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I cannot phone or message him - what can I do to get him back?

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Question - (10 December 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 December 2007)
A female South Africa age 30-35, *axine17 writes:

We dated at the end of 2006 and then again in June 2007. But we broke up because I didn't greet him when he saw me at the mall. He smsed me and told me to "Get Lost". I still love him and would do anything to be with him again. But when I see him I become nervous, my palms become sweaty and I blush. I become redder than a tomato! I cannot phoneor sms him because i'm afraid of rejection. What can I do to get him back?

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (11 December 2007):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntLet him go, he sounds stupid to me.

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A female reader, muffy United States +, writes (10 December 2007):

muffy agony aunthunny,if he broke up with you because you didnt "greet"him at the mall,then hes not worth it! that is the stupidest reason to break up!! find a new man that wont dump you for not "greeting" him at the mall.trust me,hes not worth a mili second of your time

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (10 December 2007):

kenny agony auntSome time's with the things we really want there is some element of risk taking involved. If you want him back you have got to overcome this fear of rejection and make that initial ice breaker, whether it be the text, or call, letter, email ect. If he responds to whatever you decide to do, and you arrange to meet, then mission accomplished, job done. But if he does not want to know, then at least you gave it your best shot, tried you best, and you can move on with absolutely no shame atal. If you don't make that first move, you will live the rest of your life wondering what the outcome would have really been, so take that leap of faith and let the chips fall where they may.

Good luck x

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A male reader, keith5 United States +, writes (10 December 2007):

keith5 agony auntHe seem's like he doesnt respect you. You should try talking to him, and if he isnt nice to you than you should move on. Find someone who listens to you and actually cares about you

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