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writes:I have been in two serious realationships both ended with them cheating on me. The problem is the female they choose to cheat with are nasty girls who don't care what they do or who they do it with. So my question is why men cheat with nasty girls Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010): Because its less effort to live the life of a dog than it is to live like a decent human being. People that cheat like that have no conscience or good motivation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): Simply because this kind of woman doesnt care. Has no self respect or morals. "Any woman who would knowingly sleep with a committed guy has absolutely no morals or conscience. A decent woman wouldn´t sleep with someone who is committed"
THATS EXACTLY RIGHT! As Sirenablusera put it.
A decent woman wouldn't do it! She's selfish & only thinks of herself. I had a partner who cheated, was drunk and had actually gone to bed. A nasty spiteful girl who he never wanted to be with made a decision knowing he had a partner, knowing he was drunk and she wasn't. Came into that room and slid into the bed being the instigator. Of course he regretted it straight away but the damage was done. Selfish women do this. Lets hope one day KARMA gets them because they sure as wouldn't like it if it was done to them!!! They don't care about the damage it causes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): Why do women cheat with sexy looking men that are "nasty" in pretty much every other way? They are usually total dirtballs at the personal and emotional levels.
I think that lots of the "nasty" women that men cheat with are personally easier to deal with than the "worthy" wives they have at home.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): it's not always the ansty ones though. some vulnerable women , who may be quiet and shy and well mannered, could go with married men or men who are already in a relationship, only because the men have charmed them and messed with their heads. i feel sorry for those kinds of women, actually. thats why i think that any woman who has been cheated on shouldnt always be angry at the woman who has cheated with their boyfriend/husband. i think they should really just be angry at the person they are with, as they would most likely be to blame, and i think they should be more angry at them if the woman is single and has never been married, as she wouldnt understand what it's like to be married, whereas a husband would know, and he should have more sense to not go after other women.on the other hand, though, we can't always help who we are attracted to, and it can be difficult sometimes to stay away from someone that you are attracted to, and not do anything with them. it can be very powerful.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (9 December 2010):
 Mmm... I'd say yes and no.
If a woman actually knows that she's filling the role of a mistress for a guy then yes, if she's respectable and has half a brain then she'll most likely stay well clear of him...
But if somebody can deceive their partner and cheat on them, then they can easily do it to other people... So in that respect, no, it isn't the only type of woman available to a cheater... but if all the cards were on the table and there were no lies involved, then yeh, that'd probably be a big factor as well.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (9 December 2010):
 Because that's the only type of woman available to them. A respectable woman with even the smallest shred of sense would know better.
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (9 December 2010):
Because they're easy.
Nothing more.
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reader, Johnny2301 +, writes (9 December 2010):
 Really, it all comes down to the desires of a man. When a man cheats with a "nasty" female, he probably is not looking for a long-term romantic relationship. On the contrary, he is looking for a temporary release of his sexual urges. In fact, he probably does not care who it is. Since the women you classify appear to be "easier" to obtain, that is simply what happens.
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reader, loveistheanswer +, writes (9 December 2010):
 Men who would cheat, would cheat with anyone. Whatever is convenient, whatever throws itself at them, whatever they can throw themselves at.... Women who would cheat, would also cheat with anyone. Anyone who has any standards at all, *wouldn't cheat in the first place*. That's why you see all the cheating people cheating with nasty people. It's cause they're all nasty all the way around. Makes sense? It makes perfect logical sense to me.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (9 December 2010):
 Any woman who would knowingly sleep with a committed guy has absolutely no morals or conscience. A decent woman wouldn´t sleep with someone who is committed... nasty girls are all these guys can get. The decent ones stay the hell away from these creeps, whilst nasty girls will spread their legs for anything with a penis.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (9 December 2010):
 Men cheat with "nasty" girls as they are easy and they can get sex out of them and not have to put much effort into getting it and even less after, simple but true.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): Tennis is right. It also could do a lot with male types easily tiring of the same old thing and wanting to switch things up. "Nasty" types have a great appeal to this type of man...
- Tante Vic
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (9 December 2010):
 Nasty in what way? Nasty looking, nasty as in sleeping with anyone and anything?
I'm going to take an educated guess and say it's because they're easy women. They guy gets what he wants, and gets out of there. The nasty chick is used to being the other woman, and could care less if she's getting used for sex. As long as she's getting it.
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