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I find sex hard work. I don't want him to think I'm not interested in him. How do I change this?

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Question - (10 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 September 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ngelface19 writes:

hi i have been with my boyfriend 2years and i live with, i love him very much. its just that most of the time when he wants to have sex i dont. its not coz i dont find him sexually attractive its just that i can never be bothered to have sex with him.

i fell like its to much effort and i know thats not right. i dont want him to start thinkin im not intrested or dump me because we havent been having much sex how do i change this. please help me

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007):

If you don't fancy him now then i doubt if you ever will. You need to put him in the picture and let him go. Find a bloke who you are sexually attracted to and maybe has a sex drive on the same level as yours. But you both need to be happy and you will never be happy with this bloke, sorry, but i think you should get the guts to end this.

Take care

xx

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (10 September 2007):

Why keep him in a relationship with you? You're no going to change. You will put him through hell before the enevitable breakup. Find yourself a new guy who has a low sex drive like you. Yes they are out there.

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