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How do I make my best friend fall in love with me??

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Question - (25 December 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 26 December 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *loud O'Nasi writes:

Ok, my best friend finally admitted to being Bi and currently likes both a boy and girl, but i know nothing will happen with either of those.

I am his best friend too, and am unfortunately in love with him.

We have messed around before but he never likes to talk about it and doesn't want anything to happen between us...

But iv been in love with him for over 2 years now and i need him to feel the same way :/

How do i make my best friend fall in love with me??

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (26 December 2008):

SirenaBlusera agony auntMerry Christmas Bugs, and to everyone on DC.

Thanks!!:)

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (26 December 2008):

SirenaBlusera agony auntThat's sweet Bugs. I've moved on, though.

Well, sort of.

The problem was that he and I live in different countries, and different worlds really. I think things might have worked out between us if we'd lived in the same country. It made me feel very jealous that he had a girlfriend, and I wish I'd been a better friend to him.

I still care about him very much as he is one of my best friends, but I realize now that he needs someone who can share his life in person.

I wished and wished that there really were "filtros de amor" or love potions. I would have made one if I REALLY had magic powers, lol.

That's why that stupid hat put me in Slytherin ;)

Happy holidays, Felices fiestas.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2008):

Was he blind,deaf and dumb?Sirena My sympathies are with him.He doesn't know what he's lost.You forget about that blind guy! Have a Merry Christmas!!

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (25 December 2008):

SirenaBlusera agony auntI've been in a very similar situation before and it really sucks a LOT.

I wished and wished that there were a magic spell I could use.

I believe in the song, "I Can't Make You Love Me," you can't control another person's heart.

I hope you have a Merry Christmas, though.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (25 December 2008):

You can't make someone fall in love with you.

All you can do is try to get over him.

Stop hanging out with him for a while and hang out with other people. Go out and have a flirt and try and distract yourself.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (25 December 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony auntwell i guess happy xmas. and an interesting time to ask such a question.

you Can Not make anyone fall in love with you.

no magic fixture. no magic spells. no amount of drugs or praying.

if they like you. then they like you. if not.. then sadly you have to move along.

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