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Tell my friend I like him, or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6749 days ago

10 October 2005 (F - Hi, I'm a girl and I have a friend that's a guy. I have known him for about 4 years. We are friends. My problem is that Ilike him as more than a friend, but I don't know if he feels the same. Do you think I should tell him how I feel or just keep my mouth shut? I like him a lo... (69 words

We broke up over things we both did with online dating sites...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6769 days ago

10 October 2005 (F - We broke up mutually, you could say. I was talking to guy friends over the Internet. He was upset that I didn't tell him, which I know I should have. Even though I never met these guys in person to cheat on him or pursued anthing close to an online relationship with them, I ... (336 words

We're really in love, but our parents don't know about it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 October 2005 (F - Hi I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 18. I want to start this off by saying yes, we are sexually active and we both dont see why age matters so much. We are both in love; I mean real love! Some say why is he into a younger person and why am I into an older person? Because like I s... (170 words

Can't believe my ex could say he loved me in September, but be going out with someone else now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6768 days ago

10 October 2005 (? - I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months in July. It's my first serious relationship and we really loved each other, but another guy was making it impossible for us and we kept fighting. Now that other guy has moved on and we told each other in September we still loved ea... (109 words

I saw the name of the other guy she's seeing on the email she sent me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6769 days ago

10 October 2005 (M - Hi, I'm in my late 30's, she's in her mid 20's and we really truly fell hard in love with one another..I know she loves me deeply..okay, question... We have been on a break for 2 and a 1/2 months. I know, it seems long, but I took a break initially for the same time wh... (417 words

My married guy is single now and I still have feelings for him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6769 days ago

10 October 2005 (F - About a year ago I had a relationship with this married guy. We slept together 3 times and we really cared for each other. Then he heard this rumor that I told on us, even though I didn't tell anybody. Then he stopped talking to me completely. That was a year ago and I still ... (116 words

Can't tell if the boss is coming on to me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6768 days ago

10 October 2005 (F - Dear Cupid My boss, who is older than me, has been giving off very confusing signals! When we have been alone he has been very close but nothing more. This evening as were leaving he said "We always seem to leave together; people will talk!" He is married. Was ... (79 words

I have such high expectations of my relationships that I can't have any fun!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6768 days ago

10 October 2005 (M - Can someone advise me on how to keep relationships at a less serious level and enjoy them, rather them get stuck in to them so much that it is hard to have your own space? I have this problem of taking relationships too much seriously to be able to actually enjoy it. The expe... (126 words

My ex says he wants to come back, but his actions suggest something else...

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10 October 2005 (F - Me and my X have 2 children together. When my second child was 6 months we split up. We had an arguement and he said he was out of here so I locked the door behind him and now he's living with someone else. He says that if I had allowed him back in that night he would st... (179 words

Snooped on his phone and found some messages that make me wonder if he's cheating...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6768 days ago

10 October 2005 (F - When staying at my boyfriend's house the other month I found a dating services newsletter in the post he had left it in his room, obviously put to one side. I have since looked on his mobile and found text messages from online dating services. I have been seeing my boyfriend ... (145 words

Falling for a work colleague and it's so hard not to say anything!

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10 October 2005 (F - I've fallen for a colleague who's in a relationship. We've known each other for about a year now and we get along so well. Lately it's becoming unbearable for me to see him every day and not tell him how I really feel. I've decided not to tell him about my feelings for the ... (78 words

Far from congratulating us on the engagement, my fiancee's family are trying to dissuade her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6769 days ago

10 October 2005 (M - Hi, it would be great if anyone has some advice for my situation... I've recently become engaged to a girl of 25, 5 years my junior after being in a relationship just over a year and things haven't progressed as I thought. We were both extremely happy to become engage... (722 words

My heart and mind conflict about whether to break up...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

10 October 2005 (F - If your mind tells you that you want to break up but your heart tells you that you love them...which do you choose?... (23 words

Why does my boyfriend keep breaking up for trivial reasons?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6769 days ago

10 October 2005 (F - Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 years, and for some reason he always seems to break up with me, because of weird things. Like the first time the reason was he just said some space, then the second time was because in my heart was to see some other gi... (108 words

Why do women find "bad boys" so attractive?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

10 October 2005 (? - This is a question aimed at women (however, men are just as welcome to reply) Why do girls choose the bad boys? I mean why do you pick those that treat you like shit and play/cheat on you then those that respect and are honest to you? One thing I guess is that those... (133 words

My boyfriend is so cold that I'm becoming depressed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

10 October 2005 (F - Why cant he just show me he cares? Help me, I love my partner but I feel we will be over soon - if not already. Certain events have happened during the course of the last year to cause me to be insecure and depressed. The problem is - he just does not seem to care in the ... (348 words

I don't like the way I come across to guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6769 days ago

10 October 2005 (M - Dear Cupid, I find myself constantly attracted to a great number of guys at school - but find myself clamming up, or taking on an attitude with them that, when I reflect back on what I say, seems very pompous and conceited. I find myself repulsive more often then not, when tal... (132 words

Neither of us have a lot of money, so why do I have to pay for our entertainment?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6769 days ago

10 October 2005 (F - My bf and I don't have well-paying jobs at the moment and sometimes I get angry or frustrated when he expects me to pay for our outings--I just feel like guys have the privilege to enjoy a girl's company and should at least make the effort to pay for activities...although I ... (82 words

My boyfriend seems to tell me everything... and I mean everything!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 October 2005 (F - When my boyfriend and I were first going out, he told me A LOT of personal stuff about himself like how he had an HIV test (results were NEGATIVE) and he had a stuttering problem sometimes and he had two things on his testicles that he was going to get drained...needless to say ... (102 words

My boyfriend likes the idea of staying committed, but the idea is making me panicky...

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10 October 2005 (F - Hi--recently my bf and I had a talk recently about our committment to each other. I feel a little bad not being able to date other people because I became enagged at a young age and it didn't work out. My ex-fiancee just wanted to keep me and he wasn't the healthiest of people ... (509 words

Even after I promised not to kiss someone else, I did it again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6769 days ago

10 October 2005 (F - I am 17 years and have been in a relationship for 2 and a half years with Sean. We have never had sex during this time but have been intimate. However, as I started high school, I became attracted to another and began flirting. This led to me breaking up with Sean and getting ... (116 words

I'm happy with my life, but my parents think I should be looking to get married!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6769 days ago

10 October 2005 (M - HELLO. I'm 22, hard working and self employed, ie I'm doing well. I am interested to find a partner, but I feel that I'm not ready, in fact, I'm not interested. I'm happy with the way that I am, single. My parents are making me feel as though I'm wasting time, and I must fin... (130 words

He told me so many sweet things about our future, but now he avoids me

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10 October 2005 (F - I've been dating this guy for about 8 months. I thought everything was going good until he dumped me. He told me so many things like marrying me and having kids with me... after a while, I believed him. It was less heartbreaking when he said he still wanted to be good friends ... (103 words

A woman at my husband's work is coming between us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6652 days ago

10 October 2005 (F - This is hard to talk about because I don't even know myself. But me and my husband been together for 15 years and we’ve had our ups and down, but 2 weeks ago he said to me he’s not sure if he loves me or not, or if he just here for with the kids. I asked him why he feels th... (281 words

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