 October 2007: There is nothing you can do except wait for her. My suspicion is she is meeting at new guy. There is nothing you can do except wait for her. Just might work out for you.... (read in full...)
I'm happy without him... But am I still in love with him?
Q. Im really unsure wether im still in love with my x we were together for over a year and he made me so happy and since i split up with him even though i spilt up with him as i thought i was no longer in love with him now since we split up ive not ...
A. 18 October 2007: Lesson learned. Start over and find a new bf. Love is never the same way twice.... (read in full...)
I fear rejection and failure. What can I do?
Q. I am doing engineering at University of Michigan. I have a good life and I'm on a good course, but the reality is a lot grimmer. Ever since I started doing this course, I have found the work difficult, even though I got the required grades. I'm worr...
A. 18 October 2007: An engineer is an expert. That doesn't mean he knows everything and never makes a mistake. An expert simply knows more than a regular guy and takes extra steps to compensate for his errors. Rejection and failure are normal. Persistence is the ... (read in full...)
I've never had a boyfriend and urgently want one! I don't want to be alone forever! Any advice?
Q. i really need help. it may not seem like a big problem but i'm beggining to think there is something wrong with me. i have written before but only got one reply. i really want a boyfriend but i can't have one. whenever i fancy someone and (som...
A. 18 October 2007: Start concentrating on talking to boys as just friends. After you have a few friends that are boys, you'll find one that is special. Invite him to a movie, library, game or other fun stuff. Don't try to leap from stranger to bf.... (read in full...)
My fiance has gone away for a break and I don't know if he is coming back to give it another go or not?
Q. My fiance and me have been together 3 years but things have got a bit rocky lately. He has had alot wrong in his head. Anyway Friday he rung me up and was normal then he rung and said that he wasn't finishing with me and that he still loved me but ...
A. 18 October 2007: Give him another week or two before you become concerned.... (read in full...)
Is the 'pill' preventing me from having an orgasm?
Q. I am wondering if there are any other women out there with this issue, and if you have any suggestions to solve it.... When I am with my boyfriend (or any guy I've been with) I am extremely turned on at first and am really aroused but the longer f...
A. 18 October 2007: You need to use KY Jelly and have your man stimulate your clitoris.... (read in full...)
She slipped through my fingers
Q. Ok i'll give this a try, i've been friends with the girl for a while now. Lately we have gotten really close, and i've fallen for her...However, i introduced her to one of my friends who turns out that thye also like her, and she likes him too. He ...
A. 18 October 2007: Dump em both and move on. They are not your friends.... (read in full...)
What do I say when we're both shy?
Q. hi im really quite shy around guys and cant really talk to them. all my mates are girls and ive never reall had a proper bf. im inexperienced too. im 16. now i relly like this guy in the year above. he's pretty shy too. wev'e made eye contact...
A. 18 October 2007: Ask him questions about what he has been doing. Tell him the things you have been doing and what you like about doing them.... (read in full...)
His daughter (7) from his previous relationship makes it very difficult for me to play with her. Any advice?
Q. I've dated my boyfriend for 2 years. I love him very much. He has a 7 years old daughter from his last relationship (she lives with the mom right now). She's a very nice girl but just like my bf, she's really stubborn. She gets frustrated if she ...
A. 18 October 2007: You need to teach her about losing and handling stress.... (read in full...)
I'm never in the mood for sex when the opportunity arises. Help me!
Q. I'm 19 and my boyfriend of a little over 2 years is 22, we have a great relationship and we love each other to death but lately my sex drive has been down. Usually people as young as us are consantly having sex but lately i think about sex a lot but ...
A. 18 October 2007: Maybe your so routine that you are in a rut. You need to add some interesting varieties into to your sexual escapades.... (read in full...)
How can I let someone know I really like them more than a friend?
Q. I'm in a real predicament... I am in love with an ex but he doesn't know and I don't know how to tell him! I usually see him regularly whilst out and about, I really get the impression he's interested, but I haven't seen him for weeks and it's ...
A. 18 October 2007: Say you're special and I love being with you.... (read in full...)
I'm so discusted with the though that I was with my ex for 5 years. Has anyone else felt this way?
Q. I was with my ex for 5 years. I was totaly head over heels the first year or so. But I guess his true colors shone through over the years and now he is everything I hate. I am mad at myself for being with him. When I think about how I had sex with ...
A. 18 October 2007: Don't try to figure it out. Just be sure you don't repeat the mistake.... (read in full...)
Why does he react this way towards me?
Q. there is this guy in my class, he keeps looking at me. i have no interest in him whatsoever. i had never talked to him before. what he has done to me and reacted to me is making me feel uncomfortable and a bit angry. this is the first time he has ...
A. 18 October 2007: Tell him you bf is 6'6" and would scramble his world if he doesn't leave you alone.... (read in full...)
I have a crush, what should I do with these feelings?
Q. Im really starting to crush on this one guy that i go to college with. Ive know him for a year now but i dont really know him that well. I do know that Im attracted to him and he is one of the nicest guys i ever met. Iam interested in getting to ...
A. 18 October 2007: Being arround second hand smoke is bad for your health. Stay away.... (read in full...)
I'm falling for my teacher
Q. Okay I have a real problem that could get bigger if I don't know how to stop it. I think I am falling for my teacher. When I first started his class I didn't really feel anything but as the days went on I found my thoughts wandering to him. I still ...
A. 18 October 2007: You can feel love for your math teacher so long as you don't act on it. Never meet him away from the school or let him touch you inappropriately.... (read in full...)
He cheated on me...What do I do?
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me the day before we had been together for 7 months. [a couple weeks ago] He brought this girl home and kissed her then within 5 minutes was at my house kissing me again. He did not tell me. His 13 year old sister just told...
A. 17 October 2007: Tell him if does something like that again you'll have to dump him.... (read in full...)
My bf is a complicated man. I answered if I am what he wants and he never answered me. Am I not?
Q. I asked my boyfriend if I am what he wants. He never answered me. Is it because I'm not and I just happen to be the woman that wants him right know? I love him and I am torn and I dont know how to handle this. He is a complicated man....
A. 17 October 2007: If he's been your bf for less than 2 months, try again later. If he's been you bf for 6 months, dump him and move on.... (read in full...)
What are the odds?
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend one day and then cheated the next day and had unprotected sex. I conceived 3 days later from when i had sex with my b.friend and obviously 2 days later from when I cheated? whats the chances that its the other guys ...
A. 17 October 2007: 50-50... (read in full...)
Stay mum or tell?
Q. there is this boy i really like at school. we are quite good friends but he has no idea i like him. he has recently announced that he is moving a fair few hours away ad i dont think i will see him again. should i tell him i like him or leave him to ...
A. 17 October 2007: Just tell him you think he is special and wish him well at his new home,... (read in full...)
Looking for long term at fifteen
Q. dear cupids. i really want a long term boyfriend that i can call mine. i can say yeah im in a relationship. been with my boyfriend a year now. you hear it all the time but my relationships dont seem to work out. i have had too many boyfiend...
A. 17 October 2007: It's OK to be immature at 15. Don't be so eager to grow up faster.... (read in full...)
He rows with me every time I wish to go out with my friends but he goes on holidays with his wife and says they're just friends? Am I a fool?
Q. i have been seeing a man for three years who has been seperated from his wife for 5 years, however, he phones her every day, spends one day a week with her, and has now gone away on holiday with her. he says they are just friends and that they are ...
A. 17 October 2007: You didn't mention whether or not he has kids. If not, you are a fool.... (read in full...)
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