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Now that we're together all the time, it's takes a while to get in the mood for sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6767 days ago

11 October 2005 (F - I'm just curious about something. A while ago, when I used to drink, I would LOVE making love with my boyfriend, for about a year and a half, which was before we got together. Now that we're together and I have him all the time, I'm not so horny anymore when I'm drinking... (134 words

I think she'd rather watch TV than make out with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6768 days ago

11 October 2005 (M - I don't see my Girl Friend a lot, but when I do we're usally round her house and we watch TV with her parents. But then her parents go out for about 3 hours - I'm dying to make out, but she just wants to carry on watching TV. Even though we know that they're gonna be gone for a ... (115 words

Lost my job after my affair with the boss ended...

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11 October 2005 (F - Me and my boss had an affair, and it ended soon after he had a new born baby. This is a job in theatre so it means the world to me, and may not get another one like it. I said a few nasty things to him before we split but that was just because I was trying to hide my feelings... (185 words

Don't want to smother my girl. But what if she loses interest in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6767 days ago

11 October 2005 (M - I messed up and started to smother this girl I am talking to. We have gone out once in the past two weeks we have been talking. She even told me I was smothering her, after I asked her why she wasn't returning my texts, or calls. Right now she said that she is willing to give ... (108 words

There's a girl I'm interested in, but I wonder if I'm financial and/or entertaining enough to date her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6767 days ago

11 October 2005 (M - Hi there! I was wondering if you could help me. I'm 18 and I have just started a relationship with this girl i really like although we have only known each other for a short period of time. We both really like each other but I have a lack of experience of long-term relati... (313 words

I want to tell him that I love him. I just don't want to be a truck passenger all my life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6767 days ago

11 October 2005 (F - I fell in love with this man 9 years ago because we both were having problems in our marriages. Both of us wanted someone that wanted to be with us, so we started a relationship. He became a truck driver so as we could be together 24 hours a day. We did that for 2 years and I ... (204 words

Want to date guys, but I just feel so uncomfortable talking to them...

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11 October 2005 (F - I feel really uncomfortable when I date guys. I'm currently dating a guy but I feel really uneasy to talk to him. My friends were asking me why I have been ignoring him, and he's been saying that when ever he comes to talk to me apparently I always find a reason to not talk ... (199 words

My best friend has started chasing my boyfriend!

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11 October 2005 (F - I've been seeing my partner for two years and recently my best friend has started texting him constantly, often using phrases only used by a lover/partner. I asked him about it after I couldn't stand it anymore and they both said I was just being paranoid. But how can it be wh... (88 words

I want to prove to my wife that I can get an erection

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6768 days ago

11 October 2005 (M - My wife and I split up last week due to sex problems and I don't know how to prove to her that I can get an erection. Josh - Liverpool.... (30 words

What really turns my husband on is touch... I need suggestions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6746 days ago

11 October 2005 (F - My hubbie and I have been married for just over a year, and I just figured out that he is mostly turned on by touch. I've always had a greater sex-drive then him, and I always thought it was because i saved myself for marriage, while he had multiple partners. I thought he ... (123 words

Our one-month separation turned into 3 months. How long do we work on our problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6765 days ago

11 October 2005 (M - In July of this year I had an argument with my wife of nearly 3 years. Basically this argument resulted in lots of home truths coming to the surface, particularly on my part. I was carrying a lot of baggage which I basically projected on to her. I caused her great pain and h... (190 words

Why would my boyfriend try to convince online women that he used to be a girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6767 days ago

11 October 2005 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years. He has never been that passionate or overly comfortable about sex, which has got me down in the past. However, he has been a model boyfriend in mostly everything else. A couple of years ago I found out he had been emailing... (212 words

Taking off a little weight was my original goal. Now it's spun out of control and I just feel FAT!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6767 days ago

11 October 2005 (? - Hi there, please help me! I'm a young woman of 20, size 10-12 clothes who used to be a bit larger and lost a lot of weight this year through being on the Atkins diet and taking some strong tablets which I had to come off because they made me ill after 3 months of being on them.... (279 words

My husband "has to" attend multiple Christmas parties for his work. The girls are all over him!

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11 October 2005 (F - My husband and I have been having issues for the last year re the amount of time he spends at work (most days 10 hours). We have 3 young children and I gave up my career to stay home and look after them. Christmas is coming up and so are all the work Christmas parties my husba... (183 words

We've moved apart to improve our relationship, but my gf is acting like she's single again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6768 days ago

11 October 2005 (M - After living together for 2 years, my girlfriend moved out of my apartment and got her own place. We still wanted to be together, but just decided that it would be good for us to have a little more space for the time being. Now, that we don't live together, she is very int... (127 words

Our families would be against our marrying, but I still want us to be together...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6766 days ago

11 October 2005 (F - I was dating my ex boyfriend for almost 4 years, we broke up because we realised we couldn't get married due to the fact that we are of different religions and our families wouldn't be supporting. However, I want to get back with him even if it means we will not get married ... (74 words

Engaged to my partner, but I can't stop thinking of another guy...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5822 days ago

11 October 2005 (F - I've been with my partner for 18months and we are due to marry next year. I love him loads and want to be with him, but I have recently bumped into an old friend who told me that he'd always had feelings for me. Now I can't stop thinking about him and thinking what could have ... (83 words

How can I get over my ex? We've tried everything!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

11 October 2005 (F - My ex boyfriend (28) and I (20) have been on and off for the past 11 months. I was so depressed after the breakup, I lost 40lbs. He says its over and he'll never be with me, but every time I see him it's as if nothing ever happened, and when he wakes up it's like he snaps ba... (189 words

He can dish out the blame, but my boyfriend can't take it!

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11 October 2005 (F - I met a guy online a year and a half ago. He is from the States, I am from Africa, although he is African like me. We dated and got engaged mid this year. I love the guy with all my heart and am sure he does love me too. He says am his ideal kind of woman for a wife and I do ... (265 words

Our unequal sex drives are leaving me, well, frustrated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

11 October 2005 (M - I have been with my g/f for 10 years and we have 2 children together. I have always had a high sex drive while my g/f has a very low sex drive,. I have been ok with this until recently as I now find myself getting very upset when we don't have sex. I watch porn and masturba... (121 words

He told me at the beginning that he only wanted friendship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6769 days ago

11 October 2005 (F - I met this guy about a month ago and we have been communicating and hanging out together ever since then. He stated very clearly in the beginning that he was not looking for anything more than friends. However, in the last few days he has been talking about wanting to settle ... (198 words

My girlfriend makes me feel guilty for leaving to visit family!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

11 October 2005 (M - Dear Cupid, My girlfriend and I have been having issues for a while now. We have been dating for nearly 2.5 years. Recently, I visited my family across the coutry and was away for a few weeks. I spoke to her every day during the trip to say hi and see how she was, about ha... (172 words

Want my ex back, but I don't want a non-committal relationship with him!

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11 October 2005 (F - Hi there, My ex and I broke up due to circumstantial pressures (I had to move in with him due to other problems when we weren't at all ready and we just both clammed up in panic, then I found a place and moved out - the break up was decided by him though). Since then he ... (195 words

Will our 10-year age gap be a problem?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

11 October 2005 (F - He is 28 and I am 18 and he has a 8 year old daughter. However our age difference has become a problem for both sides of the story. We are afraid that our families won't accept the relationship. I have tried to mention the situation to my mother. She just stays quiet and ... (88 words

Could this be a long-term relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6767 days ago

11 October 2005 (M - Here Goes... I'm a gay man who has met another great guy about a month ago. I find him intelligent, attractive, attentive, and much more. We decided we wouldn't have sex until about the 8th date. We did. This was about two weeks ago. He continues to be attentive and talk... (83 words

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