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writes:Okay, so i've liked this guy for 9 months now, yesterday was the first day I was completely ready to tell him, but I knew it was going to be difficult because there were so many people around us, as it was a day out I planned for my birthday.I was pretty upset yesterday as all my plans flopped and we ended up going to my friends house but we did hang around in different places on the way, and *he* knew something was wrong and throughout the whole day *he* kept asking me and others why I was upset, so i do know that *he* cares, and my two friends [that know i like him] were their yesterday and they also mentioned that he treats me nicer and differently than he treats other girls.I don't know if 9 months is a crush or love, but if i do tell him i need to tell him in person, because it's really getting to me, it's been a secret for 9 months and i need to get it out, i just don't know how, i really don't want things to be different or awkward. Much Love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2007): If he's your friend and he treats you that nicely then you should go for it and tell him how you feel. (He sounds really nice! You're lucky!)
Get him by himself, e.g. ask him to go for a walk with you, or invite him round to your house, etc. Sit him down and say that you've got something to tell him. Explain to him exactly how you feel and hopefully he'll understand. Maybe he'll ask you out - may be he felt the same way, but wasn't confident in asking you out incase you rejected him.
Whatever you do I think that you should not just wait around anymore. You might avoid awkwardness - but you wouldn't gain anything either.
Be brave and good luck x x x
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (2 December 2007):
 The truth is, when you tell him, you risk things becoming awkward. It is almost as if they are bound to become awkward. Just tell him, already!
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reader, -Colour-Me-Sober- +, writes (2 December 2007):
 Sounds like you really like this guy. And by the sounds of it he must like you too if he treats you differently. Next time you see him go up to him and ask if you can talk to him in private. Then tell him how you feel. If it comes from the heart nothing can go wrong. But you're too shy to tell him then ask your friends to instead, but still it's best if you confront him yourself.9 months is a long time to have a crush on someone so it's best if you ask him first before any one else does!Hope I've helped!
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