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No replies yet... 25 October 2009: This has nothing to do with relationships, but everyone loves a little humor! I adore this video, and it cracks me up in spite of the fact that my French is really bad (I'm trying to improve it). I finally found a version with English sub...
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
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6 July 2009: As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
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Hairy chest--what do you do with it?
Q. For guys and girls... This is the first time I have dated a guy who has a really hairy chest. When getting intimate with him, besides just running my fingers through it, what else can I do? Girls, what kinds of things do you do? and Guys, what ...
A. 11 January 2009: Hi Friend Tom,
That sounds a lot like my Gretchen.
What's he doing? Is he misbehaving?
Gretchen has had a bad attitude lately, and she's been misbehaving a lot, but she has "issues." She was a rescue and unfortunately, I doubt t... (read in full...)
Hairy chest--what do you do with it?
Q. For guys and girls... This is the first time I have dated a guy who has a really hairy chest. When getting intimate with him, besides just running my fingers through it, what else can I do? Girls, what kinds of things do you do? and Guys, what ...
A. 10 January 2009: I clarify that it's my PET!!!
Get your mind out of the gutter, all you sickos. :)... (read in full...)
Can having anal sex get me pregnant?
Q. Ok, I need a little help. I'm 16 and have tried anal sex with my boyfriend. He got it in a little and we did it for a couple minutes but it hurt too bad so we stopped and gave up. He never came... my question is could I get pregnant from this since ...
A. 10 January 2009: The only way that conception can occur is if a sperm and an egg join, and there are no eggs in your anus. Unless some sperm got into the vagina somehow, then you wouldn't get pregnant from anal sex, per se.
Unfortunately, having vaginal inte... (read in full...)
Hairy chest--what do you do with it?
Q. For guys and girls... This is the first time I have dated a guy who has a really hairy chest. When getting intimate with him, besides just running my fingers through it, what else can I do? Girls, what kinds of things do you do? and Guys, what ...
A. 10 January 2009: I think the question is, what are some ways to play with the chest hair during intimacy. It's almost a given that she doesn't expect him to wax or depilate in any way.
If I were a man, however, and I had chest hair, I would wax it. I might gr... (read in full...)
My wife wants a sex change
Q. Yesterday my wife told me she wants a sex change. I was completely shocked by the revelation. I asked her to repeat what she had just said, and she said that she'd suppressed it ever since she was a girl. She said she'd known she wanted to be a b...
A. 9 January 2009: What Taste is saying is true. I think that it's weird that she never shared her feelings with you before.
There's something else I don't understand, however. I've read about transsexuals, and Taste is right in saying that most are happier ... (read in full...)
How can I get my beautiful, older girl?
Q. i am 16 and really like this girl who is 18. she is gorgeous, popular, and athletic. i play sports as well. we have never talked before or anything and she is a senior. any thoughts on how i can get this beautiful girl?...
A. 5 January 2009: In Roadman 2's defense, he comes from another culture. I've never been to Britain (always wanted to), but I have lived abroad and in ever culture people have difference perspectives and different customs, and yes, this applies to dating. There ... (read in full...)
Do women find men drinking beer on a date unattractive?
Q. Hi, I'd like some advice from the ladies, please! Very simply - do women generally find it unattractive if a man's drinking beer on a date, or even at a social event? My female friends tell me this is the case, and that I should switch to wine...
A. 5 January 2009: Taste is right, it depends on the woman's feelings. Any woman would be revolted by a man who is stinking drunk. That's just disgusting.
If a person has had any alcohol at all to drink, then he/she should NOT be driving. Even one drink is one t... (read in full...)
Dating, Relationships and overprotective parents!
Q. heyy, Im 15, an only child and my mum is over protective. I have a 14yr old boyfriend who is trustful, treats me well and knows enough about sex. My boyfriend wants sex with me,, i think im ready too, my mum wont let me have sex, she thin...
A. 5 January 2009: Your mom is trying to protect you because she loves you.
There is a difference between being overprotective and taking reasonable precautions to protect you from very real danger.
If your mom were protective to the point that she wouldn't all... (read in full...)
How can I tell my parents about my White BF when they're so against dating other races?
Q. I really need some help. How can I tell my parents about my bf? I am black and he's white. My parents are totally against dating people of other races and I know they will be mad about this. How should I break the news to them? I am afraid they ...
A. 5 January 2009: Hey Sweetie,
I think that it's awesome that you are open-minded enough to see past color and care for someone because of who he is inside. I don't agree with your parents, but since you live with them, I don't think it's a good idea to keep sec... (read in full...)
We tongue kissed could I be pregnant?
Q. hi im 13 turning 14 but i havnt had my perios 4 a long time...i had it like in october and now it 2009 january 4 and i havnt had sex im still a virgin..im kind of worried bcz i have aboyfriend and all i ever did wuz just kiss him..yea it wuz tounge ...
A. 5 January 2009: It's impossible to get pregnant from kissing.
How long have you been menstruating? When you first begin to do that, it's normal to have irregular periods. ... (read in full...)
Female curious about animal sex
Q. my friend has a male dog he's about 3 yrs old. she's been curious about having sex with animals is it ever sinces she was 9. is it alright for her to do it with out getting Any Std's? ...
A. 4 January 2009: That's disgusting!! Poor dog. Pets depend on their owners
to take care of them... having sex with animals goes against nature. Poor thing.
Eyes wide open, you are so funny!! With your wit, you belong in Ravenclaw (guess we're not house-ma... (read in full...)
Does giving or receiving oral sex mean you're not a virgin any more?
Q. Hi, I'm a 14 year old virgin and I was just wondering... is oral sex counted as sex and If you do it.. does it mean you've lost your virginity? I have a couple of friends who want to know the answer to that question and so do I. Feel free to input ...
A. 4 January 2009: You're still a virgin until you have had intercourse.
However, there are two things to keep in mind.
Oral sex IS risky behavior, and it is possible to contract an STD, or as much as I hate to say it, HIV.
A condom will lower your chance of g... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and my guy wants to have sex
Q. Soo me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years. Im 13 if that matters. I've given him blowjobs and hand jobs and I've let him finger me, eat me out, fist me, stick things into my butt and penetrate me in my butt. But now he wants to have sex...
A. 4 January 2009: You did the right thing to break up with him.
You deserve to be treated respectfully.
Of course you can write to use anytime and talk to us. :)
Kind regards... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and my guy wants to have sex
Q. Soo me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years. Im 13 if that matters. I've given him blowjobs and hand jobs and I've let him finger me, eat me out, fist me, stick things into my butt and penetrate me in my butt. But now he wants to have sex...
A. 27 December 2008: My goodness, I hope this post is fake.
Here is a hard and fast rule: If he won't use a condom, dump his ass. ... (read in full...)
I told my BF that I want to lose my virginity but now I'm scared!
Q. hello... ok well im 16 and my bf is 18.... im a virgin.. we have been so close to doin it but i stop him..he always says hes ''sorry'' that he just gets so carried away... n dat we wont do anything i dnt want to do... so yesterday we were tlki...
A. 27 December 2008: You have reservations because deep down, you know that it's not right for you to be having sex.
There's a time and a place to have sex. If you have an intuition that it's not the right time, then you're probably right. We have our intuitio... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and my guy wants to have sex
Q. Soo me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years. Im 13 if that matters. I've given him blowjobs and hand jobs and I've let him finger me, eat me out, fist me, stick things into my butt and penetrate me in my butt. But now he wants to have sex...
A. 27 December 2008: Diovan, I could be wrong but I think this girl badly needs a father figure.
I'll never forget what my drama teacher said about girls who engage in sexually risky behavior. Girls whose fathers cherish them, who instill a feeling of being special,... (read in full...)
How does a geek make friends?
Q. Hi all I have a simple problem, the problem is that I have no idea how to make friends. I had a hard childhood and when I moved to my dads I got a PC then basically got hooked. Im not what you would call a stereotypical geek, im actually a very ...
A. 27 December 2008: I nearly forgot to mention this, but it's important. It helps to be around people who have common interests. You say that the societies at your school are no good, but there must be other extracurriculars for you to get involved in.
You h... (read in full...)
How does a geek make friends?
Q. Hi all I have a simple problem, the problem is that I have no idea how to make friends. I had a hard childhood and when I moved to my dads I got a PC then basically got hooked. Im not what you would call a stereotypical geek, im actually a very ...
A. 27 December 2008: The first step to making progress (I've learned this the hard way btw) is to realize that you are discontent and decide that you want to change. It seems you have done just that. Enhorabuena (congratulations). :)
I'm not sure if this helps, b... (read in full...)
Just some fun!
Q. Something one of my aunts sent me: When I was born, the doctor went to the waiting room and told my father: "We did all we could, but he was born alive". My mom didn't know whether she should keep me or the placenta. Since I was born before ...
A. 27 December 2008: ¡El pobre chavo! :(
Jajajaja. Thanks for sharing! A little humor is just what the doctor ordered. :)... (read in full...)
Why for sex but not a relationship
Q. I go to a big university but cant get a decent boyfriend. I would say I'm attractive and have a good personality but all the guys who are interested in me and vice versa only want to hook up and have sex with me. Even my male "friends" try to hook ...
A. 27 December 2008: When guys try to "hook up" with you, make it clear that you mean NO. Don't worry about coming across as rude, these guys are not gentlemen.
It's good that you are standing your ground. Keep it up. :)
You say that you go to a big university... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and my guy wants to have sex
Q. Soo me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years. Im 13 if that matters. I've given him blowjobs and hand jobs and I've let him finger me, eat me out, fist me, stick things into my butt and penetrate me in my butt. But now he wants to have sex...
A. 27 December 2008: I feel bad for you because I worry that you might be bored and don't have anything fun to do. Blue Angel is right, you need to be enjoying your youth. Life is too short to rush to be grown up.
What are some activities you could enjoy? It doesn... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and my guy wants to have sex
Q. Soo me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years. Im 13 if that matters. I've given him blowjobs and hand jobs and I've let him finger me, eat me out, fist me, stick things into my butt and penetrate me in my butt. But now he wants to have sex...
A. 26 December 2008: Don't do it!!!!
You'll look back and wish and wish you hadn't done it. At 13, you are way too young to be experimenting with sex.
The worst possible thing that you can do is to have unprotected sex. Having sex right now, period, is a mis... (read in full...)
Am I just afraid of being a single Mom again?
Q. i am trying to decide whether or not to leave my boyfriend, the problem is ,is that sometimes he can be a real jerk to my daughter and i can't stand it anymore. we get into fights because i stick up for her and he gets mad so i don't know what to ...
A. 26 December 2008: I have a song that might help you, because it seems to reflect your situation. I interpreted the lyrics to be a song about a guy who is in a loveless relationship and knows it but keeps denying it out of fear of upheaval, out of fear of being ... (read in full...)
Am I just afraid of being a single Mom again?
Q. i am trying to decide whether or not to leave my boyfriend, the problem is ,is that sometimes he can be a real jerk to my daughter and i can't stand it anymore. we get into fights because i stick up for her and he gets mad so i don't know what to ...
A. 26 December 2008: That's no reason to be in a relationship. It sucks to be single because we all want, and need, someone to share our lives with. You don't say what he does to your daughter, but if he's mistreating your daughter and making your life a living hell, ... (read in full...)
Too old for a first boyfriend
Q. is 30 years old too old for a first boyfriend and first kiss,i know i am pathetic...
A. 26 December 2008: No... who makes these rules? You get to decide.
You live in a free country :) enjoy your life and don't worry what other people think about you.... (read in full...)
Help, what to do... I fancy my sister!
Q. hey, i had a question, in the back of my head there's a voice telling me this is wrong, but at the same time i feel like it's not so wrong, my sister is only about a year younger then me, most guys her age think shes attractive and she's petite. i ...
A. 26 December 2008: A decent 1 is right, incest is always wrong.
I think that you should look for a girl with very similar qualities though.
Make a list of the things you look for in a girl(don't just say, "Someone exactly like Fulana"): Do you want someone who... (read in full...)
Penis size opinions - help
Q. Hello to everyone. I am about to have sex with my girlfriend and I am really concerned about the size of my penis.It's about 4-4,5 inches in length and about 4,5 inches in girth when erect. I am quite fat for my age (21), about 246 pounds (for BMI...
A. 26 December 2008: I'm a woman, and I can tell you that by the time I see a guy's penis, I will already be so emotionally attached to him that the size won't matter to me. I am sure you are a nice young man, but I can understand why you may feel insecure if you ... (read in full...)
Christmas eve, hav girlfriend but alone with the cat...
Q. help, ok, now it's year three in the relationship and we still don't live together mainly because I would have to let her 26 year old daughter live with us, which I won't do. She's old enough and has a boyfriend who still lives at home too. Here it ...
A. 26 December 2008: I'm not trying to be mean, but it's not right for you to tell her that she can't be with her mom on Christmas. I don't know the daughter, so I can't say whether she is a freeloader or not. I'm 29 and live with my mom right now, not because I am... (read in full...)
How do I make my best friend fall in love with me??
Q. Ok, my best friend finally admitted to being Bi and currently likes both a boy and girl, but i know nothing will happen with either of those. I am his best friend too, and am unfortunately in love with him. We have messed around before but he ne...
A. 26 December 2008: Merry Christmas Bugs, and to everyone on DC.
Thanks!!:)... (read in full...)
How do I make my best friend fall in love with me??
Q. Ok, my best friend finally admitted to being Bi and currently likes both a boy and girl, but i know nothing will happen with either of those. I am his best friend too, and am unfortunately in love with him. We have messed around before but he ne...
A. 26 December 2008: That's sweet Bugs. I've moved on, though.
Well, sort of.
The problem was that he and I live in different countries, and different worlds really. I think things might have worked out between us if we'd lived in the same country. It mad... (read in full...)
My g/f's job is to hold a man's parts
Q. hey, so i've found the woman of my dreams. We're both crazy in love w/ each other and going on a year now together. I have this one issue that bugs me soooo much and it seems the more feelings I develop for her, the more this issue bugs me. She ...
A. 26 December 2008: I don't agree that she dislikes her job, but I don't think it's sexually motivated either. Most people become nurses because they want to help people.
Her job is not to hold a man's parts. That's part of her job. Her job is to provide care for... (read in full...)
Talk to me about good grammar?
Q. i am trying to edit my myspace profile. i wrote down alot of information about myself but i need help putting it in good grammar. right now, it just looks like a huge paragraph! any advice?...
A. 25 December 2008: Di niente, cara. :)... (read in full...)
One of my cats died and the other is missing it terribly...
Q. This is not a romance question but hoping that there might be some cat lovers and/or owners out there who can help. My eighteen year old cat was put to sleep today because of complications with kidney disease. My other seventeen year old who I have ...
A. 25 December 2008: It's heartbreaking when a pet dies. I'm sure that if he was good that he went to the Heavyside Layer (Cat Heaven). :)
The other aunt is right... your surviving cat needs extra attention from you. He's grieving, and I'm sure that he's lonely. ... (read in full...)
I want to sleep with him!
Q. Hello everybody... Ok here's the deal. I'm 18(almost 19) years old and I really like one guy who is 23. He's very sexual attracted to me. But the problem is that I see him very rare and when I see him, he's always with bunch of his friends (dri...
A. 25 December 2008: Hi,
Your English is not bad. It seems quite fluent to me.
You asked for advice, and here goes: in my opinion, you shouldn't sleep with him. I think that sex is something that you should save for true love. I wouldn't judge anyone, but ... (read in full...)
I need help on how to stop watching porn movies!
Q. I have a a best friend that recently started to act strange and I asked him what's the matter with him being so quiet all the time recently and he told me that "I watched a porn with some other friends and since then he can't stop watching it and ...
A. 25 December 2008: If masturbation were really dangerous, then I think that most males would be blind by now. I'm not sure about all women, but I think that virtually all guys do it.... (read in full...)
How do I make my best friend fall in love with me??
Q. Ok, my best friend finally admitted to being Bi and currently likes both a boy and girl, but i know nothing will happen with either of those. I am his best friend too, and am unfortunately in love with him. We have messed around before but he ne...
A. 25 December 2008: I've been in a very similar situation before and it really sucks a LOT.
I wished and wished that there were a magic spell I could use.
I believe in the song, "I Can't Make You Love Me," you can't control another person's heart.
I ho... (read in full...)
I can't find work! Any suggestions!
Q. well my big problem is im living in stupid country and very poor anyone help me find work...
A. 25 December 2008: The government pays people not to work? :S
It sucks a lot to be in that situation, I am fortunate enough to be employed as a teacher but I've had a hard time finding work.
I'm not sure if this is helpful, because I don't know the situation in... (read in full...)
Can women and men just be friends?
Q. does anyone think men and women can just be friends?...
A. 25 December 2008: I don't understand how people can doubt this.
Oscar Wild was a famous poet and entitled to his opinion, but everyone is wrong from time to time.
I've had male friends that I had feelings for, but I have guy friends that are wonderful friend... (read in full...)
Can women and men just be friends?
Q. does anyone think men and women can just be friends?...
A. 25 December 2008: I don't understand how people can doubt this.
I've had male friends that I had feelings for, but I have guy friends that are wonderful friends, whom I love platonically. Of course you can be just friends.
I just don't think you can compare ... (read in full...)
Should I just bite his neck some more and make him forget I am a virgin?
Q. I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15. Last weekend I stayed the weekend with him. I'm a virgin and he told me once before that he didn't want to take my virginity away. Well we started making out and I started biting his neck which REALLY turns him on. ...
A. 25 December 2008: The guys are right, you're not ready for sex.
You're making a mistake and it's not worth the pain of STD, pregnancy, etc. ... (read in full...)
Christmas eve, hav girlfriend but alone with the cat...
Q. help, ok, now it's year three in the relationship and we still don't live together mainly because I would have to let her 26 year old daughter live with us, which I won't do. She's old enough and has a boyfriend who still lives at home too. Here it ...
A. 25 December 2008: I know you love the girlfriend, but you have to accept that her daughter is part of the package... she's her flesh and blood. Why do you mind having her live at home?
I hope you feel better.
As for being alone with the cat, sometimes cats a... (read in full...)
What kind of perfume do guys like?
Q. It's time for me to buy some new perfume. What perfume or scent do guys like girls to wear? Especially guys in their teens through twenties....
A. 24 December 2008: No hay que disculpar, amigo mio.
Gracias
:)... (read in full...)
What kind of perfume do guys like?
Q. It's time for me to buy some new perfume. What perfume or scent do guys like girls to wear? Especially guys in their teens through twenties....
A. 24 December 2008: Oh...
*Sirena Blusera blushes profusely*... (read in full...)
Can women and men just be friends?
Q. does anyone think men and women can just be friends?...
A. 24 December 2008: Lianne, it's terrible that your guy friend let you down.
In some cases a guy has ulterior motives, but it is possible to have a platonic friendship with a guy.
If I were to fall in love and get married (the key word is "if") I would be faith... (read in full...)
Talk to me about good grammar?
Q. i am trying to edit my myspace profile. i wrote down alot of information about myself but i need help putting it in good grammar. right now, it just looks like a huge paragraph! any advice?...
A. 24 December 2008: What Diovan said is right, but would you mind if I looked at it?
Let's see what we've got...... (read in full...)
What kind of perfume do guys like?
Q. It's time for me to buy some new perfume. What perfume or scent do guys like girls to wear? Especially guys in their teens through twenties....
A. 23 December 2008: I've never heard of Naked2U. Is it a new fragrance?... (read in full...)
Can women and men just be friends?
Q. does anyone think men and women can just be friends?...
A. 23 December 2008: Sure! ... (read in full...)
What kind of perfume do guys like?
Q. It's time for me to buy some new perfume. What perfume or scent do guys like girls to wear? Especially guys in their teens through twenties....
A. 23 December 2008: I think that Youth Dew is kind of matronly. ... (read in full...)
What kind of perfume do guys like?
Q. It's time for me to buy some new perfume. What perfume or scent do guys like girls to wear? Especially guys in their teens through twenties....
A. 23 December 2008: I can't find my favorite perfume, the original Angel. I think they stopped making it.
... (read in full...)
What kind of perfume do guys like?
Q. It's time for me to buy some new perfume. What perfume or scent do guys like girls to wear? Especially guys in their teens through twenties....
A. 23 December 2008: I just found out that Victoria's Secret does NOT do animal testing!! Yay!! :)
I can wear their perfumes and not feel bad... and I LOVE their perfumes!!... (read in full...)
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