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writes:I'm straight but I've recently questioned my sexuality because I started liking penis. I don't think I have homosexual tendencies because I have absolutely no "emotional" or "romantic" attraction towards men and don't want to start a relationship with men, but the thought of sucking on a penis turns me on. I don't find certain guys "hot" or whatever; I just masturbate with the thought of sucking on any large penis. Maybe I would like to try my fantasies in real life, but I don't see any of my male friends in "that" way, and I definitely would not try it with a stranger.I can't be gay because I am still attracted to girls physically and would only date girls. Am I bisexual? Bicurious? I'm also a virgin (17 years old), so can this just be a phase? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tarawr +, writes (19 February 2010):
 This may just be a phase. Many people go through it, but refuse to admit it. I think everyone has bisexual tendencies, but not everyone acts on them. You are quite young, so it may either be a turning point in your life, or just curiosity.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (19 February 2010):
 Angzw beat me to it!
You're quite right, though.
Most human beings are not absolutely 100% straight or gay... almost all of us are a little bit bisexual.
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reader, Petra at home  +, writes (19 February 2010):
Try sucking yourself - it wouldn't be gay and you would fulfill your fantasy.
Seriously, don't worry about it. We have all kinds of thoughts about doing various things: stealing a car we like, killing someone we hate, quitting work and being a bum. But we don't do it. Keep dating the girls you like, have your fantasies, and life goes on.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (19 February 2010):
 It could indeed be just a phase. Fantasies work for a while and then you move on to something new. Just because something in your head pushes the right buttons doesn't mean you really want to do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): You dont sound gay. Its just a fantasy. Loads of people have them.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (19 February 2010):
Google "Kinsey scale".. It basically states that there is a range of human sexuality. Very few people are exclusively Homosexual or Hetero or even equally Bi. The majority of humans are in number 1 on the scale. You are probably on 1 or 2.
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