How do I trim "doen there"?
Q. Hi, I was just wondering if anyone could give me tips on how to give a good trim 'down there'? like how short, what equipment, etc.; i'm too afraid to shave please!...
A. 6 July 2008: Trim with scissors, or you can buy an actual bikini trimmer :o)... (read in full...)
What are good factors in a relationship to keep you together?
Q. Apart from sexual chemistry WHAT should a couple have in common to make a good relationship. My boyfriend has just split with me although our sex life was great (he said so) and obviously he msut not have loved me as much BUT his reasons he thought ...
A. 6 July 2008: You can't base a good relationship solely on a good sex life...It needs to be a combination of trust, communication, sex, affection, similarities and differences :o)... (read in full...)
I'm in such a rocky relationship, how do I smooth things over??
Q. Hey you guys I need some help now me and my girl have been together for 2 and half years I'm 18 and she's 17 now even though she wasn't my first I consider her my first love we fight alot And Have been separated 4 times since we been together but ...
A. 6 July 2008: Sometimes relationships come to a natural end...It sounds like you guys are drifting that way. Unless there's something you feel is worth fighting for, but you both have to work at it...... (read in full...)
I'm obsessing over his ex and it's becoming a problem
Q. hi there,i have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now.i love him very much and i know he loves me. the problem is im always scratching thru his things to find out what he and his ex got up too.im worried this is becoming an obsession now cos im ...
A. 6 July 2008: The more you search, the more inadequate you're going to keep making yourself feel, and the more trouble you're going to bring into the relationship. Try to close the door on the ex, and concentrate on the present and your relationship, otherwise ... (read in full...)
I had trouble in my marriage and began chatting to someone else, he gave me emotional abuse for the following 17 months, telling me he hoped I get cancer, how do I report him?
Q. i have no idea where to start,i was married 22 years was in the middle of a divorce,srtarted chatting to this fellow online,we got really close decided we were going to meet, just befour we did, we had an argument,he said he cancelled his flight i ...
A. 6 July 2008: Oh my God. He told you he hoped you get cancer, and you fell in love with him?
The whole story makes me feel sick to my stomach.
It's people like him who deserve to get cancer, not all the innocent, decent human beings who die from it every da... (read in full...)
We haven't had sex in 6 months and he won't give me a reason...
Q. I have been with my partner for nearly 3 yrs and living together for about a year, the thing is we haven't had sex in 6 months. Im getting sick of asking him, Ive tried everything and he just keeps giving me excuses. ive tried to ask hiom what is ...
A. 6 July 2008: Sit him down when you are both relaxed and tell him that this issue is upsetting you, making you feel shut out, etc, and that you would really like to resolve it, and you don't like the idea of him having a problem and not being able to talk to you. ... (read in full...)
I have fallen for a guy at work, he's married, now I'm being transferred, should I tell him how I feel?
Q. a few months ago i started falling for a guy at work.i haven't stopped thinking bout him since. when i was around him it felt like the whole world melted away, leaving just us.i knw i'm only young but no guy has ever made me feel as special. but ...
A. 6 July 2008: Depends what you want to get out of it...Married man and a collegue, sounds like playing with fire...And what would you do if he turned around and said he wanted an affair? And you move away...It would open a whole can of worms, and mess about with ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't kiss with tongues or go down on me, and won't explain why (but he's quite happy for me to go down on him!)
Q. How come my boyfriend does not want to french kiss nor do oral sex on me? I have tried t kiss him using my tongue and he won't let me and he won't go down on me but he loves when I do oral sex on him. I have asked him but he doesn't want to answer ...
A. 6 July 2008: SELFISH!!!!
Stop going down on him, and when he asks why, refuse to give an answer!
Or if you want to be more adult than he is about issues, do stop giving him oral, and tell him that it's 50:50. Give AND take. If the french kissing is a ser... (read in full...)
Should I divorce him?
Q. should i divorce my husband? he always shouts at me, never wanting to spend time or talk to me and he puts everything else before the relationship....
A. 6 July 2008: You're 18-21, how long have you been married?
Have you talked to him?
Have you considered marriage counselling?
Can you give us some more details?
... (read in full...)
A bright yellow orange liquid on the toilet paper had me worried. What was it?
Q. About 6 months ago, when I went to the bathroom to do a "number 2" i noticed some bright yellowy orangish liquid on the toilet paper after I had wiped. i am 14, have not got my period and have never had sex. this hasn't happened again and i have ...
A. 6 July 2008: I know it's embarassing, but you really should go to the doctor. Until you get a definate answer, your mind's just going to play on it and you'll make yourself sick with worry...... (read in full...)
My girlfriend said I took her virginity, but I read her diary and it appears she lied...
Q. my girlfreind clams that i took her virginity but her diary say different and she also lived with a guy for a year in a one bedroom apt before we met. at first she told me that she was with 8 people before we met but when i flip out about it she ...
A. 6 July 2008: It sounds like she owuld be better off without you!
No one can help their past, you flip out at her for her sexual past?? No wonder she lied to you, I would have done!
And snooping in her diary...?! A definate no no!
You want her to tell ... (read in full...)
Dating this guy...Then he seems to vanish into thin air!
Q. I was seeing this guy for approximately six weeks things were going fine between us. We spoke every other day two or three times and it was mostly him calling me. He showed genuine interest in me. We are both Cancers and our birthdays are ...
A. 6 July 2008: There could be all kinds of reasons why he might be acting funny...But my first impression (and I could be wrong, as I don't know him) was that he was taking the cowards way out of breaking up with you...... (read in full...)
Need to lose some weight fast, before my holiday!
Q. Im looking for some advice. im going on holidays in 10 days and am desperate to loose a little weight fast!! ive been thinking of taking some effergines, can anybody recommend how many a day, or an alternative even, rather than using effergines. ...
A. 6 July 2008: Drink a litre of water every day, and snack on things like celery (0 calories), grapes, carrots etc.... (read in full...)
My ex and I are talking again and still have feelings for each other, but he still talks to other girls...
Q. my ex and I are talking again we've been dating 4yrs now and we recently started talking again we've had alot of arguments and rough times i'm 20 and he's 28 right now we're trying to work at things but he's still talking to other girls aswell as i ...
A. 6 July 2008: Whether you are together or not, there's no harm in him talking to females, if that's all it is?... (read in full...)
After I worked so hard to keep our relationship together-he tells me he wants to break up!
Q. I've been in relationship with my boyfriend for now 2years.. I'm 17 and he is 18, everything was perfect till the last 6 months when we started to row and things like that..he said it is because he didn't know if he loved me anymore, because i ...
A. 6 July 2008: It sounds like he needs a little fun and freedom, as sadly happens in long term relationships when you're younger!
Let him go...If he has a few months of freedom and decides he misses you, then you can decide if you want him back or not.
If he... (read in full...)
What should I do with this guy...do I say "look if its game set and match" please just tell me?
Q. Met a man on a recent holiday as friends he wanted more but although I did fancy him didnt do anything because I dont normally on holidays. We e mailed each other a few times and in some he has told me what he thought and got cross with me, not ...
A. 6 July 2008: Why don't you just send him an email simply asking what it is you have done to upset him, and does he still want to be in contact (or whatever question you might want to ask). Keep it short and simple, and let him know if you don't receive a reply, ... (read in full...)
Everyone says he likes me, but when we leave school, he ignores me...?!
Q. Theres this guy that i like and every one was pretty sure he liked me but now when we're at school he acts normally but the minute we get out of school he ignores me. i dont hang out with him, but we both go to the same place after with our ...
A. 6 July 2008: He probably does like you, but typical teenage boys, he probably doesn't know what to say to you when you're out of school or alone!... (read in full...)
I'm attractive but have very low self esteem, I'm too scared to date again in case they reject me
Q. Okay I'm a good looking girl (I am told) and throughout my twenties have never been short of offers. I've had two serious relationships. both ended by me due to different reasons. Got with a guy who was into his alcohol and as a result, this aff...
A. 6 July 2008: Christ what a mess!
My first impression is that you are choosing losers to date, because if you can pass someone off as being a bit of a lose,r it doesn't sting quite so bad when you break up...And also it seems like you don't think you deserve ... (read in full...)
How can I make webcam sex better for my girlfriend?
Q. My gf and I live apart because of my job. She has suggested sex over webcam. We tried it and it was good fun but each time she wants to I get the impression she gets less and less turned on by it. What can i do to make this more fun for her and for ...
A. 6 July 2008: So tell her that! Communication is the key to a successful relationship :o) xx... (read in full...)
I just can't get over this guy, it's been a few years, is something wrong with me?
Q. (( Sorry for the legnth)) I was friends with this boy through primary school ( although he is a year older than me) and when i started high school i started to fall for him. In my 1st year of high school i started to realise how much i liked him...
A. 6 July 2008: There's nothing wrong with you, you can't help your feelings.
You just need to concentrate on moving on, avoid seeing him as much as possible, remember, out of sight, out of mind.
Plus it's human nature to want what we can't have, so that doesn't ... (read in full...)
He seemed so totally into me, then when I suggested we get together, he freaked! Why?!
Q. hey im in a little tricky situation and was wondering to get some help... anything.... so here goes Ive been hanging around with this guy for about 6 months and we become really close to each other. when i first started chatting to him it was ju...
A. 6 July 2008: He might be the kind of guy who likes the chase, then gets the target and loses interest...Unfortunately you will come across a few guys like this in your time! :o(... (read in full...)
I've become nervous, paranoid and jealous in our relationship...
Q. I'm 17 and Me and my boyfriend of two and a half years dont have the "perfect magazine" relationship, we argue a fair bit, mostly over useless crap that we then forget about the next day, or the fact he lives two hours away, but not that long ago, ...
A. 6 July 2008: It sounds like you are feeling quite insecure in the relationship emotionally, as you said, when you broke up, he was ok, and you were a mess. Now it seems he might be playing it a little cool, which is making you a crazy mess - we've all been ... (read in full...)
Why do I get shy around pretty women?
Q. This may be kind weird but i feel very uncomfortable around pretty women. I can never talk 2 them cuz i get scared. My uncle, his wife, and my baby cousin r over my house on vacation, and his wife i met 4 the first time and shes very friendly ...
A. 6 July 2008: You might just be feeling a little intimidated, or you might just be admiring them?... (read in full...)
Can you stay friends with someone you were in a relationship with?
Q. Can I still be a friend? Hello everyone. I have asked this before, but the question remains. I was in a very long relationship with this woman. We still talk/see each other on occasion. I guess what I am asking is: If you say yes-How did you do i...
A. 6 July 2008: I think it really depends on the people, I have stayed friends with all my ex's apart from one - we broke up years ago but he's still bitter about it and won't so much as even say hello back if I see him!
If you are both mature and reasonable peop... (read in full...)
How can I make webcam sex better for my girlfriend?
Q. My gf and I live apart because of my job. She has suggested sex over webcam. We tried it and it was good fun but each time she wants to I get the impression she gets less and less turned on by it. What can i do to make this more fun for her and for ...
A. 6 July 2008: Simple - ask her! No need for guessing and wondering, just ask her straight out, is she still enjoying it as much as in the beginning, and if not, what can you do to make it better?... (read in full...)
Why was I the only one my 'friend' didn't invite to her party?
Q. today there was a birthday party, everyone got an invitation but me. this person is supposedly...was supposedly a friend of mine. what do i do about it...mind u, i have never been invited to a birthday party, apart from when i was 10. now i'm 17, ...
A. 6 July 2008: You need to ask her straight out, why didn't she invite you? Have you done something to upset her, was she limited to the number she could invite...You'll never know until you ask her directly!... (read in full...)
Unusual looking men frighten me so much that I feel they want to harm me in some way.
Q. Lately I have felt wiered around unusual looking men and i keep thinking they are going to come and rape me of course i am scared about this. please help i just need some advise to get over my fear!!!...
A. 6 July 2008: Have you read something in the news that might have put that seed into your mind? Has anything happened to your friends, or locally in your area recently?
Just be smart, and be aware, son't go places alone at night etc...... (read in full...)
I'm scared I'm going to lose him if I don't act now. What should I do?
Q. Hi. at the moment i am really stuck. after talking to my ex boyfriend who i was with for 2 years on the internet the other day i haven't been able to get him out of my head. i love him so much and i've known him 4 3 years. hes one of the nicest guys ...
A. 5 July 2008: If it's meant to be, it will be...You've both shown an interest in being together if you're both in England, so see how it goes, see if he does move to England, and take it from there!
Alternatively you could go spend some time there with him, an ... (read in full...)
Does a "read receipt" mean that my friend has definitely viewed my e-card?
Q. I have sent electronic cards to a friend of mine whom I recently split up with jsut asw an apolgy for my part. It says the card has been viewed by him so does this definitely mean it has been viewed because if he had changed his e mail address ...
A. 5 July 2008: I would imagine he has viewed it, if he'd changed his email or something, it wouldn't have delivered.... (read in full...)
I'm scared that I should be slowing things down. Any advice appreciated.
Q. Hey everyone, I've just started a new college and last week was the 'induction' visit where we went for a week and had trial lessons, got to know eachother etc. I met this guy there, it wasn't quite 'love at first sight' but it was pretty close. We...
A. 5 July 2008: It doesn't particularly sound like you are rushing things - when I read the title I thought you were going to say you had slept with him on the first date or something!
Just take it at a pace you feel comfortable at, yes take the time to get to k... (read in full...)
Is she worth my friendship? From lovers to best friends, can it work?
Q. I dated a girl long distance for 6 months. She decided she wasnt ready to commit enough to the relationship to move and be with me. I offered to move to be with her but she declined. Since then we have stayed in touch and stayed friends. I have ...
A. 4 July 2008: I don't really understand her logic - if she loves you that deeply, then why not just be with you?
If she doesn't want to get in too deep, then you don't have to...?
Maybe you just need to tell her point blank - I can't do the "friendship thin... (read in full...)
How can I stop teasing my boyfriend, sex-wise?
Q. everytime i am with my boyfriend alone we have sexual attractions towards each other. but i always seem to tease him and ever get anywhere sexually!! how can i stop teasing my boyfriend?...
A. 19 May 2008: You are probably teasing him because you enjoy the attention he lavishes on you when you do, because he's probably putty in your hands.
It is a bit of a dangerous game to play though, try to avoid situations where you might come across this, hang... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble eating in front of people who aren't my immediate family
Q. for the past year i've been finding it difficult to eat in front of anyone who isn't my immediate family e.g parents. when i eat in front of anyone else i get this relly sicky feeling and when i try and eat i gag. does anyone know what might be ...
A. 19 May 2008: You might as well go to the doctor, ee what they have to say. If you can put a name to how you are feeling, quite often it helps...... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble eating in front of people who aren't my immediate family
Q. for the past year i've been finding it difficult to eat in front of anyone who isn't my immediate family e.g parents. when i eat in front of anyone else i get this relly sicky feeling and when i try and eat i gag. does anyone know what might be ...
A. 18 May 2008: My little step-sister has this problem. She went to see a counsellor and they told her she controls what she eats because she has no control over the rest of her life. She has a fair few issues though, fairly traumatic childhood, and feels unhappy ... (read in full...)
An advice please onow to cope from people who had casual encounters they later regretted?
Q. OK I feel as though I need to explain myself or apologise before I even start as I dont want people to misjudge me. My bf and I are both models and even though our world is full of superficial people, I pride the fact that neither of us are like ...
A. 17 May 2008: I think you should just let this girl down gently but firmly - tell her you want to stay faithful to your boyfriend, you only want a relationship involving 2 people, and that includes your sex life. Apologise to her, tell her you were never out to ... (read in full...)
Does she want me to see other girls or not?
Q. I met a girl online, and she lived in my area. We met and talked and what not, and I really began to like her, and she felt the same way about me. She had to move a few hours away, but we kept the relationship going. We had never really talked ...
A. 17 May 2008: You won't know until you ask her directly, but I do beleieve that very often, your gut instinct is right. ... (read in full...)
Does she want me to see other girls or not?
Q. I met a girl online, and she lived in my area. We met and talked and what not, and I really began to like her, and she felt the same way about me. She had to move a few hours away, but we kept the relationship going. We had never really talked ...
A. 16 May 2008: She was testing you, to see what you would say. She wanted to know if you would date other girls as well as her, because of the distance, without asking you directly.
... (read in full...)
He asks my friends to do naughty things, should I trust him?
Q. hi, i chose a boy over my bf nd i think i made the right choice we r a lot more affectionate nd i luv him. But he is a bit of a naughty boy! nd likes to ask my m8's to do stuff, just like showin him their bra's. they hav always sed no but i dont kno...
A. 10 May 2008: NO!! Why would you trust a guy who wants to see your friends get half naked?? If he's asking your FRIENDS to do things, can you imagine what he's asking the girls who you don't know/will never hear about??
You deserve much better than this...... (read in full...)
What the heck is going on with my boyfriend?
Q. I've posted before, my relationship with my boyfriend had gone sour, mostly on our miscommunication, we still love on another as we recently discovered, but many things have happened. nothing bad, just things falling apart. i've seen him once a ...
A. 10 May 2008: I don't really think it sounds good either...It sounds like he has been detatching himself from you slowly, while you have been holding onto the hope that you might sort it out.
It does sound like he didn't want to be alone that night he came roun... (read in full...)
How to tell him I want longer sexual encounters without offending him?
Q. How do I tell my boyfriend I want him to last longer during sex without offending him? Also, how can I get him to last longer?...
A. 10 May 2008: If you make him cum first, he should last longer. The key to better sex is communication, you really have to be direct and upfront with what you want. You have to tell him you want longer sex, if he's offended, tell him you're being honest because ... (read in full...)
I can't stop dreaming about my ex!
Q. I cant stop having dreams about my ex boyfriend and myself, I wake up in a cold sweat because They go back to about a couple weeks ago when we were still together and they are all about us being together. I wanna cry when I wake up because It makes ...
A. 10 May 2008: You said it yourself, you are missing him. The only way you can be with him is in your subconscious or your dreams...It's tough because it makes getting over it harder, but you can't control your dreams!
Try watching some tv just before you go to s... (read in full...)
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