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I don't understand, does he love me or does he just want sex?

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Question - (14 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 July 2008)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Will men say I want to f**k you to the women they love when they were so turned on? My b/f and I are living far away. But we have phone sex or even video sex. While I showed my body on the camera to him, he was so turned on but could not touch me as we were talking from phone. When he was so turned on he said he wanted to f**k me which made me not feel so well. Did he say it because of lust? I think if he does love me he would not say he wanted to f**k me, right? I have always thought that only those who just want sex will say I want to f88k you since you don't have to bring in any feelings.

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A female reader, PsyCookie United States +, writes (14 July 2008):

PsyCookie agony auntYes, what Tremor said is right, it really doesn't mean he loves you less.

The thing is that "I want to F*** you" is way easier than to say "I want to make love to you" when a person is really turned on. It's just dirty talk and you would be hearing it often.

It's not the words that play in part, it's the way people say it. I guy could tell you "I want to make love to you" and bring no feelings to it except lust.

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A female reader, Tremor Australia +, writes (14 July 2008):

Tremor agony auntIt doesn't mean he loves you any less. All it means is that he was SO turned on by you that he wanted to jump on you and go for it!

It's just dirty talk, it's a good thing. Don't worry about it.

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