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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI want to thank you all and especially Tisha.
Guess what? The other guy in the mess got in touch. Oh it's SO funny how I'm treating him...and with the makeover...guess they were guys who tough me up.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (27 September 2011):
 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/so-are-his-little-postings-on-facebook-about.html
Now that I've read this, I think he's thumbing his nose at you and saying "nyah nyah nyah good riddance bye bye don't call me I'll call you but don't hold your breath."
I think this guy really doesn't want to have contact with you, yes it's sad and possibly all a misunderstanding but I think the best thing to do is to let him go.
Good luck.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (23 September 2011):
I think person12345 probably hit on the reason: he wants to keep his employability and doesn't need party pictures out there for current or future employers to see.
Glad to hear you got a makeover, now use it to move on from him! Good luck!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (23 September 2011):
 Facebook is becoming the root of all anx. I wish it had never been developed. A: it's imposible to figure out and B; It's just plain dumb to have a bazillion "friends" that want to chime in on every posting..it's just dumb!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (23 September 2011):
 He removed you as a friend, that's all. He didn't redo his entire privacy settings just because of you. More likely? There are pictures of him and his friends drinking and partying and he didn't want potential employers to see.
Don't assume he's thinking about you all the time just because you are thinking about him.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (23 September 2011):
 Facebook is not to be taken literally..it's not real life.
If they were party pictures he was tagged in then they're going to be private. Unless he set his albums to private, then they're viewable by anyone. I didn't know how to set my albums to private until recently.
What is this guy to you anyways?? He sounds like a former flame or FWB..that has cut you out of his life recently.
If he's moving on then you need to move on as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2011): If he removed you from his friends, he is probably not even thinking about whether you can see his photos or not, as he is probably not thinking about you at all. Sorry if that sounds harsh but I think you need to be realistic here. Is he your ex-boyfriend? You just say he's a guy. What was your relationship? If he hasn't contacted you after one year he's probably not going to. Block him on Facebook so that you can't look at his pictures and move on with your life. Enjoy your makeover and new confidence and try to meet someone in real life rather than living in a fantasy based on zero evidence.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 September 2011):
 nope. you are but a fond memory to him... move along nothing to see here...
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reader, celtic_tiger  +, writes (23 September 2011):
 Short answer, No.
He probably didn't even think about you when he did it.
Also, with the way facebook tinkers with the settings does he even know you can see his facebook?
Stop reading into things. It will do you no good at all.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (23 September 2011):
 You're reading WAAAAY too much into this.
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