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writes:im popular and so is this boy that likes me. but he likes to do freaky things with his girlfriends. i would kiss him and dub him but i might not do the things his other girlfriends have. should i go out with him and stay shy? dont go out with him? or go ouyt with him and stop being so shy. please please help me out
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (30 November 2007):
 Well, you already know what to expect from this guy, so at least you are going in with your eyes open. Does he know what to expect from you? Feel free to date him, but TELL HIM what you will and won't do when you get together. It's not just up to him, speak up. I know that you are shy, but he won't know unless you talk. No means No and don't put yourself in any situations with him that you are not comfortable with, like being all alone with him. Be prepared that he might not like to slow down, so he may not be the best partner for you and things may not work out. Never let anyone talk you into doing something that you are not comfortable with. Your body, your rules. You are young, take your time. It's nicer to wait and experience things with someone you love than under duress. And who knows, he may be very respectful once you tell him what you will and won't do. You are in charge here.
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reader, boxerbabe +, writes (30 November 2007):
if you really like him, i'd say give it a shot. if he starts wanting to do wierd things with you and you don't feel comfortable tell him no it will only leave him wanting more i promise.
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reader, jm81690 +, writes (30 November 2007):
 Well how freaky is this kid?
Does he expect sex from you and you arn't ready? Or is he into S&M (which I doubt is the case ocnsidering his age)... If you like him go out with him, if he expects you to do things sexually that you don't want to, tell him, he should understand, if he doesn't he's too immature to bother with.
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reader, charliemouse1989  +, writes (30 November 2007):
Hey hunni.
Well how much do you like this guy.? and what kind of freaky things.?
Do you want to do these things.?
These are the questions you need to ask yourself, and if you are comftable with doing these things then yes go out with him.
As for the being shy, just be yourself. He likes you for you.
Loves x x x
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (30 November 2007):
 Whatever you do, be yourself, stay yourself, don't lose yourself. Be true to yourself. Say if yall do go out and he can't accept you for who you are, then it's best to move on.
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