My boyfriend says I have to ditch my best friend
Q. My best friend and me have been through a few rough patches including some really rough ones. we have spent the past year or so patching things up. We have gone through a lot and known each other for years. My partner is now telling me that ...
A. 17 January 2010: Dump the boyfriend, he has no right to ask you that!... (read in full...)
I can't move on from my first love and it's tainting my relationship
Q. I've been with my bf cumulatively about 8 months while we've been on and off for about a year and a half. My feelings for him are definitely growing and now they are to the point that I do love him. The problem is, I can't tell if it's in a romantic ...
A. 17 January 2010: You're still in love with your ex... (read in full...)
My mom has just told me my boyfriend is my cousin
Q. Ok, erm I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and I am madly in love and everything was going fine. Until that is when a few days ago my mom drops the bombshell on me that we are third or fourth cousins, I don't understand why nobody ...
A. 17 January 2010: Personally I don't know anything about it, but maybe a Googling session to do a bit of research might help? ... (read in full...)
We married on a whim and now I regret it
Q. On 2008, I dated a girl who I thought was the perfect woman for me. Somebody who can be a great wife and good mother for my children. I propose to her in four months. After leaving together for a month, we got married. Then, everything changed. She ...
A. 17 January 2010: Maybe next time you should get to know someone before you rush into marriage, if you're truly unhappy then you should start looking at divorce...... (read in full...)
We broke up because I had depression and he cheated, we still have sex, should we get back together?
Q. Hii.. Mmm.. The name is Daisy and nearly seventeen. Me and my boyfriend had been going out for 2 years, we've been having intercourse for one year. we broke up due to me getting depression and i needed time alone and he cheated on me - but...
A. 17 January 2010: Personally I don't think a leopard changes his spots, from personal experience, but it all comes down to whether you can trust him again?... (read in full...)
He messed with my head telling me he wanted to get back together when he didn't, did I do the right thing telling him to f*** off?
Q. After a month of NC with my ex boyfriend, he text me telling me he misses me, that he loves me and he would do anything to get me back. I didn't reply, but on Friday after thinking about it for a long time sent him a text telling him I loved him ...
A. 17 January 2010: You gave him the response he wanted...But I would leave it now. Delete his number, facebook etc, even if he contacts you, delete the text etc immediately...You ignoring him will torment him more.
And yes you definately did the right thing!... (read in full...)
Everything in life seems against me right now
Q. Look I don't know why but I always find myself depressed. I lost all my friends. My family is a broken one in which I have no one to relate to. My school work is terrible at this rate i don't see myself succeeding much in life. I'm also gay it's all ...
A. 25 December 2009: Why don't you concentrate on the positives in your life instead of dwelling on the negatives?
You'll never get out of this rut if all you do is sulk and moan I'm afraid...... (read in full...)
I cheated on my husband now I can't get over him
Q. i cheated my husband with another guy after having a very mess sex relationship with my husband,i really feel guilty everytime i do it but the problem is that i always say i wont do it again but it keep on happening,i really love this guy but i am ...
A. 25 December 2009: Does this other person want to be with you or is he happy to carry on having an affair? You're not really being fair to your husband, if you're that unhappy with him you need to be thinking of leaving him. Sooner or later it will all come out in ... (read in full...)
My sexually active girlfriend has lost all of her sex drive, should I feel this guilty about asking for it?
Q. Hi, thanks for taking the time to read my post, but I just needed to let off a little steam and see if I could find some well needed answers to this seemingly impossible to answer question. Well, to put a long story short, my girlfriend, who ...
A. 25 December 2009: Something's going on with her, you need to sit her down and ask her what's wrong, as it seems something's on her mind or has happened to make her suddenly change xx... (read in full...)
He got me to agree to threesomes but it's so hurtful, now he's having sex with other men
Q. I am a gay man and have been in a relationship now with my partner for 10 months. We have so many things in common and he is both very caring and loving. We came to a point where he wanted to have threesomes and at first I was okay with this and ...
A. 25 December 2009: You need to break up with him and move on, he's not being fair to you! He should put you first but he's not, and he's not considering your feelings either xx... (read in full...)
Why is my hair greasy at the moment?
Q. Hey all i have a wierd problem at the moment i have washed my hair three times in the past 2 days and i have a patch of really greasy hair :S i have used a new product (heat protector) and i think it may be that so i have stopped using it so ho...
A. 22 December 2009: My friend's daughter had that problem, she went to the doctor and they put her on the Pill, it was her hormones x... (read in full...)
What have I did wrong that he's acting this way towards me?
Q. Hey im sorry if this wastes your time but i have a weird situation with a guy mate of mine. For the past nearly two years ive always felt like i get treated differently from the others. I wouldnt say always in a bad way but its definately not good. ...
A. 5 December 2009: Just ask him straight out. You'll just go round and round in your head otherwise, analysing everything he says and does. Guys can be weird, sometimes they don't even realise or think about how their behavious might make someone else feel, just ... (read in full...)
My girl is ill but the doctors can't find anything wrong!
Q. I am worried about my girlfriend. The past couple of weeks she has had a very high fever. I took her to doctor but he just gave her antibiotics, this happened with three different doctors. She refuses to eat, saying the taste burns her mouth. At ...
A. 5 December 2009: Maybe do some research online?x... (read in full...)
Should I just leave him alone?
Q. After three years my Ex and I broke up. The reason was because he is an alcoholic and the disease became progressively worse. He sent me a text that stated that he must remain distant from me because every time he thinks of me and how he failed me ...
A. 28 October 2009: I would leave him be, he has issues he has to work out by himself and to be honest someone like him is only going to drag you down, no matter how much you love him.... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant but my fiance insists on having friends over all the time
Q. Hi there, My fiance and I have been together a little over 2 years. He asked me to marry him in April and we found out that I was pregnant in May (good timing huh?). We both have an interest in poker and kareoke and before we found out I was ...
A. 28 October 2009: It sounds like you are on different pages, you want to settle down, make a home for your new family life, he wants a party house & it almost sounds like he is trying to live a batchelor's lifestyle.... (read in full...)
Her mom thinks a 2 year age gap is too much
Q. im a 17yr male in grade 12 and ive just started dating a girl in grade 10 who is 15. im having a hard time convincing my mom that its ok that im two years older... how can I convince her that its ok, or rather, is it actually ok?...
A. 28 October 2009: Give her time, let her see how good you 2 are together... (read in full...)
Is it ok that I am 21 and she is 15?
Q. OK... If i am 21 can i go out with this girl that is 15 and she loves me and i love her. her parents like me and trust me, they don't mind if i go out with there daughter. I am a Cristian and i wear a purity ring and i am faithful to my promise with ...
A. 28 October 2009: Ummm...Bit wrong I think...Not only is she illegal, there's a huge mental and physical gap...... (read in full...)
My girl friend dated my best friend before me and I find this difficult
Q. Me and my girlfriend have dated for about 5 months now and I love her but she dated my best friend just before me and her. They dated for about 2 months. She told me it was not a big deal at all and it was not serious but if it was not a big deal I ...
A. 28 October 2009: If you can't get over it, you need to get out of the relationship... (read in full...)
He moved in immediately with me but I think it was a mistake
Q. I recently moved a guy into my house that i didnt even know. The first day i met him he moved in with me. He told me he wanted to be with me and stuff and i am a sucker for beleiveing stuff like this stupid i no but ive always been the same. When he ...
A. 28 October 2009: This might sound harsh but it seems to me he was taking advantage of someone a bit naive and trusting, and was looking for a place to stay and someone to rebound with as he only just broke up with his ex.... (read in full...)
He says he wants to be friends but is now avoiding me
Q. Is it a bad thing that I feel as if the guy who wants to stay friends is avoiding me now? We do not have any of the same classes but we pass by every morning and he never says hello anymore. When I asked him out he said he wanted to stay friends but ...
A. 28 October 2009: I would leave him be and let him have space, let him come to you if he wants to x... (read in full...)
Ladies: what is your experience with sex on prom night?
Q. I’m going to the winter formal soon. I truely care about my boyfriend . I look forward to a the evening of dressing up etc. the thought of sex has entered my mind. If we have sex on the winter formal night I think it should be with someone like my ...
A. 28 October 2009: Not to take any of the romance away from your first time...But I just wanted to make 2 comments...
-The first time you have sex, it's usually pretty awkward/painful/uncomfortable, it's not usually the beautifully romantic scene you see in movi... (read in full...)
I'm having to lie to my parents, how do I get around this?
Q. This Friday my boyfriend wants me to stay round his, he has the house to himself so his parents don't know. The problem is my parents won't let me sleep round his so I have to make up an excuse I've already said my friend is having a sleepover and ...
A. 20 September 2009: I'm not gonna lecture, been your age, done it all :)
I'm glad you mentioned you're nto ready for sex. I was pressured into it at 15 and was stupid enough to let myself be pressured.
But, anyway, back to the point. If I was you, I would tell you... (read in full...)
Why are men so hard to understand!!!!
Q. I've been seeing this boy for around 2 months. I'm 17, he's 22 and he has a 4 year old son. He's happy with how things are between us and doesn't want to change it while I can't stand waiting for something that might not even happen! Because of this ...
A. 20 September 2009: I guess you're wanting more of an idea of commitment...Whether he wants to live with you, have children etc? And you feel like he won't as he already has a son? He sounds a bit more laid back than you are, whereas you sound like you need more str... (read in full...)
Women aged 20-29 - please answer this!
Q. I've been seeing my gf for about 4 mos (I'm 39- shes 25) I know big gap. Anyway, about a month in -- we had "the talk" ---and I found out about her not so innocent past. It made me sick to find out she had slept with 15 other guys before me. ...
A. 23 August 2009: I would be grossed out about the warts and would rethink a relationship with someone if they told me they had them...I think personally most girls that age (my age) have slept with around the same amount of guys, I myself have slept with about ... (read in full...)
How far should a boyfriend be allowed to go with the other woman in a threesome?
Q. If you are bisexual and want a threesome with another woman, how far would you let boyfriend (long-term boyfriend) go with her?...
A. 23 August 2009: You need to set your own boundaries.
Do you even want to share your boyfriend with another woman?
When thinking about your boundaries, think about how you';ll feel when you see her having sex with him, him going down on her, her going down on him..... (read in full...)
I need help in seeing the right from wrong in my first love
Q. I have a boyfriend who I have been with for 17 months. However, he treats me like a door step. He pushes me, he yells so close to my face that I can feel his spit, and he tells me that he is the best guy that I will ever find. I know I sound stupid, ...
A. 23 August 2009: My heart really goes out to you. No one deserves to be treated like this. You're worth 100 of your boyfriend, and you need to find the courage to leave him, because he's dragging you down. Look to your family and friends for support...How dare ... (read in full...)
Is he interested at all or just playing games?
Q. I kissed this guy a year and a half ago but the following night he said that he was drunk that night. I met him a few times since but nothing ever happened and we just talked. I bumped into him in a bar last weekend and he apologised for what ...
A. 23 August 2009: My views are this;
After reading your question, I get the impression you were pressuring him.
He agreed to go out with you only because he told you he didn't want to be with anyone, yet you still pressed it and asked him to be with you.
If he was... (read in full...)
Should I contact my ex after bumping into him?
Q. Hello guys, I really need help, first of all I'm gay, so here's what happened to me. Last night I went to a club with my best friend and I found my ex-boyfriend so I said hi to him and we ended up dancing and kissing for a while, so later on we h...
A. 23 August 2009: I would leave it, contacting him is just going to keep causing you pain, it doesn't sound like he's interested the way you are...Just move on, try to forget him...... (read in full...)
How can I make her show her feelings for me?
Q. I'm in a relationship with a girl,i love so much. We have been together for about 5 months. She gets angry easily and we always quarrel. She doesnt ever show her feelings for me but i do and i always feel bad about it.How can i make her show her ...
A. 23 August 2009: You don't sound very compatable...She's just the way she is and you can't change that.... (read in full...)
How should I go about re-establishing contact with a friend?
Q. I'd like to re-establish contact with a friend of mine and I'm thinking on what to write in an email. -We haven't talked/seen each other for more than a year. -We are from different countries. -We were very close (although never in an offi...
A. 23 August 2009: Keep it short and sweet - Hi, how are you, long time no see, what have you been up to, etc...... (read in full...)
How can I kick my ex bf out of my place?
Q. Hi :-( I'm a college student in a foreign country.My ex and i are still living together in an apartment that i pay for and the lease is on my name.We broke up about 2 years ago. Our breakup was not a bitter one, since no one cheated or anything...
A. 23 August 2009: You are not his mother. He's a big boy now and should be fully able to look after himself. I'm assuming he's getting a free ride from you? Maybe it's heartless, you need to give him a month or so to move out, you need to move on with your life x... (read in full...)
Married but sexually incompatible
Q. I am a 32 yr old woman married to a 38 yr old man. We have been married for almost a year and everything else about our marriage is good except that we are completely sexually incompatible. When we were dating he was very slow moving in the sexual ...
A. 23 August 2009: Sex is one of the most important things in a relationship, in my opinion...Have you tried talking to him about it?
I totally get how you feel - I have to have the passion, that can't get enough of you feeling, be able to dominate or be domi... (read in full...)
One on one dinner with a friend of the opposite sex - yay or nay?
Q. I'm in a great relationship where there is a lot of trust between my partner and I. I have many male friends that I hang out with or communicate with on a regular basis and he has female friends too. This is of course fine. But the other night, a...
A. 23 August 2009: Sounds innocent enough, depends how long they dated for etc?
My boyfreind was with his ex 5 years. They meet up now and again for a drink and a catch up, one on one, and this is fine, because I've seen them together, there's no chemistry, I trus... (read in full...)
My wife constantly wants to move
Q. hi, i have been in a relationship for 12 years now we are married and have a daughter together. my wife is always unhappy where we live so we are constantly moving about 5 years ago we moved to the uk, to make a frsh start. she then went back to ...
A. 23 August 2009: Firstly I say good on you for finding someone who treats you right and makes you happy. Sorry if this offends but your wife sounds like a complete B*tch and I don't blame you for meeting someone else.
She can't stop you seeing your daughter - get ... (read in full...)
What's the most important thing in a relationship?
Q. Pls what is most important in a relationship that would make the best for marriage? is it the time they share together, the shown love or the spending? for i know poverty is not a choice, and also some know how to show love while others dont though ...
A. 23 August 2009: Trust... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my boss, should I tell him?
Q. I have had a huge crush on my boss for the past seven months but have not done anything about it. I joke with him as I do with the other employees at work but I don't flirt with him because I know that a relationship with the boss is not ...
A. 23 August 2009: Do you think he feels the same way?
Tell him, what's the point in having regrets x... (read in full...)
Can I trust him? He's telling other girls he wants to be with them!
Q. I been this relationship for 2yrs now,, in the first couple of months we had some problems or at least i had some problems with him. such as his bm called my phone and then another time a girl called my phone talking bout they been together for ...
A. 23 August 2009: YOU ARE SO RIGHT TO BREAK UP WITH THIS LOSER!!!
Be strong, keep your chin up x... (read in full...)
Good dating websites in the USA?
Q. This is a question for American users. Is anyone familiar with any good American Dating sites as I am sick and tored of my so to be called relationship now and have always wanted to start a new life in the US. Any suggestions?...
A. 23 August 2009: Do a Google search? Find which sites suit you best...?... (read in full...)
She wants to seperate and I'm shocked and heartbroken
Q. My first marriage ended after 17 years and it was heartbreaking. We had 5 children together and it took me a long time to get over it. Eventually I met my second wife and she was the girl of my dreams. We had 16 great years together, raising her ...
A. 23 August 2009: Maybe do what she did but in reverse, research this on the net. Find out how her eostrogen levels are affecting her and making her feel. Talk to her, tell her how you feel,but don't pressure, tell her she can have all the time in the world and ... (read in full...)
My brothers wife is so controlling
Q. A year ago my brother got married to a girl i had never met before (i had been living away in a different city). He came out of a 6 year relationship only 8 months before they got married. We are very close only a year between us. He's never kept ...
A. 23 August 2009: Tell him how you feel, some people like to be controlled in a relationship though...... (read in full...)
I want to emigrate to the USA
Q. This is not a relationship question but more related to settling in the USA. I am British and teach and own two houses and would like to emigrate to the US eventually. How easy is it to get work there. I was thinking of coming over on an exten...
A. 23 August 2009: Top careers in demand:
http://education.yahoo.net/degrees/articles/featured_top_demand_careers.html... (read in full...)
Women aged 20-29 - please answer this!
Q. I've been seeing my gf for about 4 mos (I'm 39- shes 25) I know big gap. Anyway, about a month in -- we had "the talk" ---and I found out about her not so innocent past. It made me sick to find out she had slept with 15 other guys before me. ...
A. 23 August 2009: You'd probably be quite amazed to find that is quite a common number of people to have slept with...I don't suppose you have many friends that much younger than you to talk with about these kind of things.
If what q1605 said about her average bein... (read in full...)
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