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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I just need this man to do something for me that makes me feel special, at least on one occasion. Am I merely his landlady and not his partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age - I will be with my partner of seven years in March and I have started to ask myself where the relationship is actually going and am feeling slightly insecure. He is a high earner but all his money is put into finance and he is forever on his ipad checking the state of his ... (399 words)

How do we sort out the communication difficulties without me feeling like I'm nagging? I need more effort from him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - After many years of being treated extremely badly by men (including the men in my family), I have finally got into a wonderful relationship with someone I care about. Problem is it's long distance as has to be for the next year or so because of work commitments. I know that we ... (269 words)

Should I learn to be faithful or move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for a whole year. I cheated on him twice. He heard from people but I always denied and he believes me. Im a christian and my boyfriend is muslim, my parents keep trying to tell me to leave him because there will be religion complications. I met this ... (139 words)

Is it better if we have this in common?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it good to have a girlfriend who is a gamer? I'm a huge gamer and I've been playing video games for my whole life. I would like to have one, I just a little worried that she'll take over and my gaming days will be over. I just want to have fun with girl gamer's, just as much ... (111 words)

Why did he stand me up?! Should I just dump him??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i need some advice and your opinions on my relationship please... I have been with my boyfriend for over ten months now and we have been getting on really well, we arranged to meet tonight but he stood me up. I was waiting for an hour and a half in the freezing cold weather,... (115 words)

I worked so hard to get that promotion, and now I am just being shafted! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am wondering, do you believe that everything happens for a reason? I am getting myself down, because at work I was promoted about 6-months ago. My current employer wanted to extend my promotion, however my former employer (substantive position) disagreed and is pulling me ... (122 words)

I have no trouble dating men off dating sites, but why can't I get them to stick around?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I seem to be able to get men, date men off the dating sites, but never seem to be able to keep them.What am I doing wrong?I am not sleeping with them early on, but I am upset when I see them on the dating sites after we agree to meet up again as what is that all about? I am ... (69 words)

I am always the 'bad guy'!! What should I do?

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1 February 2012 (?) age 41-50 - Okay, what do I do?! I'll try and be as detailed as I can. I was with a girl for about 6 or 7 years off and on. Now I'm going to be totally honest. At the beginning of our relationship I didn't treat her well. I was young so I'd rather be out with my mates or just doing si... (482 words)

Does no communication from a man...really mean no interest??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have dated this guy last week and he said he wanted to see me again.He works away alot and has sales meetings etc. I am finding it hard though when there is no communication and I am doing all the texting. he has now gone away to new york for a week, but still logged on to ... (89 words)

Why cant get a girlfriend??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

1 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so im 20, very nearly 21, and im a virgin and ive never had a girlfriend. Recently i lost my best chance at getting a girl. I met her just after Christmas and we got on really well, kissing and cuddling by the end of the night. We spoke on Facebook and over the phone after ... (541 words)

I worry if things don't workout between my current bf and I, will be too late for this new guy, I like?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and I am a Junior in high School. I have been dating Jeremey for three years (off and on). We met in my Freshman year of High School and he wants to get married and have kids one day. I'm looking forward to being married and starting a family, but there's one small ... (256 words)

Does he want to see me with another woman for my pleasure or his?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone , i would like to have your opinion about a relationship-sex issue that is troubling me for some time .Iam a woman 36 yrs,I was married 7 years and had 2 small chidren when i met my current fiancee, who is 36 yrs old also .I had a very unhappy marriage ... (671 words)

I feel its my fault for many bad things that happened to my girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

1 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm having trouble forgiving myself for something I did many years ago and it still haunts me. About five years ago I ment me fiance in my homeroom class at school. we talked a little bit, but that soon stopped. I met some guys and hung around with them and they were mean to ... (497 words)

My ex husband's fiancée posted a picture of our LEGAL divorce decree ON FACEBOOK

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age - Gang, I am MORTIFIED. I am not thrilled or happy about my divorce... it's a failure on my part and it is what it is. I don't need or WANT to shout from the rooftops I'm divorced (yet again). I just got a text from a friend of mine congratulating me (tongue in cheek) on my ... (139 words)

My mom won't let me date a guy who was pressured into being mean to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, i like this guy in the class below me. i told my mum about him, and she really doesn't like him. she said to me that she refuses me to go out with him. she says that he will treat me bad (because my ex treated me bad). me and him had some problems at the start of ja... (160 words)

I really hurt my mom by a comment. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I think I really hurt my mom really bad. So we were eating breakfast and my mom starts talking about my wieght. She always does we can't go a date without the subject I know she really cares for me. She cares for my health because I'm obese. But I think I went out of line when ... (112 words)

I love him so much but husband never wants sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a married woman and my husband never seems to want sex i feel like its me maybe he doesnt fancy me anymore.i mean i love him so much and want to have sex more and i have tried talking to him and he just says things will be different and then it was for the first week and ... (117 words)

Is it alright to take a years break from my marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello agony aunties. Thank you for rendering a listening ear to people who need advise. You are the best online help site that I have come across. Congratulations. Facts: 1. We have been married for 1 year and lived together for 3 months 2. We live in a 1 bedroom apartment... (536 words)

Why am I always the friend... with benefits? I want marriage, kids, to start a new family!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - met him on vacation. a year and a half ago. he lives in the united states and i live in canada. immediately we had passion, fire and the relationship was heated. i didnt want to think so much about it, or even care to see him again. but we did. i traveled to see him in ... (426 words)

Do you think I was rude?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

1 February 2012 (?) age 36-40 - There's a woman at work who keeps texting me. I originally gave her my number because a few of us had arranged to go out for a coworker's birthday and she needed to call me to arrange transport. This woman is a bit of a loner and still lives with her parents, even though she's ... (337 words)

I get mad at my boyfriend for always looking at pretty girls. And adding them on Facebook.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know that men are attracted to women who look good. I always get mad at my boyfriend when he looks at pretty girls. And he reacted negatively to my action too. After some time, I would feel silly because all men are like that. But now, I think it's a different issue, when he ... (90 words)

Supplementing your relationship with cyber and virtual contact?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Here's the dilemma with a double-standard. For some reason, I'm ok with porn. I've watched it. It turns me on. I don't fantasize about the actors. I think about myself and my (at the time) boyfriend. I'm sure what everyone gets out of it is individually different. ... (213 words)

Is my wife bi-curious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Thinking My Wife is Bi Curious?? Here's my story, and I'm hoping you guys/gals can give me some insight, and opinions. My wife and I have been together for 9 years, our sex life is pretty good and has actually improved the past couple of years. I would characterize... (502 words)

Why is he pursuing me when he has a girlfriend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

1 February 2012 (?) age 36-40 - He and i were sort of fwb in the past, it didn't become anything more for a number of reasons. Mainly because we live hours away from each other and hadn't really gotten to know each other well enough to form a real relationship. I went to see him at his place because he's ... (281 words)

We cant ever get married because he is 5 years younger than me, should I give up on the relationship now or carry on with him until I meet a more suitable partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I thank you for your enormous help that you've been rendering to us, I hope that you'll also see to my problem. I have a boyfriend whom I love so much and he loves me too, but my problem now is that I'm 5 years older than him. So I'm so ashamed of myself befriending ... (147 words)

After only 2 months of marriage the arguments are terrible and she is threatening to cheat! Why is she doing this and how do I sort this out?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

1 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Great 2 months of unstable marriage. At first I was appreciated. We used to love each other prior to getting married but... In these 2 months, we have had epic arguments, I've been called idiot etc. We had an argument tonight and she went further to say: I'm an idiot, she ... (235 words)

The heat wants what the heart wants....so do I tell my married lover how I feel about him knowing he would walk away? Or just keep quiet and carry on witht the affair?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Im hurting and need some advice. I just came out of a horrible divorce and is still going through a nightmare of fighting and possible custody battle with my ex husband. Im trying to get my life back together and doing pretty good. Everything I do is for me and my child, but im ... (329 words)

What was this foreign guy's motive? He used me in every way possible and I'm numb with shock now

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi this is a long story but I need perspective: I was in a relationship with an arab muslim for a year. We have broken up for the final time. He is younger than me by 10yrs (claims not a problem ever) When I think to what I have gone through with him I gave everythi... (915 words)

Is it normal to have a relationship with a man 22 years younger than me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age - I am in my fifties and had a boyfriend of 38 .he just dropped contact 3months ago. We saw each other occasionally.I loved him but he borriwed money and never gave it back. Is it biologically normal to have a relationship with a guy 22years younger than me??... (48 words)

I'm trying to change myself for the better, but it is actually making me feel worse!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

1 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm trying with my whole mind and soul to focus on learning and growing. I'm trying to let all the luxuries go and lead a simple life to pursue my dream. But I wonder why this has suddenly affected my mental health. I'm a lot grumpy. I lose my temper really fast. Uncleanlin... (242 words)

My B/f couldn't get enough of me and now I have to beg him for sex even once a week. Is he bored of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I started going out with my boyfriend 8 months ago And we've been living together for 4. I'm 25 and he's 35. At first he couldn't get enough of me, even waking me Up several times during the night for sex most nights. Now if I get it even once a week I'm lucky and that's bec... (130 words)

Does this happen to anyone else but me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So whenever my boyfriend and I get really frisky and have the privacy and space to have sex, we do it and what not. But after constant changing of positions (missionary, to doggie, and other variations) and anything over 15-30min, I start to get dry and lose my horniness! Which ... (80 words)

He's 25. I love him to bits, but how can he be so selfish? Even forgot by birthday!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year.hes my first love i love him to bits and i really cant sit here and explain just how much i love him and before anything i will not ever leave him unless he cheats on me so please do not suggest that. He sadly very obv... (256 words)

Husband confessed to having sex with a prostitute 3 years back during an official trip. Now he has a trip to Bangkok coming up and I'm horrified at the thought of letting him go!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Some 3 years back my husband had sex with a prostitute on an official trip abroad, he back and confessed too but since then I cannot trust him and I am constantly living under the fear that sooner or later he will do it again. How can I start trusting him again, in fact s... (207 words)

How can my Bf be so nice to his friends and so mean to me? Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. The past 6 months or so have been great, but before that we had a few issues with cheating and flirting behind each other's backs. We're much better now but the wounds haven't completely healed and I have a tendency to get a little... (333 words)

Life is a confused wreck. My partner broke up with me. Help, how do I emerge from this OK to go forward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

1 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My world came crumbling down on december 31. I was enjoying myself at a new year party, and i decided to,,check my facebook. The first thing that popped up was the,lesbian,i used to like. I found out she had a boyfriend. When i found out, i felt horrible. On top of,that the ... (150 words)

Sweet 27 and never been kissed. Aunts what hope can you offer me that it will happen? Xxxx

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

1 February 2012 (F) age 36-40 - I'm looking for advice aunts. I've never kissed a guy before and I don't think anyone wants to. I'm kind of getting old and looking it and feeling it too. I feel too ugly and fat, and its not so much the fat cos i know i usually lose it quickly. its my age. I'm not sure ... (89 words)

Urinary incontinence during sex. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a rather embarrassing question... During an intimate lovemaking session with my fiancee, I was blindfolded, and had earmuffs on so I couldn't hear anything..this allowed me to focus only on what I was feeling...and I was lost in the sensations. Anyways, right as I orgasm... (173 words)

Am I being too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a crush on a very quiet person in my class at school who rarely ever talks to anyone(so it's not just me he does not respond to of course). I've been in the same classroom with him for just a few weeks so I don't really know him My friend who is his friend tells me ... (684 words)

Small lie by him leads to me worrying way too much...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice. I have been with my LDR for almost a year and in the beginning he lied about a lot in efforts to make me like him. after a few weeks he told me the truth about himself and vowed never to lie again. well just this week I was asking questions and hi... (273 words)

My wife wants me to be more of an alpha!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm not a tough guy type. I always tried to be nice and gentle. When we have sex, I always ask my wife if she is comfortable, or if there is anything she wants, during sex. She used to love me like this, but not anymore! She says I care too much and it ruins the mood. ... (126 words)

I want more physical affection from my partner who has a history of abuse.

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1 February 2012 (M) age 41-50 - I'm M, she's F, and we're both in our early 30's. We've been together for four years, cohabiting for three. Generally I've felt like we're both fairly put together, but after a lot of introspection recently I think that's far from the truth. My parents married very you... (1021 words)

Not as much sex now boyfriend says he wants to keep it special?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over two years and the sex life has always been really good and frequent, usually once or twice every day. Lately he hasn't wanted it as much though, (like only 3 or four times a week) and he told me it was because he didn't want it to be ... (111 words)

How do I get past this guy's female friend to date him?

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1 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I'm interested in this guy. Have been for about 6 months. We've flirted, we've hung out solo, and even come close to going out on an almost date... twice. The thing is, he always pulls back and gives me the cold shoulder when things are starting to work out. A couple ... (249 words)

I cant stand my sister-in-law!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - The title says it all pretty much. I just cant like her for as much as I try. When me and my hub were together in the beginning I would go over to his brothers house and help and clean she would be home all day pregnant I did this for about 3 months untill she popped Yeah I did ... (273 words)

I still love my B/f but I don't feel like I am "in love" with him any more. How do I break it off without causing him too much pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years since I was a senior in high school. Now that I am about to graduate from college. We have had a long distance relationship for most of the time we have been together. Over the past couple of months I've been feeling more and more ... (192 words)

I don't find him attractive, but I cant stop thinking about him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so ive met this guy twice and hes sweet but totally not my type. ive only met him when ive had a drink and he has too. i wouldnt say he's good looking - lets put it that way - but the first time i met him he gave me a kiss goodbye. and then the second time he had his arm around ... (142 words)

Should I go out with my ex's friend?

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1 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex bf broke up with me nearly a year ago. I loved him, I was loyal and true. But he cheated on me, lied to me and dumped me. So hurt.. I've never loved anyone the way I loved him. Anyway, his best friend is really nice guy. His gf cheated on him. and I thought I'd... (218 words)

I feel like such an idiot for being ignored!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really upset. I went on my first date with this guy on Saturday, and it seemed like it went well. We spent twelve hours together in total on Saturday !. I sent him a message on Sunday, saying that i enjoyed the date, and that i looked forward to seeing him again, and he ... (602 words)

I've asked this girl out more than once but she hasn't gone out with me yet. Is she at all interested? Should I ask her some other way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

1 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so I am a douche! I really like this girl who I met earlier last semester at uni, she's a first year I'm a second year and we both play squash at the same level and very often. During the christmas exams I had had enough and decided to ask her out on a date, went wel... (566 words)

I am thinking of contacting my ex G/f again and telling her that I am the one who screwed up and am really sorry..

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

1 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my girlfriend about a year ago now. I had an affair and started an open relationship with her but it really did not work out since she had too many head problems. I continue to think of my ex girl since she was the best thing that had happened to me but i was ... (220 words)

How do I tell this gorgeous man that my green eyes that he was "mesmerized" with were because of my coloured contact lenses?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've met this guy who is much out of my league, he is just beautiful like a chiselled greek model. The thing is he has had drop dead gorgeous girlfriends and gets such beautiful girls approaching him. Which of course makes me feel insecure about myself. I do think I am pretty, ... (304 words)

He treats me hot and cold. Should I hang out with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

1 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im going to try get this out quickly. So this guy I had a major thing for kissed me, but then afterwards mentioned nothing about it. I was really upset but then found out he had tried to kiss another girl the same night he kissed me. I was devastated, but he owed me nothing (we ... (260 words)