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writes:This is kind of a weird situation and I'd like some feedback. Ok, I have an amazing boyfriend and we have a great relationship. My best friend (female) hangs out with my boyfriend and I a lot, we're basically her two closest friends. I enjoy the company of both of them and we have some great times together. The problem is, soon the three of us will start back to college and my boyfriend and my friend will be at the same campus while I'm at a different campus. (it's only about 10 miles away, though) They even have a class together. Now, I trust both of them completely and I know neither one of them would ever hurt me, and I know neither of them has an attraction to the other, but I still feel really annoyed about this situation. I hate that my friend will be spending all this time alone with my boyfriend. (Alone as in...I'm not there) Regardless of what they're doing, I'll be annoyed. That's a natural reaction, isn't it? I'm not blowing things out of proportion, right? Or maybe I just feel left out because it's usually the three of us? My boyfriend being alone with ANY girl without me there bothers me as I'm quite a jealous person. I guess maybe I should just be thanking god this girl is my best friend and not some random chick I don't know. Any thoughts on this would be appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, I think you're right. I do have some trust issues stemming mainly from my own insecurity. It's not his fault...I guess I should just relax a bit?
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (6 September 2007):
You need to work on your trust issues. Why are you so untrusting? Has he given you cause? This problem may all be in your head. If he has the eye for your friend and your friend isn't loyal by now, there is nothing you should do. Do you expect to follow him around for live and fend off all the girls of the world. I suggest you concentrate on being a good girlfriend when you're with him.
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