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writes:I am 13 years old 14 in June. I've met this guy who lives like five states away online. He's 18 and I told him I was 14. But that's not really the issue because in my heart I know we'll never meet. He's so great I almost get confused sometimes. He has a great personality, he's great looking, he's caring and he's considerate. And he's always telling me that if I was there he would cuddle with me or if I was there he would let me lay his head on his chest (he's much taller than me). I can never stop thinking about him! He's told me he loved me but I have trust issues.. like for some reason in my head I think he's on the other side of the computer laughing if I were to say I love you back. I don't even know what to do. I'm so confused!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2007): yea, he is getting into your head, and his pretty familiar with doing that because his 18. I'd stay away from thinking about hooking up with guys that age until you are older. You are young, guys that age have game. Together, thats a bad mix. Be careful.
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reader, xylplxym +, writes (12 December 2007):
You say that the age difference is not a problem, I say it is. He is older and knows how to get into your head. You are still learning how to have relationships with other people and of course with boys. It dosen't matter that you may never meet, bottom line is that he is taking advantage of your inexperience. Your insticts serve you well not to trust him fully. Let's not forget how easy it is to lie on the internet. I suggest you don't persue him as anything more than a friend. And you might want to tell him not to flirt with you as it is (lets be honest here) illegal given that age difference. If he is an honest, good guy he'll understand. If he's not then he'll bitch alot and then you know that you shouldn't talk to him anymore.
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reader, alieP91  +, writes (11 December 2007):
 Speaking from the same situation what your gut is telling you it's always the truth.
I went out with this guy who soon to my finding was a family friend he was 18 at the time and i was just two months away fro being 14. We went out for three months before i became pregnant, but i've never had sex with him. I found out that he was raping me in my sleep.
I'm not saying that this will happen to you i'm just saying that you need to be really careful around much older guys because they only have one ting on their minds. And i know we all here that from our mothers but we should really listen to them more!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007): I'm in the same situatoin almost. The difference is that I've actually met my guy, and he's amazing too. I know how it feels to trust someone then have that trust broken. It hurts. ALOT. But in situations fealing with love, you have to let go of your fear and paranoial ( -__- SP?). I know its hard, but its the best thing you can do. If yyou don't he might move on. Let go as fast as you can, tell him whats been on your mind about this, and have him be 100% honest with you. If he really cares he will tell you what you need to hear about this. Hope it works. Good Luck!XD
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007): Sorry but he is definatly too old for you. find a guy your age and it will work better :)
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (11 December 2007):
 Sweetie he's too old for you. He probably is playing games.
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