I'm 12, horny and shy
Q. Well im 12 years old and I am very shy around boys! I really dont go far with them but sometimes I get horny and I really want to have sex! What should I do?...
A. 22 August 2008: Wait a while for sex hun! As for the shyness, you'll overcome it :)... (read in full...)
He's really hurt me, can I be happy with him?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now, we started off as really really good we'd had never felt the same bout someone else like that before. but there was always interuptions, like the world was against us. anyways when i...
A. 22 August 2008: I think you need some time away from him, to get your head straight and see how you feel about him...If you miss him and realise you love him and can't live without him, then you work at it. If you are away from him and find you're ... (read in full...)
I kept a secret and he found out, now he can't trust me
Q. i have recently spilt from my husband of 4 years after i kept a secret from him and he found out.. he said that i should be able to tell him anything and that he now doesnt believe a word i say and has lost all feelings for me... i love my husband ...
A. 17 August 2008: You just need to build his trust back up, give it time. ... (read in full...)
I want someone I know I can't have...
Q. Well i guess i'm writing here for advice on how to get over someone i haven't even been out with... I've been good friends with a guy i work with for nearly 3 years...i'd always assumed we were friends but recently through one reason or anothe...
A. 17 August 2008: The best way to get over someone is to not see them for a while...Out of sight, out of mind. This might be hard as you want to maintain the friendship...Just try to give yourself some space from him.... (read in full...)
What should I do about this annoying, cheap, and obsessive kid?
Q. This kid in my class is a total bitch lets call him "joe". He thinks this girl who dosen't like him belongs to him and he won't let anyone talk to her, lets call her "jane". So jane and one of her friends were walking around town and decided ...
A. 22 July 2008: lol you are so not 10-12 :-D... (read in full...)
How do I get my friends to hook me up with people they know?
Q. I'm wondering what's a good way to ask friends and acquaintances to hook me up with their friends? Basically I just want to go on blind dates, meet new people, and have fun. I don't have a lot of friends-- most of the people I would be asking are ...
A. 20 July 2008: Maybe mention to your friends you are looking for some company, basically someone to stave off some of the loneliness until you get your butt into the city!! ... (read in full...)
If he is too scared to propose to me, should I propose to him? What do you think?
Q. I've been with my partner for quite some time now and we're beginning to talk wedding and family wise. Thing is, I think he's too scared to propose to me. He's given himself so many opportunities, but then backs out and says something else. I wa...
A. 20 July 2008: lol I just noticed your age! I was with someone long term when I was younger. I was CONVINCED he was The One, we got engaged, did all that...But we broke up in the end, we were too young and needed to experience other things. I'm not saying that ... (read in full...)
How do I get my friends to hook me up with people they know?
Q. I'm wondering what's a good way to ask friends and acquaintances to hook me up with their friends? Basically I just want to go on blind dates, meet new people, and have fun. I don't have a lot of friends-- most of the people I would be asking are ...
A. 20 July 2008: Yup they put pics up!
The talked alot before they met though, and made sure they were compatable and had stuff nin common etc.
Maybe, and this is a bit drasticm you should consider relocating. Sounds like your stuck out in the sticks with ... (read in full...)
How do I get my friends to hook me up with people they know?
Q. I'm wondering what's a good way to ask friends and acquaintances to hook me up with their friends? Basically I just want to go on blind dates, meet new people, and have fun. I don't have a lot of friends-- most of the people I would be asking are ...
A. 20 July 2008: Why don't you just try a dating site? There's not so much of a stigma these days and you can suss out if you're compatable etc before you go on the date...Match.com is pretty thorough, my Dad met his now wife on there, and they're absolutely ... (read in full...)
What should I do about this annoying, cheap, and obsessive kid?
Q. This kid in my class is a total bitch lets call him "joe". He thinks this girl who dosen't like him belongs to him and he won't let anyone talk to her, lets call her "jane". So jane and one of her friends were walking around town and decided ...
A. 20 July 2008: Ignore him, what a twat. But it's up to this Jane girl to stand up to him too! Just let him know you won't tolerate that behaviour but don't get too involved.... (read in full...)
If he is too scared to propose to me, should I propose to him? What do you think?
Q. I've been with my partner for quite some time now and we're beginning to talk wedding and family wise. Thing is, I think he's too scared to propose to me. He's given himself so many opportunities, but then backs out and says something else. I wa...
A. 20 July 2008: You can either push it and propose yourself, or try to relax about it, forget it, and let it happen when he's ready :o) Don't keep waiting and expecting it, it'll make waiting for it to happen worse...Remember a watched pot never boils :o) xx... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm overdosing on sex with my boyfriend! Is this just a guy thing?
Q. Im 18 and my BF is about 2 be 19 in 3 weeks we got together on september 19,2007... since than all he wants 2 do is have sex all the time and I dont know if its like a guy thing or what but I dont know what 2 do about him I love him 2 death but I ...
A. 20 July 2008: How did you find the time to have sex 8 times a day?? lol! :-D... (read in full...)
My boyfriend insists on fisting me and having rough sex even though I have had many operations 'down below' and it causes me so much pain
Q. so i think i need some advice cause i am not sure what to do. my fiance and i have been together for a year and a half. we are deeply in love and he does everything under the sun for me. i couldnt ask for a better man. but we have a few sex issues. ...
A. 13 July 2008: Wrong Wrong WRONG WRONG!!!
In no way shape or form should you just have to "put up with the pain of sex"!! Your fiance should NOT be forcing you to be fisted etc if it causes you pain, and you CRY during it!!... (read in full...)
My period seems overdue, but I haven't had sex.
Q. I've been worried for the past few days. I've hd my period since March of '07 and I was 11 and now I'm 13. My periods have already regulated, I think. My cycle is about 23 days. The last time I had my period was June 3rd and I was supposed to ...
A. 9 July 2008: The littlest things can affect it, you might be a bit stressed and not know it, diet, excercise, all kinds of things could affect it.
Plus, but don't quote me, I think in the first few years after you start your period, things aren't exactly cloc... (read in full...)
I didn't know how good she was until she left. Now I want her back.
Q. I have been going out with a girl for 2 years almost, we have both been very much in love with each other however i have never really showed her this, she has always though she loves me more than i love her to the point of her getting so worried she ...
A. 9 July 2008: The best thing you can do is write her a letter.
That way you get to sit down and really take time to htink about what you want to say and how you want to say it, and she can read it in her own time, and truly take in what you say.
Tell her you ... (read in full...)
My self esteem won't let me believe that this guy really likes me
Q. i have low self esteme and cant beleive this fella i like when he tels me he finds me really attractive. hes abit of a player and i dont know how to find out if hes telling the truth or not? any1 able to help?...
A. 9 July 2008: I've found that when someone has low self esteem, a guy who is a player is the least best person for them to go for...It's almost like setting yourself up for disapointment, because he hasn't got the rep as a player through sitting at home playing ... (read in full...)
Fortune teller predicted an early pregnancy ... and the condom broke.
Q. my mother has recently had her tarrot read. It says about me going to have a baby when im really young. I had sex with my boyfriend and the condom broke. What should i do?...
A. 9 July 2008: I would take the morning after pill if it happened less than 3 days ago, and definately get yourself to a doctor and do a pregnancy test.... (read in full...)
I feel like I have missed out sexually, I'm now in a long term relationship
Q. I have been with my Gf for 1year and 6months. We both gave our virginity to each other. However, when we first began to go out she told me about her past she hadnt dun much. All she did was kiss and have dry sex. But incomparison to me that was ...
A. 9 July 2008: Maybe it's time for a change...Maybe you could do with a break from your girlfriend. Because if you want more, and she definately can't give you that more, it's going to escalate.
It's funny because you're in the situation I would like to be, s... (read in full...)
I've liked him for 8 years but he won't open up and actually say if he wants to be with me
Q. I really need help I've been in love with this guy for 2 years now But I've had a crush on him since 2000 him and I talk off and on he acts like he likes me and wants to be with me but it also seems like he's afraid or something I try my best to ...
A. 9 July 2008: You've been waiting far too long for this guy.
He's shown that he has some emotional deficiency...
Move on!!
There will be someone better...... (read in full...)
I have been dating my girlfriend for a year and we haven't kissed, how do I make a move?
Q. i am 14 and i need help. my gf is 13 and we have been going out for 1 year. and i want her to kiss me but i dont know how to. plz help....
A. 9 July 2008: There's no point in fretting - just DO It :-D... (read in full...)
When I was young, I touched my little sister...
Q. I've done something really bad. When I was young I touched my little sister. She was sleeping. I know I did something real wrong. Is there anything I could do about this? I've made a lot of mistakes and I wish I would have never done...
A. 9 July 2008: Maybe you need to talk things through with a professional?
Did your sister know?
Did it happen more than once?
Do you still speak now?
At least you know you did something wrong and feel remoreseful!... (read in full...)
Am I alone in my fight against my husband's methane emission problem? Talk to me!
Q. Totally weird question I know, but it drives me nuts... You know in that special way only a husband can do to his wife :-) (Just before I start: I love my husband and we dont have any major relationship problems, he is a sweetie most of the time...
A. 9 July 2008: Feed him less carbs!
I find farting totally gross, I've only had 1 boyfriend do it in front of me and that relationship didn't last very long.
Yed I know you should just be yourself and whatever around each other, but it really genuinely makes ... (read in full...)
Do some girls object to receiving oral sex
Q. is it true that some girls dont like being eaten out?...
A. 9 July 2008: I love it. But the guy really has to know what he's doing, or to be honest, I feel nothing. But I think this is really where communication comes into it - you have to tell someone what feels good and where sometimes!... (read in full...)
Where do I "go" when I have to pull out?
Q. This is kind of a strange question but here goes. When having sex with an unfamiliar partner, where do you "cum" when you need to pull out? Is there some kind of ettiquette with this kind of thing? Seriously I never know what to do when that moment ...
A. 9 July 2008: Hiya - I know you said you don't want a lecture on STD's, but you didn;t mentio pregnancy, do you know that even if you don't ejaculate in her, she can still get pregnant?
My friend had a one night stand with a girl who was "on the pill", he didn'... (read in full...)
Trying again with my ex, how should I behave?
Q. hi,me and my girlfriend split up the start of febuary,she wanted a break as she was depressed and want to sort her issues out,we have stayed in touch mainly through txt,i saw her in april but it was to hard for me just going out as friends so i ...
A. 9 July 2008: I would play it slightly aloof, she obviously is confused about how she is feeling, which isn't GREAT when you're trying to get back with someone...Don't be all in her face, lioke she said, son't ask her questions about you as a couple, just see how ... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity but don't know where...
Q. I have found someone that i really like and want to lose my virginity to, but i dont where i should lose my virginty. I love the idea of doing it in a bed and then falling asleep and waking up together but im only 13 and live my parents and 2 ...
A. 6 July 2008: Wait a couple of years...I was 15 when I lost mine, to be honest only did it because all my friends had lost theirs...i wish I had been stronger and waited for someone more special when I was a little older...... (read in full...)
I was abused by my older brother when I was younger and I can't move on
Q. When I was young I was abused by my older brother, he told me that it was all ok and it's a game that older men play. This happend on many different occasions. Im a male, 20 years of age and ashamed and scared of life. I cant get a girl friend and ...
A. 6 July 2008: I read this any my heart really went out to you.
I haven't been in this situation and wouldn't even know where to begin with what to say to make you feel even remotely better...I hope you have local support groups you can go to, or people you can ... (read in full...)
I get very emotional reading questions and answers here. I feel I'll never be in love.
Q. hey i am a 14 year old girl. i ahve noticed that lately i have been really emotional, like jsut a sec ago i was reading a question that ssays "what is love?" and i was reading the answers and i felt like "ill never be in love! ill never find a guy ...
A. 6 July 2008: When I was your age up until about 16/17 I found I would easily get emotional and cry...I think raging hormons had something to do with that!!
Any little thing would set me off which used to be quite embarassing at times lol...... (read in full...)
How, exactly do you know you love someone? I mean the real, solid, deep love?
Q. This'll probably sound stupid and I'm sure it's been asked before, but how is it exactly that you know you love someone? I mean real, solid, deep love. I believe deep down that I love my boyfriend, and I want to tell him - but I also don't want ...
A. 6 July 2008: I think real love is getting through that puppy love lust phase, staying together after the honeymoon perioud has fizzled out a bit, seeing someone's bad points and still wanting to be with them, still caring for them, wanting to look after them.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend feels I make him violent. I'm fiery, but I want to know where this relationship is going.
Q. Hi I have known my boyfriend nearly 3 years now and most of the time its ok but every now and then we have terrible rows and I sometimes see his face changes and his body language as if he is pretty tempted to hit me. He has shoved me and once ...
A. 6 July 2008: The point I wanted to make is that you can't make your boyfriend angry or violent...He has to have that inside him somewhere...Sounds like he needs help...... (read in full...)
I want to find my biological father - where do I start?
Q. I want to find my biological father, has anyone got any ideas as to where i can start?? Plz help!!!...
A. 6 July 2008: I felt really sad when I read Denze's reply...The information is there but her Mom won't give it to her...How could you withold that from your child :o(... (read in full...)
My boyfriend feels I make him violent. I'm fiery, but I want to know where this relationship is going.
Q. Hi I have known my boyfriend nearly 3 years now and most of the time its ok but every now and then we have terrible rows and I sometimes see his face changes and his body language as if he is pretty tempted to hit me. He has shoved me and once ...
A. 6 July 2008: It's funny you said about his face changing...I was in a relationship for 3 months which ended when he threw me against a wall - I have never been in a relationship like that before and it actually ended up in court (long story but he was charged ... (read in full...)
I've come to the point where I feel like I'm relying on him,
Q. I think Im losing myself. Basically things in the past have happened between me and my married boss (I realise the effects and consequences of this etc,but if you please, this is not the point I wish to discuss now). Basically we slept together a...
A. 6 July 2008: You said it yourself, he has become your best friend...And you're soon going to be losing that best friend.
Maybe you should slowly start detaching yourself...Start going out with other friends, biulding another life away from him...xx... (read in full...)
Didn't think I was that into him, now we've broken up, he's messing me about but I want him back
Q. Was with my boyfd for 7 months, unsure about him a first, then started to like him more and more. He always appeared to be more into him. Suddenly one day, said he was having doubts. However, not brave enough to actually break up, eventually ended ...
A. 6 July 2008: I don't really understand what you mean by how he has treated you?
He was having doubts, you dumped him, he texts you to say he misses you and wants to meet up, but didn't end up meeting you...Where has he mistrested you?
Sorry if I am... (read in full...)
Bruising after sex, why?
Q. Hey :) Great site you have here... Okay well basically me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday... all went well and we were fine (i wasnt a virgin, he was) and all was fine until today when i showered and found bruising...anyone have any ideas on...
A. 6 July 2008: Might have been rougher sex than you've had before...He might be skinnier/bonier than others you have had sex with...?... (read in full...)
I'm a drama queen in relationships
Q. Dear aunty What can I say, love is somewhat one of those misteries that I do not seem to understand. Firstly I am typical drama queen when it comes to relationships, mature in my work life but a child sometimes in my personal, I blame my pass bu...
A. 6 July 2008: It sounds like you have a big gap in your communication...Arrange to go see your boyfriend, stay for the weekend, and have a good long chat, make sure you're noth on the same page as to what you want, and tell him your fears about the future etc...... (read in full...)
I don't want to masturbate but I ejaculate when I'm asleep, why?
Q. i dont feel like masturbating, but i come while sleeping, is it normal?...
A. 6 July 2008: Sounds like you are having wet dreams...?... (read in full...)
I always attract guys who are attatched...!
Q. Users i have a problem i seem to be attracting guys that are already spoken for and not sure what to do , my sis bf tried it years ago i spoke up and was called a liar bros and sis's not got on with me for ages i have recently been cracked on ...
A. 6 July 2008: You might have a friendly personality that guys take the wrong way? When it happens again, let them down gently, and just bear in mind that not every girlfriend who you tell is going to believe you, unfortunately!... (read in full...)
I'm dating a guy at work but h wants to keep it a secret, but is he falling for me?
Q. I am messing around with this guy from work for 6 months now. He has been really hard to understand, sometimes he wants me there and sometimes he doesn't (which i can understand he needs some space, time alone). But when we are together he's ...
A. 6 July 2008: If after 6 months he still wants to keep it a secret, it doesn't sound to me like he is taking it too seriously, unless there is some strict policy at work against dating?
If you are going hoime (wherever that mgith be) in 5 weeks, I would imag... (read in full...)
He's been emailing a girl on his Bebo, should I be mad?
Q. Ok my boyfriend has a bebo account, myspace,facebook accounts etc... he gave me the password he uses for all dem before to change stuff for him ages ago and doesnt mind me goin on his page. so i logged on 2night to change stuff and went into his ...
A. 6 July 2008: As long as he's not flirting, or being suggestive, then it's fine. He trusts you to have all his passwords, he's not up to no good! It's good for guys to have girl friends to talk to and the same for girls and guys...Just as long as the line isn't ... (read in full...)
How do I trim "doen there"?
Q. Hi, I was just wondering if anyone could give me tips on how to give a good trim 'down there'? like how short, what equipment, etc.; i'm too afraid to shave please!...
A. 6 July 2008: Trim with scissors, or you can buy an actual bikini trimmer :o)... (read in full...)
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