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Help, what to do... I fancy my sister!

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Question - (26 December 2008) 16 Answers - (Newest, 21 June 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey, i had a question, in the back of my head there's a voice telling me this is wrong, but at the same time i feel like it's not so wrong, my sister is only about a year younger then me, most guys her age think shes attractive and she's petite. i myself often find myself attracted to her, but not in the way that i fully want to have sex with her, only that i want a blowjob from her, that would be the peak of my fantasies. I know this is usually considered wrong but i mean, i dont know if i should say something to her or not.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009):

DO NOT TELL ANYONE ABOUT IT! It is a passing fantasy, you're entire family will disown you and never forget it if you ever mention it.

It's called incest, which is totally a no-go zone kid. Seriously, steer clear of her, or go out with someone else and fantasise about them instead.

All the best/

Ps. DON'T smoke weed, the later health problems are awful.

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A male reader, BrahDontDoit United States +, writes (21 June 2009):

Bro, Dont do this, it is extremely werid for a brother to wish he could get a BJ from his sister. I cant even think of getting a blowjob from my sister, and you shouldnt be thinking of this either. What you need to do is stay away from her long enough to get over this werid and crazy stage of yours. I would suggest staying in your room and only coming out for dinner or going to school, or on the other hand go outside once back from school. Lay in the grass and ponder things instead of your sister. Go to a friends house, smoke weed an relax, do anything thing except thinking about your sister. You should deff. NOT talk to her about this. It would ruin your relastionship FOREVER. Not even joking when i say forever. I hope this helped wonders for you... :) Now, go outside or stay inside your room and play xbox.

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A male reader, malum424 United States +, writes (30 April 2009):

malum424 agony auntLet me start by just saying wow...Okay now all feeling a side what you want to do with your little sister is illegal in most parts of the world. plus you're are somewhere in the age group of 13-15 putting her at 12-14 years of age first of in the U.S.A. incest is illegal and on top of that it would fall under sexaul abuse because of her age.

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A male reader, makka Australia +, writes (30 April 2009):

look kid stay away from what your fancy want u to do. dont stuff up ur life and hers. find a chick that would give u the needs thst u need. trust get a girlfriend and n u will forget about ur sister. good day mate.

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A male reader, PHOBIA MAN United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2009):

that voice in your head is SCREAMING at you to BACK OFF and you MUST LISTEN!!you are probably sexually frustrated and she is pretty and close to you daily. YOU will never recover from the shame if you ASSAULT her (and it is assault)and she will never recover either!! you'll also lose her as a lovely family member, it's just too awful to think about, aim your frustration towards a movie star or something, leave little sis alone, she probably looks up to for guidance, be there for her in a big brother way.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008):

Really, about the only thing that is safe to tell your sister is that she's either very pretty or very attractive, and that she is very nice to look at. Maybe tell her that you are lucky to have such a sister like her, because she is so pretty inside and out. I would leave it at that. You could maybe hug her from time to time or kiss her on the cheek, if she doesn't mind that, or freak out from you doing that. Doing oral sex with her might be safe, but it could also complicate your relationship with her, and bring feelings of shame, guilt or disgust on both her part and yours. I have read about brothers and sisters doing that kind of thing with each other as a learning experience, but it has to be consensual for both. I would not press the issue with her. You could tell her if she has questions about boys and what they like, that she can ask you.

Maybe the best thing for you is to find a girl who is more attractive than your sister, or a girl who looks like your sister. That way you will forget about doing sexual things with your sister, and will concentrate on doing them with your girlfriend instead. That would be far more normal.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008):

Your sister might be attractive but thats all there is too it. Shes a pretty girl but for you to go ahead and ask or talk to her about these feelings is an absolute big fat no don't do it. She is your sister and to feel attracted to her is morally wrong to start with without actually performing on this mindless act. Don't make the mistake some people manage to make and end up in jail or with a sister that can't stand the sight of you because that'll be what happens. She will not feel the same way as you and I can promise you that instead she'll tell someone and resent you or tell nobody and still resent you. Without a doubt she will feel sick at the sight of you because brothers and sisters are not meant to feel this way for each other. I know how I'd feel if my brother told me that I'd feel sick and never get over it. So leave her alone and move on.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008):

Not with a biological sister. I have a step-brother, our parents married when I was 14 and he was 16, two years ago. I really found him attractive. They left us alone when they went to NY for the weekend, I was a virign but he soon cured that! Now we still have sex often, although we have boy/girl friends. But there is no blood link between us, with your real brother its illegal and not a good idea.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008):

The only to find out is to tell her how you feel. She may be asking a similar question about you. Talk to her and see what she says. I think you should go for it. You will never know until you talk to her. Hope this helped.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2008):

You may have different morals. I cant expect you to follow my views. But think about this. If your sister is into it too, no problem. What if she freaked out? Your relationship will be damaged for a long long time. She is not some stranger. You will have to live with her for quite a few years then you will have to meet her face to face often in life. You dont want to mess up with that relationship.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2008):

Do not it would cause a huge family rift, and plus it is wrong! She is younger than you aswell! Why don't you start fancying people in your year at school instead!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2008):

It's illegal and would probably scar her for life!!! I mean yeah you can think your sister is attractive, FOR SOMEBODY ELSE!!! It's incest, so the answer is NO! There are plenty of other very attractive and completely unrelated girls out there!

I don't mean to sound harsh, I'm just telling it like it is buddy =]

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (26 December 2008):

SirenaBlusera agony auntA decent 1 is right, incest is always wrong.

I think that you should look for a girl with very similar qualities though.

Make a list of the things you look for in a girl(don't just say, "Someone exactly like Fulana"): Do you want someone who likes the same music as you? Do you want someone athletic, or the quiet bookish type? These are only some examples.

Good luck. :)

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A male reader, a_decent_1 India +, writes (26 December 2008):

a_decent_1 agony auntControl your hormones dude or you'll land into trouble.. This is Incest and is a Sin to say the least..

You don't see how tight your sister's ass is.. So just look straight.. This is the age where your actions and thoughts make your real nature, so Beware..

Stop reading and watching too much incest on the web.

G'day

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (26 December 2008):

i would like to say that these feelings are due to your age, but then having a thing for your sister is not normal. my advice would be to call a help line, they are confidential and won't appear on your parents phone bill. there is obviously another deeper reason for you having these feelings and i think you need some help.

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A male reader, Arianz Bangladesh +, writes (26 December 2008):

Arianz agony auntdear bro,

WARNING for u that

If u tell her about ur feelings then she will lose respect for you. so better don't ask anything about it.

She is ur sister who is younger then u...if u feel like this its mean u have problem. so u can also consult with doctor i mean mental doctor who will help u out.

Another thing u can hang out with girls or try to find a girl for u...with whom u will share ur sex, blowjob everything.

but please dont think about it anymore. coz more u think more u will lose ur control in ur self. so better try get some one...who will care about u.

best of luck

take care

arianz

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