I have a very very diverse complex mix, and I need a POLITE or even cheeky-tongue-in-cheek-non-offensive-funny answer to give to intrusive strangers!
Q. I have a very very diverse complex mix, because of this it makes me stand out as I look extremely different from most people. My race is completely unspecific or impossible to guess. So every single time I leave my house I always have people ...
A. 11 February 2009: Funny and wonderful responses that should not offend anyone. Good luck!... (read in full...)
I need tips on having a BBQ so I don't burn the house down!
Q. This may seem like a lame question but thought may get some good tips here! I am throwing a surprise party at my house and am having to organise everything on my own. The only thing I am a bit confused about is the BBQ as I have never done it be...
A. 11 February 2009: Great advice Uncle Phil ! Stick to this!... (read in full...)
Curiousity killed the cat.
Q. Last week my boyfriend and I almost broke up. He was troubled with the idea that we were meant together. We talked it over and were still together. Tonight he went out to a bar with his friend even though I asked him to stay home with me. While he ...
A. 31 October 2008: This is tricky and I do feel for you. And it is a dilemna as of course it could cause further arguments if he found out you snooped through his stuff. Yet alot of people may say to confront him, which I believe could make things worst plus he may ... (read in full...)
Do guys like having their nipples sucked?
Q. Ok I need as much deatil as possible please A time or two I have had guys lick/nibble my ear and I really liked it, but I have never done it to someone else, and I would like to try it out, areas to avoid _________, certain areas only get _______...
A. 30 October 2008: My guy hates it!! I think it varies from person to person. But you should ask him first perhaps just during foreplay maybe while you are kissing his neck or something, before you just jump in there - as if he isnt into it - it could have the ... (read in full...)
Should I abide by my wife's last wish?
Q. I came home from work this morning and found my wife unconscious then I had to take her to the hospital where she died. She committed suicide. In her note she specified that she did NOT want anyone to know that she took her life. It is the only main ...
A. 26 September 2008: I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It is terrible when communities can be this small minded and how much pressure religion can place on us. I think the idea of embolism is good. Also there is SAD (sudden death syndrome) but that always sounds a ... (read in full...)
Is this a normal procedure for massage sessions?
Q. My partner and had a couples massage in a posh hotel in Egypt. He chose the hot stone massage and I the Thai, one. He was on a massage table and I spent the hour being contorted on a mat on the floor. I was given eyeshades to wear but appa...
A. 10 September 2008: I have had many massages but there is no "set" rule for attire etc. In thailand you are made to lie on the floor perhaps on a mattress or sheet and they do contort you a bit - you are normally given something loose to wear and you must be fully ... (read in full...)
How can I make myself taller?
Q. Is there anyway i can make myself grow??? I'm 17 and i wanna be a bit taller because of my girlfriend i naturally want to be taller not by wearing thick shoes etc. Is there anyway this is possible? I here pull ups help...
A. 22 June 2008:
OK so taller: generally it IS down to genetics so in terms of that there could be little you can do. Are your parents, siblings tall etc? That could give you an idea; but still if they are short it doesnt mean you are going to end up that way. My m... (read in full...)
Guide to achieving female orgasms!
Q. Because it is Valentine's Day I thought I might do my good bit and spread some love and try to do a good deed today. If it helps maybe at least one person then good. Anyway there are so many different ways that a woman can achieve orgasm and sadly ...
A. 28 February 2008: HI THIS WAS MY POST / GUIDE. I had problems setting up my account and thereby it went on as "anonymous"...then when I tried to verify it AS being my post as you can see with the same follow up twice, it still did not verify me and still had me as ... (read in full...)
The pain I felt then is just as strong now...what can I do??
Q. Me and my ex were together for just over 8 months. We broke up 3 months ago and she's been with someone else for 2 months. I can't get over her. The pain I felt then is just as strong as it is now. What should I do?...
A. 25 February 2008: This is really hard - and I do feel for you! I think what really hurts is the fact that she seemed to have moved on so quickly when you are still hurting and perhaps it seems unfair that you hurt this much whilst she can carry on normally with her ... (read in full...)
Trapped in a relationship
Q. Hi I am 20 years old, I have a 7 month old baby and I live with my boyfriend who is also my baby's father. We live with his mother. The thing about it is, I am not in love with him anymore and I want to move on with my life. The only problem is I ...
A. 25 February 2008: I think having a child at any age can prove quite stressful but even more so when you are quite young. Perhaps it could be alot of things influencing your emotions or the fact of having to grow up so quickly. Perhaps part of you feels trapped and ... (read in full...)
Am I boring? What things could I do when we stay in at night so he doesn't get bored?
Q. Hi, Just a quick history. I have been with my partner for nearly 3 years, and we are great together. We are open and honest with eachother and always talk to eachother if one of us is upset or angry with the other. Just recently he broug...
A. 21 February 2008: I do not mean to make things worst or cause you more worry.....but do you think it is possible he may have met someone online seeing as he is that obssessed with the internet and now went moody he can not use it? And it is possible that person lives ... (read in full...)
I miss him but don't know if I should call...
Q. Having a massive problem.. Im 18, but have always gone for older men. Been sleeping with a 29 year for a couple of weeks after chasing after him for 2 months, he'd take me out with his friends and we'd have a laugh together. I'm not naive enough to ...
A. 21 February 2008: This one is tricky - as you of course want to get things out in the open but at the same time do not want to come across obsessive or be blanked! Ok so you can try to call him and speak to him - see what happens. As you are calling from abroad your... (read in full...)
Inevitably in between waxes the aspect is not totally shaven, and my bf cannot stand hair! Is he in minority? What do guys usually prefer?
Q. My boyfriend likes all pubic hair completely shaved/waxed and he can't stand even a tiny of bit of facial hair. I do wax but obviously in between waxes some hairs do grow back (I'm talking about my face here). Is this the norm or is he in the ...
A. 18 February 2008: I think you need to do what you are comfortable with. And your boyfriend should accept and love you no matter what. I am sure there are moments perhaps he doesnt shave and has some stubble, or perhaps be unkept in some way or the other at times yet ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't want sex.
Q. My husband is no longer interested in having sex... I am 27 years of age, he is 33. We are both (physically) in fantastic athletic shape and have no kids. We have been married for almost 6 years now, and we are both working in the same industry ...
A. 18 February 2008: This doesnt mean that your husband doesnt love you or that there is someone else. People at times have different sex drives; and of course there could be influences around that determines ones sex drive eg stress, depression etc. I think you ne... (read in full...)
He said he doesn't want to rush in to a relationship, why?
Q. Hi everyone I'm a bit confused. I've meet this guy through a friend and I've been told he likes me. I heard him say it for himself, when my mate had him on speker phone. Anyway, I've only meet him twice and last nite meet up with him again and we ...
A. 15 February 2008: I think that this is the right approach into this relationship. Seeing as it has only been a week rushing into any relationship would be wrong. And you do not want to end up being a rebound. So this way you will get to know each other and take t... (read in full...)
My husbands best friend is also my best friend. There is no romance involved, but people are starting to talk and my husband is upset. What should I do?
Q. Ok, this is a strange situation so bear with me. My husband is currently deployed in Iraq. His best friend was deployed with him too, until the guy had a seizure and the doctors decided that he wasn't fit to be overseas. They flew him out rapidly so ...
A. 14 February 2008: I think the previous poster is right! You should be honest with him and tell him how it upsets you but you dont want word getting back to your husband that could potentially cause problems whilst he it out there. Also you should speak to your ... (read in full...)
I don't want to make things awkward by asking her out if she isnt interested, but don't want to get stuck in the 'friend zone' if she is!
Q. Hello all, I am 20 and in college and i've got a crush on my lab partner from my BIO class and I dont know what to do. I am terrible at reading women (as i'm sure most guys are) and I cant tell if she likes me or not. We both like see...
A. 14 February 2008: I think you should perhaps try a bit of flirting with her - but not heavy flirting, just very slight / mild and see what her reaction is. If she is responsive then you can take it a bit further, ie flirt a bit more etc etc and see how it progresses. ... (read in full...)
He never follows through and hangs out with me...should I write a note to get closure??
Q. Basically I met a guy online about 6 months ago, we seemed to hit it off, met up a couple of times (just chatted but he seemed keen) and every week almost he texts to say we should go out to a movie or for a drink the following week. But then when ...
A. 14 February 2008: It sounds all very suspicious to me - he should not lead you on and then leave you outside like that. Perhaps he has other things going on in his life? Perhaps he hasnt been totally truthful? Perhaps he is married? Perhaps he has a girlfrield? ... (read in full...)
He cheated on me and got her pregnant, but wont leave me alone!
Q. Few months ago i found out my fiance cheated on me. He NEVER told me he was messing around (for a good while). I found out on my own and confronted him about it. First he denied everything saying she is just a friend and was not with her intimately. ...
A. 14 February 2008: Perhaps he truly did love you and saw the error of his ways and now regrets. Or perhaps it is could be him wanting to have his cake and eat it. But truly do you think you can ever be with this man again? Be honest to yourself - you will never trust ... (read in full...)
I am dating several guys at once. I am being honest with them all and not having sexual relations with any. My friend says I am a slut. I'm not, am I?
Q. Hi I came out of a long term relationship around October last year and have recently been going for drinks with a lot of different guys. There's 3 of them. I don't want a relationship right now because I feel I was tied down for a year and I just ...
A. 14 February 2008: Well I think that you need to do what is right for you. Some people decide to date one person at a time, other people decide to date a few people at the time. Your friends obviously fall into the first category. It doesnt mean either of you are ... (read in full...)
How do I show him that he can trust me after my flirtings so we can rebuild the relationship?
Q. My bf works away we have been together just under a year and have been planning our lives together im so in love with him i had a work dinner got very drunk and we went out after i flirted with another guy which included letting him put his arm...
A. 14 February 2008: Firstly if I got this right - what happenned was that you got slightly drunk and perhaps flirted a little and a guy put his arm around you. I mean it is hardly cheating - you didnt kiss him or go back to his place or give him his number etc so in ... (read in full...)
I came across my ex on 'my space' and he recently got married. Now I cant get him out of my head! Do I still love him or what?
Q. O.K. here it goes. I feel so wierd about this and I can't figure out what my feelings mean. I was married to a military man 8 years ago, and long story short: After we married he began looking at swinger sites and after much convincing we decided ...
A. 14 February 2008: I think perhaps coming across one's ex is sure to have emotions for most people - sometimes the emotions are good, sometimes bad. But after alot of time has passed it can be easy to forget why you left the person and you may remember just the good ... (read in full...)
A man came to fix my fridge, we texted intermittently and now I am confused!
Q. 5 weeks ago a man came to my house to fix my fridge, we got on so well, we both felt we had known one another all our lives. He is going through a divorce at the moment, I have been divorces for years. He came back the following week and the same ...
A. 14 February 2008: Well I think you should just ask him outright - send him a text if you prefer instead of a confrontation just saying that you notice that at times you hear from him then suddenly there is nothing for ages until you hear from him out of the blue ... (read in full...)
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