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anonymous
writes:Hi I need help! I am a 13 year old boy and i've never kissed a girl, i have crushes sure but i don't want to ask them out because if they decide to kiss me or something i dunno what to do or how to kiss.. i know it's sad right plz don't laugh at me. helpp
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reader, x waz x +, writes (16 December 2010):
i am around your age and have naver been kissed or had a boyfriend. i had a crush on this boy who i knew and was kind of my friend. i meant to ask him out at this party, because he was kind of flirting with me, but it never happened, so im probably not going to be kissed for quite a while!
Just wait til the time comes, you'll know when you meet that person!
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reader, smiliek  +, writes (15 December 2010):
 I was 14 when a guy kissed me, and it was horrid. Tongue everywhere.. I avoided guys until i was 16 then, and it was much nicer. I wish i hadn't been kissed when i was so young. Its not something thats 'meant' to happen at that age. You are so young, enjoy being a young teen before you worry about girls and kissing and dating. You've got many many years ahead of you for that
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (15 December 2010):
 At 13, that's a good thing. Too early, if you ask me. I had my first kiss at 15 (and I often think that was too early too).
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reader, ch1p01 +, writes (15 December 2010):
 I was almost 20 by the time I had my first GF and kiss and other (use your imagination). Its no big deal that your just 13. You might hear your friends talk about kissing and other things, but trust me, 9/10 of them are lying out there ass and the one that isn't, only about 90% of it actually happened. It will happen when it happens. Dont go looking for it, these things come naturally. My first kiss was kind of a blur. Its wasnt any innocent peck either. One second she is sitting with me watching TV in my dorm room, next thing i know we had been making out for about an hour and a half. But it will be different for everyone. Dont fear talking to girls, and dont only see girls as potential hookups. Befriend them. My best friends are girls, that doesn't make me gay and it doesn't mean I have to want to sleep with them. Try to be there friend first and then you will be able to tell if any of them are right for you and if any of them are interested in you. the best advise I can give to you is to not concern yourself with kissing and dating right now. just enjoy still being a kid, go have fun make friends with girls and guys alike and leave relationships and all the good and messy parts till later in high school or even college. Good luck with whatever you do
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (15 December 2010):
 You`re only 13!! I was 15. There is a time and a place for everything. Don`t worry, it`ll happen when you`re not expecting it. How cheesy, I know... but true though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): i was 15 and never kissed so i rushed into it and now my memory of my first kiss is a big sloppy mess that i dont even want to count as my first kiss it was horrible...
just wait till youre ready for it..since when is there deadline?
if it didnt happen yet its because it wasnt supposed to
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): First off.The im like the anon reader there, and you.
But i've always found that anything from a kiss and more was something special and meaningful. So your 13, im sure there is a lot of other people your age and up going through the same thing and are just as nervous as you. So dont worry about it.
Truth be told, i know for a fact i will end up like Shadow Phantom of the Opera. And even im okay with that. So anyone else should be too.
Everyone can kiss, its there the moment you were born. But you cant let the fear of it get in the way.
xoxo
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (14 December 2010):
 I was exactly like you, i had no idea how to kiss someone and i was so scared when my first kiss happened (and i was 15 then) but when it comes down to it, you just kind of get on with it.
My first kiss was unfortunately really sloppy, and his tongue was everywhere (not an enjoyable experience to say the least) but i got through it, and came out the other side more confident and no longer scared that i didn't know what i was doing.
You have plenty of time to find all this stuff out, so stop worrying, and start enjoying your youth!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2010): Everyone knows how to kiss, naturally. I know you don't like to be told by elders that you are truly quite young and in the long scheme of things, being behind your peers in some social departments doesn't matter at all- but! You are thirteen. Many many many people don't get their first kisses until much later.
Don't be scared of by the idea of having to kiss a girl. Ask someone out and make your point to get to know them and enjoy spending time with them... landmarks like kissing should not be on the forefront making you nervous. You don't have to kiss anyone until you feel really ready and confident. :)
Also, consider that many girls are probably going through your same exact nervousness, thinking very similar thoughts, and a great great deal people are not as confident or powerful as they may seem to everyone else.
Love from
Tante Victoire
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reader, Shadow_Phathom_of_the_Opera +, writes (14 December 2010):
 Dude, I'm 19, and I've never been kissed... but I know this...
First, make sure she's your close friend before doing so.
Second, It's cuter when you ask a girl if you can kiss her, but you'll get rejected down more often.
However, it's more romantic to kiss a girl right before saying goodbye, but if she doesn't like it, she'll NEVER SPEAK to YOU AGAIN for how freaked out she is. I mean NEVER!
Listen, you might be better off being me, never been kissed, at the age of 19. If you tell your future Girlfriend at that age, more than likely, she'll feel bad for you, and she might just kiss you, (or even twice for that matter).
Your wondering, why haven't I, MYSELF, been kissed? Because #1, I'm as nervous as you. #2, I've been saving my first kiss for someone very special to me. #3, I don't think anyone would love me enough to kiss me in the first place. However, you still got time left in your life. Just keep waiting.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (14 December 2010):
 HAHAHAHAHAHA!!! Sorry, but any time someone tells me not to laugh at them it's the first thing I have to do.
Really man, you've got plenty of time. Kissing is one of those things that doesn't take very long to figure out. My best advice is just go with the flow when it starts happening. Remember, she's also going to be very nervous.
Don't let the fear of kissing scare you off of asking girls out. They would probably find your nervousness cute.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2010): Dude, i'm 15 and have never been kissed. It's no big deal.
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