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writes:i'm 13 years old and i had sex with my ex-boyfriend and mow he's showing picture's of me naked to his friends what should i do
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reader, DogCow +, writes (15 August 2008):
If you are in the United States simply having pictures of a thirteen years old, even one that you have drawn, is a crime. I don't agree with our laws that make thought a crime, but if you'd like to have someone arrested, even another thirteen years old, simply turn them in to the police or FBI. It's a crime just owning the pictures. It's a sex crime. Sure your boyfriend was just being a macho jerk and wanted a memento of his conquest. It is childish and feelings get hurt and reputations get tarnished. If you you want to stop these photos from getting on the internet where they reside forever, you need to go to the police and handle this as a crime. Your ex will go to jail until he is eighteen or twenty-one and will have a sex offender charge on his record for the rest of his life. He will not be able to live anywhere, he will be listed on the internet on a sex offender registry well into his elderly years and of course who would hire a CONVICTED sex offender. You ex would be a pariah for the remainder of his life.Then again you could always cry rape. It's sounds as though you and your ex agreed to engage in these acts, but when you are piling on the charges you should never overlook buyers remorse.You should be prepared to destroy someone's life... well many people's lives because he does have a family and he will be on welfare forever and you'll be causing lots of work for the police and the prison that did not exist before. I just want to prepare you for the fact that you may change your mind, but once you get government into the mix, they will not stop because you want to stop.You could just chalk it up to being a dumb teenager. Yes, a dumb teenager. We've all done stupid things that we regret. Some follow us around and some we just can not remember. Both you AND you ex are behaving foolishly, granted he is being very malicious. Perhaps if your ex knows that the police can track the photos back to his, he will destroy the photos. Either way this will all blow over and you will be wiser for the lessor that you have learned.
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (14 July 2008):
 Yes, go tell an adult immediately. Like DiovanLestat said, bargaining with him won't work and your parents and teachers will get more mad at this guy than you. Please go tell an adult.
Now, just take this as an experience. Learn from this mistake for a future relationship. Now, let's just hope your reputation is not ruined by his (and your) actions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): You are in a very dangerous situation, you have no option except to tell your parents, a school teacher or somebody else in authority. They will probably hear about it anyway as this secret is likely to get out. Have nothing to do with this boy of any of his friends. Don't try to bargin with them to get the pictures back. Don't let them blackmail you. Don't worry, you have been very, very stupid. But please tell an adult, they will be more angry with these boys than they will ever be with you. What this boy is doing is very hurtfull and bad. Please tell an adult today.
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