15 with a planned pregnancy!
Q. Im 15 and Pregent , Me and my boyfriend started haveing sex unprotected for about 2 month but i never i got pregent , Until One day we Both decided to Plan on haveing a Baby. Three weeks ago after he cummed inside of me . I took Three pregencey test ...
A. 6 February 2010: First, watch "Teen Mom" and "16 and Pregnant" on MTV. Tell yourself that you're not going to struggle to make ends meet or keep your relationship together or finish school like those girls because your life will be much easier.
Then turn on Disco... (read in full...)
How do you know when love can conquer all or when you have to call it quits?
Q. I have been struggling w/ my marriage and am in the process of getting a divorce. This is a painful decision, as I have two kids, but am not in love and have not been in a healthy marriage for years. During this process, my boss and I have become ...
A. 6 February 2010: Be REALLY careful in thinking that this is a perfect relationship. It's easy to think you've found true love when things are easy.
The two of you probably bond over how unhappy you are in your marriages, how your spouse doesn't understa... (read in full...)
I cheated twice and now my wife is emotionally distant. How can I get back in her good graces?
Q. I have been married 8 years. My wife emotionally is not close to me. I admit I have done some wrong. I have cheated on her twice and I deeply regret it. Ever sine then I have done everything I could possibly think of to get back into her good grace ...
A. 6 February 2010: What exactly are you doing to get back in her good graces? Are you just saying "sorry" and bringing flowers and such, or are you really behaving in a way to regain her trust?
As the cheating spouse, you should be prepared to spend some time in ... (read in full...)
I'm 14, and I think I'm rubbish in bed
Q. OK well I have a great fantastic boyfriend but I don't feel like I really show my love for him and that he doesn't get what he really wants from me and that im rubbish in bed....
A. 5 February 2010: Miamine, you are telling the cold, hard truth! I'm well over the ago of 14 and your words struck a chord with me. I can only hope they do the same for our the young lady who posted this message.... (read in full...)
I've just realised me and women see things differently
Q. I need some insight. From women especially...(guys feel free to share if it has happened to you...) It's a little long winded, I apologize for that but I want to be thorough. Here's my situation. I am engaged. Totally in love... My fiance and I...
A. 5 February 2010: I second Angzw's suggestion that you consider premarital counseling if you haven't already done so. You love one another and that's beautiful, but you don't want issues like this to become a major point of contention in your marriage. The two of you ... (read in full...)
My husband and I are separated but he is seeing another girl... is there any hope?
Q. My husband and I are separated. We both worked through these issues on our own but now he met another girl. I'm due in April with our first child and he came up to the hospital yesterday because I was in preterm labor. His car is broken so he had no ...
A. 5 February 2010: Have you actually asked HIM if he's interested in saving your marriage?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is cheating on me! Should I leave? or stay?
Q. hi, ive just found out my boyfriend is cheating on me. im unsure on what i should do. whever i should leave him or stay. please help... ...
A. 5 February 2010: Girl, dump his ass and move on! Men aren't so hard to come by that you have to hang on to one who cheats.... (read in full...)
I can't dance at clubs and bars, but I want to
Q. When I go out to bars and clubs I am shy. I want to be able to go out on the dance floor and dance with confidence. I am so nervous though that I am stiff as a board, literally can't move. When I am at home alone I can dance while listening to ...
A. 5 February 2010: I have struggled with this in the past, too. One thing that helped me was going to clubs outside of my neighborhood or city. I found my self-consciousness went away when I was dancing around people I didn't know--and probably would never see again. ... (read in full...)
My partner says I am being selfish as I want to be with him all day on Valentines day because that is the day he has access to his son
Q. My partner has a 14 year old son who sees him every sunday 10.30 - 7 to be precise (not an hour less neither an hour more) and he only lives down the road so i can't see why he can't see him whenever. i work saturdays and he has his son sundays so i ...
A. 5 February 2010: So this man was dating you last year when you were 17? Ick.
He's broke and he ignores you; why do you stay with him? And please don't use "because I love him" as an excuse--think of some concrete reasons to stay in this relationship. I ask you ... (read in full...)
Did he have sex with her before coming to see me???
Q. My boyfriend usually takes around 10-15 minutes to orgasm. But the other day he came over after meeting with a girl and when I tried to give him oral sex.. he said his penis was sore... so he wanted just normal sex.. but once we had sex he orgasmed ...
A. 3 February 2010: I agree with Caringguy. Men usually take longer to cum the second time around, so the fact that he came quickly suggests that he did not have sex with the girl before seeing you.... (read in full...)
Why am I so tired all the time?
Q. So I am constantly tired and I can not figure out why. I mean I get a fairly good amount of sleep(from 10 till 6) Its like it is very hard to last through the day even when I am trying to prepare for my online test, its impossible for me to stay a...
A. 3 February 2010: Go get checked out by your doctor. I experienced similar symptoms and it turned out I was anemic, but there could be any number of reasons for your fatigue.... (read in full...)
Hubby wants the cake and to eat it too!
Q. My husband, out of the blue (after 14 years of a good marriage and a 10 year old child)started having a secret affair with his married colleague. They managed to hide it for nearly an year during which i accidentally discovered and confronted him ...
A. 3 February 2010: If he loses his job because of the divorce, well, that's what happens when you have an affair with a married colleague and mistreat your wife. It may be different in the UK, but courts in the US generally don't give a damn if you're employed or not; ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to ask my new husband for a new bed?
Q. Is it wrong for me to ask my new husband for a new bed because I do not want to sleep in our current bed because his live in girlfriend slept there? Every time I think about it makes me angry and would like a new start even with our things. I'm ...
A. 3 February 2010: You can ask for another bed, but if it's really bothering you, perhaps you could buy it. If it's in decent shape, put the old one in another bedroom, sell it on Craigslist or give it to some needy person who needs a bed.... (read in full...)
My partner says I am being selfish as I want to be with him all day on Valentines day because that is the day he has access to his son
Q. My partner has a 14 year old son who sees him every sunday 10.30 - 7 to be precise (not an hour less neither an hour more) and he only lives down the road so i can't see why he can't see him whenever. i work saturdays and he has his son sundays so i ...
A. 3 February 2010: Sorry, OP, but no one is going to give you the answer you want to hear--which is that you are right and he is wrong. Stop pouting and start planning how you're going to spend your evening.
... (read in full...)
I always thought I'd be her first... why did she do this to me???
Q. Well, this one is compicated. I'm in love with this girl. We've been inseperable since we were ten, and when we were maybe 15 she said she loved me too. Just recently, however, I went away for a while (not jail, overseas) and when I came back she ...
A. 2 February 2010: She slept with one of your best friends and doesn't care that her actions hurt you, but you know she loves you? Doesn't sound like it. The way she felt about you at 15 may not be the way she feels at 23, and perhaps you are more serious about her ... (read in full...)
My married lover left his wife, but now he has cooled off with me.
Q. I have been having an affair with a man for around 9 months. At the beginning of the month he left his wife and is getting a divorce. Over the last 5 mths our relationship and become stronger and we've fell in love with each other. He used to make ...
A. 2 February 2010: Of course things were good in the beginning. You got his good side, while his wife washed his dirty underwear. You got him freshly showered, she had to smell his dirty feet. You got him when he was in a good mood, she had to endure his bad ones. You ... (read in full...)
I don't understand my own feelings?
Q. My boyfriend of 10 years and me broke up in Dec, I had started feeling feelings for my boss, Ive been waiting for my boyfriend to do something for ever, he's struggled with a drug addiction, and things just never seem to go right when he does try, ...
A. 29 January 2010: I think you answered your own question when you said "I feel like I just want to be alone!"
I have never been in a relationship with an addict, but I have siblings with substance abuse issues and know how draining it can be to live with someone ... (read in full...)
Am I being too fussy? People tell me at 27 I am leaving it too late to find someone and settle down
Q. I had a serious relationship that ended 4 years ago (we were together 4 years). I could have married him had we met when I was a bit older, I wasn't ready to settle down then. He was no doubt my first love but we have remained friends and both are ...
A. 29 January 2010: Your post reminds me of an excerpt from "The Sweet Potato Queens' Book of Love" that I read last month, and I think it pretty much sums up why no one should settle for less in ANY area of their lives. Especially when it comes to love:
"...A... (read in full...)
Seeing him so content with his wife and kids hurts.
Q. i dont know what to do and really need advice.. my life is a mess. I have grown up as an only child and never had a perfect relationship with my parents. When i was 16 i coincidently began speaking to someone id seen around my area, because he used ...
A. 29 January 2010: What you're experiencing is a broken heart. We've all been there--you can't eat, can't sleep, feel like you'll never love again, etc. What you are feeling is not unusual after you've been hurt, so don't think that your feelings are some sign that ... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to her sister and my gf is on to me!
Q. My girlfriends sister and I have had a "relationship" for a couple of weeks now. My relationship with GF has been shaky lately and I am really attracted to her sister, who has already said she loves me and would give up everything for me. Now my GF ...
A. 29 January 2010: If the sister's husband found out about your relationship and suddenly she's not speaking to you, it's because she's spending her time begging her husband not to throw her out on her ass. She was never in love with you, especially after a couple of ... (read in full...)
He had an affair so what should I do?
Q. My husband and I have been happily married for five years and have a four year son together. Things seemed fine but then this woman shows up at our door asking for him. She made it clear to me that she would only talk to him and that since she's...
A. 24 January 2010: Sounds like your husband doesn't understand that you don't save your marriage by continuing to sleep with the woman who contributed to the breakup, and you definitely don't move her into the home you shared with your wife and child. You don't grieve ... (read in full...)
I need some impartial views on my situation!
Q. Hi Guys, I/we seriously need some help!!! A bit of background (some of you may find this familiar!) http://www.dearcupid.org/question/nothing-concrete-but-more-seems-to-be-going.html Anyway after a hell of a year last year, my husband and I ha...
A. 21 January 2010: I remember all of the problems you and your husband were having and I'm glad you decided to save your marriage. The two of you have too much work to do to be worrying about this woman and her shenanigans. She wants you to get upset; she's trying to ... (read in full...)
Is 1 hour a big enough distance for a relationship not to work?
Q. Is 1 hour a big enough distance for a relationship not to work. I've hung out with this girl who i like a lot and shes told me that she likes me a lot, thinks im cute but she's busy and lives 1 hour away and thinks that it would be too hard to d...
A. 21 January 2010: One hour is not a big deal and no one is too busy to make time for someone they like. She's not that interested in you.... (read in full...)
Is an old, young looking guy going out with a young woman, creepy?
Q. If a guy is 45, but literally looks 27, and goes out with a 20 year old, is that creepy?...
A. 19 January 2010: Looking young doesn't erase the quarter-century age difference. Creepy? Not necessarily, but definitely suspect. ... (read in full...)
Fiance won't marry me because of ex sister-in-law's behavior!
Q. My fiance of two years (we've been together a total of 7.5 years and have a two-year-old daughter together) recently told me that he never wants to get married. He proposed on New Years 2008 right when the ball dropped. That summer we had some ...
A. 18 January 2010: If after 7.5 years and a child this man still thinks of you as "any other woman" who would take him for everything he has, you may need to take a look at why you want to marry him in the first place. Not only is that an unfair characterization based ... (read in full...)
Would you be angry if your husband took a job that pays a lot less?
Q. Would you be angry with your husband for taking a job that pays a lot less than what they should be making? my husbad and I have been married for 1.5 and together 10. We are both nurses and we moved from one side of the country to the ...
A. 18 January 2010: Yes, $20,000 is a HUGE pay cut, but have you considered that for the past two years he has been suffering along with you in your battle against depression? He may be overwhelmed with the move, the job search and helping you through your recovery and ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend keeps breaking up with me so she can go out with other men, what should I do?
Q. hello everyone, so my girlfriend cheated one me broke up with me saying it was my fault, then when i found out it was cause she was cheating on me i forgave her and we got back together. then she started a fight so she could go on a date with ...
A. 7 January 2010: Who cares how beautiful she is when she treats you like crap?
Please stop waiting for her to decide that she loves you because she is incapable of caring about anyone other than herself. Don't be a sucker and get some self-respect! You gotta st... (read in full...)
At my age can I buy a vibrator?
Q. I'll get straight to the point. Im 14 and masturbate. I have for a couple of years but have done the same thing the whole time. It feels amazing but Im getting tired of doing it that way and like to try new things. Any suggestions? Please don't say ...
A. 7 January 2010: Your best bet is to get a prepaid Visa or Mastercard and order one online. Get a bullet-syle vibe.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says he needs time.. what should I do?
Q. I met my boyfriend through work about 7 months ago when he was with his ex girlfriend of 1 year, 7 months. He broke up with her about 4 months ago and we started going out straight after. However he went through a stage where he said he needed time ...
A. 6 January 2010: Clearly you don't understand the concept of "space".
He hasn't been single in two years and made it clear that he didn't want to get into another relationship, but for some reason you refused to accept this and forced his hand. Now he's doing wh... (read in full...)
My wife and I are giving our relationship another chance after we both had affairs, how can we move on from this and let go of the past?
Q. Hi to all the people who answered my previous questions, about my affair and my wifes affair. We have got back together, we are both anxious, we both have trust issuse's, we both feel crushed. We are letting go of the past, after taking out the ...
A. 5 January 2010: I'm glad are working things out!
Gazzy, just keep knocking down the barriers that you've built up over the years. Be honest. Be vulnerable. Trust that you are safe with her, that you are loved, protected and not alone in the world. It's hard wor... (read in full...)
Wife of 15 years is cheating, where do we go from here?
Q. I could use a little advice. I've been married to a great woman for 15 years and I thought things were going well. But one month ago I discovered by accident that she had a secret email account. Well, after lots of back and forth, she admitted ...
A. 5 January 2010: Four years?!
I say go to individual counseling to help yourself get through this, not necessarily to save the marriage. Whether or not you decide to save your marriage, make that decision based on what's best for you in the long-run, not simply b... (read in full...)
Would you forgive a woman with an extremely promiscuous past?
Q. I am a 28 year old woman with an extremely promiscuous past. I slept with 70 guys. I had committed relationships too. I came clean with my boyfriend and told him the extent of what I had done. He continues to ask me for every detail and I respond. ...
A. 4 January 2010: Two things:
1. NEVER tell a man how many people you have slept with. Your past is YOUR past and none of his business; you have a right to decline to divulge this information when asked. Understand that this is a question where there is no answer t... (read in full...)
12 years later I am married but I recently restarted my affair with my ex married lover! Please advise.
Q. Almost 20 years ago, I was in a relationship that was not good for me for a variety of reasons. I was very young and convinced that I could not do any better so I stayed. I began having an affair with my boyfriend’s married best friend. This was ...
A. 4 January 2010: If you are sincere about getting your marriage on track, de-friend this man, take his number out of your phone, cancel your IM account--do whatever it takes to make contact with him impossible. Put your big-girl panties on and stop acting like ... (read in full...)
I told him I would call his home!
Q. I was in a relationship with a married man and I thought I got pregnant and tried to contact him several times. So I called him a few times for about 5 days and he didn't answer. Then I sent him a message stating that I thought I was pregnant and I ...
A. 4 January 2010: At this point, none of this matters anyway since the relationship is over, right? There's no need to go back and forth over right and wrong because this ENTIRE situation is wrong on so many levels. It's over. Let it go.
Now that he's gone, pl... (read in full...)
This woman will do things my wife will not do
Q. I am currently married 10+ years. Was married nearly 10 previous. Have posted an ad for a descrete sexual relationship and found my potential match. She is willing to do things with me my wife will not. She wants me to do things that my wife would ...
A. 4 January 2010: "If I meet this person for a one time affair it may satisfiy my waning. Nothing can change the love I feel for her."
No, but your actions could change the love she feels about you. And because you are not a prick, you're going to hate yourself... (read in full...)
My pregnant wife or my mistress whom I have met months ago?
Q. My Wife or my mistress? I am in mid 30s.married for 4 years. Got my wife pregnant and I feel responsible for it. i got the work from another country . where i feel very lonely. until one day when i meet my other woman. she is everything to me....
A. 4 January 2010: Yes, you absolutely chose your pregnant wife and your child (I'm not sure how your parents figure into this). Sorry, but I doubt anyone here is going to tell you otherwise.
Are you honestly confused about why your wife and child should be your prio... (read in full...)
Should I get the authorities involved about my psychotic mother?
Q. I posted on here a couple weeks ago about how I wanted to fly out and see my long distance boyfriend. I'm 19 and live at home and my parents are refusing to let me go. I bought the ticket and took off work already. Well my flight leaves tomorrow ...
A. 4 January 2010: No, don't call the authorities. Call a taxi company (they have folks out 24 hours a day) or Super Shuttle or another airport shuttle service and make pick-up arrangements. ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to end things with my wife so I can be with my girlfriend!
Q. 11 years ago I went out with a girl, this lasted for 3 years then we broke up. We broke up because we were too young and argued over petty things. Since then I have married ( 3 years ago )and had a young child who is now 7 months. 14 months ago my ...
A. 4 January 2010: "For the last year or so my home life has been okay except there isn't any love there from me. Things have become very stale."
Could it have become stale because you are having an affair and not putting effort into your own marriage? From your upd... (read in full...)
My pregnant wife or my mistress whom I have met months ago?
Q. My Wife or my mistress? I am in mid 30s.married for 4 years. Got my wife pregnant and I feel responsible for it. i got the work from another country . where i feel very lonely. until one day when i meet my other woman. she is everything to me....
A. 3 January 2010: Maybe your wife could be there when you need her and show you love if you lived in the same country...just a thought.... (read in full...)
This woman will do things my wife will not do
Q. I am currently married 10+ years. Was married nearly 10 previous. Have posted an ad for a descrete sexual relationship and found my potential match. She is willing to do things with me my wife will not. She wants me to do things that my wife would ...
A. 3 January 2010: When your wife says she's tired and the kids are killing her libido, what she's really saying is that she feels overwhelmed and needs you to help around the house. You can't expect her to cook, clean, take care of the kids, and still have enough ... (read in full...)
I told him I would call his home!
Q. I was in a relationship with a married man and I thought I got pregnant and tried to contact him several times. So I called him a few times for about 5 days and he didn't answer. Then I sent him a message stating that I thought I was pregnant and I ...
A. 3 January 2010: I get what you're saying; it was an emergency and he wasn't available to you. When you were able to connect, he was angry that you would have called his home to find him. You are hurt that he believes you would intentionally hurt his family. ... (read in full...)
I told him I would call his home!
Q. I was in a relationship with a married man and I thought I got pregnant and tried to contact him several times. So I called him a few times for about 5 days and he didn't answer. Then I sent him a message stating that I thought I was pregnant and I ...
A. 2 January 2010: He broke up with you, right? Are you asking this question so you can convince him that what you did wasn't wrong so he will take you back?
The fact that you couldn't contact him when you needed him is part of being the woman on the side. You don'... (read in full...)
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