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Former fwb guy is now acting weird since I have started dating someone!

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10 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - I've had this thing for ages with this guy. We started off as friends with benefits really, no strings and that's what we were both happy with. This carried on for about a year and obviously we got to know each other really well and it did develop into almost a relationship I ... (357 words

How do I find the right type of relationship?

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10 November 2014 (F age 36-40 - Confused. So I have a good, old friend. We caught up in summer. We hooked up(kissed cuddled etc) and have kept in touch a lot. We had made plans to meet up soon. We live in different towns. We went on what seemed like dates in the summer and he was romantic and affectionate. I ... (297 words

How do I constructively address my grievances in the relationship?

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10 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - Recently I have been struggling emotionally because I have a lot of unresolved grievances in my relationship that I need to discuss with my boyfriend, but I don't know how to bring them up to him to get these things off of my chest. I fear that it may sound like I am just ... (223 words

She no longer shows affection -- does that mean she doesn't care?

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10 November 2014 (M age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I've been dating my girl friend for the past 8 months now and it was all going we l when it all started, she'll text me always and call too but Now I believe that I love her more than she does because , I don't get any affection from her at all, she doesn't ... (316 words

If your boyfriend's friend went to a hooker, does that mean your boyfriend could do it too?

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10 November 2014 (F age 41-50 - Hi everyone. Should I worry that a friend of my boyfriend has been using prostitutes? (The guy is single). Does that mean my boyfriend could also do it? I am just wondering if the people your boyfriend considers friends could have an impact on his behaviour. For example if h... (84 words

How do I go about this when I have NO PROOF if I suspect he is/had an affair

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10 November 2014 (F age 51-59 - I am living with my boyfriend. All I can go on is my suspicions. I've read numerous articles about spotting behaviors that would point to a man having an affair, but those behaviors don't show in my boyfriend. He has talked about marriage with me. I DO know he has lied to ... (295 words

My girlfriend said that I don't physically turn her on.

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10 November 2014 (M age 30-35 - To give context I am 23, and my third year anniversary with my girlfriend is next weekend. Last week we were chatting in bed and she casually said that I physically do not turn her on. I didn't really respond as I wasn't sure what to say at the time. All the lights were off ... (324 words

Lately I find myself not wanting anything to do with men anymore.

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10 November 2014 (F age 41-50 - I am in my early 40s. I have been single for the last 15 years, raising my daughter. Now she is all grown up and moved out long ago. I never got married to a father of my child. We are on good terms though, almost friends. I had relationships long and short lived. One laste... (358 words

He wants a surprise?

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10 November 2014 (F age 26-29 - Basically my boyfriend wants me to surprise him with something sexually, at first I was all for it, until i realised i have no idea what to do! Preferably something cheap as i am a student and cant afford to buy anything to help, has anyone got any ideas what i can do?... (53 words

Too many questions. are these games she's playing?

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10 November 2014 (M age 30-35 - So I'm in a thing not quite sure what to clarify it as with a bisexual girl. We both just got out of a relationship her ex cheated on her and mine cheated on me. We went on a few dates and what was weird for me was we didn't have sex or even kiss after the first few dates. ... (401 words

I do trust him but I don't like the pics with other girls when he was abroad

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10 November 2014 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend went to Ibiza in August/September which I had no problem with as I trust him. He came home and that's when all the pictures we're getting uploaded online by others he had met over there. The first few we're alright, of him and his friends being their usual silly ... (237 words

I can't help feeling that I owe my ex another try, but the new guy is amazing

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10 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncles. This is going to be a long post so please bare with me. I split up with my ex boyfriend in May. We were together for almost five years. Our relationship ended mutually as we both agreed things weren't working. We argued a lot over silly things and I fel... (529 words

When a guy friend looks intensely at you while talking to his girlfriend...

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10 November 2014 (F age 36-40 - So there's this guy-friend I've had in a group of friends, not super close or anything, but I've noticed they way he acts around me has changed recently. HE seems to be more cautious and I feel his eyes are always on me. The one thing I want to know if it means anything, ... (260 words

Herbal supplements for suppressing male libido?

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10 November 2014 (M age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old, straight, and have never had a girlfriend, this hasn't bothered me until recently when I've begun to notice that my sex drive has seemed to increase as of lately. Now I realize that for most men an increased/regular sex drive is a good thing, however for me it ... (146 words

Signs of sexual tension?

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10 November 2014 (F age 36-40 - What are subtle signs of sexual tension between two people? I'm talking about the little things they do, stuff that isn't as obvious or not talked about a lot. And how will they act around each other if they are trying to hide/resist the tension? If you're in a group, can... (82 words

Am I overthinking or does it seem like he wants a child?

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10 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - Okay do this is a tricky one and playing on my mined .... i have a daughter 2 yeard old and my partner has took her on as hes own he loves her to bits .... he is 24 years old abd verry mature we love eachother deaply and babys always come up in our daily topic .... we was drunk ... (347 words

I like a hot dad and don't know how or if even should pursue?

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10 November 2014 (F age 41-50 - Hi just need some advice pls. I'm a 33 single mum,and there is this really hot dad at the school, iv never spoken to him face to face as I always assumed his married or got a partner plus I'm shy lol anyway im on a dating site and hadn't been on there a while and decided to go ... (265 words

Is he just taking things slow or not attracted to me?

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10 November 2014 (F age 41-50 - There was always some chemistry between a friend of mine and I, but we never acted on it. I know when it comes to romance he is quite shy. This other guy who is a close friend of ours (the one who introduced us to each other) would often tell me this guy wouldn't shut up about ... (837 words

Why is my ex acting so horrible?

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10 November 2014 (F age 36-40 - My ex emailed me apologizing and wanting to make things right for our baby. He left us two months ago after she was born. I was confused by what he wanted and said if he wasn't serious about making things right then to leave us alone. He sent a horrible message about him being ... (93 words

My boyfriend has trouble showing and relating to emotions. How do I deal with this?

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10 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - On several occasions, my boyfriend has admitted that he is not very emotional and has problems expressing his emotions and relating to other's emotions. The longer I'm with him, the more I see this. He did something and it hurt my feelings. When I approached him about it, he ... (272 words

Should I break off contact with my crush?

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10 November 2014 (F age 26-29 - So there's this guy I've kind of had a crush on for a long time now, since I was around 16 (I'm now 19). The issue is that he's my ex teacher. I have him as a friend on Facebook and we chat occasionally, just about normal things like catching up, but we used to be closer and I ... (140 words

I have no experience and don't know how to ride a guy

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10 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - hi, i'm almost 22 years old and i've small boobs. my waist size is 37", butt 48" but my boobs are too small and plus I've no sex experience so don't know how to ride my man. am so nervous about my breast size and how to ride :{... (49 words

My boyfriend's best friend isn't a good influence for him and it concerns me

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10 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - One of my boyfriend's best friends is really annoying and rubs me the wrong way. In my opinion, he is very rude, manipulative, and doesn't have my boyfriend's best interest in mind and I get really uncomfortable and even nauseous when my boyfriend goes to hang out with hi... (714 words

Coming out to my mother please help

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10 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - Okay, so basically I only have one last person (also the hardest person to come out to) that I am a lesbian and my best friend is also my girlfriend. I was wondering how I should tell my mom about us. Also we both still live with my mother and we both rely on her financially. ... (259 words

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