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I am obsessed and confused with my younger love.
Q. My bf and I have been together for one year now. I'm much older than he is, he's in his twenties, and I'm 41. A month ago I found out that he has cheated on me twice, I found out after the second affair. He says that he loves me but that the age ...
A. 4 October 2007: Ditch the boy and get the man you deserve.... (read in full...)
How do I tell my family he's older than me?
Q. This sounds really stupid but my parents are quite strict and i'm worried they wont let me see my bf who is 16 and in college (i'm almost 15 and in year 10). I don't tell my parents much anyway and this would be the first guy i've told them about. ...
A. 4 October 2007: Intro him to your parents and don't bring up his age or school class.... (read in full...)
My crush is dating another guy
Q. Theres this one girl who I'm madly in love with, but I have always known that I have no chance with her, even though we are good friends. This evening, she was just asked out by her crush, and now obviously, they're going out. I just don't know what ...
A. 4 October 2007: There is nothing you can do but wish her well and try to break them up.... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned about my BF's ex?
Q. My Boyfriend and I started dating under unusual circumstances. We met through his ex and at the time my best friend. I wasn't going to make a move on him unless it was o.k. with her but I never got the chance to talk to her before I hung out with ...
A. 4 October 2007: Of course you should be worried. I suggest you keep a close eye on them.... (read in full...)
Should I break with my sexual friend.
Q. I need help fast! I'm seeing this guy, were friends with benefits! The sex is great, And he's a great guy great personality I have no complaints, but I want out!!, for some reason I don't want to see him anymore, I'm getting these mixed feelings, ...
A. 4 October 2007: Yes you should totally break it off when you find a new boyfriend.... (read in full...)
Is he still interested after break-up?
Q. im 22. my boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago cause we argued a lot and he said it wasnt going anywhere with me and he didnt have any real interest in me anymore. he told me to leave him alone because he's moving on and that he wants me to move ...
A. 4 October 2007: He may just be curios about how you are getting along. Why spend any of your time checking up on him and get on with your life.... (read in full...)
I've started to get feelings for him, but he says he just wants to be friends...
Q. Theres this lad i met about 5 month ago, we've been texting alot and he told all his friends how much he likes me, trouble is now that i've started to get feelings for him, he says he thinks we should be friends.. and i'm gutted! Did he just lead me ...
A. 4 October 2007: You need to take more time to get to know what is in his heart.... (read in full...)
Why does he need so much "space", now?
Q. I have a tricky situation and feel tired of going to friends about it, I need opinions and input from people outside the situation. I have been with my boyfriend for almost eight years. About five of them were long distance, him in Sweden, me in...
A. 3 October 2007: He's had it with the arguing and hopes you will find a new interest so he won't have to break up with you.... (read in full...)
Why am I changing my mind just as I've finally got everything I ever wanted?
Q. I fell in love with an old school friend 2 years ago and, after becoming friends all over again and getting to know each other properly, he finally noticed me earlier on this year and we began dating. Over the course of 6 months or so, he broke up ...
A. 3 October 2007: You are acting shallow. The problems you see in him would be meaningless to a woman in love. Since you are not in love don't even consider marrying the guy.... (read in full...)
What is she doing?
Q. What does it mean when my ex girlfriend asks my friend for my phone number?...We talked and everything was cool. We talked like nothing even happened, it felt natural. She says she wants to hang out..blah blah blah. hasnt seen me in a long time. its ...
A. 3 October 2007: She just found a new boyfriend and wanted to find out how you were doing. She's now gloating.... (read in full...)
Why do I always seem to attract the same types??
Q. I have been in a relationship with a younger guy for over two years now but compared to other men I have had relationships with he just doesnt make me feel as sexy as I would like to feel or we dont make love often enough, considering he is 15 ...
A. 3 October 2007: Your problem is you pick guys who are to slow to express their sex interest in you and when you find a guy with a low sex drive you stick with him. Move on and make different selections.... (read in full...)
I have told her I like her and now I feel uncomfortable around her!!
Q. I recently posted a question of liking my straight friend. It was really bothering me and i made up my mind to tell her yesterday but i didnt have a chance to i couldnt sleep right just thinking about it made my heart go crazy. So today i finally ...
A. 3 October 2007: She is probally thinking about how to answer you. Be patient. You should never put something like that in writing. Ask her for it back.... (read in full...)
I'm a bit of an expert at giving blowjobs but I just don't enjoy giving it to my boyfriend!
Q. This may be odd...but I don't know why I don't enjoy giving my boyfriend head. In past relationships, I've been all about giving oral. And I was told I had what was considered a talent...by every single guy I was with. This "repuation" how...
A. 3 October 2007: Other than keeping the foreskin back there is no difference.... (read in full...)
How can I trust my wife again?
Q. hi there, i have been married for a couple of years, during that time my wife cheated on me with a nother guy that always came around pretending to be my friend so i wouldnt know. my wife left and came back about 1 month later.. i took her back ...
A. 3 October 2007: You need to go with her to see a therapist. Otherwise, you'll just get worse. It's your life you're wasting.... (read in full...)
I don't find traditionaly beautiful women attractive. Whats so wrong with that?
Q. I am a college student in a long term relationship with a beautiful girl... we've been together for around 4 years now. I would like some feedback for a situation that so far I have found unique to me. I have had other girlfriends before her but s...
A. 2 October 2007: While you may be unique, you have no problem that needs fixing.... (read in full...)
I hit it off with someone online and later asked her out. Now she's being evasive. Do I let it go or ask where I stand?
Q. About four weeks ago I met someone online and we immediately hit it off. She was beautiful in her photos, fascinating to talk to and we have quite a lot in common. We chatted for about an hour, batting responses back and forth and she said it was ...
A. 2 October 2007: Back off dude. You're expecting too much too fast. You are freaking her out.... (read in full...)
My long distance boyfriend is back with his ex. Do you think he still has feelings for me?
Q. Ok..So here's my story... I have been in an online relationship for about 2 months now. We live a few states away from eachother. We got to a point where we would talk everyday on the phone for hours or text eachother. We would tell eachother how ...
A. 2 October 2007: Dump him, he's a jerk.... (read in full...)
What if my saddness pushed her right into the arms of this new guy? How do I pry her back out again?
Q. Dear Cupid, I find myself in quite the dilemma of the heartaching kind as i write this. Here's the back story... I fell in love with a girl and she with me. she's everything i ever wanted and much more. we connected right away in every way ...
A. 2 October 2007: I suggest you workout more and attend comedy movies.... (read in full...)
I broke up with my ex to date someone else, but now I want him back
Q. im 16 years old...and i think i love this guy...we wer in the same school and we dated for almost 2 years..i was quite deeply in love with him..so was he but i couldnt ever express it very well..but i was really happy with him...but thn suddenly i ...
A. 2 October 2007: Just apologize for dumping him before and say you wish you had never done it. See what does next and take it from there.... (read in full...)
An old friend now lives close by and wants to get to know me again and to meet his friends. But he has changed and I don't think I want to.
Q. basically when i was little at my school i became really close friends with a boy who really annoyed me but he's my friend so it was ok. we have left school to go to secondary and i havent seen him in 2-3 years but now ive moved house and he lives ...
A. 2 October 2007: Tell him no. It's your choice to decide on the type of people you hang out with. These choices can have great impact on your whole life.... (read in full...)
How do I go about asking her round/out?
Q. Hey, well last time i was in this situation it just sort of fit, so im not too sure how to go about it again with the new girl. I see her a few times a week because of college, got speaking and i think we have gotten quite close for how long we have ...
A. 2 October 2007: Don't say "if you've got nothing better?" Just ask her if she would like go to xxxx with you Saturday night. Take it from there.... (read in full...)
How do I tell a friend I have feelings for him?
Q. How do i tell a friend that i have feelings for him..? We met about 8 or 9 months ago and now that i have hung out with him.. partied with him.. lived with him.. stayed the night with him over and over. I now have feelings for him but i do not kno...
A. 2 October 2007: What funny things? Signs of mental illness? Playful stupid thing guys do when they like a girl? We need more info. email me... (read in full...)
My younger BF won't listen.
Q. My boyfriend is 16 and I am 20. He grew up in a very Christian baptist family and went to private school when I met him. Long story short, he believed that he was "in love" with me, started living with me and was kicked out of private school b...
A. 2 October 2007: He's a loser who thinks he knows it all. You're headed for trouble.... (read in full...)
I'm a bit of an expert at giving blowjobs but I just don't enjoy giving it to my boyfriend!
Q. This may be odd...but I don't know why I don't enjoy giving my boyfriend head. In past relationships, I've been all about giving oral. And I was told I had what was considered a talent...by every single guy I was with. This "repuation" how...
A. 2 October 2007: Uncircumsized guys love blowjobs too.... (read in full...)
My love had a girlfriend so I married someone else! Now I'm having an affair!
Q. I'm married with two kids. We havn't even been married a year. We've been together for almost 5. And I love him with all my heart. I've known my best friend a lil longer. And ever since I met him, I knew we were meant to be together. But he ...
A. 2 October 2007: Be real careful not to get caught for the sake of your kids. After all, one half of all marriages end in divorce and two thirds of all adulters who get caught get divorced.... (read in full...)
I messed around with someone else and now I'm all confused!!
Q. I don't know whether I should feel bad or not. Like...I was seeing this guy and and I like him. He's so nice to me. The 1st few days of us being together was perfect. Then he disappeared. Like I don't know exactly where we stand because we ...
A. 2 October 2007: Go slow with the new guy you like. How long did he disappear and why? Expect the other guy to come back for more. Tell him you're not likely to go that far again for awhile. Maybe he'll be the one you like best.... (read in full...)
How can I trust my wife again?
Q. hi there, i have been married for a couple of years, during that time my wife cheated on me with a nother guy that always came around pretending to be my friend so i wouldnt know. my wife left and came back about 1 month later.. i took her back ...
A. 2 October 2007: Either she is lying or she needs therapy.... (read in full...)
What does he want? I am confused!
Q. I wrote on here last week with the problem of "my f**k buddy wants it to be exclusive. what's going on?" he was saying he that and saying sex wasnt important like he wanted to date me, just like you guys said and last night i asked him and he said I ...
A. 2 October 2007: He is either confused or can't bring himself to admit what he wants. It's up to you to steer the relationship if you want to.... (read in full...)
Why am I so afraid of his friends?
Q. Do you think i have social anxiety? im quite a nice person but hate being around people i dont really know in case they dont like me or i make a fool of myself. with my friends im so confident and bubbly, but with people i dont know very will i ...
A. 2 October 2007: Yes you are showing and excess of low self esteem. You need to know youself and that it is OK to sometimes say something foolish. Look at people who interact well. They don't get down on themselves for ocassional goof ups. You need to learn to ... (read in full...)
He's been planning this "suprise" for two months. He's rubbish at suprises! Will this come between us?
Q. can my man hating his job and keeping a surpise from me for 2 more months be affecting our relationship ? he is really bad at giving surprises and he has known about it for months already !!...
A. 2 October 2007: Stress always affects our moods and how we interact with others.... (read in full...)
Nipple erection problems?
Q. Hi....me and my bf of 2 years have a VERY HEALTHY sex life lots of variety and fun. we also talk about everything but something that is really getting me down is the fact that I cant get his nipples to get hard?!! when its cold they erect but some ...
A. 2 October 2007: Use ice cubes.... (read in full...)
Do I break my heart for him???
Q. I met a man, years ago, when I was just a kid, if you call 17 a kid, we were flirtatious, mostly innocent....I got my heart wrapped up in him, he was my fantasy, the knight in shining armor on a beautiful white horse. In reality, he was twice my ...
A. 2 October 2007: End the flitations. Act like a big girl. Be pleasant and conversant, not hot and sexy. Make clear to him that you want him only as a friend. Don't start out by lying to yourself.... (read in full...)
She supposedly likes me, but she doesn't pay much attention to me!
Q. Whats the deal with this girl? I heard from her friend that she likes me, and she will often msg me and ask whats up, etc. But whenever I ask her if she wants to hang out she says she has plans, the odd times we do hang out,she doesn't really p...
A. 2 October 2007: She's just wanting to get to know you. Go slow and it may blossom into something.... (read in full...)
How do I know if my sex buddy really wants me for more than sex?
Q. i have this guy friend and he calls me only when he wants to mess around... sometimes when we are fixing to start to mess around he stops me to hold my hand. then when we are done he wants to buy me food and put gas in my car! when he found out that ...
A. 1 October 2007: Yes, he thought the sex meant more than just friends. Now that he knows you're a ****, you need to tell him what his options are.... (read in full...)
Could he want to be more than just a friend?
Q. I have this friend who I really like more then a friend. But I'm not sure if he feels the same way and I don't wnat to tell him how I feel until im sure he feels the same way. Lately hes started calling me affectionate names like 'sweetie' and st...
A. 1 October 2007: He wants you as a girlfriend. Tell him directly whether or not you are game.... (read in full...)
I slept w/ my crush's brother before we met. I told him about it, and now I think I've put him off!
Q. I had sex with a friend's brother before I'd met my new friend. Now I really like my friend, but I think I've put him off. He's such a great guy and unlucky in love just like me, I think something could've happned had I not told him about the si...
A. 1 October 2007: If you're getting nowhere with him you should move on.... (read in full...)
I'm not sure what to do about my unofficial bf after our argument! We haven't spoken in 4 days!
Q. I am in love with a guy who I have known all my life, for the past two years we had a great relationship, but never made anything official. When I finally said I'm tired of hiding, he said he's not ready to go public yet and he cares alot about me ...
A. 1 October 2007: If he doesn't trust you, why do you waste your time on him.... (read in full...)
Will he ever break up with her?
Q. I met a guy last year and we hit it off straight away. He told me he had a girlfriend but they weren't getting on and he was going to finish it with her, but they had a 4 day holiday booked next month so he was going to wait until after that to do ...
A. 1 October 2007: Sounds like you have a good sharing arrangement. Why rock the boat unless you feel like swimming.... (read in full...)
Do I wait for him, or close this chapter of my life?
Q. We have know one another for 8 years and been on and off. He has wanted a relationship from me for the past 3-4 years and i have always said no. Our friendship has always been more of a freindship. He has started seeing someone, the day he told...
A. 1 October 2007: All you can do is be there if he decides to try you again. From his standpoint you are a bad risk.... (read in full...)
He can't tolerate me when I get in a (rare) bad mood. Any advice?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a few years and been there for him for his emotional and physical needs. In the past financial also. Whenever he is down, depressed, worried or lonely he can always depend on me. Never felt burdened by it. Its to be ...
A. 1 October 2007: He is using you and doesn't want any of your unpleasantness. Shape up or ship out girl.... (read in full...)
Do I wait for her to find herself?
Q. I spilt with my gf of 5 years about 5 weeks ago. We split because she started saying that she felt that she needed to go travelling on her own and find her self as it were. I then said fine and broke up with her. I love her still and miss her ...
A. 1 October 2007: You should be looking for a new girlfriend and maybe you will find yourself.... (read in full...)
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