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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend didn't add me as a friend on FB, but he did add her. It's either her or me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I've been dating this guy for about a year now and at first the relationship was good, but now it's turning sour. I’m having a problem with him emailing his ex girlfriend as well as she emails him and he has her on his face book and I sent him a invite to my face ... (124 words)

My boyfriend is romantic and seductive... except for the way he rams his tongue down my throat!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is very romantic and seductive. He makes me feel so hot, but once we kiss he always wants to french right away and as soon as my lips part he jams his tongue down my throat so hard it chokes and gags me, and even makes my throat hurt later on. I can't even get my ... (75 words)

I called my crush, but then panicked and hung up only 30 seconds into the call! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - So, i called my crush for the first time, got her number yesterday, she picked up, i said "just wanted to know if the science teacher had any homework, i cant find any papers from him but im pretty sure he had some sort of homework that he gave us..." she said "homework? yea ... (147 words)

He hates my daughter, I hate his porn, but he does have his good aspects!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a real problem!!..I separated from husband of 17 yrs approx 5yrs ago..i then did the 'wild child thing!!' for approx 3 yrs ie. did one night stands etc.. but eventually settled down to just living on my own with my 2 girls and doing 'what was required of me!!'.. i then ... (143 words)

Why would he ignore me and then do all these nice things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend Rob during these few weeks has been acting like he used to with me except he doesn't talk to me online or text anymore. On the bus he talks to me and he keeps my text messages and read the ones I always send him but he never answers back! Why? He also notices when ... (243 words)

Should I wait to go out with him until he's completely over her?

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1 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - What I want advice on is whether I should go out with this boy. He is so sweet and kind and gorgeous. He's not the type to go flirting with everyone but he has been flirting with me a lot. All his and my friends noticed and said that we should go out but he never asked me for ... (146 words)

I saw precum on his underwear, I sat on it... could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi u can call me shan. Recently me and my boyfriend were fooling around and i sat on his penis but i was still in my panty and a shorts and he was still in his underwear too. Before i sat on him i saw precum on his underwear. Our clothes were very thick so his penis was just ... (132 words)

Do I stay with her or is it my first love goggles that keeps me from breaking up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so kind of a long story. People may say TLDR but you kind of have to read all of it to understand. Sorry its my first time here, but all constructive answers are SO very appreciated. Here it goes: My current girlfriend and i have been together for over 9 months now. She ... (782 words)

Am I misinterpreting his actions? I'm avoiding him at work now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5371 days ago

1 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I am a gay 18 year old male, closet guy and I have had a part time job for about a year, And new guy started and at about 3-4 months ago at first I hated him and now think I fancy him, I have spoken to him a lot and we have so much in common we even have the same birthda... (219 words)

I've tried talking about it, changing myself, personality and everything about 10 times over and nothing seems to work, ever.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

1 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I use to have the best relationship ever with my boyfreind and now it all seems to have gone wrong. I use to have plans to move in together, get married (well, civil partnership) and all live happily ever after. At 23 these feelings were new to me, as i have never felt this way ... (272 words)

My boyfriend cheated on me and I broke up with him, but I don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex-boyfriend has been with each other for a year and two months. The beginning of out relationship was enjoyable, but before I know it he started being controlling and telling me what I couldn't wear around him and always accusing me of trying to have sex with his ... (506 words)

Rejected because she 'doesn't do' commitment!

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1 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I have harboured feelings for a girl for over a year and a half and after finally finding enough courage to ask her out, I was rejected because she 'doesn't do commitment.' I'm not angry with her or anything because we've been best friends for two years but this is the first ... (183 words)

Will he forgive me for my comment about his mother?

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I made a comment about my boyfriend's mom that shes fat. I was so stupid n rude :( now he is mad at me for almost 2 weeks. will he ever forgive me? :cries:... (36 words)

He kicked me, put his foot on me and now expects me to come back and 'not complain like a typical girl'!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really do not know what to do anymore. I have been dating my boyfriend for two years and he suffered a serious stint of depression where he would take things out on me, simply because I was there. I have noticed the effects that his words have had on me and I am trying ... (653 words)

Everyone expects us to marry, but I can't stand sex with him anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been dating this guy for 15 years, everbody is expecting us to get married, my problem is sex is no longer pleasurable with him, i cant even bear him touching me and am thinking of how to make sex pleasurable.... (42 words)

Too many problems at work and home right now, and I'm tempted to contact my ex for comfort!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I will go crazy if i don't air my feelings right now as no one around me has the time to listen. I feel so down today. The company I work with is giving me a promotion which is a very big responsibility and I feel that I am not ready for it. They didn't tell me formally abou... (539 words)

I dreamt about a guy the total opposite of my boyfriend, what does it mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now. i love him very much. we had some obstacles such as alcohol use and committment issues also it bothers me that he still has no job. recently i had this crazy dream that a guy that i dated briefly and i were making ... (169 words)

It's the wrong time of the month, so should I postpone this date, or go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do, this amazing guy has asked me to his house on Friday to watch a DVD so we can spend some time together, we have known each other for a while and we have a lot of chemistry (I know that he want sex, throught a friend of a friend), the thing is I really like him ... (91 words)

If he fancied me, he would have asked me out, right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need some clarification, ok there is a guy I have liked a a couple of years and always seemed like he was into me as well, we have had a couple of snogs, but like months apart, he has recently said he fancys me but he never asks me out, I have sort of made offers but ... (111 words)

My boyfirends ex cant get over him, and I want her out of our lives

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has this one friend (that is a girl) and they used to date. It never got serious with her because she went crazy on him and tried to get pregnant by him. Anyways, me and him briefly broke up then recently got back together. We are having a baby together and eve... (263 words)

He won't give me an orgasm because my semen smells too strongly

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) age 36-40 - Hi. I'm a 22-year-old gay guy, and I have an extremely difficult decision to make. My partner and I are on the verge of breaking up. The reason for our break-up has to do with our sex life. For the two-and-a-half years we've been together, my partner has never pleasured me ... (271 words)

My dad died, how can I get my mum into a new relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My mother is alone after my dad passed away, I want that she should take up new relationship. How to make her agree to go ahead and find some one for her? I can't talk with her as i feel embrassed. Please suggest?... (45 words)

I'm never around for my son, and I cheat on my husband. Am I a bad mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I a bad mother? Out of my sons 3 years of life iv been gone for 2 years. Im in and out. Im either deployed or in training. The only person he knows is his father who has him. But my relationship is going down the drain too. Iv been gone most of my marriage, and I cheat on ... (125 words)

Once a cheater always a cheater? Found a phone number in my husbands pocket and called it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have no one to talk too,this is how I found this website.I don't know for sure my husband is cheating, found phone number while doing laundry. I called it, it was a female,she did'nt know what to say,one lie after another.turns out she works for him. I noticed him looking in ... (139 words)

My husband hasn't been interested in sex for the last several weeks

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my husband have been together since April 2005, married since March 2008. In the last few weeks, well, 6 weeks actually, for the record, he's not been interested in any sex at all. I've tried everything from sexy outfits ordered online to just being completely ... (317 words)

She says she loves me, but her committment is non-existent...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

1 September 2009 (M)

age - Give me your thoughts on this one... About 8 months ago, I started dating this girl I have known about 4 years. She gave me the signs she was attracted to me when I first met her. I tried to get her to go out with me at that time, and twice she agreed, twice she called... (882 words)

How do I go about telling her that I have feelings for her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

1 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a girl online recently and we've been chatt'n i then started to have feelings for her although she has a boyfriend.i need some clue's to tell'n her how i feel without being too straight forward.... (38 words)

Is it normal to feel like you have nothing in common with your boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I was just wondering, is it normal to feel you have nothing in common with your boyfriend, and feel like you have absolutely nothing to say to them? This is not a position I have been in before, and would like some opinions. Is this common?... (54 words)

I don't see myself being with new b/f longterm, should I go back to my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so im in a really bad situation me and my ex were such a lovely couple when we were together (he lives in a diffrent country) but we drifted apart after 2 years of being together i still love him but i met this new guy we've been seeing each other for nearly 5 m... (278 words)

He says he's not in the mood and then watches porn all night

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 3 years now and all was great until the past few months. Suddenly he seems very uninterested in me sexually. It makes me feel unattractive and not like a woman at all, I've tried everything from naughty outfits to just being co... (175 words)

Is it a one night stand if you've know the person for awhile?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Do you consider it a one-night-stand with someone if you've known them for a while. I've always thought a real one night stand is when you meet someone at a bar, club or party for the first time and sleep with them that night. If you've known a person for a few years or even ... (96 words)

Husband hit me while drunk and I no longer love/respect him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age - I have been married for 18 years, the marriage has always been alittle rocky but for the most part ok. A few months ago when my husband was drunk he hit me in the mouth. He has since stopped drinking and is rather very nice but I no longer love or respect him. It is like he ... (116 words)

I'm a horrible person to my b/f and need help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - HI, here is my dilemna. i think i have trust issues and i cant get over them. the father was a bit of an ass years ago and i suppose even now isnt being the best to me. now i have this great boyfriend who is super is standing by me, wants to be with me but i feel when he isn... (253 words)

No sex in my marriage and I'm very disillusioned

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) age - I'm sorry to be so negative ,but I;m getting very disillusioned,,,, My husband stopped having sex with me few years ago, and I can do what ever I want ,but he won't even look at me. I look fine, I have no problems with my look. So he is turning to be a very differen... (274 words)

Is he trying to say that he wants something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i asked a question called "We're apparently good friends, so is there a reason why we hardly talk to each other?" about 2 weeks ago and thanks for all the help you gave me! You seemed to have the idea that this guy had feelings for me/ had a crush on me an that hes hold... (822 words)

We fight and fight and fight... and love.... and fight, and fight some more - Please help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

1 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, long message coming up. Im feeling quite depressed, so i'm probably going to sound like someone blabbering senselessly. Please read my message and try to make sense. Ive been in a very loving relationship for about a year now. We had some occasional fights every... (677 words)

How to deal with life when you think your mom is having an affair

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a very happy family, parents never got into a fight and i know they love each other very much from the way they interacted. i think my mom is having an affair because i don't have a solid evidence on it. i noticed it 3years back. my mom and i went to the mall when he... (733 words)

I broke off all contact with my ex but I cant seem to get over her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I was in a relationship with my ex-girlfriend for over one year when she decided to call it quits. This girl had lots of problems herself (eatingdisorders, etc.) It was a hard time for me dating her but I always felt obliged to stay with her and do ... (261 words)

Help! I'm worried about smelling "down there"!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - help! ive been hooking up with this guy and hes really lovely. but ive never had anything done to be by a guy before (if you know what i mean) and im really paranoid about smelling down there! sorry to be graphic. but i think something might be wrong there, because i do smell ... (130 words)

Our relationship has gone stale after only 4 months!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been together since May. Its not a long time, but we really like each other, have similar personalities and have been spending a lot of time together (4-6 nights a week on average) so it feels like we've been together for much much longer than 4 months. The ... (347 words)

How do I let her know how I feel towards her?

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1 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I met dis girl on a chat site recently.she told me lots of things about her and i seem to like her,but i nid some clues to starting a conversation to let her know about how i feel towards her.although she told me she had a boyfriend.... (49 words)

I'm struggling to cope with looking after my elderly father

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1 September 2009 (F)

age - My mother died January 2008 and now my 84 year old father lives with my husband and 24 year old son. My father is from the old school where he doesn't know how to cook, laundry, etc and cannot be left alone at night. However, he is alone during the day and he has home care 3 ... (171 words)

I'm worried I might be wasting time on this man, I really want to settle down with him but he seems to be unsure of what he wants!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Aunts, I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now - I am 34, he is 39. Neither of us has children, although he has been married before when he was in his early twenties. Their breakup was amicable, they had grown apart. At the weekend, I asked him where he th... (373 words)

Can I damage my husband's testicles during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I are trying to get pregnant. When we are having sex, I massage his testicles to make him ejaculate more. I have noticed that they seem to get less sensitive to massaging as he is nearing climax. Usually when he is getting close, he asks me to "go to town on ... (208 words)

Will the guilt over cheating on my girlfriend ever subside?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

1 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for 8 years now and I truly love her. She is the girl of my dreams and she feels the same about me. The thing is I cheated on her about 3 years ago with one of her friends. I really don’t know why I did it as I was happy with my girlfriend at the ... (463 words)

I'm 10 weeks pregnant and very worried about childbirth! Has anyone got any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello.. This isent a relationship question but i need a little reasurance!! Im 10 weeks pregnant with my first child and all of a sudden ive become very scared/worried about childbirth! So hear are some things i want some opinions on... How do people feel about epidural... (112 words)

Will he be back after he calms down?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Have been on and off with a man for the last 6 months, we have been together for little over a year. He kept sporadically breaking up via txt and then he would get lonely and come back to me. Its been like this pattern for quite some time. I am now pregnant and he is acting d... (272 words)

His friends are teasing him about dating a black woman, how do I get him to stop caring?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a great boyfriend, we've been dating for several months and we spend practically every day together. He is white, and I'm a black female. Recently, however, he's been letting me know that some of his friends are 'teasing' him about dating a black girl. They make jokes ... (277 words)

Should I end my relationship now I know that my partner would leave me if I couldnt have children?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend (we've been together 4 years) has started mentioning having children together. I am not sure at this stage as we have spent little time together over the last year as he emigrated. As I am due to move out to be with him next month the topic about children came up ... (197 words)

Am I being unreasonable for not wanting him to stay at this woman's house after she declared her love for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Hello. This isn't so much of a question as a need for reassurance. My boyfriend, of 5 and a half years, has been friends with a girl (mainly via the internet) for about 12 years. He has been to stay with her a few times, and she lives far away. When he is there he stays in her ... (344 words)

Issues with vaginal farting!

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been having issues with vaginal farting. Every morning i seem to wake up and have queefing episodes regaurdless if i had any type of sexual activity the night before. If i wake up in the middle of the night it will happen then too. i dont know if its the positions i ... (79 words)

My family hates me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Everyone In My Family Hates Me! I'm boy from Devon and my parents keep arguing, I don't think they wan't divorce but its not nice. My brothers keep bullying me and Have an autistic brother. nearly everyday I cry because someone upsets me and no one cares. I wan't to run awa... (232 words)

I haven't had my period since xmas...and I can't be pregant...is there something wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I dont really know how to say this.. im not really good at telling people things so here it goes... every girl is ment to get their periods monthly right? well thats wat someone told me... i havnt gotten mine since just after christmas. i thought it was normal cause i dont ... (135 words)

Is my girl using me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

1 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ever since i let my girlfriend move in with me she has changed so much. When we first met she was active, sporty and outgoing but ever since she moved in with me she has changed so much. She don't goto the gym anymore, she never does housework,cleaning,laundry ect. ... (180 words)

Why has my bf started calling me by my surname?? I find it a little odd!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend has started calling me by my surname - like 'alright smith' - just think its a little funny - what does that mean?! ... (25 words)

What are usual signs that a husband is straying

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1 September 2009 (F)

age - Hi' I wrote a year ago about husband and secrets revolving his mother, money. We still fight occasionally,usually about our families. On whole we seem like we're a lot closer-lots of intimacy,bubble baths, We,e talked over a lot of issues.Other than work (And his hunting a few ... (115 words)

I'm really scared about getting my period...help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i am really scared about my period i am 13 and still have not srated what should i do... (20 words)

Will relationship doubts go away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

1 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay so, heres my story. Ive been with my girlfriend for 10 months. And about a month ago i litterlly woke up and felt like i lost my feelings for her. One day i was soo in love with her and loved her with all my heart. now i question if i do. i know i love her to death. and ... (154 words)

I'm rubbish at socialising, how can I become more gregarious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 27 year old attractive male, with a good job, nice flat, my problem is I'm rubbish at socialising and making friends, people seem to find me awkward or boring and I don't know how to change this or if I ever will be able to? My gf even broke up with me because she said I ... (75 words)

Lack of confidence and ideas, I want to surprise and treat my man.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship with the most loving and caring guy you would know. However in the bedroom he always takes the lead and control because I struggle to know what to do and get really self conscious. I was wondering if anyone had any ideas about me overcoming my confidence ... (73 words)

Long Distance Relationship - Girlfriend acting weird

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship since 3 years and 2 months. In the beginning, everything was so blossomy and absolutely superb. She didn’t have enough very good friends as such, and she always used to come to me, and discuss her issues/feelings/wants and ... (554 words)

Married man dilemma!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

1 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, Whenever I heard of stories of women falling in love with married men, I always used to say to myself that this is never going to happen to me. But right now I am faced with the truth that I do have feelings for a married man. Well, I cannot say that I love him but I do... (187 words)

Problems with oily hair.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) age 26-29 - I have shoulder length oily hair and it irritates me to the core. After 2 days of shampoo only my hair gets oily. Please advise. ... (28 words)

Sex positions for females?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Can you briefly mention sex positions that can make sex less painful for females. Thanks!... (15 words)

He punched and body slammed me several times... but he was drunk!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of two years seem so perfect for me until we moved together in 2005 he choked, body slammed and punched me several times but only when he was drunk. I saw the signs but still married him in 2007 because he said he would stop drinking. These was isolated incidents ... (352 words)

Is there a chance he is thinking of reconciling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - I was with someone for over 3 years... rather than rehash all the tiny things that made me insecure, jealous, just didn't feel right etc... I can admit i was wrong on some of those things and reacted too jealous at times and should have been more relaxed. A lot of my friends ... (1238 words)

Girls, do you make eye contact with guys you are not interested in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - like when you pass some one in a store or at a beach walk also if some one you thought was say ugly or creepy and he started to look you in the eyes would you make eye contact untill he looks away or would you quickly look away first well that's all... (53 words)

My boyfriend has premature ejaculation problems, and a small penis. Should I break up with him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Girls: does your boyfriend have premature ejaculation? Mine (who is 25) only last seconds in bed, in fact sometimes he's cum before I've taken his shorts down (I can feel the wet through his pants) or even as I'm putting it in - its depressing and frustrating - what are your ... (105 words)

Communication problems with my ex. Should I contact him or let him contact me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am scared to communicate to my ex,coz we never bloke up as per say,it was just my ex just stopped to communicate to me all of a sudden with no explaination,tried to call and sms but he never responded to any of that later I also stopped communication. Recently he called me ... (140 words)

Why can't he spend his time with me? Should I stay or go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

1 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have date with this guy for some time. However, he is really lack of time to spend with me. The last time we went out was about 2 weeks ago, and last friday i texted him ask him out on next sunday, but he didnt reply until today (tuesday). For the last one year, he didnt st... (131 words)

I slept with him, but is he still interested?

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Slept with him, but is he interested? I recently met a guy i get on really well with. I have seen him 3 times over a period of 2 months as he works away a lot. We keep in touch through email and occassional texts, but thats it. I dont want to be judged but we are both in rela... (741 words)

Could it be that my friend likes me? And how do I suggest to him that I like him back?

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm not sure if one of my guy friends likes me, he texts me everyday, hugs me alot and a couple of days ago he put his arm round me. we were talking and he said that he couldnt tell me who he and his friend were talking about and then i asked could he tell me who it was and he ... (103 words)

We got caught on camera having sex! What should I do now?

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - omg im so embarressed,my grandparents own this truck stop and i kinda forgot that we had eight cameras that show the whole yard well me and boyfeiend didnt want to get caught so we went under the truck and had sex well now everyone one who works at the truck stop saw us...and i ... (80 words)

I still like him even though he dumped me

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm really conflicted. I had a relationship with a cousin several months ago,(and don't say gross or w/e, I'm adopted), anyway and I never really got over it. I still like him but he has a girlfriend now that I was dumped for. I don't know what to do. Every time I see him I ... (80 words)

He's a sweetie but can always be a dick..and I want him back!

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - alright, me and this guy have been dating for about 9 months, i recently broke up with him about 2 weeks ago. he was a major sweetie but could be a dick when he has his moments i guess you could say. i broke up with him because my friend always convices me too and then it gets ... (123 words)

He sent me a flying kiss, is he a playboy?

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1 September 2009 (F) age 26-29 - hi friends.i actually neede some counselling.and before i forget id say thanks in advance.and now for my problem.i am from a middle class family.and i love to spend my time in my balcony.four days ago i was standing in my balcony with my half wet jumbled hair.as i had been just ... (293 words)

Boyfriend hiding something?

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Everyone, Last night my instincts got the better of me and i decided to look through my mans phone. Well at first it was just interest in the photos he has. But there was a hidden file there that caught my eye. "Temp Cache" which is also on the computer but i never real... (275 words)

I need a male sex buddy..where would I find one?

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 22 year old female that wants to have sex but I can't find a good partner that would do it with no strings attached Am I wrong for wanting a very sexy man to put it on in my area that wont kiss and tell and that will promise not to force a relationship on me?? Where ... (76 words)

Is it possible to have no sex appeal?

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Why aren't guys attracted to me? Guys never approach but they are always approaching other women, all types. Is it possible to have NO sex appeal? I could be lacking an inate appeal that women supposedly have. What do men look for?... (48 words)

College and massive orgies?

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1 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - hey, I am just owrried about college and those stories they talk about. You see, my bf is in college now, and I've heard that there are a lot of parties where there is like, massive orgies.. is it true? should I worry?... (44 words)

I feel hot and yet ugly all at the same time

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1 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - so this may sound kinda stupid but I'm 25 years old and never had a girlfriend so obviousley I feel like a dork and I'm very shy but I want to know is that what are the chances that I'm acctually really hot because ussually when I go places I see girls literally stop and stare ... (150 words)

Once the condom is on, the fun is gone

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have just started to have sex. However, when ever we go to put the condom on he completely loses his boner and can't get hard again. He spent an hour looking at porn to see if that would get him up but it didn't. However, if we do it with out the condom on he can ... (88 words)

I'm never really happy!

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1 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im never really happy the last time i was happy was 3 years ago and now im 16.i feel inadequate so much and that everything keeps sliping through my fingers. most of the time i have this notion that everyone else has a manual or can cope with it better than i. im male and i ... (173 words)

We got along well except for his ED -- what does his reaction mean now?

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1 September 2009 (F)

age - I had lunch with my ex two times in less than a week. We broke up a little over three months ago due to his problem with impotance (ed). When we broke up he told me it was due to lack of chemistry and wanted to remain friends. I doubt it since we tried to get together a few ... (328 words)

Best friend/maid of honor has slept with many of friends and I can't replace her for wedding but its really uncomfortable now!

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am getting married in 6 months. I just found out that my maid of honor/best friend has slept with my brother (on my birthday) and she still has not told me after 3 months. She has also slept with several of my good guy friends who no longer want to hang out with her. Now she ... (102 words)

I have to see him but he keeps pursuing me

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - The guy I was seeing (for two months) ended things when I told him I was moving to another part of town. He said it was because he started talking to his ex again but I knew the real reason. Anyway, although I moved to another part, I still hang out in the old town to see my ... (285 words)

My friend doesn't trust me enough to tell me things and its really causing a strain in our friendship

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, Im in a really complicated situation right now... I have this friend who used to be my bestfriend untill the end of the last school year. We were super close but then, he let his old girlfriend get in the way of our friendship, so there was nothing I could do about that I ... (489 words)

Boyfriend left me at the scene of an accident

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - When you take your boyfriend to do somthing that you didnt want to do in the first place and then you get in an accident that wasnt your fault and then your boyfriend leaves you at the scene of the accident disregarding you your car and the situation what am I supposed to think ... (73 words)

He seems to want a celibate marriage

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so here is my situation. I am 26 and my husband is 30. I have been married for 8 months. In the beginning of our relationship my husband had problems *performing*. I just gave him love and support and tried to let him know that I loved him no matter what and tried not to ... (455 words)

I got an abortion, and my ex skipped town with a girl

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been on and off with my boyfriend for about a year. He has been back and forth between me and this girl. This is why we are always on and off. Finally, I thought it was all over and done with. He was commited to me and I didn't think I had to worry anymore. I spent my ... (295 words)

She broke up with me, then we tried again, now she says it was a mistake

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1 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Ok I need some major advice, half of me wants to get her back more than anything. the other half wants to be mad at her and forget about her. She broke up with me to date around a few weeks ago. It was really hard when I found she had been seeing this guy. A few hard weeks p... (237 words)

I want him to finger me, but sometimes I don't

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. My boyfriend and I are going to be dating for 5 months this Saturday the 5th. And he wants to finger me. I want him to sometime and sometime I dont. I don't knw if I should just let him or not. And what are the risks?... (94 words)

For women who've been pregnant -- could I be?

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i was hoping some body could help me please....i am 22 and me and my bf have been trying to conceive for a year and a half now my periods are always bang on time and heavy....i am due on my period on tues 1st september but i started getting small abount of blood since friday ... (181 words)

Is my co-worker hinting that he wants something more?

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a co worker with whom I´ve been hanging out a bit more lately. We´ve being co workers since 7 years ago, but never looked at each other as such more than that. He has a Girlfriend who works in the same company as well, only in different area. Today, he was talking abou... (181 words)

Should I go out with him, or should I just get back at him

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I went out with this dude for 2 weeks, i broke up with him cuz i didnt want to be in a non-serious relationship, i mean he's player, always flirtin with other girls and he used to go out with 2 girls at once plus he didnt really treat me good. its been 3 months now but he still ... (359 words)

Can't get over my ex, and my best friend is suddenly not there for me

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1 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - So I'm kind of in a mess. My ex and I were each others first love. He was everything to me, and for almost two years I thought we were happy. Until one day he just walked out, no explanation, and still no closure. He came back to me about four times and we tried to work through ... (569 words)

Watching porn makes me feel ugly

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1 September 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I have quite an embarassing and weird problem. You see, fromt ime to time, I watch porn. I'm not a lesbian nor am I bi, but I get off on those women's bodies, because they are so perfect! However I'm very much into men, and I love my boyfriend very much. The thing is, I'm no... (204 words)

Could I be pregnant? What is this bleeding?

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay I'm on Birth Control. About a week ago I missed 2 pills. so when I went to take it on that morning I had to take 3 pills so I wouldn't skip the other ones. the next day I woke up and was bleeding. my period pills don't come until another week and a half...so I don't know ... (186 words)

Why doesn't my girlfriend seem to enjoy kissing?

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1 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So the me and my girlfriend have only kissed once. I love my girlfriend more than anything in the world but we've only kissed one time. We've been dating for about 6 months now, she's 14 and I'm 16, we do everything except kiss (and sex of course), I don't know why we just ... (213 words)

Slept together the night we met: not sure if he's interested, or just being nice?

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So two weekends ago I met this guy out at a club. I found him very attractive and he kept complimenting me, etc. Being that I had been out of a relationship for several months, I was feeling the need for...sex. So to make a long story short, we slept together that night, and ... (460 words)

I like B but don't want to hurt A. What if I do stop seeing A and then B doesn't want me?

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, need some guy advice :/. I was at a night club two weeks ago, and met this guy, lets call him A. We ended up making out and i got his number, since then we've spoke a lot and met up about 8 times, we agreed to "see each other". I did like him alot. I still sort of do... (192 words)

Is it normal that the man goes without sex for a month?

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I want to know is it normal that the man go without sex for a month? I ve just got married lately,and my husband is not that sexually active now, because before we got married he always was horny and wanted sex ,but I did not have sex with him because i was virgin and... (248 words)

It's been over a year since I had a date!

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, so I am a divorced mom and I know that a lot of men are turned off by women with childern, afraid of baggage or whatever. But it has been OVER A YEAR since I have gone a date. I am on match.com and a couple other dating sites, and the only guys that seem to contact me are ... (166 words)

Ladies, do I just not understand how women think? Men, am I being taken for a ride?

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1 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Here goes all on a plate for the last time so I would be greatfull of honest and good advice not told how we done wrong and what we done wrong. So here it is I was seeing someone I was working with, we were so like best friends that much I would love to just have that back b... (1112 words)

I need a reason to call her! Help!

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1 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - So, im in 9th grade, me and my crush are getting along great, flirting alot and stuff, i just got her number today, and i really want to call her, the problem is i have no reason to. We have no homework, we arent actually girlfriend and boyfriend yet so mush talk isnt up yet, ... (85 words)

Will my boyfriend cheat on me or leave me?

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf just went to college a couple weeks ago. he has been acting weird. I haven't talked to him much even though its a local college. we haven't seen each other since he went. I know he loves to drink and party. do you think he will cheat on me or leave me? Thanks for your ... (59 words)

Falling in and out of love... daily!

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1 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Some days I am more in love than words could convey, other guys I could give a shit less. I am clinically bi polar so this may be a factor, but however, I worry that I may be in the wrong situation. please help -iydm... (57 words)

My girlfriend has a suitor in our long distance relationship!

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1 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Should I be concerned with my girlfriend having a guy actively pursuing her? My girlfriend and I have been dating for 9 months and I recently started law school, thus making our relationship long distance by 2 hours. This is the week synopsis. Tuesday she attended ... (553 words)

She had sex with this guy and 6 of his friends and now they're all calling her an easy slut!

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1 September 2009 (M) age 30-35 - One of best friends is Lily she is 20 and is a cool girl. She is really quite and jsut a really good girl , the kind of girl parents they had. She really lieks this jock type guy from our college and she just confided in me that a few nights ago she had a group sex thing with ... (114 words)

Do guys actually like going down on girls?

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay then . . . Well, I'm 17 and with my bf of nearly two years and we've just started getting into the whole sex thing. We haven't actually done it but we're working our way up to it. (So far; extensive make-out sessions, topless and fingering.) And my bf suggested we go ... (167 words)

Is this something that turns him on? Or is it something more?

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1 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok this is a sex question and all advice is nice.... so the other nite my fiance and i was in bed of course having sex and i played in his anal area and he was so turned on. i liked it, it turned me on but my question is, is that something that turns him on or is it somethin... (90 words)

How do I tell my mum I feel uncomfortable telling her some things without hurting her?

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1 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hey, I have big problems with my mum. I want her to understand that I feel uncomfortable telling her things about my life, yet not get her too hurt about this fact. how can I do it?... (38 words)