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Will my wife ever have a threesome?

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Question - (29 March 2016) 8 Answers - (Newest, 31 March 2016)
A male Canada age 36-40, *nseendesi writes:

My wife and I are married for 5years. I am a sex crazy person and my wife was traditional Indian. I always wanted to watch my wife in bed with other guys. I told her my fantasy during sex and she got turned on extremely. She has never watched porn before marriage, now she watches Asian groaped in public, teacher forced sex with student, breast sucking videos etc. She use to cover herself completely before, but now she shows a lot of clevage and camel toe. She likes it when other men stare at her body parts. She talks openly about all these with me but denies watching porn.I asked her to pose naked for pictures to post online she posed naked with one condition, not to show her face. But when I ask her for a threesome, she says that altough it turns her on she don't want to act on it. Will she ever do it??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2016):

Don't do it....trust me on this.

I knew this couple that wanted to get freaky too with the husband watching me have sex with his wife, and nothing good came out of it. It was great for the wife and myself, but the husband got really jealous when he realized how much chemistry there was between his wife and me.

Needless to say, it was only a matter of time before she began contacting me which ultimately resulted in her me doing our own thing for a long time. Threesomes cause irreparable damage to the foundation of a relationship.

Just keep it a fantasy and have her talk dirty to you about other guys having sex with her while you two are having sex. Or set up a mirror on the side of the wall and pretend it's another guys doing her - get creative but don't let it become a reality.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2016):

I hope she sticks to her guns. More often than not threesomes do not work out the way you fantasize them. Someone gets hurt. Believe me, I speak from experience.

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada + , writes (30 March 2016):

BrownWolf agony aunt

I hope she does.

You will find out that a threesome will become very troublesome real fast. Nothing better than losing your wife to a man you brought into your bedroom.

Take your bed for instance...you have her side and his side of the bed. Do you have her side, your side, and his side, on your bed???

How many men married your wife on your wedding day?? Then only those men who married her, are allowed to sleep with her.

You are sexy crazy person...you should be a wise person instead...Fantasy and reality is not defined by your penis. Men have two heads...too bad we often use the wrong one.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (29 March 2016):

So_Very_Confused agony auntNo she won't and if you were wise you would LET IT GO.

Some things like threesomes are better kept as fantasy.

I speak from experience.

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A male reader, Garbo United States + , writes (29 March 2016):

Garbo agony auntWould you ever do sex with which you are uncomfortable or don't want to? Of course not. So when she says she is not comfortable with it, it means that she does not want to do it. There has to be no "rational" reason why she does not want to do it. The fact that she may like the fantasy of it is not a rational reason to engage in that. If she answered you few times about it, you are better off not talking about it anymore, and seeking ways to tame your fantasies within the imaginary confinement.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States + , writes (29 March 2016):

Tisha-1 agony auntI can't speak for your wife but I would never want to be coerced into a threesome. It suggests that you put your sexual desires above the mental and physical health of your wife.

Keep it in the realm of fantasy if she's said "no." Unless you want her to lose respect for you, as well as her trust in you?

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A male reader, Serpico United States +, writes (29 March 2016):

If you want to end a marriage in divorce, a threesome is an awesome idea.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (29 March 2016):

Honeypie agony auntNope, she already told you.

She likes the "fantasy" or the "novelty" of it, but the actual deed? no.

I don't really think it matter what social or cultural background people come from, we ALL have limits and she has TOLD you that while it turns her ON, she doesn't want to ACT on it. Which means... you NEED to respect her wishes.

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