My husband's ex girlfriend is a psycho and horrible mother!
Q. The man I've been with for over 4 years has an ex that has a severe jealousy issue. She has hated everyone hes ever dated and hates me even more. This woman is in law enforcement and yet commits/gets away with some of the most unbelieveable things. ...
A. 7 April 2010: No need to be concerned. In her world, her ex is supposed to love her forever and be miserable without her. The fact that he is married AND having a new baby means that he has truly moved on, and the fact that he's not miserable is too much for her ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend got another girl pregnant but when I confront him he's denying it!!!
Q. I recently found out my boyfriend has another girlfriend that's pregnant and he told me its not what i think. I really like him, and im like falling apart without him. He called me the other day becuase he didnt know i knew about it. Then aft...
A. 15 December 2009: Well, if there's a "situation" that needs explaining, I guess you have your answer...... (read in full...)
My boyfriend got another girl pregnant but when I confront him he's denying it!!!
Q. I recently found out my boyfriend has another girlfriend that's pregnant and he told me its not what i think. I really like him, and im like falling apart without him. He called me the other day becuase he didnt know i knew about it. Then aft...
A. 14 December 2009: He is lying to you. If the rumors weren't true, he wouldn't be avoiding you. He says "it's not what you think" but he won't give you an explanation. Move on. You're too young to feel like you're falling apart behind some jackass.... (read in full...)
Help..how to seduce my cousin?
Q. Hey, So my cousin's really hot. He's 17 and I'm 14. We chat sometimes but we never flirt, and he has a girlfriend. But I really want to get him to notice me! How can I do so? Please don't say "you're too young" or "it's your COUSIN get real". F...
A. 14 December 2009: He has a girlfriend and does not flirt with you, which means he is not interested in you that way. And even if you don't think there is anything wrong with seducing your cousin, he very well may be grossed out by it. ... (read in full...)
My ex is threatening to rape me!
Q. help! im 16 and i jus broke up with my now ex bf who is 19 bc he kept pressuring me to have sex. now he wont leave me alone! he keeps txting me, threatening tht he is going to rape me! his texts say: "listen beautiful, u know u want me, and your gona...
A. 14 December 2009: You need to take these threats to the police. Do not allow him to intimidate you and live in fear.... (read in full...)
He married me for my money and cheated, but I love our children.
Q. I married a man who seemed perfect. We both have 2 children each. Everyone thinks he's perfect, my parents, my friends, I can't talk to any. After 1 year of marriage I found out he had been cheating on me b4 we married, when he and his kids moved ...
A. 13 December 2009: There are resources for your oldest daughter; you may want to look into a semi-independent living situation for her. If life goes as it should, she will outlive you and your daughter needs to develop the skills--such as medication management--that ... (read in full...)
Terminating the relationship will hurt my career
Q. i am sleeping with a guy who has a gf and he has told me that he loves his gf and not me...so basically he has been using me and i have to let go. yeah i figured this out after posting numerous posts on this site. Anyways here is the problem it is ...
A. 12 December 2009: Find another study partner or start studying by yourself. You can't continue to be around this guy and not find yourself back in the same situation with him again.... (read in full...)
I had the best sex with my ex, but I feel guilty and don't know whether I should tell my husband or not!
Q. Hello Everyone, I'm currently married to my son's father( been knowing each other for 10 yrs, married for 6, together for 3, and separated 1 1/2 years). Anyhow, throughout our relationship, my husband has cheated in my face with 2 other females ...
A. 11 December 2009: I don't think you feel guilty, I think you REALLY want to throw this in your husband's face because of his years of cheating. Clearly, there is a lot of unresolved hurt and anger, and you've probably lost a great deal of respect for him. The real ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has left out some vital information about her character, now I feel differently towards her!
Q. So me and my gf been together almost 2 years. I really love her. But there is one situation that really bothers me. Let's rewind back to when we had been dating almost 5 months. I was her 6th guy and I was the first to hit it right and give her orga...
A. 11 December 2009: If she doesn't enjoy blowing you, I seriously don't think she did it to some other guy for an hour. I think the fact that the guy finished himself is actually proof that she actually didn't blow him that long. I can tell you from personal experience ... (read in full...)
How do I get a DNA test to prove that my ex really is the father to my baby girl?
Q. I just had My daughter a week ago. The father was well informed that I was in labor and we ended up in the hospital for 2 days because of how she was eating, his excuse on not being there was because he couldn't find a ride. He doesn't have a ...
A. 11 December 2009: Usually you can go to Child Support Enforcement in your state and request a test. If you apply for public assistance you normally will have to give them the name and contact info for the non-custodial parent and they will pursue child support or ... (read in full...)
Crazy in love...
Q. I need some advice, I'm 21 years old and i was involved with an older man 32 now, for two years. I was undeniably in love with him, totally and completely. To me he was perfect and my everything, my best friend and lover, we were both in love crazy ...
A. 10 December 2009: I agree with Double M; this man is abusive and dangerous. Although you loved him, it was an unhealthy love and you are really fortunate to get away from him. The fact the he hit you, isolated you and is now involved with your sister is proof that he ... (read in full...)
Although we've made up now my boyfriend is having a party and the girl he cheated with might be there!
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me 2 months ago - slept with someone else at a party. Completely unexpected and completely against my morals. More detail in previous q's of mine! But to the point of this one... Rightly, or probably wrongly, i gave ...
A. 8 December 2009: Your boyfriend needs to politely back out of this birthday thing so the two of you can continue to rebuild your relationship. This situation is still too raw and painful for you and you shouldn't be forced to be in the same space with this girl and ... (read in full...)
Is the reason why I cheat on my boyfriend because I don't love him?
Q. So heres the deal. im not writing this to have people criticise my situation or anything, I already know its wrong what I'm doing. I'm just looking for someone who may have gone through the same sort of deal. Ive been with my boyfriend 4 year...
A. 8 December 2009: I think you cheat because you want out of this relationship but don't have courage to do it. You are having "exit affairs" to force HIM to end things. Stop avoiding your own feelings: you are no longer happy in this relationship. Your infidelity is ... (read in full...)
He cheated and got someone else pregnant! Help!
Q. my boyfriend of 5 years got someone else pregnant and we have a 2 year old should I stay or go?...
A. 8 December 2009: No one can tell you whether or not to stay with your boyfriend; However, understand that staying together means accepting the child. Will you be able to nurture this child when he is in your home? Will you resent having to get out of the bed to take ... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as a "drunk dick"?
Q. I recently had sex with this guy and he was drunk... I did things with him sexually before and he could always "finish" even when I gave him a handjob ... but he couldnt when we had sex and it brought down my ego... he said it was beacuse he was ...
A. 8 December 2009: Ahh, yes...you've encountered The Whiskey Dick!... (read in full...)
I still hope one day he will come back to me...
Q. Hello Aunts and uncles I am really hoping to get some help because I'm at my wits end. My husband left me three years ago for a younger woman. We had been together since I was 19 and he was 20 and have two children (now aged 24 and 21) and in ...
A. 8 December 2009: Hi Susan,
I can only imagine how hard it is to get over a 30-year relationship; you've spent half your life with this man and now have to figure out how to live without him. I think your grieving is normal, but you know you can't spend your ent... (read in full...)
Sometimes when we have sex, I do not feel anything, pleasure-wise.
Q. Sometimes when my boyfriend and I have sex I do not feel anything, pleasure wise. But there are times when it does feel really good. I love him, and i am very attracted to him, so what does this mean?...
A. 7 December 2009: It means you need to be more assertive in letting him know what feels good to you. Perhaps you need more foreplay or more clitoral stimulation. Whatever it is, he's not a mind-reader and you have to speak up and ask for what you want if you want a ... (read in full...)
Should I issue my married lover with an ultimatum?
Q. I have been seeing a married man for now a year. I am married but been seperated. It started as a fling. Then we fell in love with each other. His wife found out in May but he has continued to still see me. The thing is i am in my 40s and he is 50s ...
A. 7 December 2009: To the OP: Sorry, but I laughed out loud when the guy told you he moved home for his 22 & 23 year old "kids". That has to be the lamest--and funniest--excuse I've heard. What will his excuse after Christmas be, "I can't leave because I miss my ... (read in full...)
Is there any hope that she might come back?
Q. Me and my ex fiancee broke up after over four years. We were engaged for about three years and living together for two. We had some problems, but nothing we could not have fixed. To cut a long story short, somebody popped up on Facebook a few m...
A. 7 December 2009: I don't think anyone can "get" their ex back. People only come back if they want to; you can give someone the earth, the sky and the moon but if they don't want to be with you, there's nothing you can do to change their minds. I would take her ... (read in full...)
This married man is bad for me but I can't get him out of my head!
Q. Hi everyone, well i have been dating this guy for more than a year now. after 6 months in the relationship i found out he was married to which he said 'he was not with the wife anymore, he goes home just for the kids', I left him, he came begging ...
A. 7 December 2009: You describe him as caring, yet he is physically abusive and emotionally manipulative. If someone loves you it should FEEL like they love you, and this man does not love you. Although it may hurt to end your relationship, it will hurt you more in ... (read in full...)
I am again pregnant with my nephew's child and don't know if I can keep this a secret this time!
Q. My shameful secret had eaten away at me for years. But I always knew the truth had to come out eventually. Everyone knows secrets have a horrible way of coming back to haunt you. Usually, when you least expect it. Certainly, the sordid secret in my ...
A. 6 December 2009: This is such an ugly situation and I feel for all who are going to be impacted by it. Unfortunately, your past decisions are about to come to the forefront and there is no way you can continue to hide from the consequences you are about to face.
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I want to seduce my 16 yo son's friend
Q. I am a 45 year old with 2 kids a 16 year old boy and a 12 year old girl. My son has a friend who is always at our house. He's very cute. Whenever my son isn't around we flirt with each other. Yesterday I bent down to put a pan in the cabinet and my ...
A. 6 December 2009: My cousin-in-law's mom had sex with one of his friends when he was in high school. The friend went to school the next day and told everyone that he'd had his friend's mom and talked about how much of a slut she was (true story). Years later my ... (read in full...)
I am in a legal quandary and am not sure of my rights!
Q. The father of child has custody of my child, and i get to she her every other saturday (as painful as it is to say.)well me, my other daughter and fiance have moved since that court day which was 6 days ago. He says i have to give him address even ...
A. 6 December 2009: I think it's in the best interest of the child for the custodial parent to know where the non-custodial parent lives. If the situation were reversed, I'm sure you would want access to the same information.... (read in full...)
My husband's ex girlfriend is a psycho and horrible mother!
Q. The man I've been with for over 4 years has an ex that has a severe jealousy issue. She has hated everyone hes ever dated and hates me even more. This woman is in law enforcement and yet commits/gets away with some of the most unbelieveable things. ...
A. 4 December 2009: With all of this going on, why hasn't your husband tried to get custody of his kids? If she's as bad as you say she is, it's time to step up and get those kids out of that situation.... (read in full...)
He's gave me an STD and he's sleeping with a pregnant girl
Q. I'm 18 and i have recently been having sex with this guy who's 1 yr older than me and found out he gave me chlamydia when i confronted him about it he didn't really seem to be bothered (he knew he had it), worst thing is he was in a relationship ...
A. 4 December 2009: You need to tell her. She may hate you for sleeping with her boyfriend--and even accuse you of giving him the STD--but it's the right thing to do for the baby.If she chooses not to act on this information, that's on her. At least you did the right ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants to have sex with other girls!
Q. Recently my boyfriend told me that he wants to experience having sex with other girls..quick info about us we've been dating for about 6 years now I was 15 he was 16 now (20 and 21) and we were each others first. I knew it would happen but didn't ...
A. 4 December 2009: I think at 20 & 21, you're both too young to be tied down to someone or start planning a future together. You're both going to grow and change so much over the next several years and you both deserve to have different experiences--including dating ... (read in full...)
My mother has banned my boyfriend from visiting because we don't use birth control
Q. Ok so I have been dating my bf for 3 yrs now, since we were both 16. When my mom seen our relationship was getting serious she took me to get birth control pills. The first 2 months I was on them I got really sick and my doctor said I need lower do...
A. 4 December 2009: If the birth control pills make you sick, think about how sick you'll be when you get pregnant from the "pull out method". Get back on the ring, buy some KY Jelly and stop acting like a little girl. You want to be treated like an adult, so start ... (read in full...)
Does he still have feelings for me or is he playing mind games?
Q. Ok, i met this guy Jeremy and we hooked up 3 days later so we stayed together for a while but the problem is he broke up wit this girl Allie and he talked about how distant they where and how happy he was with me, so he went around telling everybody ...
A. 3 December 2009: Yes, he is running game on all of you. He loves you. Then he loves Allie. Then he's with Jessica. Then he loves you again. If you don't want to keep getting played (because you are getting played), the only solution is for you to take yourself out ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants an open relationship
Q. Hey all, I've been off and on here various times these last few months, seeking random tidbits of advice for my ongoing relationship with my gf. Let me start off with a bit o' history. Notably, answers from the 'net have barely helped and in my...
A. 3 December 2009: The key to making an open relationship work is that both parties have to want it. By "letting her go" just to keep her, you're losing yourself. In time you will grow to resent her for asking you to set aside your values, even though you agreed to ... (read in full...)
What do to for the best? Should I confront him?
Q. My boyfriend is cheating on me. I followed him from home one night and I know where she lives. I want to confront this girl but I don't know that to do. If I confront her I will lose him altogether but if I don't I can always use this as blackmail ...
A. 2 December 2009: I'm not sure how you plan to blackmail a man into staying with you, especially since he's never committed himself to you in the first place. You seem to have a really hard time accepting this. Perhaps you feel you have been misled: you patiently ... (read in full...)
He offered his ex his spare room should she ever need it! Is this normal?
Q. My boyfriend's ex is down and he offered her his spare room if she ever needs it. Should this weird me out? Because it really does!...
A. 2 December 2009: I think it's the kind of offer you make to someone in hopes that they never need to take you up on it. Since he told you he offered her a place to stay, he's on the up-and-up and I don't think you have anything to worry about.... (read in full...)
Should I force myself through another semester at a college I hate?
Q. I know this is a relationship help site... but I really need advice and I love the advice the agony aunts (and uncles) give here... so I'm hoping someone can help me out here. I am a freshman in college and I am miserable. I don't like the college...
A. 2 December 2009: The first semester is always the hardest; things may be easier in the spring, so stick it out and finish this year. Winter break will also give you time to relax and you can go back refreshed. Taking classes that you're interested in next spring may ... (read in full...)
One night stand couldn't get it up
Q. i (attempted) to have a one night stand with this guy. things were getting really hot and heavy when he asked if i had a condom i told him i didnt we kept fooling around but he couldnt get hard then he went to go check if he had a condom but he said ...
A. 2 December 2009: He may lost his erection over thoughts of all of the horrible things that could happen if he had sex with you without a condom. Since neither of you had a condom, it's really a good thing he couldn't get it up again.... (read in full...)
I am torn between my wife and my lover
Q. Should I leave after 13 years? I have a 4 year old and a 3 month. I am a 32 year old male I've been with my current girl friend for 13 years we never married. I will refer to her as my wife. I have had my lover for 3 years. off for 1 and on for a...
A. 30 November 2009: Of course your girlfriend cooks and cleans and give you awesome sex: she's not raising your two kids or washing your dirty underwear or doing all of the things that create a stable family life. She gets all of the good stuff and your wife gets the ... (read in full...)
14 and want a baby...
Q. Im 14 and i really want a baby. i know this sounds stupid at my age but its all i think about. i havent had a good education at school so far but i think if i have a baby it will be great. just somebody to love to be there for to give it a cuddle ...
A. 30 November 2009: Sweetie, it sounds like you need love and affection and attention,not a baby. Babies take more than they can give and require a lot of work. Having a baby at such a young age is not good for your body, either. Wait until you're older so you can give ... (read in full...)
His size is affecting our relationship. What should I do?
Q. This may not sound as important but it is to me. I dated my former boyfriend for almost 7 months. All was well, especially the sex because he was well endowed. We broke up recently then i met someone else who is incredibly small. He's a great guy ...
A. 30 November 2009: You should dump him so he can find a real woman. This will free you up to find some jackass with a big dick who will treat you like crap, since penis size is more important to you than character.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has to leave the country to look after his parents in 2 months time, what should I do?
Q. dear friends, I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 6 months.we had really good time together and it was just understood that we will be together in long run. But now he suddenly said his parents are old and they need him so he has to l...
A. 30 November 2009: As painful as it is, he's leaving for good and doesn't want you to come with him. You can either enjoy your final two months together with the understanding that your relationship is coming to an end, or you can break up now and begin to heal and ... (read in full...)
Now she has found someone else I want her back
Q. After a few months of ongoing fights and quarrels, I made the biggest mistake ever: I cheated on her. After a few more fights, we broke up and went our seperate ways. A couple months after we broke up, she started dating this other guy. I realiz...
A. 30 November 2009: If she dismisses your feelings for her, it's because she doubts your sincerity and quite honestly, she may not be interested in going down that path with you again. Hold off on professing your love. She's an awesome friend and you should focus on ... (read in full...)
I want to tell this new younger woman what a jerk this guy is but I'm scared of losing him!
Q. i've been having an affair with a married man. he is now divorcing his wife and i found out he is seeing a younger woman. i followed him home from work the other night and he ended up going to her place. i want to confront her and tell her what a ...
A. 30 November 2009: Lose him? You never had him. He was someone else's husband and is now seeing a younger woman...he was never "yours" and from the looks of it, never will be. As his mistress, he has no obligation to remain faithful to you; fidelity was his obligation ... (read in full...)
He doesn't like me like "that" anymore. Is it over?
Q. Hello. This is my painful and bitter sweet romance disaster. Well, my name is Jossie and I'm 18 years old. I moved to Wisconsin about 5 months ago so I attended my familys church. When I moved to wisconsin romance wasn't something I thought of. Not ...
A. 30 November 2009: I'm not sure he stopped liking you; it sounds more like he may have gotten some heat from his Dad over your relationship. Even though the two of you have behaved innocently, the gossip threatens his and his father's reputation so this may be the ... (read in full...)
I want a sex toy and I'm only 16..how do I go about that?
Q. Why is clitorial stimulation not enough? I want to stay a virgin but when I masterbate I dont just want clitorial stimulation. I am not old enough to get a 'toy' for not just my clitoris but others(vaginal) So my question is what do I do...
A. 29 November 2009: Satindesire is dead-on! Get the reloadable Visa, go to Babeland or Adam and Eve and order something. I suggest a bullet-style vibrator.... (read in full...)
How do suggest to my girlfriend that I'd prefer it if she shaved down there...?
Q. I was intimate with my girlfriend the other night, it was great. But her it was really hairy down there and i thought it as a turn off. I'd prefer it shaved like, it would feel 'nicer'. But i dont know how to go about asking her. It's no big deal, I ...
A. 29 November 2009: Only if you shave your privates, too. ... (read in full...)
I want my best friends wife, I already had her friend
Q. I need help.... I find my friend's wife attractive and I am afraid that I desire her.... We were watching a game few years ago and when our team scored,everybod was jumping, congrulating each other and me and her hugged each other...It was s...
A. 29 November 2009: You sound full of yourself. This woman has let you know that she is not interested in having sex with you, yet you continue to try to seduce her. No means no! You're lucky she hasn't told her husband. I hope you can fight because I'm sure he'll kick ... (read in full...)
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