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writes:I'm 14 and my boyfriend and I have been going out for a month and I started too really like him. A couple weeks ago he asked for head and I gave it to him but yesterday he asked me again and he asked to see my boobs. I said no but I feel like this is the only reason why he likes me. Only for the sexual stuff. My friends don't like him and he had sex with this girl and then screwed her over. Should I break up with him or not?
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reader, cristina_baby +, writes (15 July 2008):
cristina_baby is verified as being by the original poster of the question thankyou
yeah i just broke up with him :)
and you guys were rite he ended up telling everyone we went to a hotel and we had sex but luckily my close friends believe me when i say i didnt.
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reader, xxsecretsxx +, writes (14 July 2008):
 your to young to have your heart wrenched out by this guy. Your friends seem to be right on this one, he is a user not a lover.
A relatioship involves talking andcaring not a blow job here and there and him staring at your boobs.
Dump him before he has the chance to hurt you. You can find someone who cares.
And after you dump him rumors are going to fly. Thats a given. I warn you he will say he had sex with you, he will claim he dumped you because of you being gross or something dumb like that.
Revenge isn't pretty, but at least you can say he has a small.......
;) good luck and get rid of him!
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reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (14 July 2008):
 Hunnie you better leave him now....it sounds like he uses and abuses girls....ive been there with guys they act all nice to you and tell you that they love you and you do all this stuff for them because you think they really care about you and nothing else and then when they get what they want they get up and leave you and then they will come back to you when there is no one else and do it all over again leave him now before it gets more harder to end it.
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (14 July 2008):
 Yes, like Jess18maine said, you really have to get rid yourself from this guy.
This will be easier for you since you're already uncomfortable with him and you have been going out with im for only a month. Plus, your friends are already disaproving of him and they're right to do so, this guy is a jerk.
You're acting more mature than some girls out there. At least you're noticing he's using you and not thinking he "loves" you. Just remember that next time a guy pressures you to do sexual stuff so early in a relationship, then it means he doesn't care about you. Also remember that you're still too young for this kind of stuff and that you have to wait at least when you're of legal conscent.
Good luck girl and I hope you find a guy who appreciates you unlike this jerk.
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reader, girlygirl2thextreme3 +, writes (14 July 2008):
 I totally know what you mean. That's why I'm scared to have bf's cuz I'm afraid there only wanting me for sexual reasons. But anyway, I think you should break up with him if he's just using you for your body. I'm guessing he's a growing teenage boy so of course he's CONSTANTLY thinking sbout sexual thoughts. I wouldn't want to see you getting hurt over some guy so I personally think the best thing to do is dump him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): if he does it again
just say no three times
then if he carries on say hes making you feel uncompfortable and then ask why he is pressurising you
and then if he carries on leave and say you will call him later
remember the 3 r's
resist-the pressure
reverse-the pressure
remove-yourself from the situation
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reader, jess18maine +, writes (14 July 2008):
 Yes, get rid of him, his track record sucks and your friends don't like him for a reason and I assume it's this reason. He's a loser. Leave him. Plus your to young for sex... and you want it to be with sumone that you "know" loves you.
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reader, Peterk5699  +, writes (14 July 2008):
 If he's in it for just the sex then you shouldn't be with him because he is breaking the law and is performing statutory rape: sex with a minor.Any form of sex with a minor is illegal and he could end up behind bars for it. If your parents found out he'd be behind bars before you can say "Bark at the Moon".Wait til you're 16 before you have ANY form of sex.Good luck!!
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