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Crushing for her, yet don't know if she's gay. If I make a move I could lose my Boyfriend. Should I tell her? What can I do?

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25 November 2014 (F age 26-29 - So I have posted about this before but my head is still a mess.. Anyways, I'm a 20 year old girl, (not bigging myself up here) but I have a good job I've worked so hard for, and a boyfriend I've been going out with for 4 years who I know loves me very very much. It's always b... (550 words

He's 29, I'm 20. I don't know if I can trust him. Should I trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

25 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6-8 months now. On our sixth month, we broke up for about a month. No contact at all. Then we got back together. He told me that during our break up he slept with this other girl. Slept with her a couple times and they were goin... (211 words

How can I demonstrate that I'm fun and that I like him without actually telling him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3427 days ago

25 November 2014 (F age 26-29 - Hi I have classes with a guy I really like we sit next to each other. We kind of have a love hate relationship. We have a laugh and I really like him but at the same time he annoys me so much! What can I do about this? How can I demonstrate that I'm fun and that I like him ... (65 words

I know I'm clingy but I feel like I love him more than he loves me

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25 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncles I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for eight months (I'm 27 and he's 29)...we meet most weekends and we always have the best time together....apart from when we have to go our separate ways! I love him dearly and miss him so ... (265 words

Have I given her too much space? Am I being too shy?

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25 November 2014 (M age 30-35 - So this shy girl I like and I have been talking a while now that I have a feeling likes me back. However she suddenly went quiet with me when I started giving her more space cuz I felt I was intruding her space being a shy guy myself. She seems absolutely fine if I talk to her ... (92 words

I feel like I'm in limbo since he doesn't think I'm ready for marriage

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

25 November 2014 (F age 36-40 - Boyfriend wants to get married in the future. But he's a big believer in being happy in yourself. He thinks that I believe that getting married will make me happy. But he says that getting married won't change anything and that I have to be happy enjoying the 'now' because if ... (244 words

Second time around and there are issues

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25 November 2014 (F age - I re married my first husband. The marriage broke down first time after over 20 years, he was a workaholic and picked up a prostitute one night which was the straw that broke the camels back. He thinks I have cheated in the past but I never, its along story but I was being ... (233 words

When a guy always argues with a girl.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

25 November 2014 (F age 36-40 - I am in a good happy relationship. But another guy we know seems to always pick on me, in a more aggressive way. Sometimes it's light teasing, but then out of no where infront of a group he'll put me on the spot and argue back at me...I don't even argue back, I just kinda go ... (284 words

Is it inappropriate to ask a guy to take an STD and HIV test before we date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

25 November 2014 (F age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I haven't dated in a long time but I decided if I should date again would I be wrong to bring up front about taking STD and HIV test.My health is in great condition and I want the same for the new guy.Thanks ... (47 words

Why would you leave the best relationship you ever had over a surmountable problem.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

25 November 2014 (F age 36-40 - Hey guys, This past Friday my boyfriends of a little over a year broke up with me. Despite my embarrassing pleas he would not reconsider. The reason he gave for the breakup was that despite my having been the best girlfriend he had ever had and this being the best relatio... (194 words

We're back together but "not labeled"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

25 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hey all so me and my ex or whatever you wanna call him broke up 5 months ago. And we decided that we wanted to work things out so he moved back in with me and here it is 5 months later and he still lives with me we do everything we did when we was dating but as he says "we're ... (334 words

Should I follow my instincts and just walk away before it's too late, or tell my G/f up front that her lack of interest/effort is becoming a cause for concern?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

25 November 2014 (M age 51-59 - Hello all. Just wondering what people's thoughts were on this situation: My g/f and I have been together for just over a year. We live about 25miles apart, and we usually see each other once or twice a week and every other weekend. The first seven-eight months (the 'h... (231 words

I don't know if this guy still likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

25 November 2014 (F age 22-25 - Hi I'm sure I just sound like a typical teenage girl but I don't know if this guy likes me! We talked on snapchat everyday for like 3 hours and the conversation was so easy and he told me he liked me, in my mind it was going well. Then i messaged him and he just said hi back ... (197 words

I don't care about what he's done to me but he cant just abandon our child!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

25 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - Looking for some guidance on what to do here!! I have posted here before about this waster of a man I've spent the last 4 yrs with and I got some great advice. Just to quickly give u some back ground.. i'm 26. I've been with a man 14 years my senior for 4 years. In that 4... (630 words

Why did my ex contact me all of a sudden when he's still with his girlfriend? He knows I hate him and we are in two different countries

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

25 November 2014 (F age 36-40 - My ex and I were together for 4 years, including 1 year long distance. He dumped me 1.5 years ago. I've contacted him a few times and told him how terrible I felt. He's got a new girlfriend 3 months after we broke up. I was desperate. I've said bad things to him, cursed, or ... (273 words

What's the deal with this girl I met online? Is she pissed at me? Buyer's remorse? Or is it simply a change of heart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

25 November 2014 (M age 41-50 - Hey everyone, So, I met this girl on OKCupid. I made a profile with a contrejour picture (basically a picture with the shadow of a person against the sun) and was fooling around with the website. Then we struck and conversation and she suggested meeting at some point. The ... (905 words

He's become distant and seems bored with the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

25 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone.. So me and my boyfriend has been in long term relationship and he's serious about our relationship and take me into his life. He's so caring and loving man that I know. He used to treat me so good and accept me for who I am. He considering marry and proposed me ( ... (838 words

Why can't I stop thinking about my ex ever since I found out that he is engaged?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

25 November 2014 (F age 41-50 - I just found out that my exboyfriend just got engaged. We've been separated for about 2 years and 6 months now. We were together for 11 years and I broke up our engagement because I got fed up with his lies and cheating. He tried to get back to me for a whole year; but then ... (218 words

Is he asking me on a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3428 days ago

25 November 2014 (F age 26-29 - There's this guy I work with and I was talking to him over snapchat messaging. he was talking about how he got a new car. I was like "can I please drive it?!" N he says yea sure "if u buy me dinner." N I said "hey no fair. I'm driving and buying dinner?!" N he said something. ... (139 words

How do I tell my new partner I want to be tested for STI's?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

25 November 2014 (F age 26-29 - Hello, I have recently entered a new relationship after being in a previous relationship lasting roughly a year. My last relationship ended because of lots of trust issues. Anyway I want to go to a sexual health clinic and get tested for STIs. I have only had 2 sexual partners ... (170 words

She's taking dancing lessons with her ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

25 November 2014 (M age - My girlfriend of about 4 months teaches ballroom dancing, and is still learning -of course. Overall, our relationship is good -- we acknowledge we love each other all the time. I don't dance, but that's ok. Here's the problem. Once a week she drives across town to take a privat... (131 words

I always like guys that I know I cant have or who don't want me back and it kills me but I just cant seem to stop myself.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

25 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hey this may seem like a stupid question but I have no one else to talk to about it without sounding stupid! So there's this guy that I work with that I have had a crush on for a while now we are pretty close and flirt back and fourth all the time, I have even had people ask if ... (192 words

Seeing a picture of my ex with a new girlfriend makes me feel like I've been punched in the Tummy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

25 November 2014 (F age 36-40 - I was with my ex for 8 years. We broke up around 18 months ago, it wasnt a nice break up but we cut all contact and havent spoken to him since. He pops into my head every now and then but thats all. A few months after we seperated i met someone else, Fast forward a year wer... (125 words

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